Living in lockdown with my husband, my girlfriend & our son - love don-t judge
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Bee
I'm shocked that this trio haven't ended up killing each other. I'm glad that they are at least aware of their flaws as individuals.
Like that one who says she doesn't like it when someone tells her what to do.
There's nothing wrong with standing up for what you want and what makes you happy, but not liking that someone is telling you to do something for the reason that they are telling (asking) you to do something is not beneficial for anyone.
Right after she expresses how she doesn't like people telling her what to do, the other 2 jumped in and told her to stop answering all the questions and give them an opportunity to express themselves.
Maybe they thought that there wouldn't be any editing involved and that it would be uploaded as raw footage.
I mean, even if she happened to be the first to respond on every question, it's not like the others wouldn't have their 5 minutes to shine.
Maybe they felt she was stealing their spotlight.
One of them I can tell has codependency issues, if not all 3.
People who say they need attention and constant stimulation from others in order to feel loved has no clue about self love and incapable of providing that nurturing self love on their own.
Its likely to explain how she's in the situation she is in. Their relationship probably works because she receives that validation from them when she needs it.
If she was in a one on one relationship, it's likely that things eventually end if their partner doesn't have someone else that can fill in any gaps and make up for unresolved internal issues.
Since the guy is already married and she's the girlfriend, no matter how she acts, the guy has no reason to end things since he has another partner.
I'm all for the different ways people choose for themselves what they do with their life, but it's all too common that these polygamous relationships are occurring because of unresolved wounds from within.
Having a relationship with one person at one time is in it itself a challenge for most people.
Having multiple at one time? The good side is if one of them is irritating, you don't have to make a huge scene and break up with the person.
You could just give each other space, the guy can then interact with his other wife and not feel like he has to put up with this one woman.
If you have 2, you can just spend more time with one when the other person and you aren't getting along at the moment.
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I'm shocked that this trio haven't ended up killing each other. I'm glad that they are at least aware of their flaws as individuals.
Like that one who says she doesn't like it when someone tells her what to do.
There's nothing wrong with standing up for what you want and what makes you happy, but not liking that someone is telling you to do something for the reason that they are telling (asking) you to do something is not beneficial for anyone.
Right after she expresses how she doesn't like people telling her what to do, the other 2 jumped in and told her to stop answering all the questions and give them an opportunity to express themselves.
Maybe they thought that there wouldn't be any editing involved and that it would be uploaded as raw footage.
I mean, even if she happened to be the first to respond on every question, it's not like the others wouldn't have their 5 minutes to shine.
Maybe they felt she was stealing their spotlight.
One of them I can tell has codependency issues, if not all 3.
People who say they need attention and constant stimulation from others in order to feel loved has no clue about self love and incapable of providing that nurturing self love on their own.
Its likely to explain how she's in the situation she is in. Their relationship probably works because she receives that validation from them when she needs it.
If she was in a one on one relationship, it's likely that things eventually end if their partner doesn't have someone else that can fill in any gaps and make up for unresolved internal issues.
Since the guy is already married and she's the girlfriend, no matter how she acts, the guy has no reason to end things since he has another partner.
I'm all for the different ways people choose for themselves what they do with their life, but it's all too common that these polygamous relationships are occurring because of unresolved wounds from within.
Having a relationship with one person at one time is in it itself a challenge for most people.
Having multiple at one time? The good side is if one of them is irritating, you don't have to make a huge scene and break up with the person.
You could just give each other space, the guy can then interact with his other wife and not feel like he has to put up with this one woman.
If you have 2, you can just spend more time with one when the other person and you aren't getting along at the moment.
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Stacy
So much mixed voices here, mostly negatives which I actually expected because not many people like or know this style of love and life. Only thing I will say in the defense of the relationship that I can see is everyone can get frustrated when stuck with people (even if they love them. If you think about it we have time apart from each other due to work schedules, workout time, etc. At first we we think it's sweet we are together but it lasts only a few days to weeks.
Some people need that space and still be loving with each other. That's what I see. Raquel is VERY energetic and Katie is pretty calm so it seems. They would naturally need space from each other over time and with stay at home orders there is only so much space between them. So yeah, in this I, for once, saw a balanced triad in the best condition they could be as they are stuck together without much space. I can't say they can do much better in space or how to respond to their religious beliefs and such. but I know I can speak for this part.
I'm just glad they're trying to make it work more than make things really awkward. You can tell when it is awkward haha. Good for them, I wish I could be in a poly family like this but my partner wouldn't ever be comfortable.
