Bad Parenting Is YOUR Biggest Crime!
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Parents should always be respectful and caring towards their own parents in front of their children, and they should make a habit of taking their kids one evening a week over to their grandparents' house for dinner and an evening of conversation and watching TV. If they do that, then when their kids grow up and have children, they will come weekly to visit and a bond will develop between the grandparents and grandchildren. The point is, if your children turn out to be ungrateful rotters, it's almost certainly your own fault.
Date: 2020-08-08
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i had a good upbringing. My parents got divorced and i gained a stepdad who turned out to be a better dad to me than my real dad. I was always taken care of and never had a worry growing up and i have 2 kids now and im trying to give them that sense of security where they dint have to deal with worries like food, shelter, toys, and love and me and my wife want to do everything possible to keep our marriage great so our kids dont grow up in a broken home. i believe no one is ever really ready for a kid til you have one and to be a good parent you have to sacrifice things to provide them the best childhood possible because you only get one childhood. I keep my kids in line and teach them about saying i love you to people they care about and hugs and kisses because i want my kids to grow up knowing their dad was a good provider, protector, and loving father
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i had a good upbringing. My parents got divorced and i gained a stepdad who turned out to be a better dad to me than my real dad. I was always taken care of and never had a worry growing up and i have 2 kids now and im trying to give them that sense of security where they dint have to deal with worries like food, shelter, toys, and love and me and my wife want to do everything possible to keep our marriage great so our kids dont grow up in a broken home. i believe no one is ever really ready for a kid til you have one and to be a good parent you have to sacrifice things to provide them the best childhood possible because you only get one childhood. I keep my kids in line and teach them about saying i love you to people they care about and hugs and kisses because i want my kids to grow up knowing their dad was a good provider, protector, and loving father
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kevin
Great vid Brian! My son had a friend who became my Step-son. Kyle was emotionally abused by his Father because his Mom died in childbirth. I attended my son & Kyle's sporting & school events all through junior & high school. In college years Kyle would live with me & my son at breaks & summer. My son & Kyle are great young men & I'm so blessed to have them in my life. At college graduation Kyle delivered a commencement speech and thanked me for being a Father to him. I was so overcome with emotions & so proud of him. Happy to say that Kyle and his Father have started working on their relationship. I hope & pray that my son & Kyle will be great parents when they have children. Thanks for bring up this topic Brian-being a parent has been the most rewarding thing in my life. Keep up the great work!
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Great vid Brian! My son had a friend who became my Step-son. Kyle was emotionally abused by his Father because his Mom died in childbirth. I attended my son & Kyle's sporting & school events all through junior & high school. In college years Kyle would live with me & my son at breaks & summer. My son & Kyle are great young men & I'm so blessed to have them in my life. At college graduation Kyle delivered a commencement speech and thanked me for being a Father to him. I was so overcome with emotions & so proud of him. Happy to say that Kyle and his Father have started working on their relationship. I hope & pray that my son & Kyle will be great parents when they have children. Thanks for bring up this topic Brian-being a parent has been the most rewarding thing in my life. Keep up the great work!
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Peter
So much truth in this!
Deep down, my parents loved me, as I think most parents do, but unfortunately they treated me badly often, but with the conviction they were ultimately doing the right thing. It didn't work. I am working through this now, having made good headway with my long-time depression.
I self-harmed as a kid and was generally very unloving toward myself. Certainly my parents didn't help, probably they caused much of my hell.
I think it's important though to understand that there is ultimately no one to blame. This is where I think traditional therapy (Freud, Jung) reaches it's useful limit. I have to accept what has happened and take any and all positives and work to heal myself.
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So much truth in this!
Deep down, my parents loved me, as I think most parents do, but unfortunately they treated me badly often, but with the conviction they were ultimately doing the right thing. It didn't work. I am working through this now, having made good headway with my long-time depression.
I self-harmed as a kid and was generally very unloving toward myself. Certainly my parents didn't help, probably they caused much of my hell.
I think it's important though to understand that there is ultimately no one to blame. This is where I think traditional therapy (Freud, Jung) reaches it's useful limit. I have to accept what has happened and take any and all positives and work to heal myself.
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thinkofwhy
lol: ( My parents did put me on a plane to my aunt and uncle, because of their situation.
But it doesn't really matter. Our destiny is shaped by all levels of organization, from all those within: down to the source of all energies, to all those without: family, neighborhood, community, municipality, province or state, country, nation, continent, Earth, and beyond. Each level adds its own hyper-dimensional twist (coriolis, guiding our path, defining the meaning of, and providing a purpose for, everything. To focus on any sub set of those levels of organization as a cause or effect is to ignore the significance of the whole universe. The universe is the cause and it is the effect.
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lol: ( My parents did put me on a plane to my aunt and uncle, because of their situation.
