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Date: 2020-09-18
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Neil
Hello. Welcome to 6 Minute English, I'm Neil. This is the programme where in just six minutes we discuss an interesting topic and teach some related English vocabulary. And joining me to do this is Rob.
Rob
Hello, Neil.
Neil
Now Rob, you seem like a happy chappy.
Rob
What's the point of being miserable?
Neil
Well, that are many things that could make you feel down in the dumps a phrase that means 'unhappy' but what are the things that keep you feeling happy, cheerful and chirpy, Rob?
Rob
Oh many things like being healthy, having good friends, presenting programmes like this with you, Neil!
Neil
Of course but we all have different ideas about what makes us happy and that can vary from country to country and culture to culture. It's what we're talking about today concepts of happiness.
Rob
Now Neil, you could make us even happier if you gave us a really good question to answer.
Neil
Here it is. Happiness is an emotion that actually gets measured. The World Happiness Report measures subjective well-being - how happy the people are, and why. But do you know, according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
WeIl, I think they're all very happy places but the outdoor life of many New Zealanders must make New Zealand the happiest place.
Neil
OK, we'll see. I'll reveal the answer later on. But now back to our discussion about happiness around the world.
Rob
Happiness can be hard to define. Research has suggested that while personal feelings of pleasure are the accepted definition of happiness in Western cultures, East Asian cultures tend to see happiness as social harmony and in some parts of Africa and India it's more about shared experiences and family.
Neil
It's something author and journalist Helen Russell has been looking at she's even created an 'Atlas of Happiness'. Her research focused on the positive characteristics of a country's population and guess which country she found to be one of the happiest?
Rob
New Zealand?
Neil
Actually no. It was Japan. Here she is speaking on BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour programme. What concept or belief is it that promotes happiness?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
Millennials and perhaps older people are better at remembering wabi-sabi this traditional Japanese concept around celebrating imperfection, which I think is something so helpful these days, especially for women it's this idea that there is a beauty in ageing, it's to be celebrated rather than trying to disguise it, or trying to cover up the scars instead you gild them with kintsugi if you break a pot instead of chucking it away, you mend it with gold lacquer so the scars, rather than being hidden, are highlighted in pure gold We all have laughter lines and rather than being ashamed of them, they're something to be celebrated.
Neil
So in Japan, there is a belief that people should celebrate imperfection. Imperfection is a fault or weakness. So rather than hiding something that's not perfect, we should celebrate it.
Rob
Getting old, for example, is not something to be ashamed of don't hide your wrinkles or laughter lines these are the creases you get as you skin ages or even you get from smiling too much!
Neil
Rather than spending time being ashamed of our faults, we should accept what and who we are. This concept is something that Helen feels is particularly being celebrated by Millennials and older people.
Rob
Yes, and Helen compared this with the process of kintsugi where the cracks or scars on broken pottery are highlighted with gold lacquer. This is called gilding. So we should highlight our imperfections.
Neil
This concept is something that maybe English people should embrace more because according to Helen Russell's research, they are not a very happy population. Here she is speaking on the BBC's Woman's Hour programme again what word does she use to describe people like me and you?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
In England what we have is 'jolly', which many of us now associate with this kind of 'jolly hockey sticks' or maybe an upper-class thing but actually it's something that really plays through a lot of British culture in a way that we may not think of so much. So there's this sense that in a lot of our comedy, in a lot of our approach to life you just sort of you get out there, you go for a dog walk, you have a boiled egg and soldiers ['soldiers' in this case are small slices of toast that you can dip into your egg and eat], and we do sort of get on with things it's a coping mechanism, it's not perfect but it's worked for many Brits for a while.
Rob
In the past we would use the phrase 'jolly hockey sticks' a humorous phrase used to describe upper-class school girls' annoying enthusiasm.
Neil
But Helen now thinks 'jolly' describes an attitude that is used as a coping mechanism that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. We smile, do everyday things like walking the dog and just get on with life.
Rob
I guess she means carry on without complaining.
