HOW TO STOP BEING SHY AND INTROVERTED (BE MORE SOCIAL) - Alex Costa
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Date: 2022-07-20
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gamerboy
If you are introvert but when ever u r with ur girl u just cant stop talkin to them. It doesnt matter those talks are intellectual, knowledgeable. If it is then ur just not introvert. U just know how much its compulsory and important to talk to different people. Actually u are smart. U know how much u should invest and how much your contribution is needed. The same introvert guy would be debating and fighting alot of people at same time if some situation comes when he has to win his girl by arguing against people. Introvert is not type or smthng wrong. Its behaviour or kind of perception, choice how you want to deal anything or any situation. Just an approach. Same inteovert guy can be confident at time when its really needed the second appriach and more confidense.
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If you are introvert but when ever u r with ur girl u just cant stop talkin to them. It doesnt matter those talks are intellectual, knowledgeable. If it is then ur just not introvert. U just know how much its compulsory and important to talk to different people. Actually u are smart. U know how much u should invest and how much your contribution is needed. The same introvert guy would be debating and fighting alot of people at same time if some situation comes when he has to win his girl by arguing against people. Introvert is not type or smthng wrong. Its behaviour or kind of perception, choice how you want to deal anything or any situation. Just an approach. Same inteovert guy can be confident at time when its really needed the second appriach and more confidense.
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Yalitza
I-ve always been the quiet type and recently I tried to start conversations for a change with my classmates and co workers.
It gets so annoying when I-m actually trying to make a conversation for once and they end up being so dry. It-s like i may as well just remain the way I am if this is how it-s going to be. The thing is I don-t even like small talk, i love talking about real things or something meaningful. My co workers talk about things i have no interest in and i simply have nothing to say. Me being a quiet person has affected me. Some people assume that-s im stuck up but im not. I want to change but i dont know how. I know that im not shy. I just don-t understand why im not much of a talker-
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I-ve always been the quiet type and recently I tried to start conversations for a change with my classmates and co workers.
It gets so annoying when I-m actually trying to make a conversation for once and they end up being so dry. It-s like i may as well just remain the way I am if this is how it-s going to be. The thing is I don-t even like small talk, i love talking about real things or something meaningful. My co workers talk about things i have no interest in and i simply have nothing to say. Me being a quiet person has affected me. Some people assume that-s im stuck up but im not. I want to change but i dont know how. I know that im not shy. I just don-t understand why im not much of a talker-
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Aziz
I wish i saw your video early in my life -
Some people do not want to change. I understand that, but it is wrong to tell people, -Be yourself, do not change. You should tell them the truth. You have bad genes that prevent you from communicating. So you are weaker in competition in building family and making friends and you will increase your chances of developing mental disorders and loneliness. You have to tell them the truth. - Because there are those who are always ready to fight for change.
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I wish i saw your video early in my life -
Some people do not want to change. I understand that, but it is wrong to tell people, -Be yourself, do not change. You should tell them the truth. You have bad genes that prevent you from communicating. So you are weaker in competition in building family and making friends and you will increase your chances of developing mental disorders and loneliness. You have to tell them the truth. - Because there are those who are always ready to fight for change.
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Sarad
If i feel like asking, i would do it, make fun in the class too, but when i think of outer world, like opening up with relatives, then i find it odd and forced. Like i dont want them to call me or talk to me but with strangers i dont find any difficulty reaching out or being asked something.
Basically i feel easy when socializing with strangers but hard with relatives or people who are close to me.
I cant figure out what exactly i am, an introvert or an extrovert or what
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If i feel like asking, i would do it, make fun in the class too, but when i think of outer world, like opening up with relatives, then i find it odd and forced. Like i dont want them to call me or talk to me but with strangers i dont find any difficulty reaching out or being asked something.
Basically i feel easy when socializing with strangers but hard with relatives or people who are close to me.
I cant figure out what exactly i am, an introvert or an extrovert or what
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Borris
HI, theres nothing wrong being introvert. i am introvert but i dont disclose everything about myself. I talk in front of a crowd and still being introvert. Let us not put a negative thoughts about introvert. in fact i have high respect for these people. they are very challenging people on earth. winning a heart of an introvert is a huge achievement! extroverts are easy to get people. moreover, i trust introvert people more than extroverts.
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HI, theres nothing wrong being introvert. i am introvert but i dont disclose everything about myself. I talk in front of a crowd and still being introvert. Let us not put a negative thoughts about introvert. in fact i have high respect for these people. they are very challenging people on earth. winning a heart of an introvert is a huge achievement! extroverts are easy to get people. moreover, i trust introvert people more than extroverts.
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Karrosz
Thanks for the tip man, my problem is that i don't have any other topics or words to get to a conversation with my friends after 1 topic is finished. I'm always like a bit awkward or sometimes just go silence for a sec after that, I'm not really shy I just don't know what words or topics to say to get back into a chill conversation.
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Thanks for the tip man, my problem is that i don't have any other topics or words to get to a conversation with my friends after 1 topic is finished. I'm always like a bit awkward or sometimes just go silence for a sec after that, I'm not really shy I just don't know what words or topics to say to get back into a chill conversation.
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Tyler
I know I'm an extrovert and absolutely love being around other people and conversating with them. The only thing is, I'm alone most of the time. I crave human interaction yet I dont have a ton of friends to spend time with. It eats at me most of every day and it's a neverending torture in my mind. I don't know what to do.
