TOP Dating GREEN Flags You Shouldn't Ignore
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Date: 2025-01-11
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CT-3743_DeadEye
Where was this little over a year ago
Little over a year ago I started looking with a girl into the idea of a relationship together. Nearly 4 weeks ago she decided I had waited long enough and didn't want to string me along any further and decided to just make it official and we'd see how it would go. I knew before that decision due to her plans that I wouldn't be able to have any contact with her for the three weeks to come and so we'd talk about what next afterwards. When the time came and I asked when would be the right time to discuss the next step she was quick to come with a day as we had something important to discuss best done in person but due to the distance would probably happen over Discord. The next day she broke up with me because while there was a spark there just wasn't a flame and she just wasn't in the stage of her life where she would even want to consider a relationship yet.
Rather than asking me how long I'd be willing to wait for her she decided on her own not to string me along any longer and just take a step back to being friends. I told her understood but that the effort to maintain our friendship would have to come from her end (rather than 90% from my end as it had been so far. I have yet to notice any effort to that goal and I honestly doubt I will.
Her best friend is a guy from a foreign country and was my rival for her affections. Regardless we started playing games together a few months prior and I told him the whole story as I needed to vent and I felt like he deserved to know the reason why I was no longer going to compete for the affections of our mutual love interest. He was shocked about what I had to say and said we'd have to talk about it all sometime soon so he can share what he had been told and what they had been talking about. The way he said it leads me to believe she might not have been perfectly honest with either of us.
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Where was this little over a year ago
Little over a year ago I started looking with a girl into the idea of a relationship together. Nearly 4 weeks ago she decided I had waited long enough and didn't want to string me along any further and decided to just make it official and we'd see how it would go. I knew before that decision due to her plans that I wouldn't be able to have any contact with her for the three weeks to come and so we'd talk about what next afterwards. When the time came and I asked when would be the right time to discuss the next step she was quick to come with a day as we had something important to discuss best done in person but due to the distance would probably happen over Discord. The next day she broke up with me because while there was a spark there just wasn't a flame and she just wasn't in the stage of her life where she would even want to consider a relationship yet.
Rather than asking me how long I'd be willing to wait for her she decided on her own not to string me along any longer and just take a step back to being friends. I told her understood but that the effort to maintain our friendship would have to come from her end (rather than 90% from my end as it had been so far. I have yet to notice any effort to that goal and I honestly doubt I will.
Her best friend is a guy from a foreign country and was my rival for her affections. Regardless we started playing games together a few months prior and I told him the whole story as I needed to vent and I felt like he deserved to know the reason why I was no longer going to compete for the affections of our mutual love interest. He was shocked about what I had to say and said we'd have to talk about it all sometime soon so he can share what he had been told and what they had been talking about. The way he said it leads me to believe she might not have been perfectly honest with either of us.
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Scugzerker
Guess I'm lucky then. I've known someone for 5 years or so, but since a few months (when we started using voice chat) we've really got to know each other and to both our surprise started to develop feelings for each other. Though because of distance (I live in the Netherlands and she in Denmark) and some of our differences (considering I'm hetero and she's mtf trans) we agreed on not jumping ahead and just go with the flow. When we meet at long last (I want to do that as soon as I got my life back on track which will happen soon) in person we'll first get a sense of how it feels to be together in the real world. If it feels right (and my lizard brain can look past the physical part - cuz lizard brain not always in line with what the rest feels) when we're together we'll officially declare ourselves a couple.
I have high hopes though since just the idea of finally meeting and getting to hug her makes me feel weird. That's the only way I can describe it as emotions are pretty new to me since a few months.
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Guess I'm lucky then. I've known someone for 5 years or so, but since a few months (when we started using voice chat) we've really got to know each other and to both our surprise started to develop feelings for each other. Though because of distance (I live in the Netherlands and she in Denmark) and some of our differences (considering I'm hetero and she's mtf trans) we agreed on not jumping ahead and just go with the flow. When we meet at long last (I want to do that as soon as I got my life back on track which will happen soon) in person we'll first get a sense of how it feels to be together in the real world. If it feels right (and my lizard brain can look past the physical part - cuz lizard brain not always in line with what the rest feels) when we're together we'll officially declare ourselves a couple.
I have high hopes though since just the idea of finally meeting and getting to hug her makes me feel weird. That's the only way I can describe it as emotions are pretty new to me since a few months.
