LIFE UPDATE. Why I'm Stepping Back.
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Date: 2019-09-09
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Stacy G.
Oh Tati, please please please don't get down on not being able to conceive. I became a first time mom at 42 after 2 miscarriages. I was obsessed with wanting to have a child. The child came. She is amazing, but my god, Tati, the work of motherhood is back-breaking and life-altering. If I can give you any advice, I would say, please enjoy what you have now. You have a brilliant, magical life and a great love. Once you become a parent, everything you had before changes. The task of caring of a newborn alters all aspects of your life. A lot of women get tricked by their bodies into thinking that they need a child to complete their life, but that is simply not a fact. If you have a life you already love and have worked hard to create, a child will not make it better. A child will definitely make life harder, and that is a fact. Yes, you will be in love with your child and the love will be unlike any you have ever known, but if you are not prepared for the amount of work that being a good parent requires, the experience can really break you.
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Oh Tati, please please please don't get down on not being able to conceive. I became a first time mom at 42 after 2 miscarriages. I was obsessed with wanting to have a child. The child came. She is amazing, but my god, Tati, the work of motherhood is back-breaking and life-altering. If I can give you any advice, I would say, please enjoy what you have now. You have a brilliant, magical life and a great love. Once you become a parent, everything you had before changes. The task of caring of a newborn alters all aspects of your life. A lot of women get tricked by their bodies into thinking that they need a child to complete their life, but that is simply not a fact. If you have a life you already love and have worked hard to create, a child will not make it better. A child will definitely make life harder, and that is a fact. Yes, you will be in love with your child and the love will be unlike any you have ever known, but if you are not prepared for the amount of work that being a good parent requires, the experience can really break you.
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Shelly Knowlton
Tati I totally get how you feel about fertility issues. Ive battled with the emotional side of it with sadness and feeling like I cant be the me I was meant to. I so wanted to be a mother. Sadly at 43, divorced and battling brain tumors I see that reality slipping away. You have to do what is right for you. And if stepping back is the thing that helps you that is ok. We love you no matter what. Its not just the great beauty advice you give. Its your personality that is full of love and light. You remind me of myself. Youve got so many mannerisms that I have. Youre a natural goofball in a good way I love your stories and comedy you sprinkle on your videos like glitter I wish you all the best with your new journey and that you get all youve ever wanted. You are a beautiful soul Thank you for being here for me to learn new things to make myself feel better. And thank you for letting your light shine into this world.
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Tati I totally get how you feel about fertility issues. Ive battled with the emotional side of it with sadness and feeling like I cant be the me I was meant to. I so wanted to be a mother. Sadly at 43, divorced and battling brain tumors I see that reality slipping away. You have to do what is right for you. And if stepping back is the thing that helps you that is ok. We love you no matter what. Its not just the great beauty advice you give. Its your personality that is full of love and light. You remind me of myself. Youve got so many mannerisms that I have. Youre a natural goofball in a good way I love your stories and comedy you sprinkle on your videos like glitter I wish you all the best with your new journey and that you get all youve ever wanted. You are a beautiful soul Thank you for being here for me to learn new things to make myself feel better. And thank you for letting your light shine into this world.
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Kahealani 63
Tati I really do wish you all the best. Ive struggled with fertility issues, and feel for you. Dont give up Youre already on the right path. God will continue to bless you and James. I was told by multiple doctors that it would be really hard for me to conceive. This was within a 6 year span. Once I took control of my health and did things for myself, I was blessed without any fertility treatments. I really believe that your mind is a powerful thing. Once I said I wouldnt stress about it and started to put me as a priority, thats what started my journey to conceiving. I started eating healthier and did research on what helped with hormone balance, and regulating my menstrual cycle. So regardless you have to know your supporters are here supporting you 100% You are so real and thats what I admire about you. Whether you conceive or adopt youre going to be an awesome mommy
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Tati I really do wish you all the best. Ive struggled with fertility issues, and feel for you. Dont give up Youre already on the right path. God will continue to bless you and James. I was told by multiple doctors that it would be really hard for me to conceive. This was within a 6 year span. Once I took control of my health and did things for myself, I was blessed without any fertility treatments. I really believe that your mind is a powerful thing. Once I said I wouldnt stress about it and started to put me as a priority, thats what started my journey to conceiving. I started eating healthier and did research on what helped with hormone balance, and regulating my menstrual cycle. So regardless you have to know your supporters are here supporting you 100% You are so real and thats what I admire about you. Whether you conceive or adopt youre going to be an awesome mommy
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Hayley Manuel
Good luck with having a baby. I know from experience how hard it is to talk about these things and how much it hurts to want a child and not be able to have one. I have two beautiful little girls but it was hard. I had two miscarriages and two ectopic pregnancies, the last one i was rushed to emergency surgery to have ny tube removed. Most people dont understand how hard it is to go through that or to want a child and not be able to have one at all. I know everyday how lucky I am just because I have my girls, not every woman gets that lucky. I hope that no matter if you have a baby yourself or adopt that you and James get to ve the parents you want to be. Good luck and i hope your dream comes true.
