He didn't want me - so i became the girl he couldn't have - brand new me
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Regina
Such a good statement
-I realized that it was not about him, it was about me- you have to be willing to keep doing it for yourself. Love yourself more than him. I'm proud of her. Wish I could get that motivated myself. I was 160 in June of last year. We were blessed with a surprise set of twin boys that were born preemie and during the pandemic. They are my heart nephews but we were asked to take them in from birth, which we gladly did. I started going to the NICU and eating on the run. After they came home, I couldn't take them out because their immune system was so weak. I didn't have time to cook healthy meals and takeout became our new thing. I started drinking alot of caffeine to help with the sleepless nights. Needless to say, I gained so much weight. I'm now 190 lbs so I've gained 30 lbs in just 9 months! At 48 years old, with twin boys that's not going to be easy to lose. I want to try for them, for myself but can't seem to get motivated enough to do it.
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Such a good statement
-I realized that it was not about him, it was about me- you have to be willing to keep doing it for yourself. Love yourself more than him. I'm proud of her. Wish I could get that motivated myself. I was 160 in June of last year. We were blessed with a surprise set of twin boys that were born preemie and during the pandemic. They are my heart nephews but we were asked to take them in from birth, which we gladly did. I started going to the NICU and eating on the run. After they came home, I couldn't take them out because their immune system was so weak. I didn't have time to cook healthy meals and takeout became our new thing. I started drinking alot of caffeine to help with the sleepless nights. Needless to say, I gained so much weight. I'm now 190 lbs so I've gained 30 lbs in just 9 months! At 48 years old, with twin boys that's not going to be easy to lose. I want to try for them, for myself but can't seem to get motivated enough to do it.
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Walking
You know what I don't like about this video? I love that you lost weight, I love that you have confidence now, and I think ur exe leaving u was the best thing to happen, but. Why even bother mentioning him in the first place? I have an issue with people being unable to accept the judgments and decisions of others out of their inconvenience, ur exe left u because yeah, you weren't what he wanted and he had every right to do so, and ur basically demonizing him for it. People gotta stop doing that, I mean, pfft, be better for urself, not because ur exe left u. Everybody is human, and I don't like for people to get kick shamed for wanting to pursue what they consider better.
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You know what I don't like about this video? I love that you lost weight, I love that you have confidence now, and I think ur exe leaving u was the best thing to happen, but. Why even bother mentioning him in the first place? I have an issue with people being unable to accept the judgments and decisions of others out of their inconvenience, ur exe left u because yeah, you weren't what he wanted and he had every right to do so, and ur basically demonizing him for it. People gotta stop doing that, I mean, pfft, be better for urself, not because ur exe left u. Everybody is human, and I don't like for people to get kick shamed for wanting to pursue what they consider better.
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Me
Girl you should be thanking him that he left you. If he was still with you then you wouldn-t thought of changing yourself anyway. Sometimes people only change to better themselves after they-ve lost something.
I left my ex because he was a dirty, lazy guy. Guess what? After I left him he would do anything to better himself, though that doesn-t mean I want him back. He would never changed his bad habits until he have had lost me anyway
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Girl you should be thanking him that he left you. If he was still with you then you wouldn-t thought of changing yourself anyway. Sometimes people only change to better themselves after they-ve lost something.
I left my ex because he was a dirty, lazy guy. Guess what? After I left him he would do anything to better himself, though that doesn-t mean I want him back. He would never changed his bad habits until he have had lost me anyway
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Lily
He may want you now because you have the body type he is attracted to, but I doubt that he would have gotten the girlfriend he wanted after leaving you. Now you can attract better looking guys while he is still obsessing over a girl like you. He is yearning for someone whom he can-t have unless he loses weight himself. He has a case of unrealistic expectations. It has nothing to do with you.
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He may want you now because you have the body type he is attracted to, but I doubt that he would have gotten the girlfriend he wanted after leaving you. Now you can attract better looking guys while he is still obsessing over a girl like you. He is yearning for someone whom he can-t have unless he loses weight himself. He has a case of unrealistic expectations. It has nothing to do with you.
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Christine
Don't have surgery! Try intermittent fasting for autophagy benefits. Keep working out to help your muscle re-attach to the skin. Autophagy will encourage your metabolism to use the extra skin for energy. Your body will recognize it no longer needs that skin and will break it down. It will take time, like a scar that fades over time.
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Don't have surgery! Try intermittent fasting for autophagy benefits. Keep working out to help your muscle re-attach to the skin. Autophagy will encourage your metabolism to use the extra skin for energy. Your body will recognize it no longer needs that skin and will break it down. It will take time, like a scar that fades over time.
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Grace
Good for you, but why didn't he get fit with you? How come you got hot and he stayed so unhealthy? His loss girl. I think if you keep weight lifting your thighs should tighten up, double check with your Dr. Or give yourself another 12 month's and see how much more your skin changes.
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Good for you, but why didn't he get fit with you? How come you got hot and he stayed so unhealthy? His loss girl. I think if you keep weight lifting your thighs should tighten up, double check with your Dr. Or give yourself another 12 month's and see how much more your skin changes.
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Debra
You're beautiful inside and out doesn't matter how you look honey matters how you look inside or your beautiful inside you look like you're beautiful woman Inside to keep up that beautiful good work you're doing cuz your body looks beautiful
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You're beautiful inside and out doesn't matter how you look honey matters how you look inside or your beautiful inside you look like you're beautiful woman Inside to keep up that beautiful good work you're doing cuz your body looks beautiful
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New
Interesting, how - these videos reveal that an ex or a stranger plays a huge part at why ppl lose the weight. Yet, crickets on the reality that the real heros are the ones who first didn't hide the truth! Yet, they're vilified.
