OUR BIRTH STORY -Raw & Real- (Natural Delivery & Unmedicated) - Baby Jake & Nicolle - Ep. 150
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Date: 2022-06-23
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Kurt
Our first child was one month premature in 1972. She also was carted off to the NICU. In the NICU, she began turning yellow and over the next couple days, her bilirubin jumped all the way to 25 and she had to have a whole body blood transfusion. She remained in the hospital as we went home only to see her for a little while each day for two weeks. I can feel the pain even 50 years later when I think about it. I failed a chemistry class as we were both in college at the time. I fortunate to have a carrying professor who changed my course to pass fail and passed me and told me to concentrate on taking care of my wife and baby. Looking back, I am grateful that our baby was in the care of the hospital despite the pain. I could not imagine anything more painful that had we taken her home and lost her. This same child is now a physician and on the other side of the situation. If we did not have ambulance chasing lawyers who find any excuse to sue doctors, maybe we could get more flexibility in their procedures. I was early in the process of a father in the delivery room only because we were in a university hospital. The doctor did tell me that he wanted an assistant to my wife, not a participant in the birth. For us, having a healthy baby (after the NICU two week stay) was worth the personal anguish that we felt at the time. We have made up those lost moments over the years with our daughter, her three children and two years ago, our first grandbaby boy.
Before all of the trauma, I asked one of the nurses why every nurse didn't want to be on the maternity ward. She told me that that ward isn't always a happy place. Sometimes it is the saddest place.
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Our first child was one month premature in 1972. She also was carted off to the NICU. In the NICU, she began turning yellow and over the next couple days, her bilirubin jumped all the way to 25 and she had to have a whole body blood transfusion. She remained in the hospital as we went home only to see her for a little while each day for two weeks. I can feel the pain even 50 years later when I think about it. I failed a chemistry class as we were both in college at the time. I fortunate to have a carrying professor who changed my course to pass fail and passed me and told me to concentrate on taking care of my wife and baby. Looking back, I am grateful that our baby was in the care of the hospital despite the pain. I could not imagine anything more painful that had we taken her home and lost her. This same child is now a physician and on the other side of the situation. If we did not have ambulance chasing lawyers who find any excuse to sue doctors, maybe we could get more flexibility in their procedures. I was early in the process of a father in the delivery room only because we were in a university hospital. The doctor did tell me that he wanted an assistant to my wife, not a participant in the birth. For us, having a healthy baby (after the NICU two week stay) was worth the personal anguish that we felt at the time. We have made up those lost moments over the years with our daughter, her three children and two years ago, our first grandbaby boy.
Before all of the trauma, I asked one of the nurses why every nurse didn't want to be on the maternity ward. She told me that that ward isn't always a happy place. Sometimes it is the saddest place.
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Franca
HELLO PEOPLE! I'm Franca and I'm new here. I love what you guys do. I am from Argentina and we also live off the grid. we have a bus-house, solar energy and water from the earth. and I can feel everything you feel. We have an 8 year old girl and our experience in the hospital was not pleasant either. Very good information about NEO that I didn't know, but I had thought about it. and my question is. how can the system have so much control over us? -
we are slaves and we don't realize that. but. the thing is. we win in numbers. we are more awake than asleep. now we can see all this dark system that we agreed to sell us before we knew it. . so I think the key is the community. if we can't set limits they won't put them, the community has to say enough is enough. otherwise they will not stop. I think we have to get together and start saying NO and support each other. -
I'm doing the same as you. Off-Grid. But at some point we need support. -
I don't know, we need off-grid, but if we don't get together off-grid too, one day they'll come and say you have to do this and that, and I'll take that. -
The system is not going to improve on its own. And if we hide in the middle of the mountain, they will also want that mountain and you in it. so we have to start getting informed. learn laws. Constitution. natural law. I don't know. something. or create a force of light that can put a stop to this nefarious system that they built and forced us to belong to-
with the excuse of health they can rule the world. -
without the excuse of health is tyranny
covvv you are a lie
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HELLO PEOPLE! I'm Franca and I'm new here. I love what you guys do. I am from Argentina and we also live off the grid. we have a bus-house, solar energy and water from the earth. and I can feel everything you feel. We have an 8 year old girl and our experience in the hospital was not pleasant either. Very good information about NEO that I didn't know, but I had thought about it. and my question is. how can the system have so much control over us? -
we are slaves and we don't realize that. but. the thing is. we win in numbers. we are more awake than asleep. now we can see all this dark system that we agreed to sell us before we knew it. . so I think the key is the community. if we can't set limits they won't put them, the community has to say enough is enough. otherwise they will not stop. I think we have to get together and start saying NO and support each other. -
I'm doing the same as you. Off-Grid. But at some point we need support. -
I don't know, we need off-grid, but if we don't get together off-grid too, one day they'll come and say you have to do this and that, and I'll take that. -
The system is not going to improve on its own. And if we hide in the middle of the mountain, they will also want that mountain and you in it. so we have to start getting informed. learn laws. Constitution. natural law. I don't know. something. or create a force of light that can put a stop to this nefarious system that they built and forced us to belong to-
with the excuse of health they can rule the world. -
without the excuse of health is tyranny
covvv you are a lie
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Mark
Congratulations on the birth of your healthy baby boy. I have followed your story since the beginning of your property in the forest. No plan survives the first shots. This is a reference to military operations. Life hardly ever permits a perfect plan. I can remember when you first announced that Nicole was pregnant, and I remember thinking about how much your life was going to change. I'm glad that you didn't do this in the forest. A first birth is a total unknown for new parents, and it is a steep learning curve.
Your child was born in the middle of a pandemic situation that has killed millions of people. This is not a -normal situation-. It's unfortunate the cards delt required you to make decisions that ended with both a healthy baby and mother! With three children, no birth is the same.
