6 Unattractive Traits That Easily Turn People Off
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Date: 2023-08-20
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In a world where people looks in physical appearance, rather than the beauty inside. That's why there are lots of people don't value being engaged, has a broken family, and the most annoying thing there is that they complain when things are out of control already!
I'm not that good at mentoring, but I've seen a lot of people struggling in relationship, some of them are consulting me for advise, but if I were to put some of what I've just said to them, here they are anyway:
1. Look for a person who doesn't take joy over making other people pitiful.
2. Look for a person who is supportive, can love you at your worst, and accept your imperfections, and;
3. Look for the person who pass all of your tests to them!
Sorry, I didn't watch this first before I gave my comment.
Anyway, thank you Ma'am for making another video! This is helpful for us, who are brain-numbed in love!
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In a world where people looks in physical appearance, rather than the beauty inside. That's why there are lots of people don't value being engaged, has a broken family, and the most annoying thing there is that they complain when things are out of control already!
I'm not that good at mentoring, but I've seen a lot of people struggling in relationship, some of them are consulting me for advise, but if I were to put some of what I've just said to them, here they are anyway:
1. Look for a person who doesn't take joy over making other people pitiful.
2. Look for a person who is supportive, can love you at your worst, and accept your imperfections, and;
3. Look for the person who pass all of your tests to them!
Sorry, I didn't watch this first before I gave my comment.
Anyway, thank you Ma'am for making another video! This is helpful for us, who are brain-numbed in love!
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Zuckerwatt
I had the problem that I had abusive boyfriends and when I stated my opinion, it was called nagging and if I pointed out the gasligthing and abuse I was being annoying and dumb. So when I feel like my boyfriend doesn't want to understand me( like my exes did) I become passive agressive and I don't want to talk about it what bugs me first, because of the fear that I'm being nagging, annoying and dumb. When he notices that I'm not ok, I brush it off with it's nothing, but I open up about what bugs me and we talk about my issues. I'm happy that I have my boyfriend. He never gaslighted me or downplayed me or abused me in any way. I feel like I'm me again.
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I had the problem that I had abusive boyfriends and when I stated my opinion, it was called nagging and if I pointed out the gasligthing and abuse I was being annoying and dumb. So when I feel like my boyfriend doesn't want to understand me( like my exes did) I become passive agressive and I don't want to talk about it what bugs me first, because of the fear that I'm being nagging, annoying and dumb. When he notices that I'm not ok, I brush it off with it's nothing, but I open up about what bugs me and we talk about my issues. I'm happy that I have my boyfriend. He never gaslighted me or downplayed me or abused me in any way. I feel like I'm me again.
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Edward
I have definitely this problem overall. When someone like me are taught to do so because of superiority over others for years, it will always lead to negative outcomes. That is why I have an excellent psychiatrist that understands me and guides me with utmost TLC. In hindsight, why do some adults teach their children to be self-destructive and expect any form of respect for all in return from others? What kind of illogic is that?
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I have definitely this problem overall. When someone like me are taught to do so because of superiority over others for years, it will always lead to negative outcomes. That is why I have an excellent psychiatrist that understands me and guides me with utmost TLC. In hindsight, why do some adults teach their children to be self-destructive and expect any form of respect for all in return from others? What kind of illogic is that?
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Micah
And here we have the reason why I say I am not made for relationships. The last 3 things are very much describing me rather well. Funniest part: When I do say I'm not made for relationships I don't mean it in a joking way, I mean it seriously. Yet my ex was like Nah you're exaggerating (tho tbh they had 2 of these 3 traits too so I guess none of us could complain cuz we were very similar in those terms. _. xD)
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And here we have the reason why I say I am not made for relationships. The last 3 things are very much describing me rather well. Funniest part: When I do say I'm not made for relationships I don't mean it in a joking way, I mean it seriously. Yet my ex was like Nah you're exaggerating (tho tbh they had 2 of these 3 traits too so I guess none of us could complain cuz we were very similar in those terms. _. xD)
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Mya
I would like to be open and honest but that brings my friends down because then they feel bad for me and constantly worry about me the whole day and I feel like I've ruined their day and I don't want to because that would make them sad and when they're sad I'm even more sad because I just want everyone to be happy
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I would like to be open and honest but that brings my friends down because then they feel bad for me and constantly worry about me the whole day and I feel like I've ruined their day and I don't want to because that would make them sad and when they're sad I'm even more sad because I just want everyone to be happy
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ZuraTheJoi
I have one of those traits. I get angry over little things this days. I became kinda passive aggressive since last year. I didn't let it grow on me more so I tried to control it. It was so hard and it's still hard but it's better to contain some anger in so I don't feel guilty later.
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I have one of those traits. I get angry over little things this days. I became kinda passive aggressive since last year. I didn't let it grow on me more so I tried to control it. It was so hard and it's still hard but it's better to contain some anger in so I don't feel guilty later.
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Elodie
Unattractive; people who spit on the ground, leave their garbage on the ground/nature, every nasty behavior toward nature/animals/people I hate, I hate people who don't have any respect.
To all benevolents, nice and respectfull people, i wish you to be happy every time, and love.
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Unattractive; people who spit on the ground, leave their garbage on the ground/nature, every nasty behavior toward nature/animals/people I hate, I hate people who don't have any respect.
To all benevolents, nice and respectfull people, i wish you to be happy every time, and love.
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Shawn
Wait. Ya'll can afford to go to fancy restaurants with servers? And have time to treat them bad. Sounds like privilege! But in all seriousness. Susan behind the deli counter counts too, shes just over worked and under paid. Make her day. Love you susan!
