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6 Things Only Fake Friends Do [Real Humans Version]
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Hira
I had someone like that. I say HAD because I dont really consider them a friend anymore. I moved down to Florida for schooling and got an apartment. Ive invited this person over to check it out but they were outta town, which is fine. Once they got IN town, I invited them but they said they were too busy no have a lot going on. Thats fine, I guess were not close enough for me to help with that, but whatever. I say hello here and there from then on out until few weeks ago There was an event at our college that happens yearly and I already went for attendance. She messaged me, asking if I already went and if not, do I want to go with her on Thursday? I told her I went but I dont mind going on Thursday. Heres the thing: I had to work Thursday morning and I forgot about that. I kindly asked my boss to take me off the schedule because the event is part of my grade and my boss (Ill miss him when I graduate) understood and took me off, loosing $100 worth of hours. No biggie, a sting that needs solution and a bandage, I can get over it. When the day came, I was getting ready and get going and I texted her to see if shes there and that Im on my way. She then tells me last minute that she cannot go because her boyfriend is going through something or is doing something else and because of that, shes not going. Originally she AND her boyfriend were coming together and because hes not going, shes not going. Now, before you assume abuse, Ive met them together and the dude is lazy and so is she at times. They are happy together and she always talks about what the two are doing.
That crossed the line. I gave my money that I need for welfare just to spend time with a friend I havent seen for a year and a half for some dumbass reason? I told her how crossed I was at her and it was best to tell her before I say or do regrettable things. It felt good to tel her that she was wrong and what that actually cost me. We planned on Monday, you couldnt tell Tuesday or Wednesday? Now, I just keep to myself and hold 1 or 2 friends close. People who have friends like this, dont waste your anger on them. Tell them how you feel without acting out and walk away, youll feel pretty good!
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I had someone like that. I say HAD because I dont really consider them a friend anymore. I moved down to Florida for schooling and got an apartment. Ive invited this person over to check it out but they were outta town, which is fine. Once they got IN town, I invited them but they said they were too busy no have a lot going on. Thats fine, I guess were not close enough for me to help with that, but whatever. I say hello here and there from then on out until few weeks ago There was an event at our college that happens yearly and I already went for attendance. She messaged me, asking if I already went and if not, do I want to go with her on Thursday? I told her I went but I dont mind going on Thursday. Heres the thing: I had to work Thursday morning and I forgot about that. I kindly asked my boss to take me off the schedule because the event is part of my grade and my boss (Ill miss him when I graduate) understood and took me off, loosing $100 worth of hours. No biggie, a sting that needs solution and a bandage, I can get over it. When the day came, I was getting ready and get going and I texted her to see if shes there and that Im on my way. She then tells me last minute that she cannot go because her boyfriend is going through something or is doing something else and because of that, shes not going. Originally she AND her boyfriend were coming together and because hes not going, shes not going. Now, before you assume abuse, Ive met them together and the dude is lazy and so is she at times. They are happy together and she always talks about what the two are doing.
That crossed the line. I gave my money that I need for welfare just to spend time with a friend I havent seen for a year and a half for some dumbass reason? I told her how crossed I was at her and it was best to tell her before I say or do regrettable things. It felt good to tel her that she was wrong and what that actually cost me. We planned on Monday, you couldnt tell Tuesday or Wednesday? Now, I just keep to myself and hold 1 or 2 friends close. People who have friends like this, dont waste your anger on them. Tell them how you feel without acting out and walk away, youll feel pretty good!
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SynnBloodSuccubus
Ill admit im very flaky only because Im both a people pleaser but i also have social anxiety. Cant help but blindly say yes out of fear of being judged or having to come up with some way to defend myself and explain. Ill say yes to outings when I never really wanted to go in the first place cause social outings make me feel really uncomfortable. Im also guilty of calling for favors then ghosting I guess. Idk what that really entails cause ya I call friends and ask for advice, comfort or when I need someone to talk to and then after I dont reach out to them again but if they reached out to me and asked for the same I wouldnt ignore them. It wouldnt bother me at all of thats all the relationship was just calling each other every so often just to get one another's help and that be it. Id be happy and comfortable with that cause im just nog a very social person who feels comfortable building close relationships. I have my mom and my hubby, thats all i need.
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Ill admit im very flaky only because Im both a people pleaser but i also have social anxiety. Cant help but blindly say yes out of fear of being judged or having to come up with some way to defend myself and explain. Ill say yes to outings when I never really wanted to go in the first place cause social outings make me feel really uncomfortable. Im also guilty of calling for favors then ghosting I guess. Idk what that really entails cause ya I call friends and ask for advice, comfort or when I need someone to talk to and then after I dont reach out to them again but if they reached out to me and asked for the same I wouldnt ignore them. It wouldnt bother me at all of thats all the relationship was just calling each other every so often just to get one another's help and that be it. Id be happy and comfortable with that cause im just nog a very social person who feels comfortable building close relationships. I have my mom and my hubby, thats all i need.