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I know I'm an extrovert and absolutely love being around other people and conversating with them. The only thing is, I'm alone most of the time. I crave human interaction yet I dont have a ton of friends to spend time with. It eats at me most of every day and it's a neverending torture in my mind. I don't know what to do.
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Mads
Am I the only one who hates being an introvert and actually doesn't like having no friends and just watching everyone in class talking? It makes me feel lonely and I hate being not able to speak, because I always loved people that could walk up to someone and talk with a good mood and I wish I could be like that.
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Am I the only one who hates being an introvert and actually doesn't like having no friends and just watching everyone in class talking? It makes me feel lonely and I hate being not able to speak, because I always loved people that could walk up to someone and talk with a good mood and I wish I could be like that.
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Charles
Faking til you make it has carried me very far. I come to find that while you're -faking- the confidence more of your authentic self starts coming out and you start getting comfortable with showing you're true self. Before you know it you fall inline with your authentic self more often in social situations
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Faking til you make it has carried me very far. I come to find that while you're -faking- the confidence more of your authentic self starts coming out and you start getting comfortable with showing you're true self. Before you know it you fall inline with your authentic self more often in social situations
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Dev
I am fat, ugly, my tongue slips when i talk, don't know what to talk about, or how to fit/enter into an conversation, thinks too much before talking that I skip talking, can't take risks so I don't learn and mainly knowing all my flaws I can't seem to fix them it is just so frustrating sometimes.
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I am fat, ugly, my tongue slips when i talk, don't know what to talk about, or how to fit/enter into an conversation, thinks too much before talking that I skip talking, can't take risks so I don't learn and mainly knowing all my flaws I can't seem to fix them it is just so frustrating sometimes.
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Podden
Thank you so much for these tips - I have moved out to go to school by myself and I find it difficult to make mates and in general coming in contact with others. I would definetley take your hints with me and try to become more of a extrovert. Thank you so much man
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Thank you so much for these tips - I have moved out to go to school by myself and I find it difficult to make mates and in general coming in contact with others. I would definetley take your hints with me and try to become more of a extrovert. Thank you so much man
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Napoleon
The only thing I have is physical confidence and that-s about it. Socially is where I struggle the most. I don-t know why. I used to be such an outgoing kid! Now I can-t stand to have a conversation with someone I don-t know -
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The only thing I have is physical confidence and that-s about it. Socially is where I struggle the most. I don-t know why. I used to be such an outgoing kid! Now I can-t stand to have a conversation with someone I don-t know -
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Melonade
Honestly, there's nothing wrong with being shy. You should just be yourself, you shouldn't have to be ashamed of who you truly are. I understand what this video is trying to do, but it's just going the wrong way.
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Honestly, there's nothing wrong with being shy. You should just be yourself, you shouldn't have to be ashamed of who you truly are. I understand what this video is trying to do, but it's just going the wrong way.
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Firro
I was diagnosed with autism when I was 12. I haven-t talked to anyone in my high school for 3 years. It-s not that I-m interested in talking to people, it-s that the job I want involves a lot of social interaction.
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I was diagnosed with autism when I was 12. I haven-t talked to anyone in my high school for 3 years. It-s not that I-m interested in talking to people, it-s that the job I want involves a lot of social interaction.
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Juan
Jokes on you, the majority of people are actually Introvert and so does the Highly-Succesful one. Introvert doesn't equal social skill and you should know that.
Remove the Introverted word on the video title.
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Jokes on you, the majority of people are actually Introvert and so does the Highly-Succesful one. Introvert doesn't equal social skill and you should know that.
Remove the Introverted word on the video title.
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Legendary
I-ve lived in California for a long time, then I moved. I didn-t know anyone or anything about that place so eventually I lost my social skills and for me right now, it-s pretty hard gaining it back
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I-ve lived in California for a long time, then I moved. I didn-t know anyone or anything about that place so eventually I lost my social skills and for me right now, it-s pretty hard gaining it back
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Kelly
I used to be reallllyyy social, but quarantine ruined me.
I feel ashamed that I can't even keep a conversation going, trying to go back.
I Used to like talking to people, but now its ehe no
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I used to be reallllyyy social, but quarantine ruined me.
I feel ashamed that I can't even keep a conversation going, trying to go back.
I Used to like talking to people, but now its ehe no
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Melonade
Honestly, I disagree with 0: 21, many introverted people are very successful, we just have a different way of doing it. You shouldn't have to feel ashamed for being introverted.
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Honestly, I disagree with 0: 21, many introverted people are very successful, we just have a different way of doing it. You shouldn't have to feel ashamed for being introverted.
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Life
The worst thing an introvert can do is trying to e an extrovert
And the worst thing an extrovert can do is trying to be an introvert
They both are best in the way they are.
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The worst thing an introvert can do is trying to e an extrovert
And the worst thing an extrovert can do is trying to be an introvert
They both are best in the way they are.
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I want to be an extrovert because as much as I enjoy being an introvert, I-m getting sick of it. Im trying to become more extroverted but I just can-t bring myself to do it.
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I want to be an extrovert because as much as I enjoy being an introvert, I-m getting sick of it. Im trying to become more extroverted but I just can-t bring myself to do it.
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