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So much mixed voices here, mostly negatives which I actually expected because not many people like or know this style of love and life. Only thing I will say in the defense of the relationship that I can see is everyone can get frustrated when stuck with people (even if they love them. If you think about it we have time apart from each other due to work schedules, workout time, etc. At first we we think it's sweet we are together but it lasts only a few days to weeks.
Some people need that space and still be loving with each other. That's what I see. Raquel is VERY energetic and Katie is pretty calm so it seems. They would naturally need space from each other over time and with stay at home orders there is only so much space between them. So yeah, in this I, for once, saw a balanced triad in the best condition they could be as they are stuck together without much space. I can't say they can do much better in space or how to respond to their religious beliefs and such. but I know I can speak for this part.
I'm just glad they're trying to make it work more than make things really awkward. You can tell when it is awkward haha. Good for them, I wish I could be in a poly family like this but my partner wouldn't ever be comfortable.
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Melanie
I have mixed feelings about this. I understand why people want these types of relationships but I could never get behind it for myself though I was open to it earlier in my life. To me a relationship is special because you choose to make a commitment and grow a strong relationship together. To me it-s the most special thing and I wouldn-t trade it for anything, any sacrifices in not getting what You want are a healthy part of any dynamic and I feel like the current generation is just so obsessed with instant gratification like why can-t I have everything I want? I mean hey, ultimately it-s your life to make what you want of it I just feel like people often miss out on the beauty of a committed relationship with the right person because of personal impulse. But I could be ignorant. Just thinking out loud. I am concerned for the baby though as I am for all children in these situations but If they grow up in a loving and healthy environment that is all I ask.
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I have mixed feelings about this. I understand why people want these types of relationships but I could never get behind it for myself though I was open to it earlier in my life. To me a relationship is special because you choose to make a commitment and grow a strong relationship together. To me it-s the most special thing and I wouldn-t trade it for anything, any sacrifices in not getting what You want are a healthy part of any dynamic and I feel like the current generation is just so obsessed with instant gratification like why can-t I have everything I want? I mean hey, ultimately it-s your life to make what you want of it I just feel like people often miss out on the beauty of a committed relationship with the right person because of personal impulse. But I could be ignorant. Just thinking out loud. I am concerned for the baby though as I am for all children in these situations but If they grow up in a loving and healthy environment that is all I ask.
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Alisha
I feel like if thats what they like and they are happy as a family and as a couple of 3 who cares what people think its about you guys being happy why do people care so much about something ur not involved in or doing anyway if thats what they do so what why do people have so much time on there hands to judge other people that u dont know and will never see anyway i wouldnt worry about the bad comments you see either cause those people you will never know or meet either so i wouldnt worry about haters who cares what others that you will never know think im only for one man in my life but again thats what i like thats what i prefer but im not going to judge you guys cause you like different everyone is different with what they like and prefer so dont judge it its 2021 now everything has changed in our world
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I feel like if thats what they like and they are happy as a family and as a couple of 3 who cares what people think its about you guys being happy why do people care so much about something ur not involved in or doing anyway if thats what they do so what why do people have so much time on there hands to judge other people that u dont know and will never see anyway i wouldnt worry about the bad comments you see either cause those people you will never know or meet either so i wouldnt worry about haters who cares what others that you will never know think im only for one man in my life but again thats what i like thats what i prefer but im not going to judge you guys cause you like different everyone is different with what they like and prefer so dont judge it its 2021 now everything has changed in our world
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JanKeys
Man I don't understand why people get so invested into trying to knock someone else's lifestyle, with there shallow projections, ignorance and immature comments, especially if its not affecting anything going on in there lives. The trio seems to be making it work, the kid seems content? So What's problem? Does make you feel insecure about yourself, maybe multiple failed relationships of your own? don't or have not had anything as genuine as this?
Please stop trying to bring God into what's your belief, ideologies' to bring some sort of authentication to your ungodly act. DON'T BE A BLASPHEMER. You Cant Sham and/or judge someone and then determine what's Gods will for any other persons life. False Prophets I tell you! Be well
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Man I don't understand why people get so invested into trying to knock someone else's lifestyle, with there shallow projections, ignorance and immature comments, especially if its not affecting anything going on in there lives. The trio seems to be making it work, the kid seems content? So What's problem? Does make you feel insecure about yourself, maybe multiple failed relationships of your own? don't or have not had anything as genuine as this?
Please stop trying to bring God into what's your belief, ideologies' to bring some sort of authentication to your ungodly act. DON'T BE A BLASPHEMER. You Cant Sham and/or judge someone and then determine what's Gods will for any other persons life. False Prophets I tell you! Be well
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Lauren
As a lifelong Christian, I am sorry for the hateful things other -Christians- have said to the 3 of you. There is NOTHING that God wouldn-t forgive and so far what I-ve seen, you have nothing to be ashamed or forgiven about! The 3 of you seem to be amazing people and parents! And this is coming from someone who doesn-t believe in more than 2 genders and is pretty traditional as far as all of that goes. I truly think you guys are amazing people who can still worship and love God and live this lifestyle. And I believe you know that too. May God continue to bless y-all!
