I planned to get pregnant at 14 - my extraordinary family
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Date: 2023-09-12
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LunaFics
My best friend was pregnant for all of the first year I knew her. She was 15 when her daughter was born. Her daughter just turned 9. I was with her more than the baby daddy was for 4 years. We're starting to see each other again because we do miss each other. Her daughter is a very kind, intelligent and spirited child. My best friend has been a single mom since she was 15. It's not about age. I wouldn't condone like. a 13 year old getting pregnant by a 19 year old or anything like that but it happens.
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My best friend was pregnant for all of the first year I knew her. She was 15 when her daughter was born. Her daughter just turned 9. I was with her more than the baby daddy was for 4 years. We're starting to see each other again because we do miss each other. Her daughter is a very kind, intelligent and spirited child. My best friend has been a single mom since she was 15. It's not about age. I wouldn't condone like. a 13 year old getting pregnant by a 19 year old or anything like that but it happens.
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Autumn-Ray
This was planned, because she probably figured mom and dad will be around to help with the baby. - If you're 1. Not an adult 2. Can't support yourself. I. M. O. People like that shouldn't be having no baby. -Oh people are trolls- yeah imagine people having enough sense and decency to think a literal child shouldn't be a parent. Hope they'll be okay becoming young grandparents. When their oldest decides to be a mom at 13-17 years old.
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This was planned, because she probably figured mom and dad will be around to help with the baby. - If you're 1. Not an adult 2. Can't support yourself. I. M. O. People like that shouldn't be having no baby. -Oh people are trolls- yeah imagine people having enough sense and decency to think a literal child shouldn't be a parent. Hope they'll be okay becoming young grandparents. When their oldest decides to be a mom at 13-17 years old.
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Cassandra
It reminds me of an old friend I had, who was in a similar situation too. Got married and had their first one at 14, and for them it just worked. It-s super rare, but that rarely you have kids that are barely teens that are basically adults in kids bodies so for them it just works- super rare though, like not 99% of them I-d say- so good on them and hope they-re all well
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It reminds me of an old friend I had, who was in a similar situation too. Got married and had their first one at 14, and for them it just worked. It-s super rare, but that rarely you have kids that are barely teens that are basically adults in kids bodies so for them it just works- super rare though, like not 99% of them I-d say- so good on them and hope they-re all well
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Ms. California
Glad it worked out for them, but I don-t see why they couldn-t wait. Kids grow up fast and I-m just thinking about her parents wanting their child to stay their child and I can understand how heartbroken they were. I know you can-t keep your kids innocent forever, but waiting until after high school would have made it less hurtful for them.
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Glad it worked out for them, but I don-t see why they couldn-t wait. Kids grow up fast and I-m just thinking about her parents wanting their child to stay their child and I can understand how heartbroken they were. I know you can-t keep your kids innocent forever, but waiting until after high school would have made it less hurtful for them.
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blogs
Y-all are ruthless in these comments. I used to work with her and I can tell y-all she is an incredibly mature, smart, hard working girl who is totally committed to her family. It may not work out for everyone but if this is the life she wants and it makes her happy then what-s the issue?
Let them be happy. They-re doin a great job.
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Y-all are ruthless in these comments. I used to work with her and I can tell y-all she is an incredibly mature, smart, hard working girl who is totally committed to her family. It may not work out for everyone but if this is the life she wants and it makes her happy then what-s the issue?
Let them be happy. They-re doin a great job.
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Rita
It's rather crazy to imagine planning to have a baby at that age but then. Well, it's their life and it worked out in the end. About the friends. It's sort of normal that they disapeared. They have such a different reality from these two. They are probably ages away from them in life. To maintain friendships like that is really hard.
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It's rather crazy to imagine planning to have a baby at that age but then. Well, it's their life and it worked out in the end. About the friends. It's sort of normal that they disapeared. They have such a different reality from these two. They are probably ages away from them in life. To maintain friendships like that is really hard.
