6 Most Effective Ways To Attract Anyone You Want
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Date: 2024-03-01
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redheadbelle
It can have several reasons why a once confident person may now feel a bit insecure. I agree confidence is attractive, but it’s not to force/stress someone out. Depending on the circumstances, you can built it up step by step (and remember, in some times you may have felt more confident-you will get there again)confidence as well the own perception of oneself fluctuates always over time. That’s perfectly normal Do things that make you feel comfortable in your skin. Don’t worry about attractiveness as I believe it has mostly to do with how good you are feeling with yourself. And when I like someone, I like them so there is no stressing about it. I also tend to find shy/nervous guys cute: ) just try to start a conversation/a connection when you see someone you like: ) often, it can also be with few words, much talking is not necessary for example if that makes you feel more at ease.
What is the most attractive for me is a guy who approaches me, is pleasant to be around and makes me have a nice time. That’s all.
Trying to do things that are giving you strength & happiness like pursuing your hobbies, maybe sports, having a circle of friends which whom you feel comfortable with, is important for you. If you then decide to enter a relationship if you want to in the future, then you are balanced and can focus on your bond with your person. The bond can be very strong but no person in the world can make you happy alone. It always needs parts of your life that make you happy as a person, too. And makes sure you are in a healthy relationship as both people are bonded and growing together. If you have experienced otherwise, it doesn’t matter - that does not define you! you can decide do do it in another way now. I can imagine negative past experiences may have shaped thoughts, perceptions, feelings, insecurities and fears. They are fully valid. But you can decide that you want to make new experiences from now on. So write down your goals, try to boil them down in small achievable steps and then - just go. Even if you don’t feel like it-it will come as you gain new experiences!
People who are making you feeling good, appreciated, happy are the ones you want to look for. You don’t have to change your whole personality of course - just try to do things that give you a good feeling & good future results. Your life and being alive is so precious! it’s a gift no matter what - we are now here on earth in this body. For a reason. So try to enjoy it the best you can and see difficult circumstances as roadblocks or chances to grow & and be stronger afterwards. Besides, people who never ever had challenges in their life will get bored at some point or will lack the skills to solve future situations (this can lead to being g depressed too.
This was a long comment - made
me really passionate writing my thoughts on that here.
Being interdependent doesn’t mean a relationship which lacks love & connection - it means both people are super happy together and happy to life their life too. They share their experiences together.
Of course, you can do what you want, romantic relationships are not a must if you don’t want to. I love romance so this is a way for me.
Anything that makes you happy, keeps you healthy and kind of balanced in your mood is a good way in my mind.
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It can have several reasons why a once confident person may now feel a bit insecure. I agree confidence is attractive, but it’s not to force/stress someone out. Depending on the circumstances, you can built it up step by step (and remember, in some times you may have felt more confident-you will get there again)confidence as well the own perception of oneself fluctuates always over time. That’s perfectly normal Do things that make you feel comfortable in your skin. Don’t worry about attractiveness as I believe it has mostly to do with how good you are feeling with yourself. And when I like someone, I like them so there is no stressing about it. I also tend to find shy/nervous guys cute: ) just try to start a conversation/a connection when you see someone you like: ) often, it can also be with few words, much talking is not necessary for example if that makes you feel more at ease.
What is the most attractive for me is a guy who approaches me, is pleasant to be around and makes me have a nice time. That’s all.
Trying to do things that are giving you strength & happiness like pursuing your hobbies, maybe sports, having a circle of friends which whom you feel comfortable with, is important for you. If you then decide to enter a relationship if you want to in the future, then you are balanced and can focus on your bond with your person. The bond can be very strong but no person in the world can make you happy alone. It always needs parts of your life that make you happy as a person, too. And makes sure you are in a healthy relationship as both people are bonded and growing together. If you have experienced otherwise, it doesn’t matter - that does not define you! you can decide do do it in another way now. I can imagine negative past experiences may have shaped thoughts, perceptions, feelings, insecurities and fears. They are fully valid. But you can decide that you want to make new experiences from now on. So write down your goals, try to boil them down in small achievable steps and then - just go. Even if you don’t feel like it-it will come as you gain new experiences!
People who are making you feeling good, appreciated, happy are the ones you want to look for. You don’t have to change your whole personality of course - just try to do things that give you a good feeling & good future results. Your life and being alive is so precious! it’s a gift no matter what - we are now here on earth in this body. For a reason. So try to enjoy it the best you can and see difficult circumstances as roadblocks or chances to grow & and be stronger afterwards. Besides, people who never ever had challenges in their life will get bored at some point or will lack the skills to solve future situations (this can lead to being g depressed too.
This was a long comment - made
me really passionate writing my thoughts on that here.
Being interdependent doesn’t mean a relationship which lacks love & connection - it means both people are super happy together and happy to life their life too. They share their experiences together.
Of course, you can do what you want, romantic relationships are not a must if you don’t want to. I love romance so this is a way for me.
Anything that makes you happy, keeps you healthy and kind of balanced in your mood is a good way in my mind.
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ezraluna4396
It seems I'm just destined to be alone lol
All my personal desires and hobbies take me away from others.
I doubt most love stories start with,
So there I was 20 miles away from the nearest town way out in the woods taking pictures, when the most beautiful woman stepped out from behind a tree, that was your mother.
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It seems I'm just destined to be alone lol
All my personal desires and hobbies take me away from others.
I doubt most love stories start with,
So there I was 20 miles away from the nearest town way out in the woods taking pictures, when the most beautiful woman stepped out from behind a tree, that was your mother.