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As a lifelong Christian, I am sorry for the hateful things other -Christians- have said to the 3 of you. There is NOTHING that God wouldn-t forgive and so far what I-ve seen, you have nothing to be ashamed or forgiven about! The 3 of you seem to be amazing people and parents! And this is coming from someone who doesn-t believe in more than 2 genders and is pretty traditional as far as all of that goes. I truly think you guys are amazing people who can still worship and love God and live this lifestyle. And I believe you know that too. May God continue to bless y-all!
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Posey
Sorry, but these relationships never ever ever work long-term. One person always ends up as the odd-person out. The kreepy part is when it involves legally married people who just decide to start having flings and eventually EVERYBODY ends up in bed together. The true ultimate creep factor is when little kids are in the house. Seriously people? Try focusing on your CHILDREN vs. gettinf your freaks on. I feel so bad for these kids in these situations. Raise your kids and when they hit 18 and fly the nest, then join a freaking orgy club and live your best life.
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Sorry, but these relationships never ever ever work long-term. One person always ends up as the odd-person out. The kreepy part is when it involves legally married people who just decide to start having flings and eventually EVERYBODY ends up in bed together. The true ultimate creep factor is when little kids are in the house. Seriously people? Try focusing on your CHILDREN vs. gettinf your freaks on. I feel so bad for these kids in these situations. Raise your kids and when they hit 18 and fly the nest, then join a freaking orgy club and live your best life.
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junejunejuniejune
I was immediately prejudice because theres a child in the mix, but being that they have all been together for 6 years, so literally his whole life, it's just what he knows and it seems to work for them! Having 3 parents is definitely better than 1 or none, and again 6 years is enough to prove they have a commitment as a family together, so it's not like an unstable dynamic for their kid. It seems to work for them!
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I was immediately prejudice because theres a child in the mix, but being that they have all been together for 6 years, so literally his whole life, it's just what he knows and it seems to work for them! Having 3 parents is definitely better than 1 or none, and again 6 years is enough to prove they have a commitment as a family together, so it's not like an unstable dynamic for their kid. It seems to work for them!
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Mirna
No judgement from me at all. It-s awesome to see people transcending old programming of what relationships should be
I believe in the future we will see more relationships like this. I imagine is not easy to overcome jealousy and possessive tendencies. But it is possible and that is evolution. People need to let go of judgment and let people choose how they want to live. Enjoy the love you share --
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No judgement from me at all. It-s awesome to see people transcending old programming of what relationships should be
I believe in the future we will see more relationships like this. I imagine is not easy to overcome jealousy and possessive tendencies. But it is possible and that is evolution. People need to let go of judgment and let people choose how they want to live. Enjoy the love you share --
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Rylee
I mean do you want fam it-s your life. The couple seems out of love and the two girls no longer seem like they love each other as well. Just a very confusing trio. The younger girl seems very nice and like an extrovert while the other seem kinda boring. I think the only reason it-s lasting is because of the kid but idk oh well not my problem lmao
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I mean do you want fam it-s your life. The couple seems out of love and the two girls no longer seem like they love each other as well. Just a very confusing trio. The younger girl seems very nice and like an extrovert while the other seem kinda boring. I think the only reason it-s lasting is because of the kid but idk oh well not my problem lmao
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LaLa
God is all about loveand he is not of the flesh so he doesn-t care what we do with ours. He created us knowing our path before we did, he makes no mistakes so if this loving couple is being judged, the people judging definitely are not worshipping Christ or the Christian faith
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God is all about loveand he is not of the flesh so he doesn-t care what we do with ours. He created us knowing our path before we did, he makes no mistakes so if this loving couple is being judged, the people judging definitely are not worshipping Christ or the Christian faith
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--Swnsasy--
It is not for me but I don't judge anyone for what works for them. I don't want people in my marriage and business and I'm not getting into anyone else's. It really is that simple and people should learn to follow such simplicity.
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It is not for me but I don't judge anyone for what works for them. I don't want people in my marriage and business and I'm not getting into anyone else's. It really is that simple and people should learn to follow such simplicity.
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Diane
Such a lovely family. Their lives are their business. Their son seems happy and well adjusted. If these religious idiots would mind their own business I for one would appreciate it. I wish them every happiness.
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Such a lovely family. Their lives are their business. Their son seems happy and well adjusted. If these religious idiots would mind their own business I for one would appreciate it. I wish them every happiness.