Neil
Well, here's something to make you happy, Rob the answer to the question I asked you earlier, which was: according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
And I said c) New Zealand.
Neil
The answer is a) Norway. The report has been published for the past five years, during which the Nordic countries have consistently dominated the top spots.
OK, now it's time to remind ourselves of some of the vocabulary we've mentioned today.
Rob
We mentioned the phrase down in the dumps which is an informal way of describing the feeling of unhappiness, sometimes with no hope.
Neil
The next word was imperfection, which is a fault or weakness. You won't find any imperfections in this programme, Rob!
Rob
Glad to hear it. Maybe we should gild this script to gild something is to cover it in a thin layer of gold. We also heard about the word jolly which means 'cheerful and happy'.
Neil
And being jolly can be used as a coping mechanism - that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. If something doesn't go well, you just smile and carry on.
Rob
Well, there's no need to do that in this programme. Now there's just time to remind you that we have a website with lots more learning English content. The address is bbclearningenglish.com.
Neil
Thanks for joining us and goodbye.
Rob
Goodbye!
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Transcript
Note: This is not a word for word transcript
Neil
Hello. Welcome to 6 Minute English, I'm Neil. This is the programme where in just six minutes we discuss an interesting topic and teach some related English vocabulary. And joining me to do this is Rob.
Rob
Hello, Neil.
Neil
Now Rob, you seem like a happy chappy.
Rob
What's the point of being miserable?
Neil
Well, that are many things that could make you feel down in the dumps a phrase that means 'unhappy' but what are the things that keep you feeling happy, cheerful and chirpy, Rob?
Rob
Oh many things like being healthy, having good friends, presenting programmes like this with you, Neil!
Neil
Of course but we all have different ideas about what makes us happy and that can vary from country to country and culture to culture. It's what we're talking about today concepts of happiness.
Rob
Now Neil, you could make us even happier if you gave us a really good question to answer.
Neil
Here it is. Happiness is an emotion that actually gets measured. The World Happiness Report measures subjective well-being - how happy the people are, and why. But do you know, according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
WeIl, I think they're all very happy places but the outdoor life of many New Zealanders must make New Zealand the happiest place.
Neil
OK, we'll see. I'll reveal the answer later on. But now back to our discussion about happiness around the world.
Rob
Happiness can be hard to define. Research has suggested that while personal feelings of pleasure are the accepted definition of happiness in Western cultures, East Asian cultures tend to see happiness as social harmony and in some parts of Africa and India it's more about shared experiences and family.
Neil
It's something author and journalist Helen Russell has been looking at she's even created an 'Atlas of Happiness'. Her research focused on the positive characteristics of a country's population and guess which country she found to be one of the happiest?
Rob
New Zealand?
Neil
Actually no. It was Japan. Here she is speaking on BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour programme. What concept or belief is it that promotes happiness?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
Millennials and perhaps older people are better at remembering wabi-sabi this traditional Japanese concept around celebrating imperfection, which I think is something so helpful these days, especially for women it's this idea that there is a beauty in ageing, it's to be celebrated rather than trying to disguise it, or trying to cover up the scars instead you gild them with kintsugi if you break a pot instead of chucking it away, you mend it with gold lacquer so the scars, rather than being hidden, are highlighted in pure gold We all have laughter lines and rather than being ashamed of them, they're something to be celebrated.
Neil
So in Japan, there is a belief that people should celebrate imperfection. Imperfection is a fault or weakness. So rather than hiding something that's not perfect, we should celebrate it.
Rob
Getting old, for example, is not something to be ashamed of don't hide your wrinkles or laughter lines these are the creases you get as you skin ages or even you get from smiling too much!
Neil
Rather than spending time being ashamed of our faults, we should accept what and who we are. This concept is something that Helen feels is particularly being celebrated by Millennials and older people.
Rob
Yes, and Helen compared this with the process of kintsugi where the cracks or scars on broken pottery are highlighted with gold lacquer. This is called gilding. So we should highlight our imperfections.