But it doesn't really matter. Our destiny is shaped by all levels of organization, from all those within: down to the source of all energies, to all those without: family, neighborhood, community, municipality, province or state, country, nation, continent, Earth, and beyond. Each level adds its own hyper-dimensional twist (coriolis, guiding our path, defining the meaning of, and providing a purpose for, everything. To focus on any sub set of those levels of organization as a cause or effect is to ignore the significance of the whole universe. The universe is the cause and it is the effect.
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Alianknight
Here's a question for you. When is the right time have children? Personally I want to achieve my main goals first so I can tell my kids You see that? Your daddy achieved that. If you can believe it, you can achieve it! - A girlfriend of mine dropped out of college because she wanted children and move out of her parents house. She got pregnant at the age of 20. Now she just lives for her children and she gave up on her dreams. We all knew she could have become something great. Don't get me wrong she's a great parent but isn't she setting a bad example for her children? I know alot of people are rushing into this, no idea why though.
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Here's a question for you. When is the right time have children? Personally I want to achieve my main goals first so I can tell my kids You see that? Your daddy achieved that. If you can believe it, you can achieve it! - A girlfriend of mine dropped out of college because she wanted children and move out of her parents house. She got pregnant at the age of 20. Now she just lives for her children and she gave up on her dreams. We all knew she could have become something great. Don't get me wrong she's a great parent but isn't she setting a bad example for her children? I know alot of people are rushing into this, no idea why though.
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julius1266
Dang this hits close to home, I still currently live with my parents but I can relate to the bad parenting aspect, as both my parents work full time, with my mum also being an alcoholic, I am often ignored and they don't have the time to help or listen to me, I am also usually on the recieveing end of their anger towards each other and had to sleep outside on a number of occasions, shits hard to deal with but I'm sure if/when I have children I will treat them differently, being treated badly by your parents, the few people who should care for you the most, it's seriously soul crushing,
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Dang this hits close to home, I still currently live with my parents but I can relate to the bad parenting aspect, as both my parents work full time, with my mum also being an alcoholic, I am often ignored and they don't have the time to help or listen to me, I am also usually on the recieveing end of their anger towards each other and had to sleep outside on a number of occasions, shits hard to deal with but I'm sure if/when I have children I will treat them differently, being treated badly by your parents, the few people who should care for you the most, it's seriously soul crushing,
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ilurvecarbs
Great vid - this does need to be said in this day, you've said it well. My wife use to work in a Pupil Referal Unit - a place where children go once kicked out of mainstream education to complete compulsory education. The parents were not too poor to care, in fact some were well off but gave absolutely no time or encouragement to get their children to help them get back on track. I also saw this when i was teaching for 5 years in a secondary school, the parents just had absolutely no idea how to parent. Ultimately is was the child that suffered and the children that were around them.
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Great vid - this does need to be said in this day, you've said it well. My wife use to work in a Pupil Referal Unit - a place where children go once kicked out of mainstream education to complete compulsory education. The parents were not too poor to care, in fact some were well off but gave absolutely no time or encouragement to get their children to help them get back on track. I also saw this when i was teaching for 5 years in a secondary school, the parents just had absolutely no idea how to parent. Ultimately is was the child that suffered and the children that were around them.
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CamieFarmer13
Being a women who is recently going through a break up. The part about if someone is a bad parent it does affect their child directly in the way that they don't learn compassion for other people. So I related a lot with this video. I do however feel like parenting is only a piece of the whole. Yes someone being parented badly does affect them, but they don't have to live their whole live in a woe-is-me pitty party. Anyways, this video was a pleasant surprise and you are one of my inspirations in regards to vegan body building. Keep up the good work cause you're awesome.
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Being a women who is recently going through a break up. The part about if someone is a bad parent it does affect their child directly in the way that they don't learn compassion for other people. So I related a lot with this video. I do however feel like parenting is only a piece of the whole. Yes someone being parented badly does affect them, but they don't have to live their whole live in a woe-is-me pitty party. Anyways, this video was a pleasant surprise and you are one of my inspirations in regards to vegan body building. Keep up the good work cause you're awesome.
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sport
Let's sign you up, get you a coach, get you a personal trainer. Wow, privileged much? Lol I know you admitted to being raised 'Disney' (not sure if that's entirely true) but just because a parent doesn't run out and break the bank for his/her child's every interest doesn't mean they don't care. Pretty pretentious to even make such a statement. It's quite possible you end up doing just as much damage by fiscally spoiling them and blowing up their ego. It goes both ways; there is too much doting, and not enough. It's right in the middle. Glass houses.
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Let's sign you up, get you a coach, get you a personal trainer. Wow, privileged much? Lol I know you admitted to being raised 'Disney' (not sure if that's entirely true) but just because a parent doesn't run out and break the bank for his/her child's every interest doesn't mean they don't care. Pretty pretentious to even make such a statement. It's quite possible you end up doing just as much damage by fiscally spoiling them and blowing up their ego. It goes both ways; there is too much doting, and not enough. It's right in the middle. Glass houses.
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