Parenting Mistakes That Can Cause Truama
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However I always feel guilty over things that I can't do or don't have the energy to do or just don't have any control over. Honestly it's rough but I still make times for us to do things even if it's just watching TV and getting as many snuggles as I can.
I also struggle with guilt for when my child doesn't do good in a specific subject for school. I blame myself and think I'm a failure and it just affects me greatly. I've been trying to overcome that but it's hard. I sometimes feel like I'm a good parent and other times not. but I try. I try my hardest and I hope one day my child knows that.
Being a parent when you're alone and have mental illnesses is no joke. But I wouldn't trade it for the world. My child saved me. In so many ways that I could ever express. I no longer wish to commit suicide, because I know I have someone who needs me, someone who will love me know matter what. And a smile to look forward to everyday. He has honestly changed me for the better and everyday I've been improving. He means so much to me and one day I hope he realizes that.
Date: 2023-08-20
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Noah
I never grew up with a happy family. One was so annoyingly friendly and loving, and one was cold as ice. They never got along. I was foolish enough to try and fix their relationship. I grew up more with the cold parent, he never showed me what love was, and was quite. Sociopathic? He'd always say shut up. Your feelings don't matter. Stop crying. or you're too fat. Hit the gym for once, obese ball of calories. I am 17 now and I hate love and affection, it's so annoying. Oh you're giving me compliments and hugs? Ew, get away from me. Oh you're insulting me? Whatever. I don't care. If you're gonna try and be nice to me in the replies, don't even bother. I will ignore it. I was really contemplating whether or not I should write this comment or not because I don't think anyone would care. I'll just put this here so I can feel better.
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I never grew up with a happy family. One was so annoyingly friendly and loving, and one was cold as ice. They never got along. I was foolish enough to try and fix their relationship. I grew up more with the cold parent, he never showed me what love was, and was quite. Sociopathic? He'd always say shut up. Your feelings don't matter. Stop crying. or you're too fat. Hit the gym for once, obese ball of calories. I am 17 now and I hate love and affection, it's so annoying. Oh you're giving me compliments and hugs? Ew, get away from me. Oh you're insulting me? Whatever. I don't care. If you're gonna try and be nice to me in the replies, don't even bother. I will ignore it. I was really contemplating whether or not I should write this comment or not because I don't think anyone would care. I'll just put this here so I can feel better.
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LucYfYre
Lol, yeah, I can tell you getting hit with a rubber hose, bent backwards by your hair until your back is making popping sounds, and then getting thrown across the room will do it for sure. Weird the things you think about when that sheet is happening. As I flew across the room and did a tuck n roll, flying under the kitchen table and sending all the chairs flying. what ran through my mind was i'm like a bowling bowl I lived in fear for my life, and that of my sisters until I left at 13. That was 50 years ago and I have never completely gotten over my childhood.
Oh yeah, it was my mother but I came to understand she was psychotic because she had a much worse childhood than I did.
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Lol, yeah, I can tell you getting hit with a rubber hose, bent backwards by your hair until your back is making popping sounds, and then getting thrown across the room will do it for sure. Weird the things you think about when that sheet is happening. As I flew across the room and did a tuck n roll, flying under the kitchen table and sending all the chairs flying. what ran through my mind was i'm like a bowling bowl I lived in fear for my life, and that of my sisters until I left at 13. That was 50 years ago and I have never completely gotten over my childhood.
Oh yeah, it was my mother but I came to understand she was psychotic because she had a much worse childhood than I did.
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Hto
I'm really don't know why. people want me to change. but with pressure on me. i said every single problem to my parent but they say your soo dramatic Same as all my friends to. and they always tell to me that your not painfull enough. i said to my heart like I need a conclusion. not an argument
So because of that I'm really scared to tell everyone my problems I've had. i feel really broken.
I wish someone who could understand but I'm just ended up hurting my body.
I want to tell someone I loved the most but it seems like their same as them.
I just don't know how to face this reality.
I'm just soo scared. i can't even love myself.
I hope you read me
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I'm really don't know why. people want me to change. but with pressure on me. i said every single problem to my parent but they say your soo dramatic Same as all my friends to. and they always tell to me that your not painfull enough. i said to my heart like I need a conclusion. not an argument
So because of that I'm really scared to tell everyone my problems I've had. i feel really broken.
I wish someone who could understand but I'm just ended up hurting my body.
I want to tell someone I loved the most but it seems like their same as them.
I just don't know how to face this reality.
I'm just soo scared. i can't even love myself.
I hope you read me
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education
I just want to add something. If your child or someone around your family says that you're pressing the child too much, this does not mean that they want you to stop asking if the child is ok. Just, you do not have to find an answer to all their problems. If a child tells you something it isn't always because they expect you to give them the solution, maybe it just too difficult for them to handle it alone and they want to throw it out, so they tell you. Don't focus on the solution, focus on what they are feeling, and remember that if you show that you are trying, they will always love you.