Neil
This concept is something that maybe English people should embrace more because according to Helen Russell's research, they are not a very happy population. Here she is speaking on the BBC's Woman's Hour programme again what word does she use to describe people like me and you?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
In England what we have is 'jolly', which many of us now associate with this kind of 'jolly hockey sticks' or maybe an upper-class thing but actually it's something that really plays through a lot of British culture in a way that we may not think of so much. So there's this sense that in a lot of our comedy, in a lot of our approach to life you just sort of you get out there, you go for a dog walk, you have a boiled egg and soldiers ['soldiers' in this case are small slices of toast that you can dip into your egg and eat], and we do sort of get on with things it's a coping mechanism, it's not perfect but it's worked for many Brits for a while.
Rob
In the past we would use the phrase 'jolly hockey sticks' a humorous phrase used to describe upper-class school girls' annoying enthusiasm.
Neil
But Helen now thinks 'jolly' describes an attitude that is used as a coping mechanism that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. We smile, do everyday things like walking the dog and just get on with life.
Rob
I guess she means carry on without complaining.
Neil
Well, here's something to make you happy, Rob the answer to the question I asked you earlier, which was: according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
And I said c) New Zealand.
Neil
The answer is a) Norway. The report has been published for the past five years, during which the Nordic countries have consistently dominated the top spots.
OK, now it's time to remind ourselves of some of the vocabulary we've mentioned today.
Rob
We mentioned the phrase down in the dumps which is an informal way of describing the feeling of unhappiness, sometimes with no hope.
Neil
The next word was imperfection, which is a fault or weakness. You won't find any imperfections in this programme, Rob!
Rob
Glad to hear it. Maybe we should gild this script to gild something is to cover it in a thin layer of gold. We also heard about the word jolly which means 'cheerful and happy'.
Neil
And being jolly can be used as a coping mechanism - that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. If something doesn't go well, you just smile and carry on.
Rob
Well, there's no need to do that in this programme. Now there's just time to remind you that we have a website with lots more learning English content. The address is bbclearningenglish.com.
Neil
Thanks for joining us and goodbye.
Rob
Goodbye!
reply
Mosab
Neil
Hello. Welcome to 6 Minute English, I'm Neil. This is the programme where in just six minutes we discuss an interesting topic and teach some related English vocabulary. And joining me to do this is Rob.
Rob
Hello, Neil.
Neil
Now Rob, you seem like a happy chappy.
Rob
What's the point of being miserable?
Neil
Well, that are many things that could make you feel down in the dumps a phrase that means 'unhappy' but what are the things that keep you feeling happy, cheerful and chirpy, Rob?
Rob
Oh many things like being healthy, having good friends, presenting programmes like this with you, Neil!
Neil
Of course but we all have different ideas about what makes us happy and that can vary from country to country and culture to culture. It's what we're talking about today concepts of happiness.
Rob
Now Neil, you could make us even happier if you gave us a really good question to answer.
Neil
Here it is. Happiness is an emotion that actually gets measured. The World Happiness Report measures subjective well-being - how happy the people are, and why. But do you know, according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
WeIl, I think they're all very happy places but the outdoor life of many New Zealanders must make New Zealand the happiest place.
Neil
OK, we'll see. I'll reveal the answer later on. But now back to our discussion about happiness around the world.
Rob
Happiness can be hard to define. Research has suggested that while personal feelings of pleasure are the accepted definition of happiness in Western cultures, East Asian cultures tend to see happiness as social harmony and in some parts of Africa and India it's more about shared experiences and family.
Neil
It's something author and journalist Helen Russell has been looking at she's even created an 'Atlas of Happiness'. Her research focused on the positive characteristics of a country's population and guess which country she found to be one of the happiest?
Rob
New Zealand?
