5 Types Of People You Should Stop Being Friends With
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Date: 2023-08-20
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shashank
I've 1st and 3rd kind of friends. I only used to get calls when they needed a ride, I was like a driver to them and less like a friend. Now they own their own vehicles so they've completed stopped texting me. No one has contacted me for 1. 5 years and they'll probably blame this on me also that I didn't try to contact them.
One friend told me that I've totally lost in touch and that I should hang out with them more. How am I supposed to jnow if they're partying or going out if I'm not informed?
These are my closest friends that know me for more than 12 - 15 years. No one even wished me on birthday this year. I don't care about getting wishes but birthday is the only day you remember someone at least. And it's not that they don't remember, they vividly remember it cuz I share birthday with one of those friends. This day literally opened my eyes and I've officially decided to break friendship with them.
This video made me be proud on my decision. I'd rather be alone than to have friends like them. And this is the most wise decision I've taken and I'm proud of it.
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I've 1st and 3rd kind of friends. I only used to get calls when they needed a ride, I was like a driver to them and less like a friend. Now they own their own vehicles so they've completed stopped texting me. No one has contacted me for 1. 5 years and they'll probably blame this on me also that I didn't try to contact them.
One friend told me that I've totally lost in touch and that I should hang out with them more. How am I supposed to jnow if they're partying or going out if I'm not informed?
These are my closest friends that know me for more than 12 - 15 years. No one even wished me on birthday this year. I don't care about getting wishes but birthday is the only day you remember someone at least. And it's not that they don't remember, they vividly remember it cuz I share birthday with one of those friends. This day literally opened my eyes and I've officially decided to break friendship with them.
This video made me be proud on my decision. I'd rather be alone than to have friends like them. And this is the most wise decision I've taken and I'm proud of it.
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Maryo274Artworks
I had this friend that fits in most these, if not all. It took me a while to realize and I honestly feel a little dumb for taking so long but eventually I had to cut him out of my life. It hurted like hell, cause we actually had some pretty good and meaningful moments together, but his habit of putting me down, calling me mean things and straight out humiliate me under the excuse that he was caring for me, pushing me to improve and teaching me to be better and stronger eventually did some serious damage to my mental health and self-esteem to the point I truly thought I was worthless. And while I can always improve myself in many aspect, like getting into better shape to feel healthier and be more organized, it shouldn't come at the cost of having someone putting me down all the time.
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I had this friend that fits in most these, if not all. It took me a while to realize and I honestly feel a little dumb for taking so long but eventually I had to cut him out of my life. It hurted like hell, cause we actually had some pretty good and meaningful moments together, but his habit of putting me down, calling me mean things and straight out humiliate me under the excuse that he was caring for me, pushing me to improve and teaching me to be better and stronger eventually did some serious damage to my mental health and self-esteem to the point I truly thought I was worthless. And while I can always improve myself in many aspect, like getting into better shape to feel healthier and be more organized, it shouldn't come at the cost of having someone putting me down all the time.
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Anon647
Ive definetely had friends who i had to reach out to almost everytime just to see them. They were my only friends at the time and i was afraid of being alone. What i noticed these friends do that i dont think the video mentioned is that the few times they do reach out to you, it will be for small things as a way for them to not feel bad about not reaching you, and when you call them out on it, theyll just be like but we did invite you here that one time. I stopped reaching out to these friends and only hangout with them when they reached out. Ive seen them like 3 times in the last 4 years. I explained this to my therapist recently and her exact words were they were never your friends. They just didnt know how to unfriend you without looking like the bad guys.
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Ive definetely had friends who i had to reach out to almost everytime just to see them. They were my only friends at the time and i was afraid of being alone. What i noticed these friends do that i dont think the video mentioned is that the few times they do reach out to you, it will be for small things as a way for them to not feel bad about not reaching you, and when you call them out on it, theyll just be like but we did invite you here that one time. I stopped reaching out to these friends and only hangout with them when they reached out. Ive seen them like 3 times in the last 4 years. I explained this to my therapist recently and her exact words were they were never your friends. They just didnt know how to unfriend you without looking like the bad guys.
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Shell
Im glad that i ended my friendship with 2 twin toxic friends, (they are in 7th grade, Im from 8th grade) because ever since i started to talk to them, i interested their other classmates to join their friend circle; from 3, to 5, to half of their class. Halfway during that toxic friendship, they started interrupting me whenever i started speaking. It even came to a point to make me feel as if i come back to my past becoming a ghost. Im upset on how even when they walk past me, and see how now my friend circle was peaceful and better than the one i made, they keep acting as if they are a part of it, but from only walking up to me, greeting me and running off without giving me a chance to say a word.
