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Trolled Because I Spent $4K To Marry Myself - LOVE DON'T JUDGE

Trolled Because I Spent $4K To Marry Myself - LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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DANNI is a body image coach and body positivity influencer originally from Florida, now living in LA. She went viral in 2023 for practising the act of Sologamy and committing to herself in a wedding ceremony. She told Love Don't Judge: I'm judged because I spent $4000 on a wedding to marry myself. Explaining her choice she said: Before the wedding, I spent a couple of years in therapy, just really trying to find myself. During my self-love journey I stopped drinking, I stopped having s, I spent a lot of quality time with myself, taking myself on dates. Just really finding out what I like. Growing up, Danni never understood the idea of a man walking you down the aisle and said weddings were all about the bride. She came up with the idea to marry herself before COVID but didn’t have her ceremony until 2022. Her unusual ceremony hit the headlines a year later, and critics came out in force. One commenter said: This is the dumbest, most narcissistic c I've ever seen! Danni said: The most hurtful comment I experienced online was people saying that I had to marry myself because no one would want me. What messages are we sending people of size that they are unlovable, that they are unworthy That's not true, I can get married to a man tomorrow! But Danni chooses to focus on herself, and the inspiration she can give to others. I will continue to inspire women and show little girls that loving themselves is the most beautiful thing they can do.
Date: 2024-06-01

Comments and reviews: 20


This made me tear up. We get told so often to not take up space, to make ourselves smaller (both literally and figuratively, to not make anything about ourselves And that is so damaging to our well-being and love for ourselves. I love the idea of committing to love ourselves, whether that looks like a larger marriage or commitment ceremony, or a small intimate ritual with a few friends, or a private commitment to ourselves. The idea of marking it in some way is hecking bold and important. Proud of you!
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I think the concept behind marrying herself is actually a really deep and beautiful one. To me, it symbolized the idea of committing to become the very best version of yourself you can be because that’s ultimately the hardest to commit to. I don’t know about LITERALLY marrying myself but let her do her thing! She has a beautiful soul and it inspires me to see that she’s truly unbothered by other people’s opinions
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everyone says she loves herself too much but I'm sure it's the opposite. the point of this is to show you don't care about marriage but it looks like you actually do. why the point of marriage is either religion or getting cival benefits while you're married or getting your spouse' money when they die. what's the point of marrying yourself
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Good for her! Do you sis! There's a difference between narcissism and confidence. Although I don't know her, she seems to radiate confidence, positivity and strength rather than narcissism. She is glowing. Just because something's not comparable to your journey doesn't make it unfit for someone else's.
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Loving yourself does not make you a narcissist. Narcissistic behaviour towards others is what makes you one. It takes a strong person to search within their soul and banish their demons so that they can truly love themselves. She’s not hurting anyone, she’s just celebrating the love she found.
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I don't get why people call her narcissistic. I actually looove this because everyone should love themselves. For me marrying yourself has a very deep meaning and making a commitment to love and care for yourself for eternity. Very spiritual and i am in for in. You go girl!
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We are quick to say something negative yet most of us don't truly love ourselves. You can't give what you don't have. I am happy for her that she started with herself.
Actually everyone should marry themselves before commiting to other people.

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I'm still in school so I haven't learned about all the different type of mental disabilities but something is clearly wrong.
It's one thing to love yourself and that's good but go as far as to marry yourself something is clearly wrong

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I’m not hating, she wants to waste her money that’s on her. It is extremely egocentric and narcissistic though just saying. A good friend would tell her thatbut she’s probably too self absorbed to have the real kinda friends.
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It's totally normal to love yourself! At the end of the day, I honestly think she did this because she's having trouble finding someone, and that's fine if you don't want to admit that. It sounds a little narcissistic, though.
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I think people are so busy hating something that they don't understand to see the good in what she is doing for herself. She had a commitment ceremony to honor loving herself. It's kinda awesome if you think about it
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i would be more concerned about your health. I gain 10lbs and feel sluggish. I can't imagine the pain and stress carrying that much weight would cause. At least she wont be waiting for a man who won't commit.
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Ok first of all. Live ur damn life and stay happy girl. I don’t understand it but who cares. You’re the only one that matters. Life is too short to worry about other people judging u.
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Her money, her right to spend it anyway she wants, it's really that simple. And look at her! She's beautiful, she slays when she walks out her front door!
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truly this going to far with the contents. Not on the edge anymore your now over the edge. This is hilarous too. Also we want be there for the divorce too.
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Amazing! More people should love themselves like this. Clearly the haters are just unhappy negative people. Continue to love yourself and value yourself
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Okay so this is what people spend they're funds on. That's so crazy. You could've of fed a lot of people with that money. But you spent it on a one woman wedding.
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I could have been behind this until she stated she's an influencer who has wanted to marry herself since a child. Buy to each is own I suppose.
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And the people are starving in Africa! Yo priorities are all wrong lady as far as marrying yo self, first for everything I’m guessing.
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She needs to learn that self love doesn't lead to good if the extent is wasting 4k for something brain dead. Go watch Dr K on this topic.
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