11 Things Narcissists Would Never Do
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Shannon
Sadly, I live with every single list item, every day of my life. It's a very unpredictable life and can get quite scary, quite fast. He lies with every word he spews. Unnecessary lies that make no sense. It's Maddening.
I hate liars, therefore, I do not lie. I believe in karma and always try to be a good person.
QUESTIONS! They HATE all, even the simplest of questions.
Yesterday I asked. Why did you sit in the car so long before coming in? That's it! I even gave him an easy out by saying, were you avoiding the whacky neighbor?
I was outside talking to said neighbor. I saw him sitting in the car, in the parking lot. Then he pulled out. Then he drove by. Then he finally parked and came in.
His reply to my question was immediate rage, that I was an effing liar.
How can a question be a lie?
Why would he get so angry over a simple question? Too him, any question. ANY QUESTION. Is an attack!
Then he just wouldn't let it go. As with everything.
He kept repeating, You're an effing liar. I did not sit in the car. That's wasn't me. I was so happy to come home and you effing ruined it
Why get so angry that he instantly hates me and calls ME the liar over a simple question?
I would say nothing for a while but he'd keep screaming it over and over again.
Finally a few times I said, I DO NOT LIE! (Which he knows because after 30+ years of his lies and mental torture, I almost never leave the house anymore. What could I possibly have to lie about?
SSL but, Again. He knows all this, plus stole my car and says it's his, so I couldn't go even to the store, if I needed. But still, he accuses and blames me for everything)
A question CAN'T be a lie and if it wasn't you, why won't you shut up about it? SCREAM!
This is what every day of my life is like. Kill me!
I'm down to 93lbs (and I'm 5'7 so it's embarrassing)
I have very very painful IBS, fibromyalgia, anxiety and depression. He couldn't care less. It's all my fault and I do it to myself, says him.
He is overweight but otherwise, perfectly fine. Go figure. Not a fricken care in the world.
I'll be saving this video so I can watch when I need it. Thank you.
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Sadly, I live with every single list item, every day of my life. It's a very unpredictable life and can get quite scary, quite fast. He lies with every word he spews. Unnecessary lies that make no sense. It's Maddening.
I hate liars, therefore, I do not lie. I believe in karma and always try to be a good person.
QUESTIONS! They HATE all, even the simplest of questions.
Yesterday I asked. Why did you sit in the car so long before coming in? That's it! I even gave him an easy out by saying, were you avoiding the whacky neighbor?
I was outside talking to said neighbor. I saw him sitting in the car, in the parking lot. Then he pulled out. Then he drove by. Then he finally parked and came in.
His reply to my question was immediate rage, that I was an effing liar.
How can a question be a lie?
Why would he get so angry over a simple question? Too him, any question. ANY QUESTION. Is an attack!
Then he just wouldn't let it go. As with everything.
He kept repeating, You're an effing liar. I did not sit in the car. That's wasn't me. I was so happy to come home and you effing ruined it
Why get so angry that he instantly hates me and calls ME the liar over a simple question?
I would say nothing for a while but he'd keep screaming it over and over again.
Finally a few times I said, I DO NOT LIE! (Which he knows because after 30+ years of his lies and mental torture, I almost never leave the house anymore. What could I possibly have to lie about?
SSL but, Again. He knows all this, plus stole my car and says it's his, so I couldn't go even to the store, if I needed. But still, he accuses and blames me for everything)
A question CAN'T be a lie and if it wasn't you, why won't you shut up about it? SCREAM!
This is what every day of my life is like. Kill me!
I'm down to 93lbs (and I'm 5'7 so it's embarrassing)
I have very very painful IBS, fibromyalgia, anxiety and depression. He couldn't care less. It's all my fault and I do it to myself, says him.
He is overweight but otherwise, perfectly fine. Go figure. Not a fricken care in the world.
I'll be saving this video so I can watch when I need it. Thank you.