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Im glad that i ended my friendship with 2 twin toxic friends, (they are in 7th grade, Im from 8th grade) because ever since i started to talk to them, i interested their other classmates to join their friend circle; from 3, to 5, to half of their class. Halfway during that toxic friendship, they started interrupting me whenever i started speaking. It even came to a point to make me feel as if i come back to my past becoming a ghost. Im upset on how even when they walk past me, and see how now my friend circle was peaceful and better than the one i made, they keep acting as if they are a part of it, but from only walking up to me, greeting me and running off without giving me a chance to say a word.
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education
Umm. I realized I myself am that friend. What do I do now?
I considered only two of the people I have known for 3 years as my only friends.
I've hurt them multiple times I believe it's no wonder why they wouldn't wanna get back to me.
But even then I can't think of making anymore friends as I'll only end up hurting them as well.
The worst trait about me is. I'm an attention seeker. So, I end up embarrassing myself by being clingy and telling lies about how I just died. So this also makes me a sympathy gainer.
TlDR: I'm toxic and I refuse to be friends with anyone anymore. Do you guys have any suggestions or book recommendations as I'm broke and can't afford therapy.
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Umm. I realized I myself am that friend. What do I do now?
I considered only two of the people I have known for 3 years as my only friends.
I've hurt them multiple times I believe it's no wonder why they wouldn't wanna get back to me.
But even then I can't think of making anymore friends as I'll only end up hurting them as well.
The worst trait about me is. I'm an attention seeker. So, I end up embarrassing myself by being clingy and telling lies about how I just died. So this also makes me a sympathy gainer.
TlDR: I'm toxic and I refuse to be friends with anyone anymore. Do you guys have any suggestions or book recommendations as I'm broke and can't afford therapy.
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z0mBi3cAt
My friend thinks that being in the friendship give you an excuse to hit people for example im sitting LIKE JUST THAT and they come to me and randomly beat me up when I yell at them and telling him that this hurts really bad and that he should stop and they tell me that im too aggressive and this is just a joke he thinks that just because we are friends gives him a permission to beat me up saying mean words and treating me like shit he thinks that Im some kind of punching bag that when he is bored he can come to it and randomly hit it saying cursed words and being mean.
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My friend thinks that being in the friendship give you an excuse to hit people for example im sitting LIKE JUST THAT and they come to me and randomly beat me up when I yell at them and telling him that this hurts really bad and that he should stop and they tell me that im too aggressive and this is just a joke he thinks that just because we are friends gives him a permission to beat me up saying mean words and treating me like shit he thinks that Im some kind of punching bag that when he is bored he can come to it and randomly hit it saying cursed words and being mean.
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Dapper_Frogii
I have a use to be friend that insulted me and physically abused me a lot in school for 2 terms, I wouldn't call it bullying bc she is small and I could end her in like 3 seconds, I just tolerated it and hated it, she never did it to anyone else but me, everything she got mad she took it out on me, anytime she had problems she blamed it on me, I hate her so much that I just want her to suffer but that wouldn't make me any different to her, it would make me worse. Honestly I'll just avoid her at all costs and ignore her and forget that she ever existed
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I have a use to be friend that insulted me and physically abused me a lot in school for 2 terms, I wouldn't call it bullying bc she is small and I could end her in like 3 seconds, I just tolerated it and hated it, she never did it to anyone else but me, everything she got mad she took it out on me, anytime she had problems she blamed it on me, I hate her so much that I just want her to suffer but that wouldn't make me any different to her, it would make me worse. Honestly I'll just avoid her at all costs and ignore her and forget that she ever existed
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Qier
i have question maybe you said it in there and my enghlish is not good enough or you didnt well i have friend i dont know if hes friend when were alone hes kind and happy person but whne we are in a group he starts to be toxic at me for nothing makin fun of me because of my body weight or even sometimes when were alone he starts to be different and starts to being toxic to me for nothing even if i said for him to stop doing it to me should i think of our friendship? and end it(sorry for my enghlish if i have mistakes in this comment)
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i have question maybe you said it in there and my enghlish is not good enough or you didnt well i have friend i dont know if hes friend when were alone hes kind and happy person but whne we are in a group he starts to be toxic at me for nothing makin fun of me because of my body weight or even sometimes when were alone he starts to be different and starts to being toxic to me for nothing even if i said for him to stop doing it to me should i think of our friendship? and end it(sorry for my enghlish if i have mistakes in this comment)
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psych2go
