I Took A DNA Test To Prove She’s My Child - MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY
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Date: 2024-10-29
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marym7763
Don't worry about it! My mom is black (quite dark skincomplexion, my dad is white and has very clear skin, he gets red right away when he is in the sun, I look hispanic and as a child I thought I looked nothing like none of my parents but I always had the confidence that I was not adopted and eventhough there were somoe comments from all kind of people, that I was a white girl with lips larger than my head or that my skin was muddy and I should shower more often or from the other side that I was to clear skinned to be my moms daughter, blablabla. In the end whats important is how how you grow up home. I was raised with so much love, I was confident and if someone said anything I would either laugh or say something back and the few times I did feel like I wouldn't fit in I had a strong mum that encouraged me. Some people will always act in an igronant way. Only difference in my opinion was that when I was a child there was no internet, but on the other side, there also weren't as much mixed children as there are today.
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Don't worry about it! My mom is black (quite dark skincomplexion, my dad is white and has very clear skin, he gets red right away when he is in the sun, I look hispanic and as a child I thought I looked nothing like none of my parents but I always had the confidence that I was not adopted and eventhough there were somoe comments from all kind of people, that I was a white girl with lips larger than my head or that my skin was muddy and I should shower more often or from the other side that I was to clear skinned to be my moms daughter, blablabla. In the end whats important is how how you grow up home. I was raised with so much love, I was confident and if someone said anything I would either laugh or say something back and the few times I did feel like I wouldn't fit in I had a strong mum that encouraged me. Some people will always act in an igronant way. Only difference in my opinion was that when I was a child there was no internet, but on the other side, there also weren't as much mixed children as there are today.
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Test-xw2po
Im sorry she had to go through that. But at least is better than people thinking your parents are random strangers and your sisters are your kids. I am 13 years older than my middle sister and 22 years older than my lil sister every time I went out with my mom and dad people would see them as strangers and think my sisters were my kids, it was very annoying, Growing up they never thought i was my mom's daughter (I look asian, my mom is white, blonde hair blue eyes), They never thought I was my dad's kid either (He is black and Asian) so when I came out people always gave my mom and dad dirty looks and asked if I was adopted. when my sisters came along as a 13 year old I always was told by random strangers why did I have a kid so young, even if I was outside a store waiting for my mom I was harrassed so yeah. my life was no fun
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Im sorry she had to go through that. But at least is better than people thinking your parents are random strangers and your sisters are your kids. I am 13 years older than my middle sister and 22 years older than my lil sister every time I went out with my mom and dad people would see them as strangers and think my sisters were my kids, it was very annoying, Growing up they never thought i was my mom's daughter (I look asian, my mom is white, blonde hair blue eyes), They never thought I was my dad's kid either (He is black and Asian) so when I came out people always gave my mom and dad dirty looks and asked if I was adopted. when my sisters came along as a 13 year old I always was told by random strangers why did I have a kid so young, even if I was outside a store waiting for my mom I was harrassed so yeah. my life was no fun
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marilyndee969
We lived overseas for years. When we were in Italy, a guy married an Italian woman. They had a child. The lady he married looked very Mediterranean, and like with this couple in the video, their girl was very fair. The lady told me she constantly got questions when she was out in Italy asking if she was the nanny. We later lost track of them. but yes, this does happen. We all hail back to Africa thousands of years ago but we all now have many different looks. Whoever asks questions about a child who doesn't look like a parent doesn't understand recessive genes hooking up and producing lots of different looks. And it is nothing more than that.
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We lived overseas for years. When we were in Italy, a guy married an Italian woman. They had a child. The lady he married looked very Mediterranean, and like with this couple in the video, their girl was very fair. The lady told me she constantly got questions when she was out in Italy asking if she was the nanny. We later lost track of them. but yes, this does happen. We all hail back to Africa thousands of years ago but we all now have many different looks. Whoever asks questions about a child who doesn't look like a parent doesn't understand recessive genes hooking up and producing lots of different looks. And it is nothing more than that.
