8 Things That Make People Lose Respect For You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Wlliam
My mother is one of the two worst people I know whom clearly fit into all the negative aspects I'm everything listed in the video, as is my brother.
She is constantly tearing into me when I complain about this behavior of hers as if I am in the wrong. My abusive brother is bad about that as well.
My mother is extremely guilty of treating family members of what amount of things she says those family members can do for her.
When I was growing up she physically beat my father every time he would as why she(and the rest of the family) treated me so badly when I did nothing even close to warrant their poor treatment of me. She never answered him, but holy cow did she beat him.
She was even more cruel to my dear sister.
Each of the doctors I was forced into for my terrible depression ( caused by her ) would tell her that she was the worst, or wondered what's wrong with her.
I would love to move out, but was in a car wreck that left me disabled enough to where I can't always do my own cooking and such other things. That means I can not move myself out. Additionally, the only people that might help me a a. long way away, have problems with their health, or both.
They have taken from me what little joy was left in me and has left me so depressed that I can't even function enough to at least fill-in the forms to even try to get out of here.
This can NOT be normal and is not right.
What can I do?
I begged her even now to stop lying g or at least allow me to stick up for myself against my brother without psychotic, lying, hypocritical, cowardly, back-stabbing asses scare me as one beat my father while the other has threatened to beat me which could do bad things to my spine.
I said the stress from him and her were and are further ruining my health. She chose to not upset him over my health.
What am I to do?
I always had heard that two adults can agree to have someone them send them to a mental ward for serious observation, but I have come to realize I was wrong concerning that.
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My mother is one of the two worst people I know whom clearly fit into all the negative aspects I'm everything listed in the video, as is my brother.
She is constantly tearing into me when I complain about this behavior of hers as if I am in the wrong. My abusive brother is bad about that as well.
My mother is extremely guilty of treating family members of what amount of things she says those family members can do for her.
When I was growing up she physically beat my father every time he would as why she(and the rest of the family) treated me so badly when I did nothing even close to warrant their poor treatment of me. She never answered him, but holy cow did she beat him.
She was even more cruel to my dear sister.
Each of the doctors I was forced into for my terrible depression ( caused by her ) would tell her that she was the worst, or wondered what's wrong with her.
I would love to move out, but was in a car wreck that left me disabled enough to where I can't always do my own cooking and such other things. That means I can not move myself out. Additionally, the only people that might help me a a. long way away, have problems with their health, or both.
They have taken from me what little joy was left in me and has left me so depressed that I can't even function enough to at least fill-in the forms to even try to get out of here.
This can NOT be normal and is not right.
What can I do?
I begged her even now to stop lying g or at least allow me to stick up for myself against my brother without psychotic, lying, hypocritical, cowardly, back-stabbing asses scare me as one beat my father while the other has threatened to beat me which could do bad things to my spine.
I said the stress from him and her were and are further ruining my health. She chose to not upset him over my health.
What am I to do?
I always had heard that two adults can agree to have someone them send them to a mental ward for serious observation, but I have come to realize I was wrong concerning that.
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ross
There was respect in the 40 s 50s and 60s and 70s and most of the 80s and 90s but respect seems to have go wrong since the people born in the year 2000 and around came of age. And these people are changing the rules and are comedy and freedoms of speech and way of life. Yet they have put so much porn and nudism on tv. Lots of youngsters have become camp and women have become deep voiced and stronger. Well this is how i see it and i am 64. Its like they have taken the fun out of life all has to be so politically correct. and this is very sad for all. It seem s to be same thing everyday racism or the word gay or camp. .Can people not talk about something else for a change please or just from time to time
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There was respect in the 40 s 50s and 60s and 70s and most of the 80s and 90s but respect seems to have go wrong since the people born in the year 2000 and around came of age. And these people are changing the rules and are comedy and freedoms of speech and way of life. Yet they have put so much porn and nudism on tv. Lots of youngsters have become camp and women have become deep voiced and stronger. Well this is how i see it and i am 64. Its like they have taken the fun out of life all has to be so politically correct. and this is very sad for all. It seem s to be same thing everyday racism or the word gay or camp. .Can people not talk about something else for a change please or just from time to time
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Anne
The best part of dealing with someone whose lost your respect in every way this video mentions is when that same person, then tries to say the reason they continue their disrespectful ways is because you no longer respect them-therefore show them no respect. First they disrespect you because thats who they are then they justify their disrespect with your reaction to their disrespect. Cant make this stuff up. Some people are just born liars, thats where they are most comfortable, in a story they wrote. You cant win with these type of people. They dont believe respect needs to be earned first, before they can have it for themselves, they often feel entitled to it.
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The best part of dealing with someone whose lost your respect in every way this video mentions is when that same person, then tries to say the reason they continue their disrespectful ways is because you no longer respect them-therefore show them no respect. First they disrespect you because thats who they are then they justify their disrespect with your reaction to their disrespect. Cant make this stuff up. Some people are just born liars, thats where they are most comfortable, in a story they wrote. You cant win with these type of people. They dont believe respect needs to be earned first, before they can have it for themselves, they often feel entitled to it.
