Tonight we're hosting our first swingers' party - love don't judge
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Date: 2023-09-12
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MG
I have the impression that the swinger lifestyle and the interest in polyamourous relationships are primarily Shawn's choices and that out of fear of abandonment, Lana just tolerates his choices. They don't seem to be genuine and intrinsic choices made by herself, but ones that Shawn gaslighted and manipulated her into.
With Shawn repeating multiple times that Lana had been jealous in the past, without anyone asking him questions related to this - he seems to feel the need to defend himself, to justify his personal preferences and to position Lana with her alleged jealousy as the scapegoat. He seems to shift all responsibility and accountability on to her.
I'm supportive of people who are genuinely satisfied whatever their personal preferences are, irrespective of whether I can personally identify with their these or not. Everyone is responsible and accountable for their choices. I personally know people in polyamourous relationships and some with a swinger lifestyle. That's not it.
It's just that based on her facial expressions and gestures, Lana displays discomfort and a feeling of my being down and that she's not genuinely and intrinsically satisfied with the lifestyle.
Dear Lana, please look into yourself and ask yourself if you're genuinely happy. If you're not, please leave this partner and heal for yourself. You're worthy of love without needing to do things you don't like.
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I have the impression that the swinger lifestyle and the interest in polyamourous relationships are primarily Shawn's choices and that out of fear of abandonment, Lana just tolerates his choices. They don't seem to be genuine and intrinsic choices made by herself, but ones that Shawn gaslighted and manipulated her into.
With Shawn repeating multiple times that Lana had been jealous in the past, without anyone asking him questions related to this - he seems to feel the need to defend himself, to justify his personal preferences and to position Lana with her alleged jealousy as the scapegoat. He seems to shift all responsibility and accountability on to her.
I'm supportive of people who are genuinely satisfied whatever their personal preferences are, irrespective of whether I can personally identify with their these or not. Everyone is responsible and accountable for their choices. I personally know people in polyamourous relationships and some with a swinger lifestyle. That's not it.
It's just that based on her facial expressions and gestures, Lana displays discomfort and a feeling of my being down and that she's not genuinely and intrinsically satisfied with the lifestyle.
Dear Lana, please look into yourself and ask yourself if you're genuinely happy. If you're not, please leave this partner and heal for yourself. You're worthy of love without needing to do things you don't like.
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iman
Your mother said that you have to love me in her dream. O kingdom of God. you are an angel with beautiful eyes looking holy. By my god, who sends rain water. God says to give all plants, seeds and fruits as your food. Then have children and grandchildren and multiply. taken from the rib of the prophet Adam and, Eve, said this man, bone of my bone, and flesh of my flesh. so she is called a woman. As for the animals on the earth, in the air and in the sea, all green plants are their food. But your mother doesn't know me
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Your mother said that you have to love me in her dream. O kingdom of God. you are an angel with beautiful eyes looking holy. By my god, who sends rain water. God says to give all plants, seeds and fruits as your food. Then have children and grandchildren and multiply. taken from the rib of the prophet Adam and, Eve, said this man, bone of my bone, and flesh of my flesh. so she is called a woman. As for the animals on the earth, in the air and in the sea, all green plants are their food. But your mother doesn't know me
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Ellie
Why is no one talking about the fact that he waited until she was in love with him and moved in with him. To all the sudden say he-s into this stuff? He said she was very traditional from the start so he had to ease her into it. Nah bro that-s just plain manipulation. And the fact he made her watch the first time just to break her confidence. This man is abusive. Maybe not physically yet. But 1000% emotionally. You can tell how hurt she is by this too.
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Why is no one talking about the fact that he waited until she was in love with him and moved in with him. To all the sudden say he-s into this stuff? He said she was very traditional from the start so he had to ease her into it. Nah bro that-s just plain manipulation. And the fact he made her watch the first time just to break her confidence. This man is abusive. Maybe not physically yet. But 1000% emotionally. You can tell how hurt she is by this too.
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winter
no judgment to them. I completely understood how Ricky feels/thinks about the whole process. For me, it would be extremely difficult to see someone I love and care about just do things with another person. I also feel like polyamorous relationships are becoming very popular these days. I don-t agree with it at all, but people live their lives how they want to and that-s all that matters.