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JCS370
When she said would a white woman experience the same things that I do if she had a black baby and then the other woman said no she wouldn't I can promise you that is not true. I am white and my biological son is black. I have been called the nanny, babysitter, friend of the mother, foster parent, adoptive parent and so on and so on. It definitely works both ways but I don't care. I don't let my son see himself as different to me or the rest of his family. He knows he is black but colour doesn't define who he is or who we are. They don't have to prove anything to anyone they just need to live their lives happy and not worry about what anyone else thinks
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When she said would a white woman experience the same things that I do if she had a black baby and then the other woman said no she wouldn't I can promise you that is not true. I am white and my biological son is black. I have been called the nanny, babysitter, friend of the mother, foster parent, adoptive parent and so on and so on. It definitely works both ways but I don't care. I don't let my son see himself as different to me or the rest of his family. He knows he is black but colour doesn't define who he is or who we are. They don't have to prove anything to anyone they just need to live their lives happy and not worry about what anyone else thinks
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imbroken3860
I hate that this woman has to deal with this kinda crap from others. I truly cannot imagine. I do hope tho if i have to redo this life again im born black. Ive said this my entire life. I was born into a prejudice household where that god awful word was pounded into my brain from a small small child. Which is abuse by the way. Placing hate into a innocent childs heart is absolute abuse. Period point blank. But what can you expect i suppose when you grow up in a town where they still to this day segragate black and white ppl when they pass. Still today they are buried in seperate cemetaries. Hartshorne oklahoma. Small town small minds.
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I hate that this woman has to deal with this kinda crap from others. I truly cannot imagine. I do hope tho if i have to redo this life again im born black. Ive said this my entire life. I was born into a prejudice household where that god awful word was pounded into my brain from a small small child. Which is abuse by the way. Placing hate into a innocent childs heart is absolute abuse. Period point blank. But what can you expect i suppose when you grow up in a town where they still to this day segragate black and white ppl when they pass. Still today they are buried in seperate cemetaries. Hartshorne oklahoma. Small town small minds.
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truly
Yes. they will care. In on both sides of the spectrum. I know a couple going through that now the same scenario. That she goes through the same thing except her baby is dark skinned, and they keep telling her l that's not her child, and she pushed that baby out. Eden had CPS card on her she didn't have the police caught on her for kidnapping best believe other people go through this that are Caucasian with dark skin children. And this is said that the world is still stuck in this mindset. The world is evolving and some people's minds are not, and we have to get used to that too. which is sad.
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Yes. they will care. In on both sides of the spectrum. I know a couple going through that now the same scenario. That she goes through the same thing except her baby is dark skinned, and they keep telling her l that's not her child, and she pushed that baby out. Eden had CPS card on her she didn't have the police caught on her for kidnapping best believe other people go through this that are Caucasian with dark skin children. And this is said that the world is still stuck in this mindset. The world is evolving and some people's minds are not, and we have to get used to that too. which is sad.
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chaoticatom6150
For some reason people just see the skin colour ans assume people aren’t related. I’m mixed my mom white my dad black and constantly people don’t think my mom is my mom, like i came out of her. At one restaurant I remember one time a waiter asking if the bill was together or separate my mom told her uh i’m going to pay for my kid- i was 16. The other day I got asked if my mom was my step-mom. Whenever i’m with my dad theres no questions asked. If you removed the skin colours I look like both my parents, especially the eyes.
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For some reason people just see the skin colour ans assume people aren’t related. I’m mixed my mom white my dad black and constantly people don’t think my mom is my mom, like i came out of her. At one restaurant I remember one time a waiter asking if the bill was together or separate my mom told her uh i’m going to pay for my kid- i was 16. The other day I got asked if my mom was my step-mom. Whenever i’m with my dad theres no questions asked. If you removed the skin colours I look like both my parents, especially the eyes.
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AD-wi4fq
God people are so, so dumb. My family is very genetically mixed, from the lightest of the light to the darkest of the darkest skin. Genetics are stronger than we know and often will show up in different generations. For example, one of my cousin, despite having both black parents came out with light skin and blonde hair. Doesn’t surprise me because our grandfather was a white man. People just need to educate themselves and stop assuming or placing their own expectations on a child. It’s ridiculous they felt a need to do a DNA test.
