Why can't we be polyamorous? - love don't judge
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Date: 2023-09-12
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We need to understand as human race that we just are simply random/weird animals on a rock flying through eternity? :P Can we just get to a point where we understand that we are all in to different things and should be ok as long as we're happy? Instead of discriminating and hating on one another? We've got to get over this of what is foreign to us is just too scary. If we can embrace our differences as long as the people are nice people, than that would be better than this constant bickering/negativity among groups. If everyone was more accepting of each other and our differences, would it not spread positivity/productivity further? The gauge of a human should be how kind to others/happy the person is irrespective of what they're into or anything else as a label.
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We need to understand as human race that we just are simply random/weird animals on a rock flying through eternity? :P Can we just get to a point where we understand that we are all in to different things and should be ok as long as we're happy? Instead of discriminating and hating on one another? We've got to get over this of what is foreign to us is just too scary. If we can embrace our differences as long as the people are nice people, than that would be better than this constant bickering/negativity among groups. If everyone was more accepting of each other and our differences, would it not spread positivity/productivity further? The gauge of a human should be how kind to others/happy the person is irrespective of what they're into or anything else as a label.
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Landslave
Another aspect we don't see discussed is that a co-habiting throuple or quadruple relationship has greater household earning potential and social security. Children can have two earner-parents and a stay at home parent too. A disabled partner has two partners to be a social support, an extra wage-earner or a caregiver. That makes the relationship superior and secure. If need be, a single partner could even be a wage earner supporter for the whole polymarriage. Fewer polymarried throuples would be displaced, homeless, or foreclosed on. Three incomes also help savings and investment for retirement. -Two can live cheaper than one- is on steroids when a third or fourth partner is in the household.
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Another aspect we don't see discussed is that a co-habiting throuple or quadruple relationship has greater household earning potential and social security. Children can have two earner-parents and a stay at home parent too. A disabled partner has two partners to be a social support, an extra wage-earner or a caregiver. That makes the relationship superior and secure. If need be, a single partner could even be a wage earner supporter for the whole polymarriage. Fewer polymarried throuples would be displaced, homeless, or foreclosed on. Three incomes also help savings and investment for retirement. -Two can live cheaper than one- is on steroids when a third or fourth partner is in the household.
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Raul
the prophecy is fulfilled
King James 1999
Romans 1: 24, 26 y 27
24. Why God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves:
26. For this cause God gave them up to vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.
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the prophecy is fulfilled
King James 1999
Romans 1: 24, 26 y 27
24. Why God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonor their own bodies between themselves:
26. For this cause God gave them up to vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
27. And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompense of their error which was meet.
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Yandere
I once stopped my friend from considering a poly relationship. Not because I hate people in polygamous relationships, but because she was going through a very difficult time due to the effect her parents divorce was having on her and her siblings. I know that she would rather be in a relationship with one man and not share him with another woman. I really had to keep her from making big decisions that I knew she would eventually regret, and I kept telling her to see a therapist. Polygamy doesn-t work for everyone, only some people, and their private lives are their own.
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I once stopped my friend from considering a poly relationship. Not because I hate people in polygamous relationships, but because she was going through a very difficult time due to the effect her parents divorce was having on her and her siblings. I know that she would rather be in a relationship with one man and not share him with another woman. I really had to keep her from making big decisions that I knew she would eventually regret, and I kept telling her to see a therapist. Polygamy doesn-t work for everyone, only some people, and their private lives are their own.
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Help
I appreciate how they're portraying poly relationships good and as normal as monogamous ones, but in the end, if someone has been married to a person for 10 years, then a new partner got in the relationship, the third person will never have the same bond as the other two, or either one of the two people that were in the relationship first, comes to be more attached to the new partner and forgets the other. Never seen a poly relationship lasted more than 5 years, and I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm still searching for that poly relationship that lasted a lifetime.
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I appreciate how they're portraying poly relationships good and as normal as monogamous ones, but in the end, if someone has been married to a person for 10 years, then a new partner got in the relationship, the third person will never have the same bond as the other two, or either one of the two people that were in the relationship first, comes to be more attached to the new partner and forgets the other. Never seen a poly relationship lasted more than 5 years, and I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm still searching for that poly relationship that lasted a lifetime.
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Maleficent
The only thing that gets me about these alternative lifestyles is how much is it about just enjoying that you found others to accommodate your preference and how much of it is about social media attention or pushing their lifestyle onto others? Why care so much about 'acceptance' if they are so happy? Any relationship that is made to become fodder for the public to be privy to is going to experience negativity. Polyamory is no different.
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The only thing that gets me about these alternative lifestyles is how much is it about just enjoying that you found others to accommodate your preference and how much of it is about social media attention or pushing their lifestyle onto others? Why care so much about 'acceptance' if they are so happy? Any relationship that is made to become fodder for the public to be privy to is going to experience negativity. Polyamory is no different.
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Crazy
until yesterday i WAS one of those hatful people and have been since i found out these sorts of relationships exist, then yesterday i got so angry with seeing these people saying poly people actually love each other that i looked online for reason to hate them more and validate my views. what i found just shattered that view and i now see it in a new light im so glad i can let go of all that hate it was very toxic and im happy now
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until yesterday i WAS one of those hatful people and have been since i found out these sorts of relationships exist, then yesterday i got so angry with seeing these people saying poly people actually love each other that i looked online for reason to hate them more and validate my views. what i found just shattered that view and i now see it in a new light im so glad i can let go of all that hate it was very toxic and im happy now
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dingo1666
Why can't you be? You are and you can, heck you can shag 15 people who all live in your house and be happy. But do not dare to put it out on the internet and when people in loving long term relationships disagree with you, call them haters. You do you and I really am not interested and would never know about your existence if you didn't shout it out to the world.