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education
I was able to get my narcissistic ex to join me for couples counseling. I thought there would be real progress, but unfortunately not. He would take the things I said to him in outside conversations about my experience with him in our relationship and literally use my words to describe his experience with me to the counselor in sessions, after laying the groundwork by saying I'm a defensive and tit for tat type of person. I could never comfortably share what I was going through without coming off as if I'm the narcissist. When I would confront him with his own words he'd rewrite history that he was responding to something else, try to convince me that something wasn't said or done. He even tried to convince me I was hearing voices because he was denying what someone else said to him while trying to lie about his temper? It was pretty bad y'all, smh. He'd say that if I loved him I'd respect his word (ie. agree with his perspective about everything) and suggest that because I didn't, I didn't care about his feelings. He did nice things for me, and then used that to say that he does consider my feelings. But really he just used it as leverage to try to make me comply with his will. I would have traded every nice thing he ever did for me just to have some space in our relationship for my own perspective, thoughts and feelings and the acknowledgement that mine were just as valid as his. This video is spot on with everything I experienced. I still feel bad about everything, like I abandoned the hurt child inside of him that just needed my help. But I am determined, for my own sanity, to not go back this time.
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I was able to get my narcissistic ex to join me for couples counseling. I thought there would be real progress, but unfortunately not. He would take the things I said to him in outside conversations about my experience with him in our relationship and literally use my words to describe his experience with me to the counselor in sessions, after laying the groundwork by saying I'm a defensive and tit for tat type of person. I could never comfortably share what I was going through without coming off as if I'm the narcissist. When I would confront him with his own words he'd rewrite history that he was responding to something else, try to convince me that something wasn't said or done. He even tried to convince me I was hearing voices because he was denying what someone else said to him while trying to lie about his temper? It was pretty bad y'all, smh. He'd say that if I loved him I'd respect his word (ie. agree with his perspective about everything) and suggest that because I didn't, I didn't care about his feelings. He did nice things for me, and then used that to say that he does consider my feelings. But really he just used it as leverage to try to make me comply with his will. I would have traded every nice thing he ever did for me just to have some space in our relationship for my own perspective, thoughts and feelings and the acknowledgement that mine were just as valid as his. This video is spot on with everything I experienced. I still feel bad about everything, like I abandoned the hurt child inside of him that just needed my help. But I am determined, for my own sanity, to not go back this time.
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Alex
One thing would make sense to note is that there is very low chance to meet any personwho would have all these narcissistic traits you describe. Basically it's like several of them on some low-middle level. I've been in relations with a person who had luck of empathy and didn't really care about what he is saying to you. Also I don't remember him ever saying sorry. I'd call him a sociopath. But with all of that he was an easy going person who didn't feel guilt and probably could easily forgive others. He actually didn't care as well as didn't take any responsibility for bad things he has done or said. For me it was pretty much toxic relationship which I left. But one funny thing is that I am or at least was a narcissist as well by several traits. I'm very empathetic person and I'm taking responsibility for bad stuff I'm doing also at least saying sorry feeling this guilt but I also have problems with forgiving people so I'd say I have some problematic conscience. Also I have/had some pride while he was more about to admit his negatives. I'd say that in this concept also a big place has temper cause some phlegmatic narcissist is going to behave very differently from choleric one. I was the one who suffered from this relationship but it's also was my bad. The best you can do with such relationship is to just cut it off. Gonna be the best for everyone.
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One thing would make sense to note is that there is very low chance to meet any personwho would have all these narcissistic traits you describe. Basically it's like several of them on some low-middle level. I've been in relations with a person who had luck of empathy and didn't really care about what he is saying to you. Also I don't remember him ever saying sorry. I'd call him a sociopath. But with all of that he was an easy going person who didn't feel guilt and probably could easily forgive others. He actually didn't care as well as didn't take any responsibility for bad things he has done or said. For me it was pretty much toxic relationship which I left. But one funny thing is that I am or at least was a narcissist as well by several traits. I'm very empathetic person and I'm taking responsibility for bad stuff I'm doing also at least saying sorry feeling this guilt but I also have problems with forgiving people so I'd say I have some problematic conscience. Also I have/had some pride while he was more about to admit his negatives. I'd say that in this concept also a big place has temper cause some phlegmatic narcissist is going to behave very differently from choleric one. I was the one who suffered from this relationship but it's also was my bad. The best you can do with such relationship is to just cut it off. Gonna be the best for everyone.
