Solo Travel - 5 Things You Will Love & Hate About Traveling By Yourself - Wolters World
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Date: 2022-02-04
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David
Traveling with friends can actually make you really learn about a person or the people you chose to travel with too. I was in Amsterdam 9/4/18-9/11/18 and went with a friend from work, and he pretty much ruined the whole experience for me. I am one of those wake up at 7am and go out the door and experience new things every day on a trip and see as much as possible and get my money's worth, but he was sleeping until 10 or 11 in the morning every day, and when I was with him, he was basically ignoring me being on the phone with his girlfriend the whole time, so I was basically by myself anyway, but he pissed me off to the point I asked him nicely to get off the phone and hang out with me, and he got pissed and called me childish and jealous, and we wound up fighting and kind of breaking our friendship. My point is why spend 2, 000 or more to go travel and hang out with someone when you are going to ignore them the whole time? I must've spent 4/5 days there by myself and I loved it way more than I did with my friend. I will definately go back and experience a lot more this coming spring and do it all on my own time, 100% by myself. Who cares about being lonely. At least you can go at your own pace through a museum and not worry about someone elses time. If you get lost in the city, 9/10 a local will help you find your way, so there is no need to panic, and you can meet so many more people. I was never worried about getting pick pocketed, except for when I was walking through the busy super narrow streets of the red light district. I am looking foward to going back to Amsterdam my 3rd time by myself next year so I can see what I want to see and really enjoy it. Cheers and happy travels to all!
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Traveling with friends can actually make you really learn about a person or the people you chose to travel with too. I was in Amsterdam 9/4/18-9/11/18 and went with a friend from work, and he pretty much ruined the whole experience for me. I am one of those wake up at 7am and go out the door and experience new things every day on a trip and see as much as possible and get my money's worth, but he was sleeping until 10 or 11 in the morning every day, and when I was with him, he was basically ignoring me being on the phone with his girlfriend the whole time, so I was basically by myself anyway, but he pissed me off to the point I asked him nicely to get off the phone and hang out with me, and he got pissed and called me childish and jealous, and we wound up fighting and kind of breaking our friendship. My point is why spend 2, 000 or more to go travel and hang out with someone when you are going to ignore them the whole time? I must've spent 4/5 days there by myself and I loved it way more than I did with my friend. I will definately go back and experience a lot more this coming spring and do it all on my own time, 100% by myself. Who cares about being lonely. At least you can go at your own pace through a museum and not worry about someone elses time. If you get lost in the city, 9/10 a local will help you find your way, so there is no need to panic, and you can meet so many more people. I was never worried about getting pick pocketed, except for when I was walking through the busy super narrow streets of the red light district. I am looking foward to going back to Amsterdam my 3rd time by myself next year so I can see what I want to see and really enjoy it. Cheers and happy travels to all!
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travel
Some of my pros:
- I am liable for my own self. I dont have to think about other people's needs and wants. It's all me and I love that.
- I get to do and go wherever I want whenever I want. No worries about waiting for someone to wake up. i just go.
- I'll be buying a selfie tripod stick with a bluetooth remote to take non selfies photos lol.
- when it comes to safety, I only wanna sight see during the day and will be setting a curfew for myself and I'm fine with that. Going with someone who loves the party then itll be a problem.
- I get to set my own budget. I don't have to sacrifice certain things just to favor others. If i want a gelato for the 6th time, i would like to eat one. If i want a steak, I'm getting one.
- I dont have to deal with another person complaining about they're bored, my feet hurts, blah blah, I am very good at time management and I dont get bored easily. I'm very patient. Others aren't as much.
- yeah i wished time and time I tell myself, I wished you could see what I'm seeing but at the same time, itd be more stressful to have someone to drag when they dont even wanna go.
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Some of my pros:
- I am liable for my own self. I dont have to think about other people's needs and wants. It's all me and I love that.
- I get to do and go wherever I want whenever I want. No worries about waiting for someone to wake up. i just go.
- I'll be buying a selfie tripod stick with a bluetooth remote to take non selfies photos lol.
- when it comes to safety, I only wanna sight see during the day and will be setting a curfew for myself and I'm fine with that. Going with someone who loves the party then itll be a problem.
- I get to set my own budget. I don't have to sacrifice certain things just to favor others. If i want a gelato for the 6th time, i would like to eat one. If i want a steak, I'm getting one.
- I dont have to deal with another person complaining about they're bored, my feet hurts, blah blah, I am very good at time management and I dont get bored easily. I'm very patient. Others aren't as much.