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Jmfia23
The little boy is confused. Totally unethical (not because they're bi. But because having three people in a relationship is just nasty. A hookup once in awhile, yeah, but not in a way relationship. Nah.
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The little boy is confused. Totally unethical (not because they're bi. But because having three people in a relationship is just nasty. A hookup once in awhile, yeah, but not in a way relationship. Nah.
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Gina
I hope this so sort of educational video for those narrow minded people. Who think that love is only suppose to be between men n women. Be kind to one another, no one deserves to be treated differently.
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I hope this so sort of educational video for those narrow minded people. Who think that love is only suppose to be between men n women. Be kind to one another, no one deserves to be treated differently.
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Ananya__F
What a coincidence this is. Her parents named her as Raquel. In India mistress is called as Rakhel whom literally she has become. Even though the spellings are different the pronunciation is same.
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What a coincidence this is. Her parents named her as Raquel. In India mistress is called as Rakhel whom literally she has become. Even though the spellings are different the pronunciation is same.
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Vanz
All over the world in this time of lockdown everyone feeling full unhappy. scary for there life. But when I saw this story I'm so shock I can imagine the world has been turn upside down. what a world.
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All over the world in this time of lockdown everyone feeling full unhappy. scary for there life. But when I saw this story I'm so shock I can imagine the world has been turn upside down. what a world.
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Let
Disgusting especially when it involves an innocent child. You will pay the consequences for exposing him to this. God's children are precious and shouldn't be around perverts you will face his wrath.
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Disgusting especially when it involves an innocent child. You will pay the consequences for exposing him to this. God's children are precious and shouldn't be around perverts you will face his wrath.
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cancelled
No one can serve two masters equally. Imagine their imbalance nasty bed times. Wish to have two wives like this man but at same times afraid life would be more troublesome. -
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No one can serve two masters equally. Imagine their imbalance nasty bed times. Wish to have two wives like this man but at same times afraid life would be more troublesome. -
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Someone
To which his own! Am not a fan of such open relationships but hey who am I to judge them. their life, their choice. be my guest. live and let live and don-t jump your guns -,
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To which his own! Am not a fan of such open relationships but hey who am I to judge them. their life, their choice. be my guest. live and let live and don-t jump your guns -,
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grandma
I Believe God really could care less. So much more evil that he knows we must fight. This is so small.
PS Only God can Judge
So you all judging need to zip those lips
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I Believe God really could care less. So much more evil that he knows we must fight. This is so small.
PS Only God can Judge
So you all judging need to zip those lips
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Vignesh
I think about it is all together relationship men's and women's those peoples are married to be living each other and otherwise they can be proof of a relation at good
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I think about it is all together relationship men's and women's those peoples are married to be living each other and otherwise they can be proof of a relation at good
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Deja
No one says anything about how when you are open with this lifestyle you give DCF a reason to take your child. Or children. Take my word it's real and it happens.
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No one says anything about how when you are open with this lifestyle you give DCF a reason to take your child. Or children. Take my word it's real and it happens.
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David
A woman provides the best company to a fellow woman. Two women provide the best company to a man. Its a win win! Cheers to you! Give a like if u agree!
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A woman provides the best company to a fellow woman. Two women provide the best company to a man. Its a win win! Cheers to you! Give a like if u agree!
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Aaron
How in what ways does this effect and affect the son in this triad? How is it different from couples and single parent/guardian relationships?
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How in what ways does this effect and affect the son in this triad? How is it different from couples and single parent/guardian relationships?
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James
Amateur, this is why you get three wives, so when two are bound you get the third, and at all other times you have all three. Rookie mistake.
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Amateur, this is why you get three wives, so when two are bound you get the third, and at all other times you have all three. Rookie mistake.
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Shakwang
How come wife brought girlfriend. If the husband has brought girlfriend that'sok somehow but wife another gf oh please i can't pair it
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How come wife brought girlfriend. If the husband has brought girlfriend that'sok somehow but wife another gf oh please i can't pair it
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Shakwang
How come wife brought girlfriend. If the husband has brought girlfriend that'sok somehow but wife another gf oh please i can't pair
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How come wife brought girlfriend. If the husband has brought girlfriend that'sok somehow but wife another gf oh please i can't pair
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Cork
I started off when I was younger having a problem with sharing but now that I'm older wouldn't mind doing this or trying it out.
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I started off when I was younger having a problem with sharing but now that I'm older wouldn't mind doing this or trying it out.
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Kita
There is no way I can sleep in the same bed as one other person let alone two. Hell nah I would have to have my own room lol
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There is no way I can sleep in the same bed as one other person let alone two. Hell nah I would have to have my own room lol
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