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AngelPlayz_II
I met a friend about a month ago, but we've started hanging out more in the past week, gaming together practically daily.
I always ask her what she wants to do or play, but 2 days ago, when I asked her what she wanted (to play, she suddenly opened up and said she wanted a relationship because it felt aggravating to be single while seemingly everyone else wasn't.
I know the feeling, and I can't blame her, so we talked for a while til she felt better. I couldn't help but think that the timing for opening up about that was really weird, like maybe she was hinting at something. Then again, I don't wanna read too much into this, so maybe someone else in this comment section can give me an idea.
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I met a friend about a month ago, but we've started hanging out more in the past week, gaming together practically daily.
I always ask her what she wants to do or play, but 2 days ago, when I asked her what she wanted (to play, she suddenly opened up and said she wanted a relationship because it felt aggravating to be single while seemingly everyone else wasn't.
I know the feeling, and I can't blame her, so we talked for a while til she felt better. I couldn't help but think that the timing for opening up about that was really weird, like maybe she was hinting at something. Then again, I don't wanna read too much into this, so maybe someone else in this comment section can give me an idea.
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Lakshaygamer742
i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everythingconfidence boosters, social tips, you name itbut nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
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i remember this one time i felt like no matter what i did, people just didn’t notice me. i tried everythingconfidence boosters, social tips, you name itbut nothing seemed to work. then i found this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted how i saw myself. it’s not just about being noticed; it’s about understanding the energy you project. honestly, this book made all the difference for me. if you’ve ever felt invisible, you need to read it.
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Karan-gt3lq
i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
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i remember feeling like i was always the one fading into the background while others stood out effortlessly. it was frustrating and made me doubt myself a lot. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it showed me things i’d never even considered. it’s not just a self-help book; it’s like a guide to understanding your own energy and using it to connect with people. if you’ve ever felt like you’re not seen, this book might change everything.
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mitleshprasad8254
there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was justthere. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.
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there was a time when i kept wondering why some people seemed to naturally draw others in while i was justthere. no matter what i tried, i couldn’t figure out how they did it. then someone mentioned the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and i decided to check it out. the way it explains how your aura affects everything around you it blew me away. it’s like having a secret code to unlock your magnetic energy. this book is a game-changer.
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Chris_S96
I feel like this generation is a joke, when it comes to dating/being in relationships. Everybody's in it only for the hookups, and people just dont know how to cut a toxic partner out of their lives. There's also alot of people who are immature about the concept of dating. I stopped dating awhile back, and i feel more peaceful and happier being single. The concept of dating was way better back then, since there were no phones or social media
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I feel like this generation is a joke, when it comes to dating/being in relationships. Everybody's in it only for the hookups, and people just dont know how to cut a toxic partner out of their lives. There's also alot of people who are immature about the concept of dating. I stopped dating awhile back, and i feel more peaceful and happier being single. The concept of dating was way better back then, since there were no phones or social media
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HarishPaliwal-d9s
one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
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one night i was scrolling through my phone, feeling like i’d never figure out why some people just seem so magnetic. then i came across this book, Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and something about it caught my attention. reading it was like turning on a light in a dark room. it’s not about pretending to be someone you’re not; it’s about unlocking the energy you already have. trust me, this book is worth every page
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psych2go
i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
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i used to think being magnetic was just about looks or confidence, but i couldn’t have been more wrong. i read this book called Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it totally changed my perspective. it breaks down the energy and mindset behind true attraction in a way that just makes sense. once i started applying what it taught, i noticed people reacting to me differently almost instantly. it’s seriously worth a read.
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MusenSusen
One tip I Think is also essential is somerimes your introducing comment. Like is this person really interested in What you do in your everyday besides their looks You might not even have any fine clothes at all. So just be true to yourself. Trust your believings about What you really love about life.
P. S: I haven’t been on a date before. So this is just coming from the heart, .
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One tip I Think is also essential is somerimes your introducing comment. Like is this person really interested in What you do in your everyday besides their looks You might not even have any fine clothes at all. So just be true to yourself. Trust your believings about What you really love about life.
P. S: I haven’t been on a date before. So this is just coming from the heart, .
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psych2go
I've been free of toxic relationships for three weeks now. I don't remember him telling me the exact time of our meeting. Every time, I waited for him to wake up, do all the housework, and text me if he was ready to go on a date or not. He could change his plans without informing me. I only got a direct answer if I asked about the plans myself. It was draining me.
