Important Questions To Ask To Know If They're The One
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Date: 2025-08-02
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StopPirateSoftware
4: 07 Repeated cheating & easy escalations even in calm conversations about serious topics, has been a big problem with my ex recently. I normally want her back, but it starts to get 100% obvious that this problem will reappear eventually. My personal observation is also that she heavily changed over time. She wasn't this sweetheart anymore who used to be really really addicted and very much in love with me. She tried to show that again, but it feels entirely different and not genuine anymore. Right now I'm looking to move out, to help myself and escape the toxic environment at home (she lives there too, although I may be stuck at home for a year until then, and it already feels like a prison to me and I self-isolate too much in my room due to being overwhelmed and uncomfortable at home. Her having heavy schizophrenia doesn't make it any better.
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4: 07 Repeated cheating & easy escalations even in calm conversations about serious topics, has been a big problem with my ex recently. I normally want her back, but it starts to get 100% obvious that this problem will reappear eventually. My personal observation is also that she heavily changed over time. She wasn't this sweetheart anymore who used to be really really addicted and very much in love with me. She tried to show that again, but it feels entirely different and not genuine anymore. Right now I'm looking to move out, to help myself and escape the toxic environment at home (she lives there too, although I may be stuck at home for a year until then, and it already feels like a prison to me and I self-isolate too much in my room due to being overwhelmed and uncomfortable at home. Her having heavy schizophrenia doesn't make it any better.
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ZephyrtheCat-x5b
I have a crush on a long time best friend. I don't know if a relationship would work because we haven't tried it. I'm scared of ruining our friendship, so I might never tell her. I don't know if I would even be ready for a romantic relationship. I will say she is one of the people I feel most comfortable being myself around, but this applies to my other friends, too. I root for her, since I'm always impressed by her art and enjoy seeing it. I also respect her and have told her to please tell me if I do anything that makes her uncomfortable (which is something I worry about. I'm also worried my selfish personality will hurt her if I get too close to her.
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I have a crush on a long time best friend. I don't know if a relationship would work because we haven't tried it. I'm scared of ruining our friendship, so I might never tell her. I don't know if I would even be ready for a romantic relationship. I will say she is one of the people I feel most comfortable being myself around, but this applies to my other friends, too. I root for her, since I'm always impressed by her art and enjoy seeing it. I also respect her and have told her to please tell me if I do anything that makes her uncomfortable (which is something I worry about. I'm also worried my selfish personality will hurt her if I get too close to her.
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rezahaque9891
My 5 questions: 1. When you surround yourself with people you know, but there are people who truly care about you outside the group you recognize, why do you sometimes refuse to accept them 2. Does your dignity apply to just those you feel like your interested in, not those who are really interested in you 3. How does your lifestyle attract others, when you’re keeping it for the ones you are comfortable with 4. What passions do you do that gets their attention, when you aren’t rally considering them 5. Are you willing to spread out your boundaries to include more than who you love, because they do it YOUR way
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My 5 questions: 1. When you surround yourself with people you know, but there are people who truly care about you outside the group you recognize, why do you sometimes refuse to accept them 2. Does your dignity apply to just those you feel like your interested in, not those who are really interested in you 3. How does your lifestyle attract others, when you’re keeping it for the ones you are comfortable with 4. What passions do you do that gets their attention, when you aren’t rally considering them 5. Are you willing to spread out your boundaries to include more than who you love, because they do it YOUR way
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TheMCzorro
The first question I'd be like Lol, really I can't take compliments for shit, but I would most likely smile or chuckle if someone made that observation. The second one is kinda both because I've been single for as long as I can remember and, obviously, a little thirsty. The rest is easier - I know we can be ourselves around each other, I know I love who she is now, I know I would love to see her succeed and achieve her dreams and I know that that I see her as my equal and myself as her equal, not above or below. Should I be concerned about having difficulty answering some of the questions or is this fine
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The first question I'd be like Lol, really I can't take compliments for shit, but I would most likely smile or chuckle if someone made that observation. The second one is kinda both because I've been single for as long as I can remember and, obviously, a little thirsty. The rest is easier - I know we can be ourselves around each other, I know I love who she is now, I know I would love to see her succeed and achieve her dreams and I know that that I see her as my equal and myself as her equal, not above or below. Should I be concerned about having difficulty answering some of the questions or is this fine
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psych2go
I don't really struggle in finding a partner I look if our values line up. I struggle with depression is what keeps me from marrying someone. I had 2 fiancees but my depression keeps me from opening up to the woman I want to marry and have kids with. It is bad to the point it causes concern and I tend to shut down. I have finally got the courage to make an appointment for my dental health and tomorrow before my appointment I will make an appointment for a therapist in the same building. I am just afraid to let anyone close
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I don't really struggle in finding a partner I look if our values line up. I struggle with depression is what keeps me from marrying someone. I had 2 fiancees but my depression keeps me from opening up to the woman I want to marry and have kids with. It is bad to the point it causes concern and I tend to shut down. I have finally got the courage to make an appointment for my dental health and tomorrow before my appointment I will make an appointment for a therapist in the same building. I am just afraid to let anyone close
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Livi_Noelle
I have all five of these things with my five ot six close friends.