Neil
Actually no. It was Japan. Here she is speaking on BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour programme. What concept or belief is it that promotes happiness?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
Millennials and perhaps older people are better at remembering wabi-sabi this traditional Japanese concept around celebrating imperfection, which I think is something so helpful these days, especially for women it's this idea that there is a beauty in ageing, it's to be celebrated rather than trying to disguise it, or trying to cover up the scars instead you gild them with kintsugi if you break a pot instead of chucking it away, you mend it with gold lacquer so the scars, rather than being hidden, are highlighted in pure gold We all have laughter lines and rather than being ashamed of them, they're something to be celebrated.
Neil
So in Japan, there is a belief that people should celebrate imperfection. Imperfection is a fault or weakness. So rather than hiding something that's not perfect, we should celebrate it.
Rob
Getting old, for example, is not something to be ashamed of don't hide your wrinkles or laughter lines these are the creases you get as you skin ages or even you get from smiling too much!
Neil
Rather than spending time being ashamed of our faults, we should accept what and who we are. This concept is something that Helen feels is particularly being celebrated by Millennials and older people.
Rob
Yes, and Helen compared this with the process of kintsugi where the cracks or scars on broken pottery are highlighted with gold lacquer. This is called gilding. So we should highlight our imperfections.
Neil
This concept is something that maybe English people should embrace more because according to Helen Russell's research, they are not a very happy population. Here she is speaking on the BBC's Woman's Hour programme again what word does she use to describe people like me and you?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
In England what we have is 'jolly', which many of us now associate with this kind of 'jolly hockey sticks' or maybe an upper-class thing but actually it's something that really plays through a lot of British culture in a way that we may not think of so much. So there's this sense that in a lot of our comedy, in a lot of our approach to life you just sort of you get out there, you go for a dog walk, you have a boiled egg and soldiers ['soldiers' in this case are small slices of toast that you can dip into your egg and eat], and we do sort of get on with things it's a coping mechanism, it's not perfect but it's worked for many Brits for a while.
Rob
In the past we would use the phrase 'jolly hockey sticks' a humorous phrase used to describe upper-class school girls' annoying enthusiasm.
Neil
But Helen now thinks 'jolly' describes an attitude that is used as a coping mechanism that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. We smile, do everyday things like walking the dog and just get on with life.
Rob
I guess she means carry on without complaining.
Neil
Well, here's something to make you happy, Rob the answer to the question I asked you earlier, which was: according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
And I said c) New Zealand.
Neil
The answer is a) Norway. The report has been published for the past five years, during which the Nordic countries have consistently dominated the top spots.
OK, now it's time to remind ourselves of some of the vocabulary we've mentioned today.
Rob
We mentioned the phrase down in the dumps which is an informal way of describing the feeling of unhappiness, sometimes with no hope.
Neil
The next word was imperfection, which is a fault or weakness. You won't find any imperfections in this programme, Rob!
Rob
Glad to hear it. Maybe we should gild this script to gild something is to cover it in a thin layer of gold. We also heard about the word jolly which means 'cheerful and happy'.
Neil
And being jolly can be used as a coping mechanism - that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. If something doesn't go well, you just smile and carry on.
Rob
Well, there's no need to do that in this programme. Now there's just time to remind you that we have a website with lots more learning English content. The address is bbclearningenglish.com.
Neil
Thanks for joining us and goodbye.
Rob
Goodbye!
reply
Neil
Hello. Welcome to 6 Minute English, I'm Neil. This is the programme where in just six minutes we discuss an interesting topic and teach some related English vocabulary. And joining me to do this is Rob.
Rob
Hello, Neil.
Neil
Now Rob, you seem like a happy chappy.
Rob
What's the point of being miserable?
Neil
Well, that are many things that could make you feel down in the dumps a phrase that means 'unhappy' but what are the things that keep you feeling happy, cheerful and chirpy, Rob?
Rob
Oh many things like being healthy, having good friends, presenting programmes like this with you, Neil!
Neil
Of course but we all have different ideas about what makes us happy and that can vary from country to country and culture to culture. It's what we're talking about today concepts of happiness.
