6 Signs Someone Is Secretly In Pain
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Date: 2023-08-20
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nihmath
can any one tell me what i should do?
i have a friend and she was from another state and she didnt know our language and when she was transferred to my school there were no place for her to sit and i was the one who said to come sit with me so she really liked me(it was really hard for her and when some other students hear about her transfer they expected her to be pretty because she was foreign and they were fighting for her to sit next to them but when they saw her they were even laughing)
we were really close for 5 years(we were in the same class for 5 yrs) after then she moved to her hometown and we were in contact for 2 years but for a month she didnt take my calls and 1 week ago called me and told me that she is married that day and that her parents were against it and so on(she is only 19) and for a week she didnt pick my calls nor reply to my messages if she picks the she says she is busy and will call but she never did. idont know what happened. if she she didnt care about me any more she would never have called me (about her marriage)
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can any one tell me what i should do?
i have a friend and she was from another state and she didnt know our language and when she was transferred to my school there were no place for her to sit and i was the one who said to come sit with me so she really liked me(it was really hard for her and when some other students hear about her transfer they expected her to be pretty because she was foreign and they were fighting for her to sit next to them but when they saw her they were even laughing)
we were really close for 5 years(we were in the same class for 5 yrs) after then she moved to her hometown and we were in contact for 2 years but for a month she didnt take my calls and 1 week ago called me and told me that she is married that day and that her parents were against it and so on(she is only 19) and for a week she didnt pick my calls nor reply to my messages if she picks the she says she is busy and will call but she never did. idont know what happened. if she she didnt care about me any more she would never have called me (about her marriage)
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hueningKai
Hi guys, i don't know where to ask this question but i hope some of you maybe can answer my question. So what do i have to do if my friend give me a sign that they depressed? I really don't know what to do. I have a friend and she always made depressing quotes on social media and she even threatening her contacts by saying if we try to reach her, she'll end her life. But she kept going with all the depressing sign and say that she doesn't have friends, no one wants to help her. Well infact that a lot of people care about her. I try to reach her and i try not to brought her problem. i ask her if she wants to go to eat or play games etc. And i said that she's not alone, im here for her and she can talk to me. But still she ignored me, she just read my text. and she keep making quotes on social media that nobody wants to help her, she's alone etc. Am i wrong to do that? Maybe next time i should just ignore her depressing quotes?
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Hi guys, i don't know where to ask this question but i hope some of you maybe can answer my question. So what do i have to do if my friend give me a sign that they depressed? I really don't know what to do. I have a friend and she always made depressing quotes on social media and she even threatening her contacts by saying if we try to reach her, she'll end her life. But she kept going with all the depressing sign and say that she doesn't have friends, no one wants to help her. Well infact that a lot of people care about her. I try to reach her and i try not to brought her problem. i ask her if she wants to go to eat or play games etc. And i said that she's not alone, im here for her and she can talk to me. But still she ignored me, she just read my text. and she keep making quotes on social media that nobody wants to help her, she's alone etc. Am i wrong to do that? Maybe next time i should just ignore her depressing quotes?
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Jerry
I never fully believed in the Intuition part of my INFJ personality type, but it turns out I intuitively knew more about my friend Brianne than her parents and my other friend Alex (her cousin. I've this feeling for a while that she was being verbally bullied, I didn't have any proof or even evidence other than some behavioural changes, so I didn't do anything about it. Well, now I regret not doing something. Last week her parents found out several of her friends have been treating her like garbage. She was always so confident, but then she stopped wearing glasses and bought contact (she admits to hating contacts) for no reason. She also became obsessed with trends and being popular. Hopefully I can still be a here as a good friend.
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I never fully believed in the Intuition part of my INFJ personality type, but it turns out I intuitively knew more about my friend Brianne than her parents and my other friend Alex (her cousin. I've this feeling for a while that she was being verbally bullied, I didn't have any proof or even evidence other than some behavioural changes, so I didn't do anything about it. Well, now I regret not doing something. Last week her parents found out several of her friends have been treating her like garbage. She was always so confident, but then she stopped wearing glasses and bought contact (she admits to hating contacts) for no reason. She also became obsessed with trends and being popular. Hopefully I can still be a here as a good friend.