I usually don't reach out much, I usually feel like maybe I'm bothering them. Of course I feel happy when someone reaches out to me. Also there are some friends that I kinda consider just a school friend, that I'm not sure talking just casually from time to time. There is this guy occasionally chats me, well we did got close cuz we work at school together but now that it's vacation, he did sometimes reach out but me, idk if I'm ever gonna reach out first cuz its not like we have that deep level of a friendship? Idk
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I usually don't reach out much, I usually feel like maybe I'm bothering them. Of course I feel happy when someone reaches out to me. Also there are some friends that I kinda consider just a school friend, that I'm not sure talking just casually from time to time. There is this guy occasionally chats me, well we did got close cuz we work at school together but now that it's vacation, he did sometimes reach out but me, idk if I'm ever gonna reach out first cuz its not like we have that deep level of a friendship? Idk
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Gory_rade
Hey I have a question so my class me which is my boy best friend wow I was on a call after I showered and got dressed he told me if he can see (you know what) and it made me uncomfortable and hes really really talkative and hes really suss sometimes like on that call and he kept calling me and calling me and I bet he didnt even listen to my other friend that was on the call telling him that I was showering please tell me if anyone could tell me hes a bad friend and I should end the relationship with him: (
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Hey I have a question so my class me which is my boy best friend wow I was on a call after I showered and got dressed he told me if he can see (you know what) and it made me uncomfortable and hes really really talkative and hes really suss sometimes like on that call and he kept calling me and calling me and I bet he didnt even listen to my other friend that was on the call telling him that I was showering please tell me if anyone could tell me hes a bad friend and I should end the relationship with him: (
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Breee
Bruh 1: 10 and 2: 59 thats literally what my ex so called friend let alone I called her bestie due to peer pressure and manipulative guilt trip. Literally all she did was gossip and I relaize that now. Meanwhile I HATE gossip and gossipers. (Empath infj)And was using me for all her problems she only really been there count 1 time and it wasnt reslly that deep now that I think about it. And i was making the time and effort bro I evens et the timer and she just slept on it.
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Bruh 1: 10 and 2: 59 thats literally what my ex so called friend let alone I called her bestie due to peer pressure and manipulative guilt trip. Literally all she did was gossip and I relaize that now. Meanwhile I HATE gossip and gossipers. (Empath infj)And was using me for all her problems she only really been there count 1 time and it wasnt reslly that deep now that I think about it. And i was making the time and effort bro I evens et the timer and she just slept on it.
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StarJohnny
I had a classmate one time and I was in senior year who always needed something from me, and if I didn't do it, he would get upset and lash out on me for no reason. It got to a point where I didn't want to be around him anymore. And then this kind of friendship started to turn possessive and I wasn't allowed to sit with my friends or my girlfriend and it got to a point now where I had to literally ask permission to hang out with some of my other friends.
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I had a classmate one time and I was in senior year who always needed something from me, and if I didn't do it, he would get upset and lash out on me for no reason. It got to a point where I didn't want to be around him anymore. And then this kind of friendship started to turn possessive and I wasn't allowed to sit with my friends or my girlfriend and it got to a point now where I had to literally ask permission to hang out with some of my other friends.
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Zack
Message For Anyone Who Are looking To Make True Friends:
8 People To Avoid:
- Abusers
- Bigots
- Bullies
- Creeps
- Hotheads
- Manipulators
- Narcissists
- Whiners
4 People Who Are Good To Be Around:
- Compassionate People
- Funny People
- Genuine People
- Wise People
(To all my fellow human brothers and sisters around the world, stay safe & always remember be genuine & take care of one another)
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Message For Anyone Who Are looking To Make True Friends:
8 People To Avoid:
- Abusers
- Bigots
- Bullies
- Creeps
- Hotheads
- Manipulators
- Narcissists
- Whiners
4 People Who Are Good To Be Around:
- Compassionate People
- Funny People
- Genuine People
- Wise People
(To all my fellow human brothers and sisters around the world, stay safe & always remember be genuine & take care of one another)
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Ben
I once had a friend in high school that would CONSTANTLY put me down (others aswell, but mostly me) because i wasnt as good or as successful as he supposedly was - it got to the point that i had to mentally prepare myself in order to go and visit him. I broke off the friendship after he crossed the line a few years ago, and have been alot better without him in my life. I GENUINELY wish him well, and I dont hate him, but he needs professional help.
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I once had a friend in high school that would CONSTANTLY put me down (others aswell, but mostly me) because i wasnt as good or as successful as he supposedly was - it got to the point that i had to mentally prepare myself in order to go and visit him. I broke off the friendship after he crossed the line a few years ago, and have been alot better without him in my life. I GENUINELY wish him well, and I dont hate him, but he needs professional help.