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Priscilla
How about everyone stop talking about their age. And how hard they-ve worked to get to where they are today. Finished school, college, working hard, owning a house, amazing parents to these girls. And have a supportive family after years. A beautiful family and beautiful story. WAY TO GO GUYS! I-m proud of you. -
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How about everyone stop talking about their age. And how hard they-ve worked to get to where they are today. Finished school, college, working hard, owning a house, amazing parents to these girls. And have a supportive family after years. A beautiful family and beautiful story. WAY TO GO GUYS! I-m proud of you. -
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Jillian
She is extremely lucky that this worked out for her. They are by far the exception, not the rule, to graduate high school, to own a house, etc. I'm glad it worked out for her, but I fear giving her a platform will encourage young and naive girls that it will be like that for them too, and odds are it will not be.
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She is extremely lucky that this worked out for her. They are by far the exception, not the rule, to graduate high school, to own a house, etc. I'm glad it worked out for her, but I fear giving her a platform will encourage young and naive girls that it will be like that for them too, and odds are it will not be.
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Amy
At least you know that your children will always have someone to help and support each other through life. As long as you are coping then it's no one else's business how many children you have. It's a shame that strangers are so judgemental when they don't really know your situation.
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At least you know that your children will always have someone to help and support each other through life. As long as you are coping then it's no one else's business how many children you have. It's a shame that strangers are so judgemental when they don't really know your situation.
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So
I hope she is ready to be a grandmother by 30! And that she won-t judge her daughter if she plans a silly pregnancy with her boyfriend. At 14! WTH! She and him weren-t very smart! What teen in their right mindset plans a pregnancy at 14! She needed to go to therapy not get pregnant!
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I hope she is ready to be a grandmother by 30! And that she won-t judge her daughter if she plans a silly pregnancy with her boyfriend. At 14! WTH! She and him weren-t very smart! What teen in their right mindset plans a pregnancy at 14! She needed to go to therapy not get pregnant!
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Heidi
It seems inappropriate to interview them & her parents, whilst the children are there. Isabella seems to be listening. At 6 years old, she likely can't understand the nuance that teen pregnancy limits her parents' opportunities vs that she -ruined- their lives.
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It seems inappropriate to interview them & her parents, whilst the children are there. Isabella seems to be listening. At 6 years old, she likely can't understand the nuance that teen pregnancy limits her parents' opportunities vs that she -ruined- their lives.
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DJ
Putting aside the age factor. I must say, this couple seems lovely and way more mature and grounded than people double or triple their age. Sending them lots of love and wishes. They seem like a strong, loving, and mature couple bringing up two lovely girls.
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Putting aside the age factor. I must say, this couple seems lovely and way more mature and grounded than people double or triple their age. Sending them lots of love and wishes. They seem like a strong, loving, and mature couple bringing up two lovely girls.
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Bridget
It's selfish to have a baby and put that burden on your parents so young; this puts unnecessary pressures on your parents' financial situations and the baby to come. This video is misleading. What's done is done.
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It's selfish to have a baby and put that burden on your parents so young; this puts unnecessary pressures on your parents' financial situations and the baby to come. This video is misleading. What's done is done.
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Ma
I'm 43 years old and I tried to do everything the proper way. but marriage never came my way and so I never had kids. I should have had kids at a young age and marry young. A life centered on your career, is all hype.
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I'm 43 years old and I tried to do everything the proper way. but marriage never came my way and so I never had kids. I should have had kids at a young age and marry young. A life centered on your career, is all hype.