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God people are so, so dumb. My family is very genetically mixed, from the lightest of the light to the darkest of the darkest skin. Genetics are stronger than we know and often will show up in different generations. For example, one of my cousin, despite having both black parents came out with light skin and blonde hair. Doesn’t surprise me because our grandfather was a white man. People just need to educate themselves and stop assuming or placing their own expectations on a child. It’s ridiculous they felt a need to do a DNA test.
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lovelyrich54
I mean if I saw i wouldn't think it's her kid because she's not even lighter toned at all. She will get that rest of her life and sine people just have good intentions. I would be ok with someone asking if my baby is mines because that would mean people actually still protect children. I had a white baby as well and I thought it was funny when I got looks at the grocery store. I'm huge on child advocacy so check all you want lol. On the flip side I know she's tired of it and it hurts sometimes as a mother.
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I mean if I saw i wouldn't think it's her kid because she's not even lighter toned at all. She will get that rest of her life and sine people just have good intentions. I would be ok with someone asking if my baby is mines because that would mean people actually still protect children. I had a white baby as well and I thought it was funny when I got looks at the grocery store. I'm huge on child advocacy so check all you want lol. On the flip side I know she's tired of it and it hurts sometimes as a mother.
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whydoyoucare27
She shouldn't be mad. It is VERY unusual seeing a such a white child (with such straight blond hair and blue eyes) coming from a black parent since the black parent carries the DOMINATE GENES. It is just very rare for the child to take all the recessive genes. It is not a racist thing or a slam against the parents at all. And as we see, this is not impossible. But you can't blame others for assuming in favor of the most likely and usual outcomes. No need to be offended.
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She shouldn't be mad. It is VERY unusual seeing a such a white child (with such straight blond hair and blue eyes) coming from a black parent since the black parent carries the DOMINATE GENES. It is just very rare for the child to take all the recessive genes. It is not a racist thing or a slam against the parents at all. And as we see, this is not impossible. But you can't blame others for assuming in favor of the most likely and usual outcomes. No need to be offended.
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janebullock4021
I see nothing wrong with you two having kids, but let’s get real. You can’t wonder why people think that the little sweet girl isn’t yours. On the other hand, people adopt all the time, so why they gave you trouble, who knows You dont have to explain how you became her mom anyway. People should know that there are such things as adoption and in vitro fertilization, and if you say you gave birth to her, they should just shut up.
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I see nothing wrong with you two having kids, but let’s get real. You can’t wonder why people think that the little sweet girl isn’t yours. On the other hand, people adopt all the time, so why they gave you trouble, who knows You dont have to explain how you became her mom anyway. People should know that there are such things as adoption and in vitro fertilization, and if you say you gave birth to her, they should just shut up.
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bev_ovchic76
People need science class in their life. Basic biology. Many black women have the recessive white gene. Whether they know it or not. Sadly in America, many slave owners raped the slaves and introduced whiteness for all the generations to come. Like seriously! 25% chance many black women will have a white child with a white partner. AND REGARDLESS, why are people so gross and judgmental. Why even say anything!
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People need science class in their life. Basic biology. Many black women have the recessive white gene. Whether they know it or not. Sadly in America, many slave owners raped the slaves and introduced whiteness for all the generations to come. Like seriously! 25% chance many black women will have a white child with a white partner. AND REGARDLESS, why are people so gross and judgmental. Why even say anything!
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Seachange01120
I'm just so sick and tired of people questioning genetics. They need to stop being so ignorant and go do the research to understand more. But no, they can't even see their denial of the truth is completely driven by their racist views. Fact is that if it were a white woman with a child with predominately black features, they wouldn't even give it a second thought. Ick, just stop the hate already!
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I'm just so sick and tired of people questioning genetics. They need to stop being so ignorant and go do the research to understand more. But no, they can't even see their denial of the truth is completely driven by their racist views. Fact is that if it were a white woman with a child with predominately black features, they wouldn't even give it a second thought. Ick, just stop the hate already!