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no judgment to them. I completely understood how Ricky feels/thinks about the whole process. For me, it would be extremely difficult to see someone I love and care about just do things with another person. I also feel like polyamorous relationships are becoming very popular these days. I don-t agree with it at all, but people live their lives how they want to and that-s all that matters.
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Kim
This poor girl is Jealous as HELL but afraid to Express it bc shes in love with this -man- and is totally abandoning her own emotions for this person. I think this is a perfect educational video for people to NOT attempt this lifestyle. No hate, to each their own but this is not a good example of a positive open relationship IMO
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This poor girl is Jealous as HELL but afraid to Express it bc shes in love with this -man- and is totally abandoning her own emotions for this person. I think this is a perfect educational video for people to NOT attempt this lifestyle. No hate, to each their own but this is not a good example of a positive open relationship IMO
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asha_.
This isn-t a healthy. Why? Why do people have to do this? What happened to just settling down? They do realise soon this -experimenting- period in their life is gonna end. Unless they expect this to happen forever then that-s just sick. But whatever if they wanna live their life with 0 self respect then so be it
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This isn-t a healthy. Why? Why do people have to do this? What happened to just settling down? They do realise soon this -experimenting- period in their life is gonna end. Unless they expect this to happen forever then that-s just sick. But whatever if they wanna live their life with 0 self respect then so be it
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Ari
-Love don-t judge-, haha. That has nothing to do with love. To love someone, there are some things you have to have before you say that's love. Love must bring good things, only being good for the other person and causing no harm in any way; otherwise, it's not love. The title must be: 'Swing and Don't Judge-
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-Love don-t judge-, haha. That has nothing to do with love. To love someone, there are some things you have to have before you say that's love. Love must bring good things, only being good for the other person and causing no harm in any way; otherwise, it's not love. The title must be: 'Swing and Don't Judge-
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Alt
He said she evolved out of her jealousy and monogamous mindset. He's gross. Looks like a r-pist with those eyes too.
Oh and he says the two of them -enjoy each other-. It's all about fvcking and bodies to him and the performance of feelings without feeling them.
Kick the whole man to the curb.
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He said she evolved out of her jealousy and monogamous mindset. He's gross. Looks like a r-pist with those eyes too.
Oh and he says the two of them -enjoy each other-. It's all about fvcking and bodies to him and the performance of feelings without feeling them.
Kick the whole man to the curb.
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blogs
the fact that she started jealous, tells me she is likely still jellous but she decides to stay cool about for him. the relationship wont last. if she was completely open to begin with with no jealousy it would work, but i think she will continue to have underlying issues with this.
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the fact that she started jealous, tells me she is likely still jellous but she decides to stay cool about for him. the relationship wont last. if she was completely open to begin with with no jealousy it would work, but i think she will continue to have underlying issues with this.
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Nick
Hi to both of you, Can a single British east ender BBC welcome to your next swingers party Lana you look amazing, Ricky would you let Lana experience BBC I-m not hang like Jason luv my black weapon is 8ich reasonable i think x
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Hi to both of you, Can a single British east ender BBC welcome to your next swingers party Lana you look amazing, Ricky would you let Lana experience BBC I-m not hang like Jason luv my black weapon is 8ich reasonable i think x
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Hanna
He got a woman to fall in love, and then started pimping her out to fulfill his fantasy! This man is disgusting, I hope she realises and knows her value holds higher.
She is just a means to his needs. Disgusting.
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He got a woman to fall in love, and then started pimping her out to fulfill his fantasy! This man is disgusting, I hope she realises and knows her value holds higher.
She is just a means to his needs. Disgusting.
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Hollie
Everyone needs to turn to god, one day everyone will stand b4 god and be judged and breaks my heart that so many will not be going to heaven, Are the sins u commit worth spending eternity in hell? think about that.
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Everyone needs to turn to god, one day everyone will stand b4 god and be judged and breaks my heart that so many will not be going to heaven, Are the sins u commit worth spending eternity in hell? think about that.
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Patricia
She never really answered for herself. He mostly spoke about how she felt. 100% hands down she's miserable. Bet. If he gave only her the choice of monogamy or open/swinging, she'd choose monogamous
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She never really answered for herself. He mostly spoke about how she felt. 100% hands down she's miserable. Bet. If he gave only her the choice of monogamy or open/swinging, she'd choose monogamous
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water
Obviously he's regectining her by not caring what she's likes, & she's loved him even more.
