Will my blind date see past my wheelchair? - dating different
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Jessica
My Husband was in a wheelchair, it does come with its difficulty, he died 4 months as of yesterday, not related to the wheelchair, but if I was to show up and my date were in a chair I'd be fine, been through it before. Honestly you don't notice the chair after awhile it just becomes an extension of them, but you have to think about travel, where is a good spot, bathrooms, isles(especially if the person is big like my Husband) it isn't an easy life, went through it for 4 years with him, had to lift his 150 lbs transfer chair into the car, he had an electric one like hers but it weighs 500 lbs, so you have to have a transport chair, pushing him up a ramp, thank God I had leg power, he was Obese which had caused his knee to give out and no longer work, they wouldn't do knee surgery because he was high risk, so pushing a 375 lbs Man in an wheelchair that was almost 200lbs up a ramp was a good work out. Tried to get him to diet before the wheelchair happened, but in one ear and out the other, but yeah, all people's situations are different though so can't say if this one would be. You could tell he was uncomfortable and people always have that, -Well look at you- attitude when people with disabilities do something, like they are people, do you expect them not to do things? I guess I just don't see the disability, I mean it comes with challenges, but I'm not like - This disability is the only thing they are- I see the person, but some that is all they see, this guy that is all he sees from the way he talks, though I know he doesn't intend it.
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My Husband was in a wheelchair, it does come with its difficulty, he died 4 months as of yesterday, not related to the wheelchair, but if I was to show up and my date were in a chair I'd be fine, been through it before. Honestly you don't notice the chair after awhile it just becomes an extension of them, but you have to think about travel, where is a good spot, bathrooms, isles(especially if the person is big like my Husband) it isn't an easy life, went through it for 4 years with him, had to lift his 150 lbs transfer chair into the car, he had an electric one like hers but it weighs 500 lbs, so you have to have a transport chair, pushing him up a ramp, thank God I had leg power, he was Obese which had caused his knee to give out and no longer work, they wouldn't do knee surgery because he was high risk, so pushing a 375 lbs Man in an wheelchair that was almost 200lbs up a ramp was a good work out. Tried to get him to diet before the wheelchair happened, but in one ear and out the other, but yeah, all people's situations are different though so can't say if this one would be. You could tell he was uncomfortable and people always have that, -Well look at you- attitude when people with disabilities do something, like they are people, do you expect them not to do things? I guess I just don't see the disability, I mean it comes with challenges, but I'm not like - This disability is the only thing they are- I see the person, but some that is all they see, this guy that is all he sees from the way he talks, though I know he doesn't intend it.
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JayDoesPunk
See, I love this representation for wheelchair bound folks, my Daddy had Becker's Muscular Dystrophy an became wheelchair bound when I's 8, an I know he always felt left out by many of his able bodied friends an also had a lotta discrimination by apartment managers for him makin his apartment more wheelchair accessible, plus he often had a hard time goin in stores an restaurants cause of poorly maintained handicapped parkin and/or walks/doors. I'm real glad things seem to be gettin better for disabled folks than they were 10-20 years ago.
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See, I love this representation for wheelchair bound folks, my Daddy had Becker's Muscular Dystrophy an became wheelchair bound when I's 8, an I know he always felt left out by many of his able bodied friends an also had a lotta discrimination by apartment managers for him makin his apartment more wheelchair accessible, plus he often had a hard time goin in stores an restaurants cause of poorly maintained handicapped parkin and/or walks/doors. I'm real glad things seem to be gettin better for disabled folks than they were 10-20 years ago.
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Foreverblessed92
And I don-t think they will meet up again, because he said -I did promise to take her out one more time-. That sounded like something he felt he had to do, as if he-s doing her a favour and not something he can-t wait to do. I can always read past peoples smiles. He-s on camera, so of course he-s going to present himself in the best way possible. It-s a shame though, hope I-m wrong. Cos she-s an amazing girl. She needs someone who matches her vibe.
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And I don-t think they will meet up again, because he said -I did promise to take her out one more time-. That sounded like something he felt he had to do, as if he-s doing her a favour and not something he can-t wait to do. I can always read past peoples smiles. He-s on camera, so of course he-s going to present himself in the best way possible. It-s a shame though, hope I-m wrong. Cos she-s an amazing girl. She needs someone who matches her vibe.
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blogs
My mom she-s been in a wheelchair after having a car accident way before I was born. The reason why she had this accident because someone cut her brakes then this lead into a collision with another vehicle. The impact it caused a part of her spinal cord. She maybe in a wheelchair, but trust me she-s one of them scary strict moms on the wheels -. After having a divorce with my dad, funny thing is my mom ended up with her high-school sweetheart.