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SYET
Dude. The getting interrupted part. I am an introvert and it feels like shit. And my other friends just listen to the inturruptor. And i get later asked by the ENFP of the group why i didn't say anything.
Making it more shitty, add a girl to it. Others will listen to her more than what i have to say and i get separated from the group. If i inturrepted, not many people pay attention to me and some point out that the other person was telling someone and to let them speak. And that's one more reason why i feel like going away and why i dislike when there is a girl in the group.
I explained that like shit in pain and anger hope you understand.
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Dude. The getting interrupted part. I am an introvert and it feels like shit. And my other friends just listen to the inturruptor. And i get later asked by the ENFP of the group why i didn't say anything.
Making it more shitty, add a girl to it. Others will listen to her more than what i have to say and i get separated from the group. If i inturrepted, not many people pay attention to me and some point out that the other person was telling someone and to let them speak. And that's one more reason why i feel like going away and why i dislike when there is a girl in the group.
I explained that like shit in pain and anger hope you understand.
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Macadamia
Well in this dark world, respect is expensive. I do have flaws and imperfections, but nothing that I can't handle working on. I do my best to be decent and supportive for others. But I am sure as hell not working on receiving their respect. If they respect you or not, who cares. Its your own respect that matters above all else.
If people lost respect for me, oh well. I'm not going to waste emotional time and energy to get that respect from them back. I'll do my own thing and give/receive respect somewhere else worth my energy and time. I'm sufficient enough that I don't need others respect to validate my worth.
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Well in this dark world, respect is expensive. I do have flaws and imperfections, but nothing that I can't handle working on. I do my best to be decent and supportive for others. But I am sure as hell not working on receiving their respect. If they respect you or not, who cares. Its your own respect that matters above all else.
If people lost respect for me, oh well. I'm not going to waste emotional time and energy to get that respect from them back. I'll do my own thing and give/receive respect somewhere else worth my energy and time. I'm sufficient enough that I don't need others respect to validate my worth.
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Gideon
Having a bad personality
Saying wrong, illogical, ridiculous, disrespectful opinions that arent based on facts and logic
Not completing tasks
Making excuses
Doing wrong and harmful actions
Lying
Racism
Pride
Forcing people to listen if you don't know what you are talking about. Yes. We can let the person talk but the speaker needs to bring facts and context into what they say. If they can't do that, we shouldn't respect and we shouldn't listen to their wrong perspectives.
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Having a bad personality
Saying wrong, illogical, ridiculous, disrespectful opinions that arent based on facts and logic
Not completing tasks
Making excuses
Doing wrong and harmful actions
Lying
Racism
Pride
Forcing people to listen if you don't know what you are talking about. Yes. We can let the person talk but the speaker needs to bring facts and context into what they say. If they can't do that, we shouldn't respect and we shouldn't listen to their wrong perspectives.
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Toast
I realize I sadly fit a lot of the criteria in this video. But now I understand why my mom is so short-tempered with me. But I also believe a lot of my behavior has come from a past of constantly being disregarded, talked over, and belittled. I've created this habit of interrupting because I desperately want to be heard. That being said, it DOES NOT excuse my behavior. I am going to put in the effort to respect people the way I want to be respected and hopefully things will improve.
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I realize I sadly fit a lot of the criteria in this video. But now I understand why my mom is so short-tempered with me. But I also believe a lot of my behavior has come from a past of constantly being disregarded, talked over, and belittled. I've created this habit of interrupting because I desperately want to be heard. That being said, it DOES NOT excuse my behavior. I am going to put in the effort to respect people the way I want to be respected and hopefully things will improve.
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R.
Sometimes it seems if you put all of these sound principles in effect (and they are sound) and remain aware, and present, etc, one still can end up not engaging in as many events as one would simply giving supply to a narcissist, and at least being engaged (however fake) and going to more social events. It's a tough line to tow. Seems like one needs to accept a lot of dreck just to socialize, as the alternative could be unwanted isolation. if that makes any sense
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Sometimes it seems if you put all of these sound principles in effect (and they are sound) and remain aware, and present, etc, one still can end up not engaging in as many events as one would simply giving supply to a narcissist, and at least being engaged (however fake) and going to more social events. It's a tough line to tow. Seems like one needs to accept a lot of dreck just to socialize, as the alternative could be unwanted isolation. if that makes any sense
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Nsobloo
People would always talk over me and I never realized this, but realistically at the time it was just little ole me and a bunch of slow teenage guys. So there was so way I was gonna be able to speak up and get them to listen without getting frustrated, and I know if I were to get mad or shout or whatever then that leads to men picking jokes at me. I just tried to play it safe but I really hurt myself in the long run
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People would always talk over me and I never realized this, but realistically at the time it was just little ole me and a bunch of slow teenage guys. So there was so way I was gonna be able to speak up and get them to listen without getting frustrated, and I know if I were to get mad or shout or whatever then that leads to men picking jokes at me. I just tried to play it safe but I really hurt myself in the long run
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Heather
People get upset if someone talks about their achievements? Well too bad, I do that when a jerk or some turkey tries to tear me down. It's just a clash of cultures, deal with it. People don't get rewards for just standing around. They must try. Getting rewards means staying up until 4am to complete your homework then getting up at 7 am to get ready for class, drink some coffee and move on. Quit such cry babies.