- yeah i wished time and time I tell myself, I wished you could see what I'm seeing but at the same time, itd be more stressful to have someone to drag when they dont even wanna go.
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univibe23
Yes, It can be difficult to travel alone in that if you see something truly amazing it would be nice to immediately share that joy with a close friend or wife, husband whatever. But, that being said I've traveled alone many times and absolutely love it--then again I am an introvert. I'm also the only child of a career Air Force officer who started first grade in Turkey and traveled endless from there all over the world and have seen and done things most people never will. So while some people may have a fear of traveling alone to strange lands and places I really don't. I see it all the time that people who are single put off potentially great trips outside their native countries because they don't have someone to go with for what ever reason and that is a big mistake because we are no guaranteed tomorrow! I say saddle up and GO! Just Go! Sure you'll be afraid at times, you'll be lonely at times, you'll be in danger at times but guess what---you're all that right in you're own hometown! Oh, DONT TAKE SELFIES! :)
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Yes, It can be difficult to travel alone in that if you see something truly amazing it would be nice to immediately share that joy with a close friend or wife, husband whatever. But, that being said I've traveled alone many times and absolutely love it--then again I am an introvert. I'm also the only child of a career Air Force officer who started first grade in Turkey and traveled endless from there all over the world and have seen and done things most people never will. So while some people may have a fear of traveling alone to strange lands and places I really don't. I see it all the time that people who are single put off potentially great trips outside their native countries because they don't have someone to go with for what ever reason and that is a big mistake because we are no guaranteed tomorrow! I say saddle up and GO! Just Go! Sure you'll be afraid at times, you'll be lonely at times, you'll be in danger at times but guess what---you're all that right in you're own hometown! Oh, DONT TAKE SELFIES! :)
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berlineczka
As for counteracting the loneliness, I have a tip: book a room in a hostel instead of a hotel - many European hostels even have double or single beds rooms (for similar price as hotels) if you're not a big fan of sharing a room of 10 bunk beds with strangers. Hotels have this politely ignoring/not disturbing aura which is not optimal for solo travellers.
You meet a lot of people in the morning during breakfast to talk to and in the evening in the common room you can just drop by with a few beers and talk to people or cook something. You can also talk with them about what have you seen and experienced - and it takes away that itch of I want someone to share now but I am on my own.
You can even meet people there who want to see the same things as you, so you can go as a group and get that cheaper group ticket - and you have a buddy to convince you to get up earlier in the morning. They can also make a few photos of you that aren't selfies; )
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As for counteracting the loneliness, I have a tip: book a room in a hostel instead of a hotel - many European hostels even have double or single beds rooms (for similar price as hotels) if you're not a big fan of sharing a room of 10 bunk beds with strangers. Hotels have this politely ignoring/not disturbing aura which is not optimal for solo travellers.
You meet a lot of people in the morning during breakfast to talk to and in the evening in the common room you can just drop by with a few beers and talk to people or cook something. You can also talk with them about what have you seen and experienced - and it takes away that itch of I want someone to share now but I am on my own.
You can even meet people there who want to see the same things as you, so you can go as a group and get that cheaper group ticket - and you have a buddy to convince you to get up earlier in the morning. They can also make a few photos of you that aren't selfies; )
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Rick
I took my first-ever trip overseas. I chose Paris: See Paris at night was on my Bucket List. I went alone (I did have two ladies who had offered to join me, but I really wanted to go solo.
I loved it! Three points:
1) I learned more traveling alone than I wouldve if I were with somebody. As one example, alone I had to learn the Metro. To navigate around the city. I had no one else to rely on.
2) I booked some half-day (or shorter) tours. That way I met some great people, got photos solo and with my new friends, and made some memories.
3) Wait staff and hotel staff seemed like they saw I was alone and made an extra effort to be nice to me. I had none of the usual problems associated with Paris waiters.
Anyway, thoughts from a newbie.
Next trip: Tuscany with an Italian girlfriend.
After that: Paris again, solo.
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I took my first-ever trip overseas. I chose Paris: See Paris at night was on my Bucket List. I went alone (I did have two ladies who had offered to join me, but I really wanted to go solo.
I loved it! Three points:
1) I learned more traveling alone than I wouldve if I were with somebody. As one example, alone I had to learn the Metro. To navigate around the city. I had no one else to rely on.
2) I booked some half-day (or shorter) tours. That way I met some great people, got photos solo and with my new friends, and made some memories.
3) Wait staff and hotel staff seemed like they saw I was alone and made an extra effort to be nice to me. I had none of the usual problems associated with Paris waiters.
