7 Signs of a Toxic Family
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Killua_Zoldyck
My soulmate thinks I'm overly attached to her but I'm not i just. dont want to feel emotionally and physically alone because that's how it's always been my whole life. When i tell her about my parents she says, of course they want you to visit them they're your parents silly. They just want what's best for you and are trying their best to be good parents. My entire family literally locked me out of the house in the rain. i just wanted to get some fresh air so i got dressed. My mom was downstairs my brother was getting ready for a shower my dad locked the front door like he always does. The garage door was locked to. When i rang the bell my parents were watching a movie. My other brother doesn't live with us and has his own family. When my mom answered i yelled at her for locking the door and then she blamed me for locking it and she made a dumb excuse for it. My dad yelled at me and told me it's my fault and to stop arguing with my mom or I'll get in trouble. My mom literally leaves me in the shop at the mall until i change my attitude one little disagreement turns into chaos. She's lucky I'm not in middle school anymore. Maybe if my parents paid more attention to me when I was little i wouldn't be following people and begging them not to leave. I would feel more independent and confident. Maybe if my dad didn't lack so much empathy and my mom wasn't such an overprotective drama queen i wouldn't be overprotective over my friends and i wouldn't be asking for support by strangers, my soulmate, and toxic friends and i wouldn't have cut myself in the first place. Maybe if my parents didn't blame me and hit me so much i wouldn't feel deserving of nothing else but pain. It's weird how when people don't come to special events i plan or just walk away i get flashbacks about my parents creating a boarder and leaving me behind. It names me dissociate and triggers me so much to the point i wanna lash out at them but i can't because i always get punished for being upset and it makes me feel this sense of shame afterwards.
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My soulmate thinks I'm overly attached to her but I'm not i just. dont want to feel emotionally and physically alone because that's how it's always been my whole life. When i tell her about my parents she says, of course they want you to visit them they're your parents silly. They just want what's best for you and are trying their best to be good parents. My entire family literally locked me out of the house in the rain. i just wanted to get some fresh air so i got dressed. My mom was downstairs my brother was getting ready for a shower my dad locked the front door like he always does. The garage door was locked to. When i rang the bell my parents were watching a movie. My other brother doesn't live with us and has his own family. When my mom answered i yelled at her for locking the door and then she blamed me for locking it and she made a dumb excuse for it. My dad yelled at me and told me it's my fault and to stop arguing with my mom or I'll get in trouble. My mom literally leaves me in the shop at the mall until i change my attitude one little disagreement turns into chaos. She's lucky I'm not in middle school anymore. Maybe if my parents paid more attention to me when I was little i wouldn't be following people and begging them not to leave. I would feel more independent and confident. Maybe if my dad didn't lack so much empathy and my mom wasn't such an overprotective drama queen i wouldn't be overprotective over my friends and i wouldn't be asking for support by strangers, my soulmate, and toxic friends and i wouldn't have cut myself in the first place. Maybe if my parents didn't blame me and hit me so much i wouldn't feel deserving of nothing else but pain. It's weird how when people don't come to special events i plan or just walk away i get flashbacks about my parents creating a boarder and leaving me behind. It names me dissociate and triggers me so much to the point i wanna lash out at them but i can't because i always get punished for being upset and it makes me feel this sense of shame afterwards.
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Masak
I was raised in a toxic family. I was not important in my family but everyone expect me to do the chores. I was happy at school but when it was time to go home the feeling of unhappy suffocated me. I was so jealous of my friends because their family seems so happy and they love each other. Meanwhile at my home I always being shamed and guilt tripped. Shame on me because I did not do the chores. Shame on me because I am not smart like everybody else. If my siblings finish eating and they pile their dirty dishes on the sink it was my fault because I did not work hard enough to keep the house clean. If I take a rest and my father came home from work I am a lazy bum who is just a burden to the family. Actually I am amazed how I am still alive and strong nowadays. I thank God because He keep me safe until today. This little unworthy filthy burdensome slave of my family is still alive and having a pretty good life. Amen.
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I was raised in a toxic family. I was not important in my family but everyone expect me to do the chores. I was happy at school but when it was time to go home the feeling of unhappy suffocated me. I was so jealous of my friends because their family seems so happy and they love each other. Meanwhile at my home I always being shamed and guilt tripped. Shame on me because I did not do the chores. Shame on me because I am not smart like everybody else. If my siblings finish eating and they pile their dirty dishes on the sink it was my fault because I did not work hard enough to keep the house clean. If I take a rest and my father came home from work I am a lazy bum who is just a burden to the family. Actually I am amazed how I am still alive and strong nowadays. I thank God because He keep me safe until today. This little unworthy filthy burdensome slave of my family is still alive and having a pretty good life. Amen.