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Truechildofgod
Shes wrong if a white person was with a black baby people care lol and they should we cant act like kidnapping and trafficking doesnt exist. While i feel bad for her i do personalky know people who follow whites around when they have a black kid and ask them questions and THEY SHOULD. If youre not guilty while it may annoy you you should be happy someone cares about your child.
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Shes wrong if a white person was with a black baby people care lol and they should we cant act like kidnapping and trafficking doesnt exist. While i feel bad for her i do personalky know people who follow whites around when they have a black kid and ask them questions and THEY SHOULD. If youre not guilty while it may annoy you you should be happy someone cares about your child.
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mori. kurogawa7936
I get that when a child throws a tantrum and it doesn't look like their parent, people can get worried that an abduction is taking place. White people often adopt children from other backgrounds, it is not that common among blacks I think. Folk just act based on experience, not necessarily based on racism.
Anyways, I hope she can parent in peace in the time to come.
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I get that when a child throws a tantrum and it doesn't look like their parent, people can get worried that an abduction is taking place. White people often adopt children from other backgrounds, it is not that common among blacks I think. Folk just act based on experience, not necessarily based on racism.
Anyways, I hope she can parent in peace in the time to come.
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ABarrow33
I’m sorry that she had to go through that whether she was it was hers that she gave her to or not like she said those are her children but having to prove yourself is even more difficult they say that the black jeans are more dominant but you know there’s always a case where it changes and it’s clearly it shows that the white is more dominant and this situation
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I’m sorry that she had to go through that whether she was it was hers that she gave her to or not like she said those are her children but having to prove yourself is even more difficult they say that the black jeans are more dominant but you know there’s always a case where it changes and it’s clearly it shows that the white is more dominant and this situation
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meritreads90
I have family members that look like this. Black women have the Eve Gene’. A black woman can give birth to babies with most human traits that society wouldn’t deem as black/African features. This is true whether if that’s different color eyes, texture of hair, or color of skin, no matter the race of the Father. Some cases are rare, but not impossible.
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I have family members that look like this. Black women have the Eve Gene’. A black woman can give birth to babies with most human traits that society wouldn’t deem as black/African features. This is true whether if that’s different color eyes, texture of hair, or color of skin, no matter the race of the Father. Some cases are rare, but not impossible.
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EmpowerandGrow24
Crazy people thought my mom wasn’t mine because I was straight white as an infant and child until I started growing into teenage years. Even the hospital told her the day I was born they mixed up her child because I was born in the room where a white lady had delivered a really dark skinned baby, they had to do DNA to prove I was my parents!
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Crazy people thought my mom wasn’t mine because I was straight white as an infant and child until I started growing into teenage years. Even the hospital told her the day I was born they mixed up her child because I was born in the room where a white lady had delivered a really dark skinned baby, they had to do DNA to prove I was my parents!
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naDu4653
Oh my god. The hate you are getting is ridiculous! Genetics is a wild game of chance. I’m really so sorry you’ve had to deal with all this. You should just be able to enjoy being a mom with your kids. It doesn’t matter what color any of you are, you are their momma. Much love from me, a person who understands the game of chance called genetics.
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Oh my god. The hate you are getting is ridiculous! Genetics is a wild game of chance. I’m really so sorry you’ve had to deal with all this. You should just be able to enjoy being a mom with your kids. It doesn’t matter what color any of you are, you are their momma. Much love from me, a person who understands the game of chance called genetics.
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gitanjalianand3543
I remember meeting a mother and daughter who didn't look similar at all. I assumed that the chinese looking girl was adopted until the mother say that her husband/father of the child was of chinese origin. Luckily she didn't take offence but I guess we should be careful about what we say. There was no offence meant from my side but still.
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I remember meeting a mother and daughter who didn't look similar at all. I assumed that the chinese looking girl was adopted until the mother say that her husband/father of the child was of chinese origin. Luckily she didn't take offence but I guess we should be careful about what we say. There was no offence meant from my side but still.
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