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Ketamine
so i have one friend that was my best friend and lover. we had so much fun together! But one day things really changed and they stopped inviting me to everything and now they always tell me they have a lot of homework (i mean they say this all the time and i don't think they don't take a break. I got mad at my friend when they betrayed me by not apologising, lying to me and being rude. because of that, i tried to keep everything in me until one day all of my anger went out for the most unimportant thing and then we didn't talk for 1 week. i apologised to my friend for getting mad at them but they just answered with an ''ok''.
After i finally decided to hang out with again, i wanted to make the situation clear and ask them why they were so rude. i was expecting and apollogy but nothing happened. there's much more between us but now we're still friends. it's been months and i can't get over this and i'm always mad about the past. they are a fake friend
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so i have one friend that was my best friend and lover. we had so much fun together! But one day things really changed and they stopped inviting me to everything and now they always tell me they have a lot of homework (i mean they say this all the time and i don't think they don't take a break. I got mad at my friend when they betrayed me by not apologising, lying to me and being rude. because of that, i tried to keep everything in me until one day all of my anger went out for the most unimportant thing and then we didn't talk for 1 week. i apologised to my friend for getting mad at them but they just answered with an ''ok''.
After i finally decided to hang out with again, i wanted to make the situation clear and ask them why they were so rude. i was expecting and apollogy but nothing happened. there's much more between us but now we're still friends. it's been months and i can't get over this and i'm always mad about the past. they are a fake friend
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Licht
I want to ask your guys opinion
My friends always make fun of me that it's actually becoming pretty bad
I always tell them to stop in a way that doesn't hurt them
When i get angry because of what they do to me they told me to chill out BUT WHAT CAN I DO! YOU'RE TOTALLY RUINING MY MOODS Our friendship growth apart as we got older, i already took a step to keep myself away from them
And they said i was being arrogant when I don't talk to them anymore
So I back to be friends with them
You can say that I'm a fool but I still love being friends with them it's just i don't like how they don't respect my privacy and don't learn their boundaries As the only introvert in my group, i gradually showed that I'm tired of keeping up the conversation so these days I talk less and one of them said I'm no fun
Sorry for my English I want to see what you guys think of what I should do
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I want to ask your guys opinion
My friends always make fun of me that it's actually becoming pretty bad
I always tell them to stop in a way that doesn't hurt them
When i get angry because of what they do to me they told me to chill out BUT WHAT CAN I DO! YOU'RE TOTALLY RUINING MY MOODS Our friendship growth apart as we got older, i already took a step to keep myself away from them
And they said i was being arrogant when I don't talk to them anymore
So I back to be friends with them
You can say that I'm a fool but I still love being friends with them it's just i don't like how they don't respect my privacy and don't learn their boundaries As the only introvert in my group, i gradually showed that I'm tired of keeping up the conversation so these days I talk less and one of them said I'm no fun
Sorry for my English I want to see what you guys think of what I should do
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Damia
I had a bestfriend once. We've been friends for 4 years. I saw her as a sister. But 2 weeks before we finished school, we had a big fight. Almost everyone accused me. That really hurt me. But what made me cry was when my own bestfriend betrayed me. In fact, she was the first person to accuse me. I was almost going insane. But I was so glad that 4 of my other friends try helping me out since the were there when the fight started. Since that day, she was the first and forever person that I couldn't trust anymore. Luckily 2 days after, everyone that accused me apologized and they told me that they have finally realized her true colour. This was the memory that will always be remembered: )
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I had a bestfriend once. We've been friends for 4 years. I saw her as a sister. But 2 weeks before we finished school, we had a big fight. Almost everyone accused me. That really hurt me. But what made me cry was when my own bestfriend betrayed me. In fact, she was the first person to accuse me. I was almost going insane. But I was so glad that 4 of my other friends try helping me out since the were there when the fight started. Since that day, she was the first and forever person that I couldn't trust anymore. Luckily 2 days after, everyone that accused me apologized and they told me that they have finally realized her true colour. This was the memory that will always be remembered: )
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Npla
I've recently decided to end a 15-year long relationship with a friend. I can relate to this video. For the last year of our friendship it became more clear that our friendship was more one-sided. After I help them finding their significant other, they were using me more, ghosting me more, whenever we were making plans it was always on their schedule, couldn't even reply to a simple text of either yes or no, only texting cause they wanting something from me. Came to realization and accepting to end my long time friendship then to continue being abused and use. Cutting out the toxic from my life. Ever since then a big weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
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I've recently decided to end a 15-year long relationship with a friend. I can relate to this video. For the last year of our friendship it became more clear that our friendship was more one-sided. After I help them finding their significant other, they were using me more, ghosting me more, whenever we were making plans it was always on their schedule, couldn't even reply to a simple text of either yes or no, only texting cause they wanting something from me. Came to realization and accepting to end my long time friendship then to continue being abused and use. Cutting out the toxic from my life. Ever since then a big weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
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James.