Anyway, thoughts from a newbie.
Next trip: Tuscany with an Italian girlfriend.
After that: Paris again, solo.
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Ea
I have done quite a bit of solo travelling. Sometimes the alternative is not travelling at all because friends and family dont always have the resources or time to travel. I like planning what Im going to see, where Im going to eat and where Im going to stay but then finding new places when Im out and about. I try to be careful and try not to look like an obvious tourist. I always carry something to read so I bring that out when Im sitting in a restaurant. There are some destinations that I think I will opt to visit with a small group tour. In fact Im using some of the other Walters World videos to plan some future trips and add to my travel bucket list. After being in Lockdown for so long Im looking forward to my next trip.
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I have done quite a bit of solo travelling. Sometimes the alternative is not travelling at all because friends and family dont always have the resources or time to travel. I like planning what Im going to see, where Im going to eat and where Im going to stay but then finding new places when Im out and about. I try to be careful and try not to look like an obvious tourist. I always carry something to read so I bring that out when Im sitting in a restaurant. There are some destinations that I think I will opt to visit with a small group tour. In fact Im using some of the other Walters World videos to plan some future trips and add to my travel bucket list. After being in Lockdown for so long Im looking forward to my next trip.
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Benjamin
Mostly I go by myself when it comes to work and some vacation in between. its great but if you dont meet any friends or just being totally lonesome it can be quite tedious and to cap it all, boring like hell. If you meet friends and start to acquaint with some people that are very lovely and get to know the local dishes and wines etc. Plus eventual discounts at the opera horses, concert halls, events etc. the good things about traveling alone is great! I must say though I would prefer to go with friends and family so that you dont get too crazy, unless if its work-related. Never experienced being a travel target since you dont look that touristy when Im going to destinations like Berlin or Paris.
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Mostly I go by myself when it comes to work and some vacation in between. its great but if you dont meet any friends or just being totally lonesome it can be quite tedious and to cap it all, boring like hell. If you meet friends and start to acquaint with some people that are very lovely and get to know the local dishes and wines etc. Plus eventual discounts at the opera horses, concert halls, events etc. the good things about traveling alone is great! I must say though I would prefer to go with friends and family so that you dont get too crazy, unless if its work-related. Never experienced being a travel target since you dont look that touristy when Im going to destinations like Berlin or Paris.
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Dave
great video and i agree with both sides. Im planning a 3week US trip and will likely be on my own although ive spoken to my dad about us going together. i like the idea of travelling with some1, somebody to talk to regular, eat with, see sights and attractions with, take your photos etc, but i also like the idea of having your own schedule if your travelling alone, go at your own pace and are not force to slow down or cut things out of your plan if the other ppl are tired. can do as much or as little as you want and thats appealing.
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great video and i agree with both sides. Im planning a 3week US trip and will likely be on my own although ive spoken to my dad about us going together. i like the idea of travelling with some1, somebody to talk to regular, eat with, see sights and attractions with, take your photos etc, but i also like the idea of having your own schedule if your travelling alone, go at your own pace and are not force to slow down or cut things out of your plan if the other ppl are tired. can do as much or as little as you want and thats appealing.
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Rama
My photography is better when I travel by myself. I can give the art and the craft my full focus, for example I can stay at certain locations longer to wait for and get the best light without worrying about or feeling guilty about boring my travel buddies. A trip where the focus is serious photography has to either be solo or with other serious photographers. I am not against travelling with other people and I love travelling with friends or family but for me that is a trip that is not going to produce the best art photography wise.
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My photography is better when I travel by myself. I can give the art and the craft my full focus, for example I can stay at certain locations longer to wait for and get the best light without worrying about or feeling guilty about boring my travel buddies. A trip where the focus is serious photography has to either be solo or with other serious photographers. I am not against travelling with other people and I love travelling with friends or family but for me that is a trip that is not going to produce the best art photography wise.
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Hugh
The photos are definitely an issue. I remember trying to get a photo of myself at the Vermeer museum in Delft, sitting in a specially made room that was meant to recreate a famous painting. I asked the only other person there to take my photo and she tried three times but spoilt it every time even though I originally showed her the correct angle. In my experience, only friends and family can be relied upon to take good photos.
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The photos are definitely an issue. I remember trying to get a photo of myself at the Vermeer museum in Delft, sitting in a specially made room that was meant to recreate a famous painting. I asked the only other person there to take my photo and she tried three times but spoilt it every time even though I originally showed her the correct angle. In my experience, only friends and family can be relied upon to take good photos.
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