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James
1. As a practicing narcissist I never apologize for being myself and neither should anybody else.
2. As a practicing narcissist I always tell the truth as I see it and so does everybody else.
3. As a practicing narcissist I like resolving conflicts in my favor like everybody else.
4. As a practicing narcissist I listen to anybody beneficial to my self-interest to understand more clearly like everybody else.
5, As a practicing narcissist I take responsibility for paying my own debts but like everyone else I am not responsible for paying debts I don't owe.
6. As a practicing narcissist I don't have a problem seeking professional help for my own purposes like everybody else.
7. As a practicing narcissist I'm better at manipulating my own emotions than anybody else's because as with everybody else my own emotions are those I know best.
8. As a practicing narcissist I act selflessly whenever it serves my own purposes like everybody else does.
9. As a practicing narcissist I provide a sense of safety to those who understand me well enough for me to want to keep around like everybody else.
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1. As a practicing narcissist I never apologize for being myself and neither should anybody else.
2. As a practicing narcissist I always tell the truth as I see it and so does everybody else.
3. As a practicing narcissist I like resolving conflicts in my favor like everybody else.
4. As a practicing narcissist I listen to anybody beneficial to my self-interest to understand more clearly like everybody else.
5, As a practicing narcissist I take responsibility for paying my own debts but like everyone else I am not responsible for paying debts I don't owe.
6. As a practicing narcissist I don't have a problem seeking professional help for my own purposes like everybody else.
7. As a practicing narcissist I'm better at manipulating my own emotions than anybody else's because as with everybody else my own emotions are those I know best.
8. As a practicing narcissist I act selflessly whenever it serves my own purposes like everybody else does.
9. As a practicing narcissist I provide a sense of safety to those who understand me well enough for me to want to keep around like everybody else.
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Kel
Cw/tw for the following; SA, bullying, and abuse
In 5th grade I had this friend she was a prime example of a narcissist. She saw that I was the nervous new kid, that I had no friends and saw that as something she could use. She love bombed me the first few months then made me introduce her to my other friends (all from different schools who I kept in touch with online) and then Halloween rolled around. She said my dress was too short and told me to follow her somewhere. I refuse to remember that night but once she got bored of me, moved to my best friend since kindergarten. She harassed him because he was trans and I cant even begin talking about the trauma she caused him. She got away with no consequences. And even now, 5 years later, she still tries harassing him.
The total damage shes done to me and my friends only including official diagnoses
Me- anxiety, trust issues, mild ptsd
My friend- crippling anxiety, c-ptsd, did
And to make it worse she seems to have a target group as both me, my friend, and other people who have said theyre also victims of her are all autistic
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Cw/tw for the following; SA, bullying, and abuse
In 5th grade I had this friend she was a prime example of a narcissist. She saw that I was the nervous new kid, that I had no friends and saw that as something she could use. She love bombed me the first few months then made me introduce her to my other friends (all from different schools who I kept in touch with online) and then Halloween rolled around. She said my dress was too short and told me to follow her somewhere. I refuse to remember that night but once she got bored of me, moved to my best friend since kindergarten. She harassed him because he was trans and I cant even begin talking about the trauma she caused him. She got away with no consequences. And even now, 5 years later, she still tries harassing him.