I worked with this polish woman in my workplace who is very fake, she would be overly friendly with you, but then she would stab you in the back and get you into trouble. And the worst thing is, she would act as though nothing happened, but she made it so obvious that it was clearly her who did it, because she would go quiet on you as if I'm not speaking to you now, because I'm pretending to be scared of this situation now, it's truly, truly pathetic. I absolutely hate this woman now, I can't even look at her anymore because her fake expressions on her face just annoys me to the core. I just completely ignore her now like she doesn't even exist.
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I worked with this polish woman in my workplace who is very fake, she would be overly friendly with you, but then she would stab you in the back and get you into trouble. And the worst thing is, she would act as though nothing happened, but she made it so obvious that it was clearly her who did it, because she would go quiet on you as if I'm not speaking to you now, because I'm pretending to be scared of this situation now, it's truly, truly pathetic. I absolutely hate this woman now, I can't even look at her anymore because her fake expressions on her face just annoys me to the core. I just completely ignore her now like she doesn't even exist.
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Tatiana
My fake friend after draining me emotionally and not being there for me when I needed her but only calling me she was having anxiety or a panic attack told me this past weekend that maybe we shouldnt hangout because she didnt want to be the trauma or the inconvenience to my kid because I was there for her when I couldve just been at a better place where my kid wouldve been happier. When she said that I realized I wasnt even upset, I felt more of emotional relief and this just proved that what I was feeling was understandable.
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My fake friend after draining me emotionally and not being there for me when I needed her but only calling me she was having anxiety or a panic attack told me this past weekend that maybe we shouldnt hangout because she didnt want to be the trauma or the inconvenience to my kid because I was there for her when I couldve just been at a better place where my kid wouldve been happier. When she said that I realized I wasnt even upset, I felt more of emotional relief and this just proved that what I was feeling was understandable.
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Flying
Will never be friends with co workers again! Had a fake friend co worker really treat me bad for a few years always trying to make me feel bad and look bad talking behind my back and acting like they were my best friend just to spread gossip. I realize now how foolish I was, this person never had anybody empathy for me ever. He always went out of there way to act like they were better then me like they new more then me. When I look back at it I feel sorry for him because he will never know friendship or Love.
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Will never be friends with co workers again! Had a fake friend co worker really treat me bad for a few years always trying to make me feel bad and look bad talking behind my back and acting like they were my best friend just to spread gossip. I realize now how foolish I was, this person never had anybody empathy for me ever. He always went out of there way to act like they were better then me like they new more then me. When I look back at it I feel sorry for him because he will never know friendship or Love.
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DeadnotAlive
I just have friends that are introverted, get overwhelmed in crowded places, dont have time because they have to babysit siblings/foster kids, and take school wayyy to serious and are always studying. But when they do have a chance to hangout they say hell yeah and we have a lot of fun. One of them though has been depressed/angry lately so hes not that fun to be around but we still hangout. Do I or any of my friends sound fake?
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I just have friends that are introverted, get overwhelmed in crowded places, dont have time because they have to babysit siblings/foster kids, and take school wayyy to serious and are always studying. But when they do have a chance to hangout they say hell yeah and we have a lot of fun. One of them though has been depressed/angry lately so hes not that fun to be around but we still hangout. Do I or any of my friends sound fake?
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Body
Number 2 doesn't always mean they're a fake friend though. Sometimes people constantly cancel their social outings because of their mental health, stress, burnout, or just because they're an introvert, or just because they need more time to themselves. I mean think of all the relatable memes about being happy about your plans being cancelled. Do you think everyone who relates to these memes is a fake friend? No, of course not.
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Number 2 doesn't always mean they're a fake friend though. Sometimes people constantly cancel their social outings because of their mental health, stress, burnout, or just because they're an introvert, or just because they need more time to themselves. I mean think of all the relatable memes about being happy about your plans being cancelled. Do you think everyone who relates to these memes is a fake friend? No, of course not.
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JuliWieApril
Nice video, but I disagree with point 2. people with mental health issues might not seem ill but still cancel your plans at the last minute. Thats not a fake friend and a dangerous thing to say. Instead of saying you're a fake friend, because they're not reliable, ask them first, if they have a problem on their own, they're not sharing with you (because of insecurity and so on)
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Nice video, but I disagree with point 2. people with mental health issues might not seem ill but still cancel your plans at the last minute. Thats not a fake friend and a dangerous thing to say. Instead of saying you're a fake friend, because they're not reliable, ask them first, if they have a problem on their own, they're not sharing with you (because of insecurity and so on)
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education
I have this friend who only talks about themselves and will gossip about anyone and everyone behind their back. also will be passive aggressive and when you say hi, completely ignore you. This is someone who also has hundreds of friends if only people knew just how fakely nice this person is they wouldn't have any friends at all.