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I've been free of toxic relationships for three weeks now. I don't remember him telling me the exact time of our meeting. Every time, I waited for him to wake up, do all the housework, and text me if he was ready to go on a date or not. He could change his plans without informing me. I only got a direct answer if I asked about the plans myself. It was draining me.
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BigYankeeBlue
Lol. she was persistent in asking me what wanted do at Hershey Park. Usually I just say whatever is fine and i genuailly mean that. My date didnt give up. she must of asked me at least a dozen times what i wanted to do that day and it actually had me thinking. lolol, but i did eventually pick a few things and we both had a blast with each others company. :)
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Lol. she was persistent in asking me what wanted do at Hershey Park. Usually I just say whatever is fine and i genuailly mean that. My date didnt give up. she must of asked me at least a dozen times what i wanted to do that day and it actually had me thinking. lolol, but i did eventually pick a few things and we both had a blast with each others company. :)
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lalilola3770
Yeah, distance between you really can make or break a letionship. I met this girl, she is really great and maybe even perfect for me, but she lives like 450km away from me and there is no airport in her city so a train is the only option. Just getting to het takes almost a day and with all the work I hardly find anytime just even to meet her.
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Yeah, distance between you really can make or break a letionship. I met this girl, she is really great and maybe even perfect for me, but she lives like 450km away from me and there is no airport in her city so a train is the only option. Just getting to het takes almost a day and with all the work I hardly find anytime just even to meet her.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Mutual attraction 0: 56
2. Availablity 1: 34
3. Clear intentions 2: 13
4. Genuine interest 2: 52
5. Consideration and kindness 3: 19
6. Authenticity 3: 58
7. Positive alignment 4: 27
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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Timestamps
1. Mutual attraction 0: 56
2. Availablity 1: 34
3. Clear intentions 2: 13
4. Genuine interest 2: 52
5. Consideration and kindness 3: 19
6. Authenticity 3: 58
7. Positive alignment 4: 27
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late.
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fior211
this woman miss psychology is mentally insane she is doing a plot with a group of insects the mantis types that is how she seems to be she watches and selling chemicals to people to distract them from living and they the hypocrites to design love but their pleasure be the sands
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this woman miss psychology is mentally insane she is doing a plot with a group of insects the mantis types that is how she seems to be she watches and selling chemicals to people to distract them from living and they the hypocrites to design love but their pleasure be the sands
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ruby38281
My crush gives such mixed signals, online if we text he barely keeps the conversation going and doesn't text first but in person he'll keep the convo going, sometimes initiate conversation and he always puts his phone away when talking to me
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My crush gives such mixed signals, online if we text he barely keeps the conversation going and doesn't text first but in person he'll keep the convo going, sometimes initiate conversation and he always puts his phone away when talking to me
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achd73
the elf types the taller white beings they bring false bargains they imprisoned by the LORD in the pleiades for what they did before the flood that chandelier it fools people to what time it is but their stars will shatter to twilight
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the elf types the taller white beings they bring false bargains they imprisoned by the LORD in the pleiades for what they did before the flood that chandelier it fools people to what time it is but their stars will shatter to twilight
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poochfazos1
Being a male in this day and age is honestly so unfair. I swear I'm going to get rich and f die a virgin still. I'm not even a virgin but I'm going to call myself one since my ex did when I lost it to her. That's fair right
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Being a male in this day and age is honestly so unfair. I swear I'm going to get rich and f die a virgin still. I'm not even a virgin but I'm going to call myself one since my ex did when I lost it to her. That's fair right
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clqudy4750
Don't bother. Even if all the green flags are there, it's not gonna work. She's gonna cheat, there'll be arguments, and you're gonna break up. The problem is people. Humans suck. Get a body pillow and just love yourself.
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Don't bother. Even if all the green flags are there, it's not gonna work. She's gonna cheat, there'll be arguments, and you're gonna break up. The problem is people. Humans suck. Get a body pillow and just love yourself.
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zenoixx_
1. Mutual attraction 0: 57
2. Availability 1: 35
3. Clear intentions 2: 14
4. Genuine interest 2: 53
5. Consideration and kindness 3: 20
6. Authenticity 3: 59
7. Positive alignment 4: 28
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1. Mutual attraction 0: 57
2. Availability 1: 35
3. Clear intentions 2: 14
4. Genuine interest 2: 53
5. Consideration and kindness 3: 20
6. Authenticity 3: 59
7. Positive alignment 4: 28
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