Rob
Now Neil, you could make us even happier if you gave us a really good question to answer.
Neil
Here it is. Happiness is an emotion that actually gets measured. The World Happiness Report measures subjective well-being - how happy the people are, and why. But do you know, according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
WeIl, I think they're all very happy places but the outdoor life of many New Zealanders must make New Zealand the happiest place.
Neil
OK, we'll see. I'll reveal the answer later on. But now back to our discussion about happiness around the world.
Rob
Happiness can be hard to define. Research has suggested that while personal feelings of pleasure are the accepted definition of happiness in Western cultures, East Asian cultures tend to see happiness as social harmony and in some parts of Africa and India it's more about shared experiences and family.
Neil
It's something author and journalist Helen Russell has been looking at she's even created an 'Atlas of Happiness'. Her research focused on the positive characteristics of a country's population and guess which country she found to be one of the happiest?
Rob
New Zealand?
Neil
Actually no. It was Japan. Here she is speaking on BBC Radio 4's Woman's Hour programme. What concept or belief is it that promotes happiness?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
Millennials and perhaps older people are better at remembering wabi-sabi this traditional Japanese concept around celebrating imperfection, which I think is something so helpful these days, especially for women it's this idea that there is a beauty in ageing, it's to be celebrated rather than trying to disguise it, or trying to cover up the scars instead you gild them with kintsugi if you break a pot instead of chucking it away, you mend it with gold lacquer so the scars, rather than being hidden, are highlighted in pure gold We all have laughter lines and rather than being ashamed of them, they're something to be celebrated.
Neil
So in Japan, there is a belief that people should celebrate imperfection. Imperfection is a fault or weakness. So rather than hiding something that's not perfect, we should celebrate it.
Rob
Getting old, for example, is not something to be ashamed of don't hide your wrinkles or laughter lines these are the creases you get as you skin ages or even you get from smiling too much!
Neil
Rather than spending time being ashamed of our faults, we should accept what and who we are. This concept is something that Helen feels is particularly being celebrated by Millennials and older people.
Rob
Yes, and Helen compared this with the process of kintsugi where the cracks or scars on broken pottery are highlighted with gold lacquer. This is called gilding. So we should highlight our imperfections.
Neil
This concept is something that maybe English people should embrace more because according to Helen Russell's research, they are not a very happy population. Here she is speaking on the BBC's Woman's Hour programme again what word does she use to describe people like me and you?
Helen Russell, author and journalist
In England what we have is 'jolly', which many of us now associate with this kind of 'jolly hockey sticks' or maybe an upper-class thing but actually it's something that really plays through a lot of British culture in a way that we may not think of so much. So there's this sense that in a lot of our comedy, in a lot of our approach to life you just sort of you get out there, you go for a dog walk, you have a boiled egg and soldiers ['soldiers' in this case are small slices of toast that you can dip into your egg and eat], and we do sort of get on with things it's a coping mechanism, it's not perfect but it's worked for many Brits for a while.
Rob
In the past we would use the phrase 'jolly hockey sticks' a humorous phrase used to describe upper-class school girls' annoying enthusiasm.
Neil
But Helen now thinks 'jolly' describes an attitude that is used as a coping mechanism that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. We smile, do everyday things like walking the dog and just get on with life.
Rob
I guess she means carry on without complaining.
Neil
Well, here's something to make you happy, Rob the answer to the question I asked you earlier, which was: according to a United Nations agency report in 2017, which is the happiest country on Earth? Is it
a) Norway
b) Japan, or
c) New Zealand?
Rob
And I said c) New Zealand.
Neil
The answer is a) Norway. The report has been published for the past five years, during which the Nordic countries have consistently dominated the top spots.
OK, now it's time to remind ourselves of some of the vocabulary we've mentioned today.
Rob
We mentioned the phrase down in the dumps which is an informal way of describing the feeling of unhappiness, sometimes with no hope.
Neil
The next word was imperfection, which is a fault or weakness. You won't find any imperfections in this programme, Rob!