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I have this friend who only talks about themselves and will gossip about anyone and everyone behind their back. also will be passive aggressive and when you say hi, completely ignore you. This is someone who also has hundreds of friends if only people knew just how fakely nice this person is they wouldn't have any friends at all.
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Rebecca
number 1: yes my friend did once talk behind my bakc saying she didnt like who i was
number 2: yes my friend did cancle my birthday party and he hurt me
number 3: yes my friend didnt evan invite my to come to a sleepover that they said in my face when i just 2 weeks avter coming home from diney
number 4:
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number 1: yes my friend did once talk behind my bakc saying she didnt like who i was
number 2: yes my friend did cancle my birthday party and he hurt me
number 3: yes my friend didnt evan invite my to come to a sleepover that they said in my face when i just 2 weeks avter coming home from diney
number 4:
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CornChip
Havent gotten far into the video only 29 seconds in my ex friend accused me of being manipulative and making my all my ex friends hate my friend im scared to see if I was the problem or if I was right and they were the problem
Edit: turns out three of the people in my friend group of six were fake friends
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Havent gotten far into the video only 29 seconds in my ex friend accused me of being manipulative and making my all my ex friends hate my friend im scared to see if I was the problem or if I was right and they were the problem
Edit: turns out three of the people in my friend group of six were fake friends
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Derek
Friends are overrated. They all do each and every single one of these things to you eventually. Sometimes youre lucky and dont get the ones that have one-sided conversations or just want favors from you, but the other three things. At some point they happen. Just get a pet.
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Friends are overrated. They all do each and every single one of these things to you eventually. Sometimes youre lucky and dont get the ones that have one-sided conversations or just want favors from you, but the other three things. At some point they happen. Just get a pet.
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Multi. Kpopppp
I have a friend group with 3 friends in the group and They are my real friends. There is a girl that was being nice to me at school and then the next day she was acting like she didnt like me or we werent friends which made me sad.
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I have a friend group with 3 friends in the group and They are my real friends. There is a girl that was being nice to me at school and then the next day she was acting like she didnt like me or we werent friends which made me sad.
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Akshay
Do not expect anything from others
Then real or a fake friend doesn't matter.
You will live a happy life instead of judging fake or real.
You feel spending time with your friend do it. And that's it.
No formula
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Do not expect anything from others
Then real or a fake friend doesn't matter.
You will live a happy life instead of judging fake or real.
You feel spending time with your friend do it. And that's it.
No formula
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Hollow
Fun Fact: I actually talked behind my friends back.
We are cool, I told him about it he took it well, but to this day I feel guilty, this is only one of the things I feel guilty about.
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Fun Fact: I actually talked behind my friends back.
We are cool, I told him about it he took it well, but to this day I feel guilty, this is only one of the things I feel guilty about.
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24ogilove
Another sign is that they stop talking to you, dont be upset about it, see it as a blessing in disguise. Trust me, you dont want to be friends with this kind of person.
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Another sign is that they stop talking to you, dont be upset about it, see it as a blessing in disguise. Trust me, you dont want to be friends with this kind of person.
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Kurisuchiinu
If you can add animations beside the real humans (similar to Lizzie McGuire, maybe? I can't tell if I like it or not since the animations are calming for me.
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If you can add animations beside the real humans (similar to Lizzie McGuire, maybe? I can't tell if I like it or not since the animations are calming for me.
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Haylee
Not really a huge fan of this one compared to others. I feel like this is very conditional to certain people, more so towards kids in school than the adult world.
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Not really a huge fan of this one compared to others. I feel like this is very conditional to certain people, more so towards kids in school than the adult world.
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KittenCaramel
Yeah, fake friend, Karla. N in my school, to be specific. Yeah. not how I wanted to be treated after being in hospital. (She used me, mind you)
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Yeah, fake friend, Karla. N in my school, to be specific. Yeah. not how I wanted to be treated after being in hospital. (She used me, mind you)
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Miss_Coconut_Chan
Thanks to this video, I just realised that my closest friend was a fake one. It hurts, but I think it's better that I realised that now.
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Thanks to this video, I just realised that my closest friend was a fake one. It hurts, but I think it's better that I realised that now.
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education
What if something was scheduled with me and my friend and the day we were supposed to go out, something like a medical emergency comes up?
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What if something was scheduled with me and my friend and the day we were supposed to go out, something like a medical emergency comes up?
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