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Good luck with having a baby. I know from experience how hard it is to talk about these things and how much it hurts to want a child and not be able to have one. I have two beautiful little girls but it was hard. I had two miscarriages and two ectopic pregnancies, the last one i was rushed to emergency surgery to have ny tube removed. Most people dont understand how hard it is to go through that or to want a child and not be able to have one at all. I know everyday how lucky I am just because I have my girls, not every woman gets that lucky. I hope that no matter if you have a baby yourself or adopt that you and James get to ve the parents you want to be. Good luck and i hope your dream comes true.
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Sarah Jean
Tati is my favorite. You're super real/genuine when you make personal videos in a way that makes me feel hopeful about my own life. You share that you have had some very real struggles in your life without going into great detail but regardless you share you have had hard times which is why you are so inspiring when you make personal videos because you are effing positive. Despite what struggles you've had, the words you use and the things you cry about and your attitude are all optimistic yet down to earth. Anyways we all love you obviously. You are a perfectionist and I'm proud of you for allowing yours to take some time for yourself and your future family. Your followers ain't goin anywhere
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Tati is my favorite. You're super real/genuine when you make personal videos in a way that makes me feel hopeful about my own life. You share that you have had some very real struggles in your life without going into great detail but regardless you share you have had hard times which is why you are so inspiring when you make personal videos because you are effing positive. Despite what struggles you've had, the words you use and the things you cry about and your attitude are all optimistic yet down to earth. Anyways we all love you obviously. You are a perfectionist and I'm proud of you for allowing yours to take some time for yourself and your future family. Your followers ain't goin anywhere
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Brigida Olmsted
I have stage4 Endometriosis, and ended up having a hysterectomy at 25, 2 different chemotherapy treatments, and 5 surgeries in the last 5 years. I am a BIG fan of yours, and I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE seeing more videos about your Endometriosis and any of the fertility issues or treatments you deal with. I would love to see you use your huge platform to bring awareness to Endometriosis, and im sure a lot of other Endo Sisters would also. With that said, I know how emotional, and tough it is to deal with fertility problems and treatments, so I also 1000% respect your decision to keep whatever you want private. Ill be praying for you
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I have stage4 Endometriosis, and ended up having a hysterectomy at 25, 2 different chemotherapy treatments, and 5 surgeries in the last 5 years. I am a BIG fan of yours, and I would ABSOLUTELY LOVE seeing more videos about your Endometriosis and any of the fertility issues or treatments you deal with. I would love to see you use your huge platform to bring awareness to Endometriosis, and im sure a lot of other Endo Sisters would also. With that said, I know how emotional, and tough it is to deal with fertility problems and treatments, so I also 1000% respect your decision to keep whatever you want private. Ill be praying for you
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Alex S.
Please keep taking care of yourself, carrying a baby is not as easy as women tend to think. I'll be praying for you. I've had lots of good friends who couldn't conceive for years and finally were able to, some of my friends had a lot against them health wise and all I could do was pray for them and love them, and it was an ache for them because they would see and hold my babies and yet they were still waiting for theirs. Don't worry about your followers, we'll still be here, just focus on yourself and DON'T STRESS OUT. I'll be waiting for the best news ever from you Tati. I'll be praying for you both.
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Please keep taking care of yourself, carrying a baby is not as easy as women tend to think. I'll be praying for you. I've had lots of good friends who couldn't conceive for years and finally were able to, some of my friends had a lot against them health wise and all I could do was pray for them and love them, and it was an ache for them because they would see and hold my babies and yet they were still waiting for theirs. Don't worry about your followers, we'll still be here, just focus on yourself and DON'T STRESS OUT. I'll be waiting for the best news ever from you Tati. I'll be praying for you both.
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Mary Ann Roche
I feel your pain Sweetie, having lived through fertility issues as a young woman, it was when I gave up and gave it all to God that I conceived my most wonderful son, having been told repeatedly that I could and would never have a child by many doctors, bang, I got pregnant and had a wonderful child. I am now a proud gramma of two wonderful grandchildren, gifts from my son. Hang in there, don't worry about your viewers, we all love you and will follow you no matter how often you are able to do videos, you just take care of you and all will be perfect I am praying for you.
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I feel your pain Sweetie, having lived through fertility issues as a young woman, it was when I gave up and gave it all to God that I conceived my most wonderful son, having been told repeatedly that I could and would never have a child by many doctors, bang, I got pregnant and had a wonderful child. I am now a proud gramma of two wonderful grandchildren, gifts from my son. Hang in there, don't worry about your viewers, we all love you and will follow you no matter how often you are able to do videos, you just take care of you and all will be perfect I am praying for you.
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ROBERTA DOMINGUEZ
Tati try some wheatgrass juice I know people who have gotten pregnant after they started drinking 2oz a day in the morning on an empty stomach it healed the endrameatrioses. and got pregnant it heals a lot of things and its safe for children. I buy mine from the stem family farm in Canada. The mother had cancer and they said that she wouldnt live another 6mo and that was in 1978 and shes alive and cancer free it has helped many people become pregnant its very healthy and healing. I also know that praying works miracles. I know you are going to have a beautiful baby
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Tati try some wheatgrass juice I know people who have gotten pregnant after they started drinking 2oz a day in the morning on an empty stomach it healed the endrameatrioses. and got pregnant it heals a lot of things and its safe for children. I buy mine from the stem family farm in Canada. The mother had cancer and they said that she wouldnt live another 6mo and that was in 1978 and shes alive and cancer free it has helped many people become pregnant its very healthy and healing. I also know that praying works miracles. I know you are going to have a beautiful baby
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