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Why can't you be? You are and you can, heck you can shag 15 people who all live in your house and be happy. But do not dare to put it out on the internet and when people in loving long term relationships disagree with you, call them haters. You do you and I really am not interested and would never know about your existence if you didn't shout it out to the world.
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Kayla
When you live a different lifestyle, don't make yourself vulnerable by putting all your business out there on social media.
Take it from someone who also chooses a lifestyle that isn't the norm. Not everyone has to know how you choose to live YOUR LIFE. Only those closest to you really matter.
Protect yourself. Privacy is protection.
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When you live a different lifestyle, don't make yourself vulnerable by putting all your business out there on social media.
Take it from someone who also chooses a lifestyle that isn't the norm. Not everyone has to know how you choose to live YOUR LIFE. Only those closest to you really matter.
Protect yourself. Privacy is protection.
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Ohmygosh
You all 3 are beautiful strong independent women and should keep holding your heads high-do not let anyones opinion get in any of your heads or get you upset because you three are your own little family and support system so don-t let anyone even if it-s blood family get in the middle of who any of you are-so proud of you 3 hotties-
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You all 3 are beautiful strong independent women and should keep holding your heads high-do not let anyones opinion get in any of your heads or get you upset because you three are your own little family and support system so don-t let anyone even if it-s blood family get in the middle of who any of you are-so proud of you 3 hotties-
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Laura
I genuinely believe this is a phase that some young people go through who feel unfulfilled or maybe addicted to the natural high that new love brings and they have this insatiable urge to repeatedly feel that new love feeling again once the old one fades out. I'll believe in poly relationships when we start seeing elderly poly couples.
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I genuinely believe this is a phase that some young people go through who feel unfulfilled or maybe addicted to the natural high that new love brings and they have this insatiable urge to repeatedly feel that new love feeling again once the old one fades out. I'll believe in poly relationships when we start seeing elderly poly couples.
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Samantha
I don't care with no one says, but a relationship is between 2 individuals not 3. That's my opinion. Bcus i would've shared my husband with anyone else romantically are any other way. He was all mines for 19 year's before his passing. And no disrespect to these individuals. I'm just voicing MY opinion.
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I don't care with no one says, but a relationship is between 2 individuals not 3. That's my opinion. Bcus i would've shared my husband with anyone else romantically are any other way. He was all mines for 19 year's before his passing. And no disrespect to these individuals. I'm just voicing MY opinion.
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blogs
Who cares? Nobody cares. do you! Make yourself happy with whatever lifestyle you choose! It-s like non-traditional ppl look for ppl to argue with- nobody cares- love on yourself and each other! Why you trying so hard to educate people- nobody business with you all lives. I don-t!
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Who cares? Nobody cares. do you! Make yourself happy with whatever lifestyle you choose! It-s like non-traditional ppl look for ppl to argue with- nobody cares- love on yourself and each other! Why you trying so hard to educate people- nobody business with you all lives. I don-t!
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TheStoneWorks
Ever wonder why you don't see poly groups that have been together 20/30/40/50 years? Because it doesn't work. It's fun for a while, but it's gonna go south at some point. I don't care if you don't believe me, just watch you'll learn.
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Ever wonder why you don't see poly groups that have been together 20/30/40/50 years? Because it doesn't work. It's fun for a while, but it's gonna go south at some point. I don't care if you don't believe me, just watch you'll learn.
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needmoreramsay
It's not ok to be polyamorous IF you are a Christian. If you're NOT, that's fine. Honestly live your life as you wish but please just be aware that a marriage/union is hard enough with just TWO adults; nevermind 3 or more.
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It's not ok to be polyamorous IF you are a Christian. If you're NOT, that's fine. Honestly live your life as you wish but please just be aware that a marriage/union is hard enough with just TWO adults; nevermind 3 or more.
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Miles
There is one thing I have learned from these videos. Don't read the comments unless you want to have a bad day. Some people can be so cruel for no reason other than hate.
on another note I am very happy for them
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There is one thing I have learned from these videos. Don't read the comments unless you want to have a bad day. Some people can be so cruel for no reason other than hate.
on another note I am very happy for them
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beatduck
To all those saying the words -cheating- and -marriage-: imagine those words didn-t even exist. Imagine you could connect with anyone however felt right.
You-re in a self-made cage.
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To all those saying the words -cheating- and -marriage-: imagine those words didn-t even exist. Imagine you could connect with anyone however felt right.
You-re in a self-made cage.
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greek
As a single person crismes is always one of the biggest expense some time it could run between 100 hundred to 200 depending on how many pepole
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As a single person crismes is always one of the biggest expense some time it could run between 100 hundred to 200 depending on how many pepole
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john
Idk about chads situation being in a relationship with a woman that has no interest in you seems like a problem to me. Thoughts? -
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Idk about chads situation being in a relationship with a woman that has no interest in you seems like a problem to me. Thoughts? -
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john
Still thinking about the girl who came into the comment section that said women don't share their poly relationships online -
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Still thinking about the girl who came into the comment section that said women don't share their poly relationships online -
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Sindy
You can do whatever you want but it's absolutely gross. It's very unfair to bring children into this icky lifestyle
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You can do whatever you want but it's absolutely gross. It's very unfair to bring children into this icky lifestyle
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Connie
sounds like a great way to save money on rent honestly. good for you. too many lonely people out there anyways
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sounds like a great way to save money on rent honestly. good for you. too many lonely people out there anyways
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GraveSilk
Poly relationships are veryyyyyy hard to maintain, unless you are completely committed I would steer clear
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Poly relationships are veryyyyyy hard to maintain, unless you are completely committed I would steer clear
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