The total damage shes done to me and my friends only including official diagnoses
Me- anxiety, trust issues, mild ptsd
My friend- crippling anxiety, c-ptsd, did
And to make it worse she seems to have a target group as both me, my friend, and other people who have said theyre also victims of her are all autistic
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Christopher
I'm manic depressive bi polar and I feel like when I'm Mr. Hyde part of my personality and hulk comes out I become a monster of a narcissist and sociopathic bordering, cause I lock everyone out and all that runs through my head is they don't get it. im alone here cause loyalty is gone and I suddenly see myself as a mold broken in humanity cause I be going out of my way for people always and my friends, but betray me and all of a sudden, my step mom is them and I am the monster under my skin, wishing to explode. She was for sure an abusive narcissist and 15 of my young years were torture and abuse emotionally and physically, I can't seek help, cause if I even think about her. I see red. I have rage issues I guess and they pull the worst parts of me out and it has ruined alot I'm my life, but I still won't seek help, I'm alway sorry for when I blow up, but I also see where I might have become the monster my step mom was and more in my head
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I'm manic depressive bi polar and I feel like when I'm Mr. Hyde part of my personality and hulk comes out I become a monster of a narcissist and sociopathic bordering, cause I lock everyone out and all that runs through my head is they don't get it. im alone here cause loyalty is gone and I suddenly see myself as a mold broken in humanity cause I be going out of my way for people always and my friends, but betray me and all of a sudden, my step mom is them and I am the monster under my skin, wishing to explode. She was for sure an abusive narcissist and 15 of my young years were torture and abuse emotionally and physically, I can't seek help, cause if I even think about her. I see red. I have rage issues I guess and they pull the worst parts of me out and it has ruined alot I'm my life, but I still won't seek help, I'm alway sorry for when I blow up, but I also see where I might have become the monster my step mom was and more in my head
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Val
Pet narcissists: I would often not bend to narcissistic Alfredo the Cat when he would throw his tantrums of entitlement whenever the can opener racketed. He would go crazy with his siamese-like cat crying, though he simply was an orange tabby. He was always sure I was opening tuna fish for him when it was rarely the case. His narcissist demanding cries would get too much for me so I would simply pick him up and place him outside against his will. This often followed with him pounding on the front door with his paws.
Now, with demanding and cute Sugarplum the Bunny and his narcissistic antics to get a treat, I must confess I most always give in. He is just too cute and I cant say, No. Though, maybe, I should not give in to his narcissistic pleas. I need to do as the experts declare and simply ignore him. But, no way!
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Pet narcissists: I would often not bend to narcissistic Alfredo the Cat when he would throw his tantrums of entitlement whenever the can opener racketed. He would go crazy with his siamese-like cat crying, though he simply was an orange tabby. He was always sure I was opening tuna fish for him when it was rarely the case. His narcissist demanding cries would get too much for me so I would simply pick him up and place him outside against his will. This often followed with him pounding on the front door with his paws.
Now, with demanding and cute Sugarplum the Bunny and his narcissistic antics to get a treat, I must confess I most always give in. He is just too cute and I cant say, No. Though, maybe, I should not give in to his narcissistic pleas. I need to do as the experts declare and simply ignore him. But, no way!
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Lllllll
My old brother was very narcissistic at one point but I somewhat disagree with the not changing
Im no expert and maybe he wasnt an actual narcissist but he did change.
He used to brag about joining the military and would tell everyone about it. But he didnt get In because one of his legs were slightly longer than the other and therefore wasnt allowed in.
He was devastated and thats when he stopped being so egotistical and mean and started to become a lot nicest and remorseful for being narcissist, realising he wasnt so special.
I think the only way to change a narcissist is to crush there dreams and give them a good dose of reality and karma. I know that sounds harsh but it might be the way. Besides he kinda did deserve it.
Again Im no expert and Im probably wrong
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My old brother was very narcissistic at one point but I somewhat disagree with the not changing
Im no expert and maybe he wasnt an actual narcissist but he did change.
He used to brag about joining the military and would tell everyone about it. But he didnt get In because one of his legs were slightly longer than the other and therefore wasnt allowed in.
He was devastated and thats when he stopped being so egotistical and mean and started to become a lot nicest and remorseful for being narcissist, realising he wasnt so special.
I think the only way to change a narcissist is to crush there dreams and give them a good dose of reality and karma. I know that sounds harsh but it might be the way. Besides he kinda did deserve it.