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sanity
I actually cannot do this anymore my friendship is becoming one sided and she is too tired to text me thru online even tho we have met multiple times online I know this seems like im the asshole but hear me out so my friend is too tired to text me or whatever but the next second is live with her friends, texting other people and ETC. please help I dont wanna loose a friendship of 2 years
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I actually cannot do this anymore my friendship is becoming one sided and she is too tired to text me thru online even tho we have met multiple times online I know this seems like im the asshole but hear me out so my friend is too tired to text me or whatever but the next second is live with her friends, texting other people and ETC. please help I dont wanna loose a friendship of 2 years
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Turquoise
There are two parts to this video that gave me insight about myself when I realise that I guess I kinda change the subject a lot to something that I like level crossings also I realise that Im kind of consistently asking my father for cash so I can buy something for myself but I never give him some of that item to I think I might change
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There are two parts to this video that gave me insight about myself when I realise that I guess I kinda change the subject a lot to something that I like level crossings also I realise that Im kind of consistently asking my father for cash so I can buy something for myself but I never give him some of that item to I think I might change
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hello
My best friend is the type of friend who always twists everything into something about her and never listens or cares about what's going on with me an I kinda wanna end our friendship but idk how. and I'm scared to cause she's a bit popular and could easily ruin my life even more then school already has. any sugggestions?
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My best friend is the type of friend who always twists everything into something about her and never listens or cares about what's going on with me an I kinda wanna end our friendship but idk how. and I'm scared to cause she's a bit popular and could easily ruin my life even more then school already has. any sugggestions?
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New
About the type of a friend who mostly doesnt communicate with another one:
Its just me and my best friend, we dont spend barely any time doing something together out of school but we still. Wait a minute, thats just me, not my friend
Bruh, i needed so much time to underdtans how much introvert i am
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About the type of a friend who mostly doesnt communicate with another one:
Its just me and my best friend, we dont spend barely any time doing something together out of school but we still. Wait a minute, thats just me, not my friend
Bruh, i needed so much time to underdtans how much introvert i am
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Fae
It's true if I notice a friendship is 1 sided or mostly 1 sided it's time to cut them off (get rid of them) because it's pointless having a friend who doesn't make time for me regardless if busy or not and who shows no interest in being my friend, it shouldn't just be me showing interest and love.
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It's true if I notice a friendship is 1 sided or mostly 1 sided it's time to cut them off (get rid of them) because it's pointless having a friend who doesn't make time for me regardless if busy or not and who shows no interest in being my friend, it shouldn't just be me showing interest and love.
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education
Whenever I ask my friend how many siblings she has for work, she will ALWAYS mention her decease brother and trying to make me feel bad, I mean I feel bad but she always mentions about him, like I get it, it annoys me that she keeps making everything I talk to turns negative
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Whenever I ask my friend how many siblings she has for work, she will ALWAYS mention her decease brother and trying to make me feel bad, I mean I feel bad but she always mentions about him, like I get it, it annoys me that she keeps making everything I talk to turns negative
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Donald
After watching this video I realized I need to cut the dead weight out of my life, too many people use and abuse me just to get what they want! The honest true friends I have I can count on 1 hand, and my family. I only see them once a year at Christmas. So no loss there!
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After watching this video I realized I need to cut the dead weight out of my life, too many people use and abuse me just to get what they want! The honest true friends I have I can count on 1 hand, and my family. I only see them once a year at Christmas. So no loss there!
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HalfBakedCroissant
I have the friend where she only talks to me when she needs something, and almost never returns the favor. Im thinking of just stop being friends with her because of that. She also spends her time with her other friends and completely leaves me out
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I have the friend where she only talks to me when she needs something, and almost never returns the favor. Im thinking of just stop being friends with her because of that. She also spends her time with her other friends and completely leaves me out
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MereCoolDude
I am number three though I have a reason. My friend is actually my siblings friend and I dont really like them, not to be mean or anything but I dont feel much enjoyment when I play video games with them which is one of MY FAVORITE THINGS TO DO
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I am number three though I have a reason. My friend is actually my siblings friend and I dont really like them, not to be mean or anything but I dont feel much enjoyment when I play video games with them which is one of MY FAVORITE THINGS TO DO
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mohcicecream
The friend who always needs something 0: 45
The friend who gaslihghts you 1: 53
The friend who never reaches out to you 2: 28
The friend who always talks about themselves 3: 05
The friend who always talks down on you 3: 48
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The friend who always needs something 0: 45
The friend who gaslihghts you 1: 53
The friend who never reaches out to you 2: 28
The friend who always talks about themselves 3: 05
The friend who always talks down on you 3: 48
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Veda
I have a friend that keeps switching from a friend to not friend what should I do? Because they dont really play with me at recess, and shes not been much of a friend. Do you have an advice? Make a video about this.
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I have a friend that keeps switching from a friend to not friend what should I do? Because they dont really play with me at recess, and shes not been much of a friend. Do you have an advice? Make a video about this.
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