In the end, its the -OUTCOME-
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Congratulations on the birth of your healthy baby boy. I have followed your story since the beginning of your property in the forest. No plan survives the first shots. This is a reference to military operations. Life hardly ever permits a perfect plan. I can remember when you first announced that Nicole was pregnant, and I remember thinking about how much your life was going to change. I'm glad that you didn't do this in the forest. A first birth is a total unknown for new parents, and it is a steep learning curve.
Your child was born in the middle of a pandemic situation that has killed millions of people. This is not a -normal situation-. It's unfortunate the cards delt required you to make decisions that ended with both a healthy baby and mother! With three children, no birth is the same.
In the end, its the -OUTCOME-
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Todd
Jake, you are exactly right about the business aspect. Hospitals are nearly all Corporate. Hospitals profit from the sale of afterbirth, they see you as a number, and all the workers are educated and required to buy that the narrative they-re taught is right. Look at the donors for Medical training institutions; insurance, pharmaceutical related businesses, medical machinery businesses, and even the consumable businesses, all massive corporations. I-m 58 and been warning people of the manipulators behind all of this since college began for me. If you-re self sufficient then you are their enemy. Look what-s happened to small independent businesses, even the web business is to create dependency on non local supply. You are not crazy. You three got it going on.
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Jake, you are exactly right about the business aspect. Hospitals are nearly all Corporate. Hospitals profit from the sale of afterbirth, they see you as a number, and all the workers are educated and required to buy that the narrative they-re taught is right. Look at the donors for Medical training institutions; insurance, pharmaceutical related businesses, medical machinery businesses, and even the consumable businesses, all massive corporations. I-m 58 and been warning people of the manipulators behind all of this since college began for me. If you-re self sufficient then you are their enemy. Look what-s happened to small independent businesses, even the web business is to create dependency on non local supply. You are not crazy. You three got it going on.
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Cutlass
Thanx Jake, You helped me relive a similar and most traumatic experience that my wife and I went through. Fighting through a birthing system that prioritises 'cases' over life and love (and logic and reasonableness), actually made me a better and more knowledgable man. Years later, I look at my beautiful boy in the morning and thank god that we had the strength to do what was right under such overbearing and cruel pressure from what seemed like a compassionless system. I'm grateful everyday that there were individuals inside that system that went out on a limb to do what was right. Smile, fill your life with the joy that your boy is here. Blessings, Thank You.
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Thanx Jake, You helped me relive a similar and most traumatic experience that my wife and I went through. Fighting through a birthing system that prioritises 'cases' over life and love (and logic and reasonableness), actually made me a better and more knowledgable man. Years later, I look at my beautiful boy in the morning and thank god that we had the strength to do what was right under such overbearing and cruel pressure from what seemed like a compassionless system. I'm grateful everyday that there were individuals inside that system that went out on a limb to do what was right. Smile, fill your life with the joy that your boy is here. Blessings, Thank You.
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Sage
obviously the hospitals want to keep you in good health but then there is also the aspect of if anything happens to you while in their hospital or if they do something wrong while you are there they can be held liable so doctors are taught to do things one way and not deviate. it is really sad that they take babies away from mothers so early on. and 100% on the money with the nic-u 30% looking after the babies health 70% profit to the hospital. I would love to know what hospital it was. because it all sounds extreamly scetchy I can only imagine how many hospitals do this and take advantage of new parents. And Congratulations on a very beautiful baby: )
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obviously the hospitals want to keep you in good health but then there is also the aspect of if anything happens to you while in their hospital or if they do something wrong while you are there they can be held liable so doctors are taught to do things one way and not deviate. it is really sad that they take babies away from mothers so early on. and 100% on the money with the nic-u 30% looking after the babies health 70% profit to the hospital. I would love to know what hospital it was. because it all sounds extreamly scetchy I can only imagine how many hospitals do this and take advantage of new parents. And Congratulations on a very beautiful baby: )
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Netters
It-s crazy I-m 34 weeks, my last baby was 14 years ago and this time round the delayed cord clamping is actually done here now as normal. I first heard about it in a vlog then again when my midwife told me a few weeks ago.
I first baby was taking from me too, I know how it feels, that first night after months of being connected to be separated was so sad, then leaving her and going home. 14 years on she has a rare chromosome disorder but lives a great life and looking forward to hopefully having a normal birth this time and bring home my baby. Congrats he is beautiful.
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It-s crazy I-m 34 weeks, my last baby was 14 years ago and this time round the delayed cord clamping is actually done here now as normal. I first heard about it in a vlog then again when my midwife told me a few weeks ago.
I first baby was taking from me too, I know how it feels, that first night after months of being connected to be separated was so sad, then leaving her and going home. 14 years on she has a rare chromosome disorder but lives a great life and looking forward to hopefully having a normal birth this time and bring home my baby. Congrats he is beautiful.
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Siobhan
I am so so so glad you have shared this very painful story with the world. The joy is all yours because it has ended well with your cute baby. However what you shared regarding hospitals taking control for whatever reasons they have, it needs to stop. We all need to stop this power cutting into families and making family less. Our son experienced something similar too b it was just plain wrong! It takes time to get through the trauma but you will get through it and who knows-. This may help towards unravelling the schemes to make money off vulnerable people!
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I am so so so glad you have shared this very painful story with the world. The joy is all yours because it has ended well with your cute baby. However what you shared regarding hospitals taking control for whatever reasons they have, it needs to stop. We all need to stop this power cutting into families and making family less. Our son experienced something similar too b it was just plain wrong! It takes time to get through the trauma but you will get through it and who knows-. This may help towards unravelling the schemes to make money off vulnerable people!
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