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I just want to add something. If your child or someone around your family says that you're pressing the child too much, this does not mean that they want you to stop asking if the child is ok. Just, you do not have to find an answer to all their problems. If a child tells you something it isn't always because they expect you to give them the solution, maybe it just too difficult for them to handle it alone and they want to throw it out, so they tell you. Don't focus on the solution, focus on what they are feeling, and remember that if you show that you are trying, they will always love you.
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Blep
My birth giver decided to just have MORE kids cause me, the oldest one, decided to grow up and stop living in the parents know best. I ended up hating her and the day when I move out I'll cut all contact with her, she doesn't deserve ANYTHING from me and she's not going to get it. She could end up having cancer and dying but I'd still stay away from her. I mean, she tried to strangle me cause of LIES my sisters told her, she trusted my sisters who lie, steal and did NOTHING for her or their own future so she wanted to kill me herself cause she brought me in this world, she'll take me out too.
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My birth giver decided to just have MORE kids cause me, the oldest one, decided to grow up and stop living in the parents know best. I ended up hating her and the day when I move out I'll cut all contact with her, she doesn't deserve ANYTHING from me and she's not going to get it. She could end up having cancer and dying but I'd still stay away from her. I mean, she tried to strangle me cause of LIES my sisters told her, she trusted my sisters who lie, steal and did NOTHING for her or their own future so she wanted to kill me herself cause she brought me in this world, she'll take me out too.
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The
It's surprising that so many people decide to be parents even though it's just straight up, hard, and practically nothing else. Just hard. Like they give up their whole lives for a person that might end up hating them, idk.
I'm not really planning to be a parent, I just can't stand being curious about something that doesn't have an answer I can understand. Parents usually say they become parents for the love and fulfillment but that makes no sense to me. Perhaps I'll know eventually.
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It's surprising that so many people decide to be parents even though it's just straight up, hard, and practically nothing else. Just hard. Like they give up their whole lives for a person that might end up hating them, idk.
I'm not really planning to be a parent, I just can't stand being curious about something that doesn't have an answer I can understand. Parents usually say they become parents for the love and fulfillment but that makes no sense to me. Perhaps I'll know eventually.
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sillywillymillyy
This made me cry. Im not even a parent or plan to right now but wow. My parents passed when I was young so I didnt get the same childhood and it made me tear up thinking about what ifs memories with my parents if they were still alive. This is also going to be a future letter to me when I do plan on having kids. I hope I can give them a beautiful life filled with experiences and courage explore and question and have a life not filled with turmoil and sadness like mine.
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This made me cry. Im not even a parent or plan to right now but wow. My parents passed when I was young so I didnt get the same childhood and it made me tear up thinking about what ifs memories with my parents if they were still alive. This is also going to be a future letter to me when I do plan on having kids. I hope I can give them a beautiful life filled with experiences and courage explore and question and have a life not filled with turmoil and sadness like mine.
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AK
the only trauma ive ever had is the last time i knew i was lying or something idk what came into my mind at that moment but now im imune to lying idk how my parent did it but there amazing raised me to be nice and not lying handeling 3 kids at a time raised me to love my sisters they used magic to raise me in telling you and i bet theyll do it to my sisters with my help too
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the only trauma ive ever had is the last time i knew i was lying or something idk what came into my mind at that moment but now im imune to lying idk how my parent did it but there amazing raised me to be nice and not lying handeling 3 kids at a time raised me to love my sisters they used magic to raise me in telling you and i bet theyll do it to my sisters with my help too
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Silver
I've been adjusting to life as a new mom for three months now to my baby boy. There were times I felt so alone and unsure of what I was doing because of my young age and lack of independence in my life. Watching this video really put things in perspective for me and I can see how to go about life with my child without so much worry.
Thank you
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I've been adjusting to life as a new mom for three months now to my baby boy. There were times I felt so alone and unsure of what I was doing because of my young age and lack of independence in my life. Watching this video really put things in perspective for me and I can see how to go about life with my child without so much worry.
Thank you
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ELLA
i might been so critical to myself and anxious for earlier years, i'm thankful to have a mother who always been letting us (her children) what we want to be and decide for our own.
i'm not a parent yet (and even anytime soon) but i think this vid reminds me of how i treat my younger sister (16 yrs gap)
thank you
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i might been so critical to myself and anxious for earlier years, i'm thankful to have a mother who always been letting us (her children) what we want to be and decide for our own.
i'm not a parent yet (and even anytime soon) but i think this vid reminds me of how i treat my younger sister (16 yrs gap)
thank you
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never
I want to adopt children because I want to do better than my parents did to me. I want to adopt an older child because theyre usually not as favorable compared to young kids
But Im not going to. Not until my own mental health is better. I shouldnt raise a kid until Im actually ready
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I want to adopt children because I want to do better than my parents did to me. I want to adopt an older child because theyre usually not as favorable compared to young kids
But Im not going to. Not until my own mental health is better. I shouldnt raise a kid until Im actually ready
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Lis
My boyfriend always says I have a very strong mother instinct.
