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I'm 21 - and i have 3 children - my extraordinary family

I'm 21 - and i have 3 children - my extraordinary family

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VANITY, 21, from Arizona, has given birth to three children by the tender age of 21 and has received a huge amount of online hate for being such a young mother of three. Vanity told Truly: People think because I'm young, I'm a terrible mum to my three children - but they're wrong. When Vanity first fell pregnant aged 18, her family were shocked but remained incredibly supportive of the challenging path that she chose for herself. Vanity admits that she never thought she would go on to be a mum to three children at 21 and sometimes does wonder that she may be missing out on being young and carefree with her friends. She decided to take her story to social media and was hit with a torrent of negative comments that really affected her. Vanity said: The judgement that I have from online trolls is really ridiculous; I 'should've got an abortion', she 'looks slow' and I 'need to call animal control'. It kinda broke my heart a little bit. Despite the hate that Vanity has received, she's happy with the choices she has made and plans to have more children in the future. She added: To the people who criticized me online, it's not your life to live, we all have different paths and this is the path I chose to go down
Date: 2023-09-12

Comments and reviews: 29


She keeps saying at 21 The first one was at But then says She was pregnant with her boyfriend of 5 years 3 months into the relationship So if shes 21 she was 16 when she was pregnant how at 21 is Greyson Age 2? .unless he was in the womb for 5 years? Something smells fishy.
So She's in school I am going to say an adult night course/online To get her GED covered under social assistance.
The Boyfriend And her do not live together I will assume she lives with her mother And he lives with his. So most of the time the 3 kids are looked after by Her And her mother.
She cant figure out why people are mad and upset And she calls herself a Media influencer? To what? 16 year olds living the dream?
Sorry but is a classic stereotype that fits the build. The whole video where was her father? At what days and times does her boyfriend become the male role model? How much money is he bringing into the family? Not enough for their own place. So they both fall into depending on other people And Government help Meaning My tax dollars And sure they are cute kids But another drain on the system And the kids will suffer At 3 They will not remember much but from then onwards they will. Future holds The father leaving under being young and not having that 18 to 30 fun

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For being 21 she is doing a good job she seems so patient to I would probably go crazy I had my 1st son at 15 and I'm so glad I had my mom because I was able to finish high school but my mom was sick and I took care of my mom to and then 23 when I had my 2nd son my mom passed in October and I'm now 32 and am having a girl in September with out my mom this time I'm so scared but I know I got this and yes I'm still with my 1st baby dad all my kids have the same father even though my oldest and 2nd son are 7 years apart and my 2nd son and this baby is going to be 10 years apart me and there dad have been together for 18 almost 19 years.
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It is better for her to get married at this age and she can study at any time because the study is available online and then she will get the help of her children when they grow up only so teach them now a lot of languages, programming and there are many things that make you superior to the rest of the mothers because you have a lot of opportunities
Abortions must be prohibited and prohibited. She must also marry the father of her children in order to guarantee their legal rights.

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I-m in my 30-s with one child and it-s not easy parenting even with financial stability. I couldn-t imagine being 21 with 3 kids but that doesn-t make her a bad mother. I have plenty of cousins and also friends who have had children at young ages and they are amazing mothers and their children are well raised. People need to stop judging we all have made choices we are not proud of but we manage. I wish you and your babies the best they are a blessing.
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My mom had 4 kids by the age of 22. Not something I would want for myself and she always talks about how she didn-t have a full life always trying to party and escape from us. It-s hard to have a balance of for filling your child-s needs while you need to experience a independent life in order to grow as an individual. Don-t worry she-ll get to have that in her 30s when her kids are grown. Good luck mama. Stay strong and just be there for your kids.
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She's a young mom. She has a good support system. Everything checks out, i wish her the best, all of that. What I want to know is - 3 kids under 3 and is that stick thin? Witchcraft! Witchcraft I say!
j/k, obviously.
I'll never understant how anyone could say hateful things to 1) Someone they don't even know. 2) An innocent baby. Uh, hello? 3) Another human being that they have no right to judge.
Humans, do better.

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Her mom has 11 kids-. what da hell--? Why is her daughter being advertised as the popular choice for young ladies? She made bad choices in & for her life. Make it make sense to me? In 5 years, she is going to want a man to marry and provide for her and her children. Mr. Kevin Samuels is truly missed in the black community.
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People were doing what? Posting her kids and trolling them? In the Caribbean, there-s a saying that you should never badmouth people-s kids because you never know how yours will turn out to be, especially if they themselves have young kids of their own. That-s so messed up, disrespecting babies omg
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she's following right in her mothers foot steps. but if thats the way they have chosen to live. who are we to talk, its their lives. people are gonna do what they want. I just have a problem if their relying on gov. assistance to care n support all the kids.
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She-s a good mom so people need to stop hating on her. Yes, she-s young but this is -her- life and she-s taking responsibility and being a good parent. -That-s more than a lot of adult parents can say! -
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If you do the math, you were an adult when you had your first child. I see nothing wrong with that! Your kids look happy, healthy, and you're in a stable relationship. You're doing a great job!
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There's nothing wrong with having 3 kids at the age of 21, as long as you stay strong for your kids that's all you can do. Don't let no one bring you down for what you chose to do.
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3 young babies at any age is a handful. The only thing is at 21 her body bounced back quicker. She is a normal mom being a mom. Her mom with 11 children is an actual story!
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I see this To me normal because my elder sister have 3 kid and she-s 24, her first child is 7 the second one is 5 and the third one is 2 so me personally it-s normal to me
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I know that the main focus is one the daughter and her lovely children, BUT THIS MOM JUST SAY SHE'S GOT 11 KIDS? -
Truly should have covered that instead fr -

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Something is wrong with the timing. 21 with a 2 year but in a 5 year relationship with the BD and got pregnant 3 months later does not add up at all
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Children are a wonderful part of life when my mother was 26 years old. She already had seven children. I was number seven. She was always a good mother.
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Im 21 and I cant even imagine having kids right now all my friends from high school are having babies getting married it-s just too soon in my opinion
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-I didn-t know I-d have 3 kids by 21- yes you did because you knew how you got the first two and you continued that behavior. It-s not a magic trick
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It's so amazing that she handles her children so well at such a young age. I'm proud of Vanity and her children, I hope they all live a good life.
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I think before you judge someone you need to look at your own life first, Nobody is perfect so look in the mirror first before you spew hate!
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Nowadays kids think it's cool to be pregnant when you're younger but it's really hard work and somebody from the family member has to help you out
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Something is off, maybe it-s the makeup or lighting? Her skin doesn-t look natural- kind of looks like when dark skin is bleached. Hmmm
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Your oldest is two but you fell pregnant three months after you met your man but you met him FIVE years ago-
Slow maybe? Lol

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Girl ur friends trying to party and live their life. can't be mad at them. wish her the best go to school girl and do ur thang
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She amazing for keeping her kids and actually trying she didn-t give them up great job mommy keep going I-m 23 with 2 so
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Why are yah bashing this mother. She looks to be an amazing mom and technically she living her life with her kids.
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i8is young but that young i think anyone under18shouldn't have kids like 13and under from 16 on wards is fine
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No reason to feel guilty about needing help to raise children. -It takes a village- is a saying for a reason.
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