I don't need a romantic partner.
I think there's a deeper point missed here because of the do this and get a partner presentation.
If these five things aren't true, that person shouldn't be in your ride or die, besties 6eva circle.
Also, I am hearing points made that sound really codependent. I neither want nor need people who agree with me on everything and it's not healthy to not have people disagree with you.
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I have all five of these things with my five ot six close friends.
I don't need a romantic partner.
I think there's a deeper point missed here because of the do this and get a partner presentation.
If these five things aren't true, that person shouldn't be in your ride or die, besties 6eva circle.
Also, I am hearing points made that sound really codependent. I neither want nor need people who agree with me on everything and it's not healthy to not have people disagree with you.
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justalpha9138
I'm really hoping I can meet the guy that I am oh so crushing on no later than during next year. I genuinely really admire the dude, and him and I click on so many levels. I literally just had a two hour long conversation last night with them and the time flew by, and I GENUINELY love their giggles and laughs. I've never felt this way about anyone before! I just hope that when I do finally meet them in person that it won't be all too good to be true.
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I'm really hoping I can meet the guy that I am oh so crushing on no later than during next year. I genuinely really admire the dude, and him and I click on so many levels. I literally just had a two hour long conversation last night with them and the time flew by, and I GENUINELY love their giggles and laughs. I've never felt this way about anyone before! I just hope that when I do finally meet them in person that it won't be all too good to be true.
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A55a551n
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1. If someone told you, you are a lot like your partner how would you feel 1: 11
2. Does being with them make you truly fulfilled or just less lonely 2: 14
3. Can you be unapologetically yourself around them 2: 44
4. Are you in love with who they are now or just their potential 3: 31
5. Do a root for each other 4: 24
6. Do I truly respect them 5: 05
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. If someone told you, you are a lot like your partner how would you feel 1: 11
2. Does being with them make you truly fulfilled or just less lonely 2: 14
3. Can you be unapologetically yourself around them 2: 44
4. Are you in love with who they are now or just their potential 3: 31
5. Do a root for each other 4: 24
6. Do I truly respect them 5: 05
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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psych2go
Excellent video My five years of romantic life came to an end a month ago. Making the decision to break up with someone I love has a big impact on me. Even if it has been in vain, I have done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my life without him. Despite my best efforts to keep my thoughts away from him, I still find myself missing him and thinking about him a lot. I don't know why I am saying this here.
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Excellent video My five years of romantic life came to an end a month ago. Making the decision to break up with someone I love has a big impact on me. Even if it has been in vain, I have done everything I can to get him back, and I couldn't imagine my life without him. Despite my best efforts to keep my thoughts away from him, I still find myself missing him and thinking about him a lot. I don't know why I am saying this here.
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StacyCo7
Incredible video My relationship of five years ended a month ago. It truly bothers me when someone I love decides to end the relationship with me. Despite the fact that it's all for nothing, I've tried everything to win him back, and I can't picture my life without him. Despite my best efforts, I still find myself missing him and thinking about him frequently. I'm not sure why I'm saying this.
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Incredible video My relationship of five years ended a month ago. It truly bothers me when someone I love decides to end the relationship with me. Despite the fact that it's all for nothing, I've tried everything to win him back, and I can't picture my life without him. Despite my best efforts, I still find myself missing him and thinking about him frequently. I'm not sure why I'm saying this.
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justinjyeung
Timestamps:
1: 12 If someone told you, You're a lot like your partner, how would you feel
2: 14 Does being with them make you truly fulfilled or just less lonely
2: 45 Can you be unapologetically yourself around them
3: 32 Are you in love with who they are now or just their potential
4: 26 Do we root for each other
5: 05 Do I truly respect them
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Timestamps:
1: 12 If someone told you, You're a lot like your partner, how would you feel
2: 14 Does being with them make you truly fulfilled or just less lonely
2: 45 Can you be unapologetically yourself around them
3: 32 Are you in love with who they are now or just their potential
4: 26 Do we root for each other
5: 05 Do I truly respect them
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jameswalker269
There is no formula YOU can put together for this. I don't care if you wrote every single psych book that ever existed, you cannot determine the one, because there is no such thing as the one. There are people you want to reproduce with and people you don't want to reproduce with. All the rest is BS fluff we humans put on top of instinctual urges.