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AaronMetallion
-I'm that person secretly in pain. Don't blow my cover-. I look tough and functional on the outside. No one knows. Especially as a man, I've been conditioned to just grin and bear it, while still being there for others. But the resentment and nihilism lurks outside my door.
I know my needs being unmet for many years compounded is the source of the problem. But I'm unfortunately not in a place yet to have those needs met. I think many of us have bottlenecks like this. I know once it's clear I can take steps to cultivate a healthier environment for myself. (Such as being financially stable, and then being able to move out into my own space for example.
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-I'm that person secretly in pain. Don't blow my cover-. I look tough and functional on the outside. No one knows. Especially as a man, I've been conditioned to just grin and bear it, while still being there for others. But the resentment and nihilism lurks outside my door.
I know my needs being unmet for many years compounded is the source of the problem. But I'm unfortunately not in a place yet to have those needs met. I think many of us have bottlenecks like this. I know once it's clear I can take steps to cultivate a healthier environment for myself. (Such as being financially stable, and then being able to move out into my own space for example.
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TaliaDoesNames
I guess no one ever talks about this. But they are always saying go find someone who's there for you. Well idk why does no one talk about how people just don't have friends at all? I am saying this because while in school sometimes people talk to me, I don't have anyone close to me at all that I can trust or that can help me. What people don't understand is like, I don't feel anyone talks to me or wants to or whatever, people have all these videos of what to do with your friends or besties and I just don't feel right. could you please make a video or smth on how to just idk.
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I guess no one ever talks about this. But they are always saying go find someone who's there for you. Well idk why does no one talk about how people just don't have friends at all? I am saying this because while in school sometimes people talk to me, I don't have anyone close to me at all that I can trust or that can help me. What people don't understand is like, I don't feel anyone talks to me or wants to or whatever, people have all these videos of what to do with your friends or besties and I just don't feel right. could you please make a video or smth on how to just idk.
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Pie
Feel your pain until you become numb.
That's the sentence i always said when i was failing or in pain (physically or mentally. It really strengthened me when i felt hopeless, made me realize that the pain i suffered wasn't that hurt.
Three years suffering from depression, feeling hopeless, etc. Everytime i saw a knife in the kitchen, my mind always thought about suicide. But i survive though. Repetition makes you used to it. The more you get it, the more you get used to it. So does the pain. The more you suffer the more you get used to it.
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Feel your pain until you become numb.
That's the sentence i always said when i was failing or in pain (physically or mentally. It really strengthened me when i felt hopeless, made me realize that the pain i suffered wasn't that hurt.
Three years suffering from depression, feeling hopeless, etc. Everytime i saw a knife in the kitchen, my mind always thought about suicide. But i survive though. Repetition makes you used to it. The more you get it, the more you get used to it. So does the pain. The more you suffer the more you get used to it.
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Lucyfurnu
I have been displaying all those except maybe for the reckless part since I was 10, so much so that I became quite good at masking the lashing out and paranoid parts but they're still there. However as I have only about one person that could have seen those changes I'm not expecting anyone to see them unless I become able to tell them.
The hardest part has always been being able to recognise those signs in myself while not being able to do anything about it.
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I have been displaying all those except maybe for the reckless part since I was 10, so much so that I became quite good at masking the lashing out and paranoid parts but they're still there. However as I have only about one person that could have seen those changes I'm not expecting anyone to see them unless I become able to tell them.
The hardest part has always been being able to recognise those signs in myself while not being able to do anything about it.
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EpicXName94
In regards to binge eating, can it also be a sign if the person isn't eating the way they should? My friend, once husband whom I'm trying to work things out with, is starting to get really angry when he plays his game and he's so conscious about his weight that he isn't eating the amount he needs to. thank you for making these videos they really do help on a daily basis, especially with what my family and I have been going through for the last 4 months.