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trinawatkins9081
So putting all these things to use but attract nothing but playboys or commitment phobes I know that is issues on their end but seriously soulfully tired at the moment I'm not bitter but more detached because they are proving to be the same in every single man And I do all these things I do me always have
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So putting all these things to use but attract nothing but playboys or commitment phobes I know that is issues on their end but seriously soulfully tired at the moment I'm not bitter but more detached because they are proving to be the same in every single man And I do all these things I do me always have
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ultimablackmage
What a load of sht! If this was true, I'd be batting off women every other minute of the day! I've been single for 20 years & never pretended to be someone else & I'm funny & honest, but unless you have a ton of money & look like a model, you'll be single & miserable for your entire life!
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What a load of sht! If this was true, I'd be batting off women every other minute of the day! I've been single for 20 years & never pretended to be someone else & I'm funny & honest, but unless you have a ton of money & look like a model, you'll be single & miserable for your entire life!
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emirichukirit344
For anyone who is on a time crunch:
1. Confidence - 0: 52
2. Authenticity - 1: 17
3. A sense of humour - 1: 52
4. Having good communitication skills - 2: 20
5. Kindness and empathy - 2: 51
6. Being your own person - 3: 29
Hope y'all have a good day!
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For anyone who is on a time crunch:
1. Confidence - 0: 52
2. Authenticity - 1: 17
3. A sense of humour - 1: 52
4. Having good communitication skills - 2: 20
5. Kindness and empathy - 2: 51
6. Being your own person - 3: 29
Hope y'all have a good day!
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psych2go
I've done all of those things. None of them work. These days, you have to be a multimillionaire to attract someone. That's scary. Not only would it attract someone, that someone would steal you blind taking you for everything you've got and then leave you high and dry.
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I've done all of those things. None of them work. These days, you have to be a multimillionaire to attract someone. That's scary. Not only would it attract someone, that someone would steal you blind taking you for everything you've got and then leave you high and dry.
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chisaten
Could you do some other videos that are more about how to not attract interest My biggest problem is because of my autism, I unknowingly attract people and they will take my meaningful conversation as flirting, whereas I am not looking for any romantic relationship.
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Could you do some other videos that are more about how to not attract interest My biggest problem is because of my autism, I unknowingly attract people and they will take my meaningful conversation as flirting, whereas I am not looking for any romantic relationship.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Confidence 0: 48
2. Authenticity 1: 17
3. A sense of humor 1: 51
4. Good communication skills 2: 19
5. Kindness and empathy 2: 53
6. Being your own person 3: 28
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Confidence 0: 48
2. Authenticity 1: 17
3. A sense of humor 1: 51
4. Good communication skills 2: 19
5. Kindness and empathy 2: 53
6. Being your own person 3: 28
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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twistedfellow7041
I'm not really good with the first one, but the rest I am. Which doesn't help at all. So, yeah. I think a magnet would be more helpful for me. Sure, I may attract a car, but at least I will be attractive for a short bit.
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I'm not really good with the first one, but the rest I am. Which doesn't help at all. So, yeah. I think a magnet would be more helpful for me. Sure, I may attract a car, but at least I will be attractive for a short bit.
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KT-4.
Hmmm, i gotta work on being funny i guess. I think i got. most of the others down. I still need to work on being my own person i guess, i dont rlly know myself or my intrests all too well these days. Always room for improvement!
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Hmmm, i gotta work on being funny i guess. I think i got. most of the others down. I still need to work on being my own person i guess, i dont rlly know myself or my intrests all too well these days. Always room for improvement!
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heckincat1406
These are all really hard to do as someone with low self confidence. Nobody shares my interests, all are pretty obscure or specific, I'm too apologetic and shy and I don't want to be boisterous.
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These are all really hard to do as someone with low self confidence. Nobody shares my interests, all are pretty obscure or specific, I'm too apologetic and shy and I don't want to be boisterous.
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NoBody-pf2nv
A)
- Be female
- Don't be hideous
B)
- Be Male
- Have insane genetic luck
- Work out since you were 14
- Make more money than 80% of other men
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A)
- Be female
- Don't be hideous
B)
- Be Male
- Have insane genetic luck
- Work out since you were 14
- Make more money than 80% of other men
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justephemeral
But guys also remember that you need not be insecure about your looks or anything. If someone likes you, it'll be for your heart so be yourself. Be happy loves
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But guys also remember that you need not be insecure about your looks or anything. If someone likes you, it'll be for your heart so be yourself. Be happy loves
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nanimaria1654
1 confidence
2 authenticity (embrace what makes u unique)
3 Humour
4 communication skills
5 kindness and empathy
6 be your own person
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1 confidence
2 authenticity (embrace what makes u unique)
3 Humour
4 communication skills
5 kindness and empathy
6 be your own person
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Boblox_hecker
Does anyone have any tips on how to be funnier, i think thats one of my biggest flaws, i always try to be funny but i just come off as annoying
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Does anyone have any tips on how to be funnier, i think thats one of my biggest flaws, i always try to be funny but i just come off as annoying
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bastionsea2829
'Attract' is a huge step from ''have a relationship with'
I have attracted the attention of many, but a relationship is still not happening
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'Attract' is a huge step from ''have a relationship with'
I have attracted the attention of many, but a relationship is still not happening
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latoyamcghee1524
I was always not attractive with low self esteem even when I do take care of myself but I'm always sad and low self esteem
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I was always not attractive with low self esteem even when I do take care of myself but I'm always sad and low self esteem
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MastaChafa
The advise is good n all, but you forgot a little tiny one: GET IN SHAPE
People in shape are much more attractive. Period.
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The advise is good n all, but you forgot a little tiny one: GET IN SHAPE
People in shape are much more attractive. Period.
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TheNonameHousehold
My style screams loud, fun, and a little bit crazy, with the spirit of weirdness, I'm sure someone will be into that
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My style screams loud, fun, and a little bit crazy, with the spirit of weirdness, I'm sure someone will be into that
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