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Marsha
I'm in a toxic situation right now. I have been evicted from apartment and trying to find help. I'm running around with 5 different types autoimmune disease, anxiety. When I did have money everything went well. My daughters and my sister treated so bad and I didn't want to live with her, attitude is stink at times. I'm a helper and love to help who are in people need. My sister air conditionin weren't working and went to my baby sister house. I thought everything was good and the young sister attacks me in her beautiful home, she suck it in. This was planned about my decease mom and my surgery was way back. When I received a call from one of my sister they need a break for about i say okay with the bad knee. My decease mom knew about surgery. My daughters they decease father would be disappointed at them and if I would win the lottery my grandchildren and to those who need it.
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I'm in a toxic situation right now. I have been evicted from apartment and trying to find help. I'm running around with 5 different types autoimmune disease, anxiety. When I did have money everything went well. My daughters and my sister treated so bad and I didn't want to live with her, attitude is stink at times. I'm a helper and love to help who are in people need. My sister air conditionin weren't working and went to my baby sister house. I thought everything was good and the young sister attacks me in her beautiful home, she suck it in. This was planned about my decease mom and my surgery was way back. When I received a call from one of my sister they need a break for about i say okay with the bad knee. My decease mom knew about surgery. My daughters they decease father would be disappointed at them and if I would win the lottery my grandchildren and to those who need it.
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jisau
For me its always been a tug and war match for their own disputes. As the oldest child/son i always get the lashing out and the beating, while my sibling finds it funny and even plotted against me. i develop an extremely bad anger management and other mental issues, there is a point when i couldn't hold it no more they call the police, which the police didn't help they made it worst which ultimately affected my academic scores for University. I felt so betrayed that to me that death is probably the best freedom there is. I eventually moved out was homeless for awhile and haven't spoken to them since, but the long lasting affect's' really messes with the mind and career. Trying to reorder my life i'm in my 30s now, it has been 10 years since i last chatted and meet in contact. but it is what it is.
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For me its always been a tug and war match for their own disputes. As the oldest child/son i always get the lashing out and the beating, while my sibling finds it funny and even plotted against me. i develop an extremely bad anger management and other mental issues, there is a point when i couldn't hold it no more they call the police, which the police didn't help they made it worst which ultimately affected my academic scores for University. I felt so betrayed that to me that death is probably the best freedom there is. I eventually moved out was homeless for awhile and haven't spoken to them since, but the long lasting affect's' really messes with the mind and career. Trying to reorder my life i'm in my 30s now, it has been 10 years since i last chatted and meet in contact. but it is what it is.
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Bluezilla
I got attacked by a dog (it was my aunts) not sure what breed but it looked to be a mix with a German shepherd and something else but anyway I was on a hammock swinging on it and I didnt know he was behind me so I accidentally kicked him and he got mad and grabbed my leg and dragged me off and I fell off and he attacked me and I was only 4-5 at the time and I was completely defenseless I went inside and started crying and my aunt and my sister couldnt care any less if anything they thought it was funny I didnt have any serious injuries like this girl but that still kinda traumatized me I dont talk about to people how much it hurt me mentally because theyll think Im being dramatic or theyll find it funny somehow
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I got attacked by a dog (it was my aunts) not sure what breed but it looked to be a mix with a German shepherd and something else but anyway I was on a hammock swinging on it and I didnt know he was behind me so I accidentally kicked him and he got mad and grabbed my leg and dragged me off and I fell off and he attacked me and I was only 4-5 at the time and I was completely defenseless I went inside and started crying and my aunt and my sister couldnt care any less if anything they thought it was funny I didnt have any serious injuries like this girl but that still kinda traumatized me I dont talk about to people how much it hurt me mentally because theyll think Im being dramatic or theyll find it funny somehow
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noob_
Guys just tell me how can i kill myself i cant take it any more my parents are mean every day or night or min or sec they made me cry i cant i am at 3 am crying trying to find a way to run away from my house they are realy and im serys right now they are the badest parents in the world i walk to school alone they said to my friends dont talk to him and i am the little childe in here but the oldest they take them with car to school but me i walk 10 km to school
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Guys just tell me how can i kill myself i cant take it any more my parents are mean every day or night or min or sec they made me cry i cant i am at 3 am crying trying to find a way to run away from my house they are realy and im serys right now they are the badest parents in the world i walk to school alone they said to my friends dont talk to him and i am the little childe in here but the oldest they take them with car to school but me i walk 10 km to school
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Luna
My mom works two jobs my dad has arthritis and uses marijuana gummies I try my best to keep the house clean do laundry just dishes make the food lately everyone's been using me as excuse though calling me a b saying that I'm acting like a b my mom uses me as leverage for my dad right. Doesn't do anything tired of hearing his aches and pains about everything I'm just tired so very tired I just want to be happy
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My mom works two jobs my dad has arthritis and uses marijuana gummies I try my best to keep the house clean do laundry just dishes make the food lately everyone's been using me as excuse though calling me a b saying that I'm acting like a b my mom uses me as leverage for my dad right. Doesn't do anything tired of hearing his aches and pains about everything I'm just tired so very tired I just want to be happy
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lisaaa
hey. the only thing i want is to get away from my home. if u live in a toxic household, try to find family somewhere else. it is a little easier.