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In regards to binge eating, can it also be a sign if the person isn't eating the way they should? My friend, once husband whom I'm trying to work things out with, is starting to get really angry when he plays his game and he's so conscious about his weight that he isn't eating the amount he needs to. thank you for making these videos they really do help on a daily basis, especially with what my family and I have been going through for the last 4 months.
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ImprovementSpace
No 2 in video: -They lash out: - Yep, true I was in pain when I fell down a few months ago and broke my hand and my toes. Especially the right hand that has to go for operation. I lash out at my best friend when she keeps asking me as I myself in pain. Now we have sorted out the misunderstanding. Live life to the fullest and don't take things too seriously. Have fun and love more.
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No 2 in video: -They lash out: - Yep, true I was in pain when I fell down a few months ago and broke my hand and my toes. Especially the right hand that has to go for operation. I lash out at my best friend when she keeps asking me as I myself in pain. Now we have sorted out the misunderstanding. Live life to the fullest and don't take things too seriously. Have fun and love more.
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HenrietteX
I guess that all of them fits me very well.
I am actually really glad that I'm really extroverted, so I talk about my problems a lot. It's really helping and I'm here to tell people who think that these things fits them too:
Don't be scared to talk about it. Only one person is sometimes enough. It's keeping me to stay strong and feel like I'm worth somethig.
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I guess that all of them fits me very well.
I am actually really glad that I'm really extroverted, so I talk about my problems a lot. It's really helping and I'm here to tell people who think that these things fits them too:
Don't be scared to talk about it. Only one person is sometimes enough. It's keeping me to stay strong and feel like I'm worth somethig.
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Riska
Hey. i'm the one. and no one around me can understand it. if i speak up, i just get scolding by them. they think it was me who didn't get enough prayinh time and so on. so. i always be silent and sometimes lashing out if any trigger comes. And they just normalize it. not even try to help me so happy family/friends right? /
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Hey. i'm the one. and no one around me can understand it. if i speak up, i just get scolding by them. they think it was me who didn't get enough prayinh time and so on. so. i always be silent and sometimes lashing out if any trigger comes. And they just normalize it. not even try to help me so happy family/friends right? /
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Undertaker's
Everything here in the video is Relatable! Especially 4 when (talk about dark topics. Most people saying that I'm d3pressed and a su1cidal. Please, for anyone who's feeling like that try to talk to someone, and remember, take care of yourself before others! Also please don't come at me for saying things i don't do
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Everything here in the video is Relatable! Especially 4 when (talk about dark topics. Most people saying that I'm d3pressed and a su1cidal. Please, for anyone who's feeling like that try to talk to someone, and remember, take care of yourself before others! Also please don't come at me for saying things i don't do
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Vaid
It's so tough and hard emotionally to see those sympthoms in yourself. I've been in the situation of neverending stress for so long now, maybe for five or six years because of trauma, though it didn't show itself till last few months.
It's good to know I'm not alone and everything can be fine.
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It's so tough and hard emotionally to see those sympthoms in yourself. I've been in the situation of neverending stress for so long now, maybe for five or six years because of trauma, though it didn't show itself till last few months.
It's good to know I'm not alone and everything can be fine.
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livy
i think the worst thing about all of these mental health problems (at least for me) is that i dont know whats wrong. why i act the way i act, why i cant do simple tasks, why am i crying right now, why am do i feel do distant from myself sometimes. its always just a big why going on in my head
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i think the worst thing about all of these mental health problems (at least for me) is that i dont know whats wrong. why i act the way i act, why i cant do simple tasks, why am i crying right now, why am do i feel do distant from myself sometimes. its always just a big why going on in my head
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Amber
Literally all of this was me for about a year after my breakup with my ex. like it was so obvious how much pain I was in for so long but I felt like no one in my family cared or actually tried to help. Im better now I just wish I had people back then to give me the support that I needed.
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Literally all of this was me for about a year after my breakup with my ex. like it was so obvious how much pain I was in for so long but I felt like no one in my family cared or actually tried to help. Im better now I just wish I had people back then to give me the support that I needed.