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Shaneeka
Planned on havign kids at 14, got pregnant at 14, he stayed, gave birth at 15, named her Mackenzie, my mum was excited, thought i would be thrown, but she had a baby at 15, but it wasnt consent -
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Planned on havign kids at 14, got pregnant at 14, he stayed, gave birth at 15, named her Mackenzie, my mum was excited, thought i would be thrown, but she had a baby at 15, but it wasnt consent -
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ayeasten
she had two daughters i just have to know how she would feel if her daughter got pregnant at 14? made her a grandma at like 30? smh crazy but i-m glad it worked out. if she likes it i love it -
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she had two daughters i just have to know how she would feel if her daughter got pregnant at 14? made her a grandma at like 30? smh crazy but i-m glad it worked out. if she likes it i love it -
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Regina
This story moves me so much! My parents were also very beautiful, very smart and very young when I was born. They were wonderful parents and I am grateful every day for how lucky I was.
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This story moves me so much! My parents were also very beautiful, very smart and very young when I was born. They were wonderful parents and I am grateful every day for how lucky I was.
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TX
You got very lucky in many ways - upper middle class I'd guess, a guy that stuck around, healthy kids and plenty of support from family (even if your father didn't accept it right away.
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You got very lucky in many ways - upper middle class I'd guess, a guy that stuck around, healthy kids and plenty of support from family (even if your father didn't accept it right away.
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Sasha
Whoa! planing a baby at 14? When I was 14 I was still riding my bike, playing video games, but glad everything workout for this couple they seem like the wonderful parents
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Whoa! planing a baby at 14? When I was 14 I was still riding my bike, playing video games, but glad everything workout for this couple they seem like the wonderful parents
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Gloria
I have a similar story, fell in love at 14, became pregnant at 17 now we-ve been 11 years together and 6 years married with 2 kids - I finished college as well
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I have a similar story, fell in love at 14, became pregnant at 17 now we-ve been 11 years together and 6 years married with 2 kids - I finished college as well
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Sheetal
Mature. my foot. when you still need to figure out many things in life you are having baby. baby is not for fun and even motherhood. So dumb decision
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Mature. my foot. when you still need to figure out many things in life you are having baby. baby is not for fun and even motherhood. So dumb decision
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LSPadilla
I love this, I feel for them since I was a teen mom, not as young as them but the only thing I don't agree with is the social media attention
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I love this, I feel for them since I was a teen mom, not as young as them but the only thing I don't agree with is the social media attention
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The
Cannot believe people are calling this couple mature. They seem like fine parents but their delusional thinking having kids that early was okay.
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Cannot believe people are calling this couple mature. They seem like fine parents but their delusional thinking having kids that early was okay.
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Liz
These ppl with the negative comments or trying to justify their opinions will never be satisfied F them! May God Continue to bless y-all-
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These ppl with the negative comments or trying to justify their opinions will never be satisfied F them! May God Continue to bless y-all-
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Nia
She was with a 17 year old at 14, why is the blame placed on her? Good for her for making the best of the situation and being a good mom.
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She was with a 17 year old at 14, why is the blame placed on her? Good for her for making the best of the situation and being a good mom.
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HeyGirlHaaay
If those babies are loved and well taken care of, cherished and protected, like children should be, that's what matters. -
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If those babies are loved and well taken care of, cherished and protected, like children should be, that's what matters. -
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Andrea
It is obvious the love and support you have for each other and your girls. Very level headed as well. Enjoy your family.
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It is obvious the love and support you have for each other and your girls. Very level headed as well. Enjoy your family.
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El
Idc they can do whatever I just don-t like that they trying to make it like if it-s a good thing getting pregnant at 14 smh
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Idc they can do whatever I just don-t like that they trying to make it like if it-s a good thing getting pregnant at 14 smh
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Jana
She looks mature. I'm 28 and look younger than her. She doesn't look like a teen. Some people mature sooner.
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She looks mature. I'm 28 and look younger than her. She doesn't look like a teen. Some people mature sooner.
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Dimar
14 yeah. please do have more multiple babies and keep posting hundreds of videos with each pregnancy! ! --
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14 yeah. please do have more multiple babies and keep posting hundreds of videos with each pregnancy! ! --
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