5 Instantly More Attractive Habits That Anyone Can Do
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Antoine
I have a sincere question.
Im aware of all you said. Ive been using it or maybe it was natural? I don't even know.
does it make me manipulative or something? since my very young age I analysed humans and understood a lot of stuff by myself.
and honestly almost 3/4 of psychology videos don't teach me anything, it only confirm my own theories and make me feel smarter but at the same time bored.
I don't even know why im asking this here, maybe I need to see a psy? but your calming voice soothed me and I felt comfortable opening myself.
(sorry english is my third language maybe I typed bad at some places)
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I have a sincere question.
Im aware of all you said. Ive been using it or maybe it was natural? I don't even know.
does it make me manipulative or something? since my very young age I analysed humans and understood a lot of stuff by myself.
and honestly almost 3/4 of psychology videos don't teach me anything, it only confirm my own theories and make me feel smarter but at the same time bored.
I don't even know why im asking this here, maybe I need to see a psy? but your calming voice soothed me and I felt comfortable opening myself.
(sorry english is my third language maybe I typed bad at some places)
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Moo
I think it's the person themselves who make some of their habits attractive. We all have our preferences, so it might be hard to be objective about this.
Practise on stuff you need, but with the intent of bettering yourself, for your own sake. If you only focus on what you think others are attractive to, you might lose yourself in the progress. Being forced to conform to normalcy shouldn't be the key. The video never said anything about conforming to anything, I just wanted to say that.
Never ask is this normal? Instead, you should ask yourself is this good for me?
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I think it's the person themselves who make some of their habits attractive. We all have our preferences, so it might be hard to be objective about this.
Practise on stuff you need, but with the intent of bettering yourself, for your own sake. If you only focus on what you think others are attractive to, you might lose yourself in the progress. Being forced to conform to normalcy shouldn't be the key. The video never said anything about conforming to anything, I just wanted to say that.
Never ask is this normal? Instead, you should ask yourself is this good for me?
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Pony
3: 00 Wait a minute. In another video you said that smart people struggle with love in part because they spend too long analyzing their emotions before they act, and the delay they take to analyze is perceived as disinterest. But now you're saying that taking time to analyze your emotions is a good thing and will make you seem more confident.
I guess the truth is don't spend too little or too much time analyzing your emotions, but it's hard to know where the sweet spot is.
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3: 00 Wait a minute. In another video you said that smart people struggle with love in part because they spend too long analyzing their emotions before they act, and the delay they take to analyze is perceived as disinterest. But now you're saying that taking time to analyze your emotions is a good thing and will make you seem more confident.
I guess the truth is don't spend too little or too much time analyzing your emotions, but it's hard to know where the sweet spot is.
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Naziha
July 3rd, 2022
Wow, that opening scene was so beautiful! Tysm for the tips
1) Show your androgynous side. (omg yuzuru hanyu)
2) Be around your group of friends first!
3) Work on your emotional intelligence.
(Taking a moment before reacting strongly would be ideal for me)
4) Listen with the intent to really understand the other person!
5) Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often (the hardest one )
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July 3rd, 2022
Wow, that opening scene was so beautiful! Tysm for the tips
1) Show your androgynous side. (omg yuzuru hanyu)
2) Be around your group of friends first!
3) Work on your emotional intelligence.
(Taking a moment before reacting strongly would be ideal for me)
4) Listen with the intent to really understand the other person!
5) Introduce yourself and talk to someone new often (the hardest one )
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Blue
Yall need to keep in mind that if you dont look attractive at all, these probably wont work. You guys need to get fit. If you are a male, aim for that v shape body. If you are female aim for hourglass body shape. And also stuff that can somewhat change your face like mewing, better haircut, and if u are a man a beard, nice clothing. Physical attractiveness is more important then u guys think.
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Yall need to keep in mind that if you dont look attractive at all, these probably wont work. You guys need to get fit. If you are a male, aim for that v shape body. If you are female aim for hourglass body shape. And also stuff that can somewhat change your face like mewing, better haircut, and if u are a man a beard, nice clothing. Physical attractiveness is more important then u guys think.
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Alban
My experience of being a good listener and confident is that it only makes you more likely to fall into the friend zone. It helps connecting with people but never helped me seduce anyone. But at least thanks to that skill i was able to help friends, so i'm happy with it.
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My experience of being a good listener and confident is that it only makes you more likely to fall into the friend zone. It helps connecting with people but never helped me seduce anyone. But at least thanks to that skill i was able to help friends, so i'm happy with it.
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Richard
You sure do go to a lot of restaurants and parties. If you're not too busy, how about reading some stories and some poems? (tobedeleted. blogspot. com) Or even write an amusing email to the author while your fingers are looking for somewhere to dance?