Again Im no expert and Im probably wrong
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Playerplays
I had a group of student (there the boys group as what I call them) they are very aggressive they will tell you what to do if you dont do it you face consequence I mean most of the boys in my class are already loyal to there leader (cant say his name too personally)me and my friend are the only boys that are not like the boys group but we both are sort anxiety i have that anxiety that my teeth are moving around and make noise while my other friend when somebody scream at him he will start crying and when the boys group see they act nice but actually dont when I try to help my friend to stop to cry they will push me away and tell me to go away. It actually really sad to see student are getting rude and selfish and other things like the video.
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I had a group of student (there the boys group as what I call them) they are very aggressive they will tell you what to do if you dont do it you face consequence I mean most of the boys in my class are already loyal to there leader (cant say his name too personally)me and my friend are the only boys that are not like the boys group but we both are sort anxiety i have that anxiety that my teeth are moving around and make noise while my other friend when somebody scream at him he will start crying and when the boys group see they act nice but actually dont when I try to help my friend to stop to cry they will push me away and tell me to go away. It actually really sad to see student are getting rude and selfish and other things like the video.
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One
How do you get over it. What do you do with the need to confront them and make them admit it.
It's pointless to confront them, the impulse to do so is self destructive. So you go out on the internet and find someone just like them and call them a feminazzi or accuse them of mansplaining. Which feels good at first, then settles in like a cocaine hangover.
Meanwhile, like a coke or gambling addict, there are a million for profit industries trying to feed your habit. The cavities left by abuse filled up by the dark wizards of media (watch the Mindscape of Allen Moore.
So what do you do? Therapy? Been there. Is it like losing a leg? No cure, you just have to live with it?
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How do you get over it. What do you do with the need to confront them and make them admit it.
It's pointless to confront them, the impulse to do so is self destructive. So you go out on the internet and find someone just like them and call them a feminazzi or accuse them of mansplaining. Which feels good at first, then settles in like a cocaine hangover.
Meanwhile, like a coke or gambling addict, there are a million for profit industries trying to feed your habit. The cavities left by abuse filled up by the dark wizards of media (watch the Mindscape of Allen Moore.
So what do you do? Therapy? Been there. Is it like losing a leg? No cure, you just have to live with it?
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Winter
I think to state point 6 (they will not seek help or professional support) like this is problematic. Because 1. there are people with npd who are working on themselves very hard and trying their best and 2. we should encourage people to seek help. and I feel like blatantly stating that npd-havers don't do it, almost says that it is hopeless. Or atleast it isn't encouraging.
Also, just please don't demonize an entire group of people. Every single human-being must check in on their behaviour and work on themselves. And I respect everyone who does that. /gen
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I think to state point 6 (they will not seek help or professional support) like this is problematic. Because 1. there are people with npd who are working on themselves very hard and trying their best and 2. we should encourage people to seek help. and I feel like blatantly stating that npd-havers don't do it, almost says that it is hopeless. Or atleast it isn't encouraging.
Also, just please don't demonize an entire group of people. Every single human-being must check in on their behaviour and work on themselves. And I respect everyone who does that. /gen
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Sherrie
Narcissists are all different. You can't put them in a box like this. Narcissism exists along a spectrum, so, while they may have some of these traits, it is extremely unlikely that the narcissist in your life checks all of these boxes. Also, some are self-aware (like me) and understand that they developed these traits as a defense mechanism as a child. In fact, they have an inner child they still need to raise. The thing that irritates me the most is when people spit out half-truths and act like experts on a subject and make videos like these. smh
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Narcissists are all different. You can't put them in a box like this. Narcissism exists along a spectrum, so, while they may have some of these traits, it is extremely unlikely that the narcissist in your life checks all of these boxes. Also, some are self-aware (like me) and understand that they developed these traits as a defense mechanism as a child. In fact, they have an inner child they still need to raise. The thing that irritates me the most is when people spit out half-truths and act like experts on a subject and make videos like these. smh
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Mai
My narcissistic con artist ex boyfriend was not violent, very calm, charming, kind, talks soft and softly, but no action. He was selfish, not giving in any material things, but again very verbally charming. I found out that lashing out at him, made him break up with me. I am so lucky that I did not sell my home when he asked me to after just being together for a few weeks. I told him I am so glad that I lashed out at him and that he broke up with me! I'm so blessed!