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education
Please, please fix your audio! Your recent videos sound like you're mumbling into the microphone at point blank range - it actually rattles my speakers with the muddiness! Your older videos don't have this problem. I don't want to lose out on great content because of painful audio!
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Please, please fix your audio! Your recent videos sound like you're mumbling into the microphone at point blank range - it actually rattles my speakers with the muddiness! Your older videos don't have this problem. I don't want to lose out on great content because of painful audio!
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Return
Is it possible that this an on-going condition, like depression? I feel like this under the surface all the time, and have very dark humor. Also think about death, and wouldn't mind it, as long as it is quick and not painful and prolonged. But on the other hand, paranoia is strong.
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Is it possible that this an on-going condition, like depression? I feel like this under the surface all the time, and have very dark humor. Also think about death, and wouldn't mind it, as long as it is quick and not painful and prolonged. But on the other hand, paranoia is strong.
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marrinettes
I feel most of these and dont worry guys God will always be there for you (now dont get me wrong other peoples help is amazing and being not okay is okay life is hard and thats okay) but dont forget to pray about it and reach out to someone RELIABLE if you are confused
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I feel most of these and dont worry guys God will always be there for you (now dont get me wrong other peoples help is amazing and being not okay is okay life is hard and thats okay) but dont forget to pray about it and reach out to someone RELIABLE if you are confused
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REMI
Thank you so much for posting this kind of content. I've been noticing that one of my friends have been a bit 'off' lately, & I want to find a way to help them. I also want to find a way to help out any other friends when I can, & try to make them feel better. :)
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Thank you so much for posting this kind of content. I've been noticing that one of my friends have been a bit 'off' lately, & I want to find a way to help them. I also want to find a way to help out any other friends when I can, & try to make them feel better. :)
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Nor
I'm the one in pain now, but there is no one/friend to support me.
My family also don't know I'm in pain/depression because i don't want to trouble them or anyone else. I'm keeping silent, and faking that I'm fine and alright with my family and others.
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I'm the one in pain now, but there is no one/friend to support me.
My family also don't know I'm in pain/depression because i don't want to trouble them or anyone else. I'm keeping silent, and faking that I'm fine and alright with my family and others.
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aisha
That's fit my bestie. I'm bad friend.
I mean I tried many ways to make her go out with me, come to my house, read a book or make something delicious. she just rejected. I love her but she don't let me help her. that's pain me
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That's fit my bestie. I'm bad friend.
I mean I tried many ways to make her go out with me, come to my house, read a book or make something delicious. she just rejected. I love her but she don't let me help her. that's pain me
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Richard
Thank you, this is a familiar pattern to me, from my own experiences and in others. It has been very useful to have seen your excellent presentation and make me think about this in a constructive way. Good job guys!
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Thank you, this is a familiar pattern to me, from my own experiences and in others. It has been very useful to have seen your excellent presentation and make me think about this in a constructive way. Good job guys!
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Lyntex
I knew it! Most of my classmates check all these boxes and I just had this feeling that there were people in pain. I just thought I was making things up but, now I know. Now I can help. Thanks a lot for this video!
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I knew it! Most of my classmates check all these boxes and I just had this feeling that there were people in pain. I just thought I was making things up but, now I know. Now I can help. Thanks a lot for this video!
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Pocketninja
This is nice and all but I don't think I have ever had a friend who truly cared like this, not to say they wouldn't ever ask me how I'm doing but as far as being serious and supportive not so much as a guy.
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This is nice and all but I don't think I have ever had a friend who truly cared like this, not to say they wouldn't ever ask me how I'm doing but as far as being serious and supportive not so much as a guy.
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Joseph
When you're struggling with some personal S (like a bad deal-breaking skin issue super hard to cure) and your totally isolated because of it; you don't talk about it, you just suffer.
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When you're struggling with some personal S (like a bad deal-breaking skin issue super hard to cure) and your totally isolated because of it; you don't talk about it, you just suffer.
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