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There is no formula YOU can put together for this. I don't care if you wrote every single psych book that ever existed, you cannot determine the one, because there is no such thing as the one. There are people you want to reproduce with and people you don't want to reproduce with. All the rest is BS fluff we humans put on top of instinctual urges.
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TheMindLab247
The right questions don’t just reveal who they are they reveal whether you’re truly aligned. It’s not about finding someone perfect, but someone whose truth feels safe next to yours. Carl Jung might say: the one who helps you meet your shadow without fear might be the one worth keeping. What’s your most revealing question to ask someone
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The right questions don’t just reveal who they are they reveal whether you’re truly aligned. It’s not about finding someone perfect, but someone whose truth feels safe next to yours. Carl Jung might say: the one who helps you meet your shadow without fear might be the one worth keeping. What’s your most revealing question to ask someone
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LastEarBender
Disengage the emotional attachment & engage the prefrontal cortex to honestly assess their viability. Sounds a bit cold, but it's important. If both your fondness for the person and an unbiased analysis line up to the positive, then move forward. If not, have a cry and say goodbye, so that you can have more fulfillment in your future
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Disengage the emotional attachment & engage the prefrontal cortex to honestly assess their viability. Sounds a bit cold, but it's important. If both your fondness for the person and an unbiased analysis line up to the positive, then move forward. If not, have a cry and say goodbye, so that you can have more fulfillment in your future
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psych2go
I wasn’t someone people ever considered the one as I was always invisible. I didn’t have to wonder if someone loved me for who I am or for my potential, because no one ever saw me at all. While everybody else thinks about red flags or making future plans, I was always the one that love overlooked without even noticing.
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I wasn’t someone people ever considered the one as I was always invisible. I didn’t have to wonder if someone loved me for who I am or for my potential, because no one ever saw me at all. While everybody else thinks about red flags or making future plans, I was always the one that love overlooked without even noticing.
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Prakash-zy9du
Hey Psych2go! I have been trying to suggest a quiz topic - How bad is your social anxiety. I even commented something like this in your community post too but I guess it didn't reached to you guys (I am not mad though. I hope this time my message reaches to you
BTW I am loving your quizzes
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Hey Psych2go! I have been trying to suggest a quiz topic - How bad is your social anxiety. I even commented something like this in your community post too but I guess it didn't reached to you guys (I am not mad though. I hope this time my message reaches to you
BTW I am loving your quizzes
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alicia234
The divorce rate is a joke in how it could be calculated. It’s a statistical manipulation because it also counts people who have had multiple marriages which increases the rate of divorce artificially because of the nature of people like this. It’s silly to cite it.
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The divorce rate is a joke in how it could be calculated. It’s a statistical manipulation because it also counts people who have had multiple marriages which increases the rate of divorce artificially because of the nature of people like this. It’s silly to cite it.
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lizethsilva7354
My parents almost broke up and I feel like my body is on survival mode, scared about the unexpected, flinching that people yelling my name from downstairs. Even though it happens 2 years ago, I feel like the fights get worse and I have to sit there and watch.
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My parents almost broke up and I feel like my body is on survival mode, scared about the unexpected, flinching that people yelling my name from downstairs. Even though it happens 2 years ago, I feel like the fights get worse and I have to sit there and watch.
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TehAntares
I have problem with the first question. I don't admire someone for being like me. Quite the opposite, I don't want anyone to be the mirror of me (or maybe I'm just lacking self-appreciation. I love them for their own qualities, not for those we share.
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I have problem with the first question. I don't admire someone for being like me. Quite the opposite, I don't want anyone to be the mirror of me (or maybe I'm just lacking self-appreciation. I love them for their own qualities, not for those we share.
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achd73
the fisherman in 1001 nights he throws down his net
and something comes up a sealed jar or something he opens it
and the ifrit comes out a big cloud of black smoke
it gives him wishes of wealth but he will regret it later
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the fisherman in 1001 nights he throws down his net
and something comes up a sealed jar or something he opens it
and the ifrit comes out a big cloud of black smoke
it gives him wishes of wealth but he will regret it later
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