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My narcissistic con artist ex boyfriend was not violent, very calm, charming, kind, talks soft and softly, but no action. He was selfish, not giving in any material things, but again very verbally charming. I found out that lashing out at him, made him break up with me. I am so lucky that I did not sell my home when he asked me to after just being together for a few weeks. I told him I am so glad that I lashed out at him and that he broke up with me! I'm so blessed!
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SLEEEEEEEEP
I had a friend who was struggling with depression and I helped them and now that there are almost completely healed there are acting a lot like a narcissist and I can't tell if they were lying and now that I'm starting to suspect something they have completely dropped me and they no longer want to talk to me anymore so they're no longer a friend I don't put up people who are going to leave me in the long run if you're going to leave then leave now
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I had a friend who was struggling with depression and I helped them and now that there are almost completely healed there are acting a lot like a narcissist and I can't tell if they were lying and now that I'm starting to suspect something they have completely dropped me and they no longer want to talk to me anymore so they're no longer a friend I don't put up people who are going to leave me in the long run if you're going to leave then leave now
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Ratinan
yeah, someone near me fits this description, but the difference is that now i kinda avoid her completely for 3+ months already. seems like she's still angry that i eventually avoid her completely. but i also need sometimes to heal from the wound that she caused. back to antidepressants again and the doc said i probably gonna need to take it for much longer than previously to make sure my emotional wellbeing is strong enough before i stop it.
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yeah, someone near me fits this description, but the difference is that now i kinda avoid her completely for 3+ months already. seems like she's still angry that i eventually avoid her completely. but i also need sometimes to heal from the wound that she caused. back to antidepressants again and the doc said i probably gonna need to take it for much longer than previously to make sure my emotional wellbeing is strong enough before i stop it.
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Ken
i am diagnosed with the combined PD, with narcissistic, histrionic, and borderline pieces. I ALWAYS see myself in such videos, BUT I tend to get angry because of it, which makes me sad because I know that I have a problem. I also am a pathological liar, which makes it difficult to tell people the truth even if I want to, but i always tell MY truth, how I saw this situation. This makes my life extremely difficult, especially therapy.
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i am diagnosed with the combined PD, with narcissistic, histrionic, and borderline pieces. I ALWAYS see myself in such videos, BUT I tend to get angry because of it, which makes me sad because I know that I have a problem. I also am a pathological liar, which makes it difficult to tell people the truth even if I want to, but i always tell MY truth, how I saw this situation. This makes my life extremely difficult, especially therapy.
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Joseph
WOW I am not at complete innocence of an ending of what I'm to believe after this video a narcissist relationship but I guarantee I don't wish to have to put any one threw the mental strain of tormenting one mentally and gaslighting one's own view to death lol hopefully that was just how it felt and no truth but she is very angry highly aggressive and already left a bruise to my arm. I am glad to walk away for the last time!
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WOW I am not at complete innocence of an ending of what I'm to believe after this video a narcissist relationship but I guarantee I don't wish to have to put any one threw the mental strain of tormenting one mentally and gaslighting one's own view to death lol hopefully that was just how it felt and no truth but she is very angry highly aggressive and already left a bruise to my arm. I am glad to walk away for the last time!
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William
My therapist asked me, why do I think the whole family is narcissist. I've been thinking about it and they're very grandiose, they have to be the center of the tension, and if they don't get their way they pout, wine and scream or use aggression like a small child. And three children. Three different cases of three different times of trying to obtain full and sole custody. I'd say there is a pattern here.
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My therapist asked me, why do I think the whole family is narcissist. I've been thinking about it and they're very grandiose, they have to be the center of the tension, and if they don't get their way they pout, wine and scream or use aggression like a small child. And three children. Three different cases of three different times of trying to obtain full and sole custody. I'd say there is a pattern here.