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Interesting, how - these videos reveal that an ex or a stranger plays a huge part at why ppl lose the weight. Yet, crickets on the reality that the real heros are the ones who first didn't hide the truth! Yet, they're vilified.
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Carol
Josie looks like her skin is very good but I guess she wants her skin tightened. She is so attractive and so nice which is more important. I wish we had an idea of what her ex would think if he saw her now.
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Josie looks like her skin is very good but I guess she wants her skin tightened. She is so attractive and so nice which is more important. I wish we had an idea of what her ex would think if he saw her now.
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Sam
So she's thanking him in forcing her taking a decision for her health and beauty she didn't do before being dumped. She should be very grateful for pushing her commitment in changing her life for the better!
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So she's thanking him in forcing her taking a decision for her health and beauty she didn't do before being dumped. She should be very grateful for pushing her commitment in changing her life for the better!
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Redneck
My sister had surgery for loose skin. It was a slow recovery but she liked the result. She finally decided to have it because she said getting into a swimsuit was like tucking in bread dough.
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My sister had surgery for loose skin. It was a slow recovery but she liked the result. She finally decided to have it because she said getting into a swimsuit was like tucking in bread dough.
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Saul
It is okay! Is it so okay! It is normal!
The amount of WORK she put into her body is INCREDIBLE. Effort, work, and more hard work. And it paid off. She looks so healthy and so happy.
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It is okay! Is it so okay! It is normal!
The amount of WORK she put into her body is INCREDIBLE. Effort, work, and more hard work. And it paid off. She looks so healthy and so happy.
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Romek
Judging by the end result the guy who dumped her did the very best thing for her. Had he stayed she would still look like a whale instead of becoming the good-looking woman she is now.
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Judging by the end result the guy who dumped her did the very best thing for her. Had he stayed she would still look like a whale instead of becoming the good-looking woman she is now.
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Sunny
Dont change urself when someone quit on u. Change urself so that u cn see a different person in the mirror whom u can b proud of. Dont wait for a broken relationship to change urself.
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Dont change urself when someone quit on u. Change urself so that u cn see a different person in the mirror whom u can b proud of. Dont wait for a broken relationship to change urself.
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Blue
I feel like I need more information. Why did they break up? What types of food was your nutrition? What types of food did you cut off? What was his reaction when he saw you skinny?
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I feel like I need more information. Why did they break up? What types of food was your nutrition? What types of food did you cut off? What was his reaction when he saw you skinny?
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Messr_M
So why not do that before he left? Just a hurt person that turned to the gym instead of food. Either way she just doing what should've been done initially.
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So why not do that before he left? Just a hurt person that turned to the gym instead of food. Either way she just doing what should've been done initially.
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Blue
what is this obsession with wearing bikinis? I am slim but have never worn a bikini. who said all women should wear bikinis? This is modern time's sickness.
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what is this obsession with wearing bikinis? I am slim but have never worn a bikini. who said all women should wear bikinis? This is modern time's sickness.
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fina
Wow! Gorgeous! You already beautiful both before and after you loose weight. Be yourself, don't listen what people think about you. ------
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Wow! Gorgeous! You already beautiful both before and after you loose weight. Be yourself, don't listen what people think about you. ------
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ShellCyan
The problem with double standards.
Why is it ok to put others down because of their weight when you have a weight problem too?
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The problem with double standards.
Why is it ok to put others down because of their weight when you have a weight problem too?
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Love&Peace
My ex upgrade me to someone he found on line 30 years younger. Good luck I hold no grudges and am sooo happy I got shot of him.
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My ex upgrade me to someone he found on line 30 years younger. Good luck I hold no grudges and am sooo happy I got shot of him.
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Silita
That's it girl you got this beautiful you are beautiful no matter what cos God made you beautiful much respect from Australia
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That's it girl you got this beautiful you are beautiful no matter what cos God made you beautiful much respect from Australia
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Mya
He left her because he thought he could do better- you know, being a man and all. But now she can will do better. That-s funny -
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He left her because he thought he could do better- you know, being a man and all. But now she can will do better. That-s funny -
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Lisa
I think she looks amazing and her skin issue is not bad at all. But the Best part is that she realized she did it for herself.
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I think she looks amazing and her skin issue is not bad at all. But the Best part is that she realized she did it for herself.
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Teresa
If it-s not about him; it-s about you? -. then why the title of this video. You did yourself a disservice with this title.
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If it-s not about him; it-s about you? -. then why the title of this video. You did yourself a disservice with this title.
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maria
Lady's never ever make shanges for any body, make then for your own self we deserve pampered, and you look fabulous.
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Lady's never ever make shanges for any body, make then for your own self we deserve pampered, and you look fabulous.
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Let-s
If he would have stayed with her she would not be the person she became, so he did her a favor -by leaving her -
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If he would have stayed with her she would not be the person she became, so he did her a favor -by leaving her -
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The
I kept waiting for her to throw those kettlebells into the glass door. Because it-s something clumsy me would do.
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I kept waiting for her to throw those kettlebells into the glass door. Because it-s something clumsy me would do.
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Poulomi
The lose skin isnt even that obvious. Gain just a few more pounds and maintain it, and you are good to go.
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The lose skin isnt even that obvious. Gain just a few more pounds and maintain it, and you are good to go.
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