ps: your parent's childhood trauma is no excuse for giving you one too. love you, one day we will be able to move out
ohh and one particular sign of a toxic household: coming home fully happy and the moment you talk to them you feel lonely, sad and unloved
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hey. the only thing i want is to get away from my home. if u live in a toxic household, try to find family somewhere else. it is a little easier.
ps: your parent's childhood trauma is no excuse for giving you one too. love you, one day we will be able to move out
ohh and one particular sign of a toxic household: coming home fully happy and the moment you talk to them you feel lonely, sad and unloved
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Shizuka
I live w my auntie because my parents work far away, Living is here is like hell. i cant move around without them judging. Sometimes they make stories about me and spreading rumors about me, they always frame me too. I cant speak up and defend myself because im scared that my parents will get mad at me. Ive been traumatized by them, I also tried kms because of them. I dont think i can take it anymore.
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I live w my auntie because my parents work far away, Living is here is like hell. i cant move around without them judging. Sometimes they make stories about me and spreading rumors about me, they always frame me too. I cant speak up and defend myself because im scared that my parents will get mad at me. Ive been traumatized by them, I also tried kms because of them. I dont think i can take it anymore.
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Annie
Please help, need advice.
Its just hard because I check a lot of these boxes (yes, I feel constantly misunderstood, unhappy, invisible) but my family really doesnt seem toxic if you just look at their actions. So, is me feeling like shit enough for me to cut them out (because believe me, I definitely want to and have told them multiple times that Im not coming back once I leave for college?
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Please help, need advice.
Its just hard because I check a lot of these boxes (yes, I feel constantly misunderstood, unhappy, invisible) but my family really doesnt seem toxic if you just look at their actions. So, is me feeling like shit enough for me to cut them out (because believe me, I definitely want to and have told them multiple times that Im not coming back once I leave for college?
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sweetbxrry.
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As a kid I never realised how mean and cruel my mother was, so whenever I would tell her something she would think she had the right to tell everyone she knows, and go tell everyone behind my back. Also, it seemed like she was just never proud of me and still won't be. Nowadays, she always asks why I don't talk to her and screams at me all day long.
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VENT:
As a kid I never realised how mean and cruel my mother was, so whenever I would tell her something she would think she had the right to tell everyone she knows, and go tell everyone behind my back. Also, it seemed like she was just never proud of me and still won't be. Nowadays, she always asks why I don't talk to her and screams at me all day long.
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Lighty
after trying to figure out what the hell my family is about and what kind of a manhole of a situation I am in took me my 6 years of teenage years I can proudly say I will cut them off of my life permanently for the rest of the time until my heart stops the second I get my hands on a property of my own to live inside of
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after trying to figure out what the hell my family is about and what kind of a manhole of a situation I am in took me my 6 years of teenage years I can proudly say I will cut them off of my life permanently for the rest of the time until my heart stops the second I get my hands on a property of my own to live inside of
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Betsy
8they tell u they hate u9they withhold medication &or food unless &until u do &or say what they want10they tell u what to say &do11they threaten u &or others12they enjoy hurting u &or others13they brag bout watching u &or others suffer14they tell u &or others theyre better than yall &can do no wrong.
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8they tell u they hate u9they withhold medication &or food unless &until u do &or say what they want10they tell u what to say &do11they threaten u &or others12they enjoy hurting u &or others13they brag bout watching u &or others suffer14they tell u &or others theyre better than yall &can do no wrong.