The more she got rejected & the more cares about him.
He's the bad guy & he knows it
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Obviously he's regectining her by not caring what she's likes, & she's loved him even more.
The more she got rejected & the more cares about him.
He's the bad guy & he knows it
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Pollyanna
I had an ex who wanted to be in an open and/or polyamorous relationship. It wasn't for me. I did admire him for being so open, but not my style. One person is enough.
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I had an ex who wanted to be in an open and/or polyamorous relationship. It wasn't for me. I did admire him for being so open, but not my style. One person is enough.
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80s
I am a single guy who doesn't get it much, I've started reaching out to couples. If I have to be round a guy to be with his lovely lady, it's something I can deal with.
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I am a single guy who doesn't get it much, I've started reaching out to couples. If I have to be round a guy to be with his lovely lady, it's something I can deal with.
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indigo
It-s almost manipulative how he springs this on her after the fact and then keeps working on her until she agrees. She-s clearly not into it. Poor girl, I-d run!
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It-s almost manipulative how he springs this on her after the fact and then keeps working on her until she agrees. She-s clearly not into it. Poor girl, I-d run!
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Angela
If I were her, that relationship would have ended at that 6 month mark. Obviously she wasnt into it. That jealousy wont ever go away no matter what she says.
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If I were her, that relationship would have ended at that 6 month mark. Obviously she wasnt into it. That jealousy wont ever go away no matter what she says.
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zerotwo
This is definitely not for me but for some people the idea sounds quite nice but I feel like it doesnt work out the way it-s intended to be most of the time
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This is definitely not for me but for some people the idea sounds quite nice but I feel like it doesnt work out the way it-s intended to be most of the time
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CDRunner
When someone says this as polyamorous they are that ashamed call it what it is. It-s the same thing and I-m glade this couple isn-t trying to deny this.
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When someone says this as polyamorous they are that ashamed call it what it is. It-s the same thing and I-m glade this couple isn-t trying to deny this.
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rosey
Kinda sounds like he groomed/coaxed her into this. Probably gave her the best six months of her life then sprung the swingers thing on her.
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Kinda sounds like he groomed/coaxed her into this. Probably gave her the best six months of her life then sprung the swingers thing on her.
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Stephanie
They look so much alike to me. If I don-t know the context of the video I would think they were siblings during the first few seconds.
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They look so much alike to me. If I don-t know the context of the video I would think they were siblings during the first few seconds.
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make
In india it's impossible because our society is so much conservative, life is soso hard in our country compare to western people's life
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In india it's impossible because our society is so much conservative, life is soso hard in our country compare to western people's life
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Christian
Yeah when ever you see a couple like this they-re is always one who doesn-t want it and just agrees it-s just sad honestly.
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Yeah when ever you see a couple like this they-re is always one who doesn-t want it and just agrees it-s just sad honestly.
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Ronald
Dear Trully. why the hell you guys posting these types of videos. we know what yall trying to. im sick and tired of it
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Dear Trully. why the hell you guys posting these types of videos. we know what yall trying to. im sick and tired of it
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Sunkissed
I don't forsee their personal trainer sticking around for too long. Or maybe this was the last time they'd see him.
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I don't forsee their personal trainer sticking around for too long. Or maybe this was the last time they'd see him.
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Jimmi
I think the intended victim was Ricky because he is really cute, so they had to settle for the consolation prize.
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I think the intended victim was Ricky because he is really cute, so they had to settle for the consolation prize.
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Fun
People really live their lives like this. I am so thankful I'm single. No drama, no trauma. lol. I couldn't swing.
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People really live their lives like this. I am so thankful I'm single. No drama, no trauma. lol. I couldn't swing.
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blogs
Y'all get the feeling she had a train ran on her at the swingers party? Bet that old man put some work in --
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Y'all get the feeling she had a train ran on her at the swingers party? Bet that old man put some work in --
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Dr. SitOnMe
I read these comments and realise that nobody here knows who she is --. Yall go check out her profile
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I read these comments and realise that nobody here knows who she is --. Yall go check out her profile
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