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My Husband Pays Me $100 A Week To Cook & Clean - MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

My Husband Pays Me $100 A Week To Cook & Clean - MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY

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ALYSSA, 28, encourages women to pursue a 'housewife lifestyle' for their own happiness. She met her husband Tom, 51, at work in the military. When they began dating Alyssa was still working and studying but once they became engaged she suggested to Tom that she could stay home instead. I thought that he was wanting a little bit more attention to the house, to the home and also to himself. So I had a sneaking suspicion that it might benefit our relationship if I stayed home, she explained. Her partner hadn't considered this dynamic as something he'd wanted in previous relationships: I honestly thought I wanted a physicist triathlete, that was my mindset, he said. Until I got into a relationship with Aly I didn’t even know how wonderful having a traditional relationship with gender separations is. The benefits of their arrangement have been that Tom is able to live a more stress-free, healthier life and Alyssa sees it as a better alternative to relying on a corporation that doesn't care. I earn more now, married, than I did when I was in the military and it’s the best job I’ve ever had, she said. I would probably be considered on his bankroll, he pays for my living, and there’s a health insurance plan. Alyssa has a presence on social media, where some of her more controversial views have been criticised. There are feminists on Reddit who hate me, most of which are single, over the age of 30, she explained. I wouldn’t say that I’m a feminist at all. I think feminism was all bad, men love women so much that I think they would have liberated us after they were fully liberated anyway. Adding: I am just of the opinion that feminism was completely unnecessary and that it’s a female supremacy movement. She has been accused of being a golddigger, which Tom refutes: She asks for a hundred dollars a week! What kind of gold digger wants that Despite the negativity, Alyssa believes that spreading her message is important: There’s a lot of positive comments from women who feel like they’ve finally been seen because there is a lot of stay-at-home wives and moms who feel useless like they’ve wasted their potential because that’s the messaging that we have out there. It’s the positive comments I get from women in that context that really let me know that I’m doing the right thing.
Date: 2024-11-11

Comments and reviews: 15


I agree they're just doing what works for them she is catering to her husband and submitting to her husband which biblically is what you're supposed to do so I don't see anything wrong and what she's doing and he's supporting her He's not demeaning her He's not treating her like a slave in any way that I see and he is showing her by giving her money you know not telling her that you know I make the money I make the rules type thing I don't see him in any way doing that He's giving her money even ask her what do you feel you need in money-wise from me to be comfortable per week and she gave him a number amount $100 so it's not that she couldn't ask for more she asked for that and he had no problem with it so I think most people need to keep their opinions to themselves of negativity because if they're happy let them be happy there's nothing wrong with it.
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Her saying she earns more money now than when she had a job, when she earns only $100 a week, x 52 weeks in a year = $5. 2K. .. is highly suspect. But if they are happy, good for them! Happiness is the most important thing. But IMHO, $100 a week is not enough. You can't hire a housekeeper for that, unless it's only for one or two days. BTW, this is an excellent idea for homemakers. If you give up your job to take care of the house and the husband or wife, then you deserve a salary.
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Idk the actual flex is actually being put on the payroll as owner, or a retirement plan or paying into SSN.
From what it sounds like she no longer had credit history Lol what happens if she needs to buy a house or car
She is a young woman with a old man, hope they are thinking about what happens when SHE gets old.
Been there done that. I had a career i put on hold, I didn’t settle for 100. 00 lol
Someone hand this young woman book.

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When you deduct the cost of rent, utilities, shopping for supplies, food, vacations, car payments, mobile/internet, entertainment, etc, all that would've set her back a clean 60-80k a year if she was working and single ( judging by their lifestyle, home and the car she drives, the dude is clearly bringing in 6 figures. She wasn't wrong when she said that she made more now than when she was in the army
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I don’t see the problem here. For years I paid my kids dad to watch the kids while I was at work. He cooked cleaned and took the kids to school. All clothes supplies food bills were covered by me. He used the money I gave him outside the house. The only difference is we didn’t call it a financial relationship but clearly that’s what it was. 16 years before we broke up.
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My mom was a stay at home mom from early 50's to early 70's. After we left for college, she went back to school, got a degree and had a white collar job until she passed away.
It's a blessing that a mother can stay home and raise her children.
Growing up we always had breakfast, dinner and supper together. The only time our dad was absent was when he traveled.

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Is it really hate Or is any criticism being thrown are seen as such Either way, they do what makes them happy. Couldn't be me though. but I also don't give other couples unwarranted critique
Edit: Ohhhhh, some of them are doing too much - along with her, imo. But she may actually be making money from her content Live ya life ppl!

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You would think For a woman that’s much younger than him, he could offer her a bit more than 100 dollars week. But hey that’s what she settled for. Many house wives marry men who are older than they are yet still offer them a lot more than he does. If that works for them and they are happy then kudos to them.
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i wish i could find this. a traditional marriage where the woman is HAPPY to stay home- cook and clean and doesnt feel the need to freak out. this is such a diamond in the rough in 2024 in western cultures - 100$ aside or not who cares. he pays for everything for her in and out
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if your happy screw the world hell if my husband wanted to pay me to stay home to help take care of the grand kids i would take it in a heart beat. / I honestly think their on the right path not everyone will be on board but i can truly tell you love your husband
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If the dynamic works for these two specifically that’s cool.
However, individuals choose to define their relationship in the more wider context is also down to them, in the end you just find what works for you is individuals and as a couple.

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People who stay at home to clean, cook, take care of the children and manage daily household tasks perform essential work that contributes to the well-being and stability of the family.
Like any job, it deserves compensation.

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I have a similar marriage but I suck at cleaning so I do photography part time and clean part time my husband likes to clean so he helps a lot. It’s his love language to give service
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The only problem with this is she is solely dependent on him. She has no credit score or income. There is value in being independent as a woman.
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How does she make more $100/week That is nuts. She Was definitely making more in the military. $5200 a year is what she makes. Lady, shut up.
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