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PremiumCartoonMan
I feel my parents are toxic to each other. Every time they leave me and my sister home and they go somewhere my mom comes back with black under her eyes and always saying she feels bad while my dad is as happy as ever. I feel like they will divorce soon. What should I do?
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I feel my parents are toxic to each other. Every time they leave me and my sister home and they go somewhere my mom comes back with black under her eyes and always saying she feels bad while my dad is as happy as ever. I feel like they will divorce soon. What should I do?
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Akako
I have anxiety and are insecure of a lot of things about my body. My hair is the only thing that i aftually liked about me but im being forced to cut it off. Some say im being dramatic but without my hair i cant grt out of the house. I feel ugly asf yet they domt even want to listen
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I have anxiety and are insecure of a lot of things about my body. My hair is the only thing that i aftually liked about me but im being forced to cut it off. Some say im being dramatic but without my hair i cant grt out of the house. I feel ugly asf yet they domt even want to listen
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magnum
It's crazy how your own family can turn you into a villain for doing well. This is what they said they wanted you to do and then it's either not enough or the accomplishments are down played. I just wish I knew when they said treat you like family was a bad thing.
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It's crazy how your own family can turn you into a villain for doing well. This is what they said they wanted you to do and then it's either not enough or the accomplishments are down played. I just wish I knew when they said treat you like family was a bad thing.
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Maplejuice
My family wouldn't except me for who I want to be. I am a therian I know I am, but my brother is telling me, YOU'RE NOT AN ANIMAL! and FURRIES AND OTHERS LIKE THAT ARE WEIRD AND CRINGE, YOU'RE NOT ONE. nobody allows me to be myself.
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My family wouldn't except me for who I want to be. I am a therian I know I am, but my brother is telling me, YOU'RE NOT AN ANIMAL! and FURRIES AND OTHERS LIKE THAT ARE WEIRD AND CRINGE, YOU'RE NOT ONE. nobody allows me to be myself.
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S. U. P. E. R
This video made me cry i have always felt like a slave in my family because i always have to get stuff/ make stuff for my family i never wanna be home thats why i always ho to my toxic bffs house just to get away from my family
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This video made me cry i have always felt like a slave in my family because i always have to get stuff/ make stuff for my family i never wanna be home thats why i always ho to my toxic bffs house just to get away from my family
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Carol
We live in a throwaway society. Learn how to communicate instead of discarding family! The powers that be want to divide us. Don't fall for it. Cut out the self pity and grow up and work things out and get help if needed.
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We live in a throwaway society. Learn how to communicate instead of discarding family! The powers that be want to divide us. Don't fall for it. Cut out the self pity and grow up and work things out and get help if needed.
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Vikki
Son: my mothers a humiliating slob a rotten sick disgusting lewd and a father doesnt exist. Black market baby sales pays for my mothers extraterrestrial relationships with the worlds ugliest men.
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Son: my mothers a humiliating slob a rotten sick disgusting lewd and a father doesnt exist. Black market baby sales pays for my mothers extraterrestrial relationships with the worlds ugliest men.
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Lexian
I've adapted to the ways filipino family's raise their child but i think mine is too much I can't explain how much red flag my family show me I'll never be comfortable with my family ever again
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I've adapted to the ways filipino family's raise their child but i think mine is too much I can't explain how much red flag my family show me I'll never be comfortable with my family ever again
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LE3_R0SE
the scene with the boy in the bed and the red squiggles around him is how ive felt for i dont even know how long anymore. that was just an image that really struck me as relatable, for me.
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the scene with the boy in the bed and the red squiggles around him is how ive felt for i dont even know how long anymore. that was just an image that really struck me as relatable, for me.
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Melissa
I've been experiencing this. but I know even though I'll be alone and no one wants to treat me as a family, surely God loves me. God loves us and never leaves us. that's what's important.
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I've been experiencing this. but I know even though I'll be alone and no one wants to treat me as a family, surely God loves me. God loves us and never leaves us. that's what's important.
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Sharon
YepI left and deal with them only when absolutely necessary. Gotta take care of me first. This family is the result of a malignant narcissist mother and father who wasn t plugged in.
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YepI left and deal with them only when absolutely necessary. Gotta take care of me first. This family is the result of a malignant narcissist mother and father who wasn t plugged in.
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iOS
I have my family but they are mad at me and I have a twin sister baby in philippines and I hate my family they think that I'm bad so I don't like my family now my family is so bad
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I have my family but they are mad at me and I have a twin sister baby in philippines and I hate my family they think that I'm bad so I don't like my family now my family is so bad
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