My biggest dream is to marry and have children. Many children.
It is always the last thing I think about before falling asleep.
I think I was born to be a mother.
I just. hope to be better than mine was.
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My boyfriend always says I have a very strong mother instinct.
My biggest dream is to marry and have children. Many children.
It is always the last thing I think about before falling asleep.
I think I was born to be a mother.
I just. hope to be better than mine was.
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Kat.
If you're ready to have a kid who's difficult and complex and stays with you foe the rest of your life and you still feel Yep, I'd love that, that's when you get one. Otherwise, let's just not. The earth is overpopulated and too many people have children for the wrong reasons.
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If you're ready to have a kid who's difficult and complex and stays with you foe the rest of your life and you still feel Yep, I'd love that, that's when you get one. Otherwise, let's just not. The earth is overpopulated and too many people have children for the wrong reasons.
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Shuga
As a mom I 100% agree. I want my child to find his own passion in this world, not to follow mine. I don't want him to have a job that makes him a lot of $, I want his job to be one of his choosing that makes him content and if he makes good $ doing it then that's a bonus
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As a mom I 100% agree. I want my child to find his own passion in this world, not to follow mine. I don't want him to have a job that makes him a lot of $, I want his job to be one of his choosing that makes him content and if he makes good $ doing it then that's a bonus
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ukscf
Just being a parent does not make you infallible, does not grant you an indentured servant, does not mean you can cultivate your children like livestock for your own purposes. End irresponsible procreation, the suffering is unbearable.
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Just being a parent does not make you infallible, does not grant you an indentured servant, does not mean you can cultivate your children like livestock for your own purposes. End irresponsible procreation, the suffering is unbearable.
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Lyn
Im still 19 and Im not a mother nor a future mother but this helped me so much for how to deal with my baby sisters! I kinda feel like they are my daughters instead because of the age gap lol, one of them even calls me Mama lol
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Im still 19 and Im not a mother nor a future mother but this helped me so much for how to deal with my baby sisters! I kinda feel like they are my daughters instead because of the age gap lol, one of them even calls me Mama lol
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Nightwolf96
I am not a parent, but, I fell like Im a mom for a friend. She dosent have one, She is 10, I'm older than her and when I can I help her, take care of her. It's hard to see that her parents didn't really care about her.
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I am not a parent, but, I fell like Im a mom for a friend. She dosent have one, She is 10, I'm older than her and when I can I help her, take care of her. It's hard to see that her parents didn't really care about her.
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Psych2Go
One of psych2go's missions is to create the next healthy generation of parents. Do you have toxic parents? Are you wondering if you would make a good parent? Please consider sharing this video.
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One of psych2go's missions is to create the next healthy generation of parents. Do you have toxic parents? Are you wondering if you would make a good parent? Please consider sharing this video.
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Brxead
Me: 16, in high school, and the thought of having children makes me cringe.
Also me: still watching this video in case I do miraculously become a parent one day
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Me: 16, in high school, and the thought of having children makes me cringe.
Also me: still watching this video in case I do miraculously become a parent one day
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BLOODSUN
my parents force me to spend time with them and pressure me to do things with them all the time, even when I'm in a bad mental state. does anyone have any advice?
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my parents force me to spend time with them and pressure me to do things with them all the time, even when I'm in a bad mental state. does anyone have any advice?
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AzureBlade
PSYCH2GO: how to become a better parent
My parents: Oh please. we are already _beyond_ better parents. We already have this info, PLUS MUCH MORE THAN THAT.
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PSYCH2GO: how to become a better parent
My parents: Oh please. we are already _beyond_ better parents. We already have this info, PLUS MUCH MORE THAN THAT.
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psych2go
I'm a highschool senior and I want nothing more than a wife and kids some day so I'm learning now so that I don't make any lasting mistakes with my future kids
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I'm a highschool senior and I want nothing more than a wife and kids some day so I'm learning now so that I don't make any lasting mistakes with my future kids
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MCAlexisYT
So while its certainly not anyones place to tell you what you should and shouldnt do
Narcissistic parents: And I see that as an absolute win!
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So while its certainly not anyones place to tell you what you should and shouldnt do
Narcissistic parents: And I see that as an absolute win!
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Nameless161
You should respect your child even if they are part of lgbtq and don't make fun of their hobbies ir what they like, even if they seem weird
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You should respect your child even if they are part of lgbtq and don't make fun of their hobbies ir what they like, even if they seem weird
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