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Wait. Ya'll can afford to go to fancy restaurants with servers? And have time to treat them bad. Sounds like privilege! But in all seriousness. Susan behind the deli counter counts too, shes just over worked and under paid. Make her day. Love you susan!
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The
I believe everyone hates me so I never talk to people, or I talk really low. Or I get as far away from people because I believe everyone hates me.
Can you make a video on, believe everyone you pass by in the day hates you extremely bad for no reason?
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I believe everyone hates me so I never talk to people, or I talk really low. Or I get as far away from people because I believe everyone hates me.
Can you make a video on, believe everyone you pass by in the day hates you extremely bad for no reason?
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Harry
Also, observe how people treat animals. To quote Betty White, You can tell a lot about a person by the way they put their hands on an animal. And also from Mark Twain, If your dog doesn't trust somebody, maybe you shouldn't either.
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Also, observe how people treat animals. To quote Betty White, You can tell a lot about a person by the way they put their hands on an animal. And also from Mark Twain, If your dog doesn't trust somebody, maybe you shouldn't either.
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Spicy
I had a boyfriend that was 6-7 years older than me. He was kind and sweet to me until he shows his true colors. He yelled at a gas station employee and parks in a handicapped spot when he isn't handicapped. Not the best person.
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I had a boyfriend that was 6-7 years older than me. He was kind and sweet to me until he shows his true colors. He yelled at a gas station employee and parks in a handicapped spot when he isn't handicapped. Not the best person.
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Spicy
I had a boyfriend that was 6-7 years older than me. He was kind and sweet to me until he shows his true colors. He yelled at a gas station employee and parks in a handicapped spot when he isn't handicapped. Not the best person.
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I had a boyfriend that was 6-7 years older than me. He was kind and sweet to me until he shows his true colors. He yelled at a gas station employee and parks in a handicapped spot when he isn't handicapped. Not the best person.
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Romana10987
With the first one, I thought of how my partner is the exact opposite toward staff. He's really nice and patient to wait staff. He even goes out of his way to answer feedback surveys, and of course he tips wait staff.
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With the first one, I thought of how my partner is the exact opposite toward staff. He's really nice and patient to wait staff. He even goes out of his way to answer feedback surveys, and of course he tips wait staff.
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Stefanie
I dont think that being clingy is unattractive, Im single but if I had a boyfriend and he would be clingy. I would think that thats really cute. I just dont like when children are clingy ( because I dont like them.
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I dont think that being clingy is unattractive, Im single but if I had a boyfriend and he would be clingy. I would think that thats really cute. I just dont like when children are clingy ( because I dont like them.
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Waking
Just overall negativity is a massive one, if someone has a negative lense they view the world through it's unbearable to be around. Not much is more attractive than someone who's a light of positive energy.
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Just overall negativity is a massive one, if someone has a negative lense they view the world through it's unbearable to be around. Not much is more attractive than someone who's a light of positive energy.
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iKat
1: 56 ths is what i hate about my bf. i was so stress about how my art turned out and he had to say this digital art is a bit amateur by common sense I do digital art and this hurts me.
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1: 56 ths is what i hate about my bf. i was so stress about how my art turned out and he had to say this digital art is a bit amateur by common sense I do digital art and this hurts me.
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Thicc
Other unattractive traits:
-Arrogance and/or narcissism
-Dishonesty
-Apathy
-Gossiper
-Having a basic persona
-Laziness
-Immaturity
-Being impatient
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Other unattractive traits:
-Arrogance and/or narcissism
-Dishonesty
-Apathy
-Gossiper
-Having a basic persona
-Laziness
-Immaturity
-Being impatient
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Phlobby
I cannot believe the line, forget the revenge plans completely even needed to be said in a video based around the topic of romance what a sad, cruel world we live in
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I cannot believe the line, forget the revenge plans completely even needed to be said in a video based around the topic of romance what a sad, cruel world we live in
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education
#4 is really important, you gotta give those who you love some distance in order for them to miss you.
In essence, Use Absence To Increase Respect and Honour.
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#4 is really important, you gotta give those who you love some distance in order for them to miss you.
In essence, Use Absence To Increase Respect and Honour.
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family
BOW TO ME MEER MORTALS! FOR I HAVE HARNESSED THE POWER OF THE WORLD. I, RUSSEL FAMILY, have no idea how to act socially because I have Asperger's, send help
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BOW TO ME MEER MORTALS! FOR I HAVE HARNESSED THE POWER OF THE WORLD. I, RUSSEL FAMILY, have no idea how to act socially because I have Asperger's, send help
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zyto
The second thing is about the mere exposure effect, I believe -- i. e. it's not about showing up to classes but about you just being in people's presence.
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The second thing is about the mere exposure effect, I believe -- i. e. it's not about showing up to classes but about you just being in people's presence.
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Isaac
I have a habit of being passive aggressive and over critical, I thought that's what my boyfriend liked about me for a good while, but now I am single.
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I have a habit of being passive aggressive and over critical, I thought that's what my boyfriend liked about me for a good while, but now I am single.
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MBM_Artist#9002
thank GOD i saw this vid.
tiny whisper mumbles i watched it bcuz i have a crush & wanted 2 know what behavior i shouldn't do O-O
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thank GOD i saw this vid.
tiny whisper mumbles i watched it bcuz i have a crush & wanted 2 know what behavior i shouldn't do O-O
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Samira
I think swearing and cussing too much is unattractive, it's fine if you swear a little bit but too much swearing isn't cool: //
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I think swearing and cussing too much is unattractive, it's fine if you swear a little bit but too much swearing isn't cool: //
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Jamesha
Prone to rejecting others, fat shaming and being supercritical all the time. Prejudice and being mean are also disgusting.
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Prone to rejecting others, fat shaming and being supercritical all the time. Prejudice and being mean are also disgusting.
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