Rob
Glad to hear it. Maybe we should gild this script to gild something is to cover it in a thin layer of gold. We also heard about the word jolly which means 'cheerful and happy'.
Neil
And being jolly can be used as a coping mechanism - that's something someone does to deal with a difficult situation. If something doesn't go well, you just smile and carry on.
Rob
Well, there's no need to do that in this programme. Now there's just time to remind you that we have a website with lots more learning English content. The address is bbclearningenglish.com.
Neil
Thanks for joining us and goodbye.
Rob
Goodbye!
reply
Анжелика
I liked this video so much because it is so relevant for me. Many things can make us feel down in the dumps. It is true. How can we deal with our unhappiness? I love this concept of Japanese. We should celebrate our imperfection instead be plagued by it. People are not perfect and we should realize that this weakness can be our strength. I try not to worry about the fact that my body gets older with years, that some wrinkles cover little by little my face and laughter lines appear. For women it can bring many worries and lack of confidence. But we should get rid of bad thoughts and enjoy our live.
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I liked this video so much because it is so relevant for me. Many things can make us feel down in the dumps. It is true. How can we deal with our unhappiness? I love this concept of Japanese. We should celebrate our imperfection instead be plagued by it. People are not perfect and we should realize that this weakness can be our strength. I try not to worry about the fact that my body gets older with years, that some wrinkles cover little by little my face and laughter lines appear. For women it can bring many worries and lack of confidence. But we should get rid of bad thoughts and enjoy our live.
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Arshad
Perfect session for learning new words and some good tips to take care of mental health.
Celebrating imperfection, I am ashamed of my imperfections, Now I have got something spiritual that touches my soul.
I am listening to this while I am down in the dumps, though I was a jolly minded people before, nowadays I prefer to be alone.
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Perfect session for learning new words and some good tips to take care of mental health.
Celebrating imperfection, I am ashamed of my imperfections, Now I have got something spiritual that touches my soul.
I am listening to this while I am down in the dumps, though I was a jolly minded people before, nowadays I prefer to be alone.
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KOJI
As a English learner in Japan , this video is difficult to understand coz I'm not familiar with Wabi-sabi culture even Japanese
And for the second update from Helen about British and jolly.... hope someone summarise for her second message?
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As a English learner in Japan , this video is difficult to understand coz I'm not familiar with Wabi-sabi culture even Japanese
And for the second update from Helen about British and jolly.... hope someone summarise for her second message?
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Bui
This subject is very interresting. It is difficult to define the happiness. That vary from country to country, from culture to culture, and the most important is depended of the concept/opinion of each person in the life.
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This subject is very interresting. It is difficult to define the happiness. That vary from country to country, from culture to culture, and the most important is depended of the concept/opinion of each person in the life.
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Tam
I am happy living in Japan. It's not good or not.sometimes just differences among countries. ...
Thank you Arigato for this video! I like to hear when people spilling the tea... ;-)
Please stay safe and healthy.
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I am happy living in Japan. It's not good or not.sometimes just differences among countries. ...
Thank you Arigato for this video! I like to hear when people spilling the tea... ;-)
Please stay safe and healthy.
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Mo
Japan is a great place to eat out. Food is not so expensive.
but not a good place to live because of the high level of deforestation and hot and humid weather.
It's too hot for me to live in summer in Japan!!
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Japan is a great place to eat out. Food is not so expensive.
but not a good place to live because of the high level of deforestation and hot and humid weather.
It's too hot for me to live in summer in Japan!!
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Falls
the word ' reveal' I hear that seems similar with review
The ending sound both as : reveal = ri vju, and review = ri vju, How can I distinguish it
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the word ' reveal' I hear that seems similar with review
The ending sound both as : reveal = ri vju, and review = ri vju, How can I distinguish it
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James
I'm an English teacher and I came looking for listening resources. I have stayed just because of the interesting content.
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I'm an English teacher and I came looking for listening resources. I have stayed just because of the interesting content.
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