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How to deal with rejection

How to deal with rejection

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Dig into the psychology of why rejection causes us pain, and explore strategies to cope with this common experience. Rejection hurts. It s incredibly painful to feel like you re not wanted and we do mean painful. Researchers found that we relate rejection to being hurt, using terms like crushed or broken-hearted. So, why does rejection trigger such a strong response, and is there any way to cope with this unique kind of pain? Explore common strategies to help you process this emotional experience.
Date: 2023-01-24

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How to deal with rejection:
1. Build a wall around everyone and everything you love. Fill your heart with spite and never compliment anyone ever again.
2. Hit the gym 19 times a week. Watch your muscles beg for mercy. Don t be afraid to go to the ER daily.
3. Apply to an economics school. Study for 9+ hours a day. Insult professors when they waste your time. Getting expelled doesn t mean anything. There s infinite schools and one of you.
4. Make a monopoly. Bury your competition. Don t be afraid to lie and false advertise.
5. Pay the best lawyers to defend you. Constantly escape prison time.
6. Watch as millions of people grovel to join your corporation.
7. Belittle them as you re the most important person in the world and they are insignificant ants.
8. Reap the rewards.
9. With your spoils set up a political campaign.
10. Lie. Lie. Lie!
11. Gerrymander territories into your favor.
12. Conquer your entire continent.
13. Set up an oligarchy and make yourself supreme ruler.
14. Make it illegal to reject you and send those who disobey to your private dungeon.

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Finally, so many young male and female teens are straight-up going incel due to the unrealistic portrayal of love and ways of expressing it as seen on TV shows, movies and celebrity life. People, young and old, need to understand that love and acceptance are not something to unlock or achieve. It can be one-sided, or it can be mutual and spontaneous. In a world where we rationalise everything, this irrational connection confuses some, and the pain can change a person for the worst. Early education in this matter is key rather than avoiding this time bomb.
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I just recently started going into the dating/hookup market. I had cases that I get a message to meet, I get excited and ready. And then they block me shortly before the meetup. It stings hard, but it's temporary.
What helps is reminding yourself that it's their loss, not yours. To accept that getting rejected is part of life, and move on.
Also have a support network does help a lot, even if it's only 1 or 2 people. Though if you don't have such network to help you out. I would start getting one before jumping in dating.

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Me as a guy after getting rejected literally hundreds of times in matrimonial sites, without even a Hi/Hello, even after having a decent pay, and fairly good looks. Day dreaming of becoming so much successful that I appear on their TVs, mobiles, laptops and newspapers. Making them to have a second thought at the least.
It can hurt as a blow on your face man I think I've started to become immune/insensitive to it but it'd still hurt to face rejection everytime

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Neurodivergent people walking into the room like Eh, we've dealt with rejection from those around us our entire lives.
That doesn't mean it hurts less when those who's opinion we value the most reject us, but you learn to brush off the opinions of strangers faster and more easily.

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If you reject me you might as well drag me out to a dingey warehouse at the edge of town, tie me to a chair and make me watch endless episodes of Gilligan's island until I pass out because I just wouldn't know how to go on.
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I'm ADHD Avoidant (APD, rejection for me is pretty much the final monster boss where you keep dying to
When in a game you get to the point of quitting and never play it again because the final boss was too frustrating

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Ask yourself:
1. Relationship type. Acquantaince or long term?
2. Low opinion of themselves
3. Do the other person value the relationship as you do?
Solution: Reconnect with those who value you.

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Getting rejected is way better than not trying at all. The odds of success increase in the subsequent attempt(s) as you know why you got rejected in the first place. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.
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Sometimes the rejection is not personal, its just business. And you shouldn't appeal to people's validation by giving them what they want but instead, give them what you have to offer!
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tip number one, never allow to waste your time in friendzone. someone friendzoned you? ghost this person and never talk to them, forget and don't allow them to waste your time anymore
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This should be mandatory viewing. So much hurt could be preventable once someone has coping methods and the realization that they are not entitled to other peoples time and energy.
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I'm glad that they didn't only consider romantic rejections but also platonic rejection as well. Belonging within a group is as important as belonging with someone (if not more.
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People have different sensitivity leaves to rejection due to childhood trauma. Second, you can tell someone who has been rejected their whole life to deal with it.
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Haha. Just in time. My admission into a course that could give me a prefix of Dr. Got cancelled due to lame reason n I'm heartbroken now
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