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Jhawk
I've accepted that I have many narcissistic traits. I'm working to overcome the conditioning I learned as a child from parents with high degrees of narcissism as well. I'm no longer blaming them for the problems I have today, but recognizing where I learned some of these skills is important for growth.
I know that I've hurt people and I've been trying hard to forgive myself and others every day
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I've accepted that I have many narcissistic traits. I'm working to overcome the conditioning I learned as a child from parents with high degrees of narcissism as well. I'm no longer blaming them for the problems I have today, but recognizing where I learned some of these skills is important for growth.
I know that I've hurt people and I've been trying hard to forgive myself and others every day
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Tyler
My girlfriend, I guess now ex, dumped me on a deployment. For the last few months I've been looking into relationship and personality videos as help for me. Once I got to the narcissism topic it physically makes me shudder realizing the similarities I've seen in her. It's heartbreaking because I do love her and I want to help her but I know it's a waste of time and harmful to my mental health.
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My girlfriend, I guess now ex, dumped me on a deployment. For the last few months I've been looking into relationship and personality videos as help for me. Once I got to the narcissism topic it physically makes me shudder realizing the similarities I've seen in her. It's heartbreaking because I do love her and I want to help her but I know it's a waste of time and harmful to my mental health.
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Pug
I know my BPD has always made me see things as very black or white, I do recognize that. I try to feel empathy for people and I can understand to a point, especially death. Unfortunately, I don't feel it emotionally or in my heart. With my leadership of people, I am very hands off - unless I feel it's not being done right and then I have to do it myself so it is done correctly.
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I know my BPD has always made me see things as very black or white, I do recognize that. I try to feel empathy for people and I can understand to a point, especially death. Unfortunately, I don't feel it emotionally or in my heart. With my leadership of people, I am very hands off - unless I feel it's not being done right and then I have to do it myself so it is done correctly.
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Sassi
My sister to a T. Once I was exhausted and she responded well we're all exhausted. She also will throw temper tantrums on a dime when something doesn't go her way. I swear, being around her is like being next to a lit fuse and just waiting to see what kind of outburst happens next. I'm starting to set boundaries and tell my family no for my own well being though.
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My sister to a T. Once I was exhausted and she responded well we're all exhausted. She also will throw temper tantrums on a dime when something doesn't go her way. I swear, being around her is like being next to a lit fuse and just waiting to see what kind of outburst happens next. I'm starting to set boundaries and tell my family no for my own well being though.
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John
I'm sorry you feel that way is not a narcissistic statement in and of itself. It's also someone not taking ownership of another person's feelings while also acknowledging to the other person that they see their feelings as valid.
My marriage counselor taught me to use that exact statement. Turned out my ex wife was a narcissist tho, so. lol irony.
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I'm sorry you feel that way is not a narcissistic statement in and of itself. It's also someone not taking ownership of another person's feelings while also acknowledging to the other person that they see their feelings as valid.
My marriage counselor taught me to use that exact statement. Turned out my ex wife was a narcissist tho, so. lol irony.
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Mothra
There are a number of things that don't track with covert Narcissists. A covert will apologize (just not mean it. They will go to therapy ( to use the therapy concepts to manipulate their victims, and perpetuate themselves as a victim. They will take responsibility for their actions (only to gain the supplies trust so that it can be abused again)
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There are a number of things that don't track with covert Narcissists. A covert will apologize (just not mean it. They will go to therapy ( to use the therapy concepts to manipulate their victims, and perpetuate themselves as a victim. They will take responsibility for their actions (only to gain the supplies trust so that it can be abused again)
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april
It would be embarrassing to take a wedding ring from a narcissist, because narcissist men are secretly women they are in capable of producing real man I knew a narcissist, and his son was a gay man, a. k. a, a man who acts like a girl who bends over like a girll I would not want a child from such a thing my sons are Spartans
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It would be embarrassing to take a wedding ring from a narcissist, because narcissist men are secretly women they are in capable of producing real man I knew a narcissist, and his son was a gay man, a. k. a, a man who acts like a girl who bends over like a girll I would not want a child from such a thing my sons are Spartans
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