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My mom she-s been in a wheelchair after having a car accident way before I was born. The reason why she had this accident because someone cut her brakes then this lead into a collision with another vehicle. The impact it caused a part of her spinal cord. She maybe in a wheelchair, but trust me she-s one of them scary strict moms on the wheels -. After having a divorce with my dad, funny thing is my mom ended up with her high-school sweetheart.
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Angela
You are a beautiful, positive, and bright spirit. You are alot of fun, laughing and smiling alot. I am not disabled and alot older and haven't done the things you have. And many people who do not have disabilities will never accomplish what you have. Any man is a nut not to have you on his arm. Blessings to you and may your dreams keep coming true.
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You are a beautiful, positive, and bright spirit. You are alot of fun, laughing and smiling alot. I am not disabled and alot older and haven't done the things you have. And many people who do not have disabilities will never accomplish what you have. Any man is a nut not to have you on his arm. Blessings to you and may your dreams keep coming true.
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Katie's
Shes stunning she's funny she has so much inspiration in what she wants to do in life and she's so positive and confident honestly what isn't there to like? She deserves happiness just like any able bodied person infact she does more with her life than some people who take being healthy for granted. Wish you lots of luck hope you find your guy
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Shes stunning she's funny she has so much inspiration in what she wants to do in life and she's so positive and confident honestly what isn't there to like? She deserves happiness just like any able bodied person infact she does more with her life than some people who take being healthy for granted. Wish you lots of luck hope you find your guy
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TheManInTheMasks
She should put her situation into context. Of course it isn-t -fair- that men would discriminate against her in dating because of her wheelchair, but would she hold the same opinion if she could walk and was dating a man I. A wheelchair? Possibly, but statistically speaking, that is very unlikely.
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She should put her situation into context. Of course it isn-t -fair- that men would discriminate against her in dating because of her wheelchair, but would she hold the same opinion if she could walk and was dating a man I. A wheelchair? Possibly, but statistically speaking, that is very unlikely.
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Anthony
I will admit, as a blind date. The wheelchair would be a shocker. Bcz of the unknown. But she seems to be lively and positive. So, once I get the tough questions outta the way. Bcz I would be curious. She seems to be a lovely young lady.
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I will admit, as a blind date. The wheelchair would be a shocker. Bcz of the unknown. But she seems to be lively and positive. So, once I get the tough questions outta the way. Bcz I would be curious. She seems to be a lovely young lady.
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Re'ondo
Why is it always skinny guys that go on these blind dates. People want everyone to look pass their disability I-m for that but no one ever set them up with someone who has a disability or a fat guy. The world love bbw but shame fat men.
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Why is it always skinny guys that go on these blind dates. People want everyone to look pass their disability I-m for that but no one ever set them up with someone who has a disability or a fat guy. The world love bbw but shame fat men.
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Lina
If there is attratcion there is attraction. And if it is not it is not. I rarly notice someone in general. And last one was in a wheelchair, I went back to look for him to say hi because of his energy and attitude -
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If there is attratcion there is attraction. And if it is not it is not. I rarly notice someone in general. And last one was in a wheelchair, I went back to look for him to say hi because of his energy and attitude -
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Solomon
Ive had MS for 24 year's I think bout dating scenarios how would I be viewed how are things go I mentally prepared already going to like me just a lot of questions and preparation
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Ive had MS for 24 year's I think bout dating scenarios how would I be viewed how are things go I mentally prepared already going to like me just a lot of questions and preparation
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blogs
Wait where she at? I love tis shawty? Just her personally and the disabled hottie queen on wheels is a turn on. the way she carries her self.
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Wait where she at? I love tis shawty? Just her personally and the disabled hottie queen on wheels is a turn on. the way she carries her self.
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Jesus
the wheelchair has nothing to do with Her Personality and who she Really is she is a Beautiful Black Nubian Queen a bright young Lady
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the wheelchair has nothing to do with Her Personality and who she Really is she is a Beautiful Black Nubian Queen a bright young Lady
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Shortie
I love this girl. She is so confident and comfortable with herself. Her humor is #1. I would date her and marry her if I was a man
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I love this girl. She is so confident and comfortable with herself. Her humor is #1. I would date her and marry her if I was a man
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A. M.
Myla, I think you are drop dead gorgeous with that giggle of yours. And you have very nice legs and a nice pleasant voice.
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Myla, I think you are drop dead gorgeous with that giggle of yours. And you have very nice legs and a nice pleasant voice.
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Greg
As someone in a wheelchair I'm glad it worked. At 46 not a day goes by when I wonder if I will ever date again.
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As someone in a wheelchair I'm glad it worked. At 46 not a day goes by when I wonder if I will ever date again.
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