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You sure do go to a lot of restaurants and parties. If you're not too busy, how about reading some stories and some poems? (tobedeleted. blogspot. com) Or even write an amusing email to the author while your fingers are looking for somewhere to dance?
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Indrid
The last thing I want to do is attract anybody. The more invisible I am, the better. With nobody in my life, nor around me, I am safe, far more independent and self reliant, and extremely free as compared to people that believe they must be social.
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The last thing I want to do is attract anybody. The more invisible I am, the better. With nobody in my life, nor around me, I am safe, far more independent and self reliant, and extremely free as compared to people that believe they must be social.
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Dr.
For that last one, what if I come off a little too strong? My sense of humor plus some of the stuff I say can be a little. morbid, dare I say, and its usually just me trying to cause the funny or to be a bit sarcastic every here and there.
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For that last one, what if I come off a little too strong? My sense of humor plus some of the stuff I say can be a little. morbid, dare I say, and its usually just me trying to cause the funny or to be a bit sarcastic every here and there.
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Rusty
I don't think I have ever been to a friends party before, mostly because I barley see anyone as much probaly. I am pretty sure the last time I was invited to someones birthday was at least 4 or 5 years I don't really remember
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I don't think I have ever been to a friends party before, mostly because I barley see anyone as much probaly. I am pretty sure the last time I was invited to someones birthday was at least 4 or 5 years I don't really remember
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ElizaValen
I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I definately noticed that I have to improve my emotional intelligence and actually listen with the intent of actually listening, I just dont know how to improve that
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend and I definately noticed that I have to improve my emotional intelligence and actually listen with the intent of actually listening, I just dont know how to improve that
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dat
So, I have a group of friends I made throughout my years as a high schooler, but for some reason, my mind keeps making me think as if I'm just an acquantiance to all of them. I don't know why,
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So, I have a group of friends I made throughout my years as a high schooler, but for some reason, my mind keeps making me think as if I'm just an acquantiance to all of them. I don't know why,
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Ricky
I find it strange how I often find myself watching these videos knowing very well that I am not looking for love
Id assume that Im subconsciously doing this for self esteem
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I find it strange how I often find myself watching these videos knowing very well that I am not looking for love
Id assume that Im subconsciously doing this for self esteem
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education
For some reason people like me and fall for me when I don't like them back, and then I start dating more people because I don't wanna reject anyone
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For some reason people like me and fall for me when I don't like them back, and then I start dating more people because I don't wanna reject anyone
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Elijah1994
i do like a girl right now but its either A: she does not like me. or B: she does but she is such a good actress i cant even tell
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i do like a girl right now but its either A: she does not like me. or B: she does but she is such a good actress i cant even tell
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MaestroZain
Do you think the first point is because people might see that as guys being themselves rather than conforming to masculinity?
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Do you think the first point is because people might see that as guys being themselves rather than conforming to masculinity?
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Queen
Jimin of BTS is the absolute best example of a person with an androgynous side. Just looking at a picture of him and you can tell.
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Jimin of BTS is the absolute best example of a person with an androgynous side. Just looking at a picture of him and you can tell.
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george
Adding a plan to meet people is
a good plan. Maybe a hello, and
more in settings where earlier
I was more often silent.
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Adding a plan to meet people is
a good plan. Maybe a hello, and
more in settings where earlier
I was more often silent.
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psych2go
be in a group bruh i cant do that. all my boys r too hot nobody notices me. they always become interested in my friends lol
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be in a group bruh i cant do that. all my boys r too hot nobody notices me. they always become interested in my friends lol
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Gaby
Every time i approach ppl in any kind of setting, i get rejected, ppl don't like me and especially women, unfortunately for me
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Every time i approach ppl in any kind of setting, i get rejected, ppl don't like me and especially women, unfortunately for me
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Heartache
Any tips on how to show my androgynous side as a non-binary person? I'm male assigned, if that helps any; -;
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Any tips on how to show my androgynous side as a non-binary person? I'm male assigned, if that helps any; -;
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Diamond
I feel like number one should be taking a shower more often and not once a year. But maybe that's just me?
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I feel like number one should be taking a shower more often and not once a year. But maybe that's just me?
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Gaby
Emotional intelligence, something I have none of, I have no idea what it is and i have no empathy whatsoever
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Emotional intelligence, something I have none of, I have no idea what it is and i have no empathy whatsoever
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Wisdom
Such a simple and beautiful art style. I love how it just sucks you in with a calming voice to top it off.
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Such a simple and beautiful art style. I love how it just sucks you in with a calming voice to top it off.
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Ella
My parents picked friends for me in high school to interact with, now I dont have any friends as an adult
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My parents picked friends for me in high school to interact with, now I dont have any friends as an adult
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