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People get upset if someone talks about their achievements? Well too bad, I do that when a jerk or some turkey tries to tear me down. It's just a clash of cultures, deal with it. People don't get rewards for just standing around. They must try. Getting rewards means staying up until 4am to complete your homework then getting up at 7 am to get ready for class, drink some coffee and move on. Quit such cry babies.
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Lynn
Don't swearing to friends and family and others who are interested to share their experiences with you to have a chance of getting a new one who will make it easier for me lynn I was angry at people's who keeping asking what did you saying to them. social workers others are not listening to whatever I lynn is telling them about my thoughts about you being able to find out what you want to talk about anything else.
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Don't swearing to friends and family and others who are interested to share their experiences with you to have a chance of getting a new one who will make it easier for me lynn I was angry at people's who keeping asking what did you saying to them. social workers others are not listening to whatever I lynn is telling them about my thoughts about you being able to find out what you want to talk about anything else.
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Maimoona
amazing video! loved every point, all of them are true.
i think 'being inconsiderate' was explained narrowly though. you can be inconsiderate by not knowing or remembering people's names, by not doing your job right, whether you're paid for it or not, and whether it was in your job description or not.
going to be watching this video from time to time! worth the time and effort
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amazing video! loved every point, all of them are true.
i think 'being inconsiderate' was explained narrowly though. you can be inconsiderate by not knowing or remembering people's names, by not doing your job right, whether you're paid for it or not, and whether it was in your job description or not.
going to be watching this video from time to time! worth the time and effort
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No
no one treats me well ever not even my own best friend she treats me like her pet and I always get treated like an animal I once got told to warn people before entering a room so people dont get my disease. people always bully me, gaslight me, and lie to me, and the worst part is nobody cares everyone thinks i dont have a life of my own and that I can feel hurt.
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no one treats me well ever not even my own best friend she treats me like her pet and I always get treated like an animal I once got told to warn people before entering a room so people dont get my disease. people always bully me, gaslight me, and lie to me, and the worst part is nobody cares everyone thinks i dont have a life of my own and that I can feel hurt.
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Weirdo
I stopped caring if people respect me or not. It's worked out great.
I guess people respect me but I don't bother to ask or pay attention.
I tend to only say what's important and factual.
Every time I speak, people listen or stay very quiet.
Other than that, I just keep to myself and try to catch murderers. Lol
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I stopped caring if people respect me or not. It's worked out great.
I guess people respect me but I don't bother to ask or pay attention.
I tend to only say what's important and factual.
Every time I speak, people listen or stay very quiet.
Other than that, I just keep to myself and try to catch murderers. Lol
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Lori
Others to add:
People who say one thing but do another.
Leaders who hold others to higher standards than themselves.
People who gossip.
People who treat others like they are beneath them especially those in restaurants and stores.
Immoral people
Emotionally explosive people
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Others to add:
People who say one thing but do another.
Leaders who hold others to higher standards than themselves.
People who gossip.
People who treat others like they are beneath them especially those in restaurants and stores.
Immoral people
Emotionally explosive people
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Clouds
Some toxic people would call your boundaries disrespect. when you choose to not use the internet for a couple of days they get mad when you say you believe youre not what they think youre they get mad
sometimes its okay if they lose respect for me as long as I didnt lose respect for myself
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Some toxic people would call your boundaries disrespect. when you choose to not use the internet for a couple of days they get mad when you say you believe youre not what they think youre they get mad
sometimes its okay if they lose respect for me as long as I didnt lose respect for myself
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Drina
I was too nice for my own good in the past. Although I treated my classmates kindly, they eventually started to use my good nature against me, asking me to do favors for them. I started to resent the kids I was compassionate to, and I found myself craving validation from them.
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I was too nice for my own good in the past. Although I treated my classmates kindly, they eventually started to use my good nature against me, asking me to do favors for them. I started to resent the kids I was compassionate to, and I found myself craving validation from them.
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Danae
My sister talks too much. Than when I interrupt her or just want to add, than she's bothered that I cut her off. Then she lectures me. then I'm bothered then I stop talking and shutdown. My whole vacation time with her was her talking at me about her exes. some vacation
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My sister talks too much. Than when I interrupt her or just want to add, than she's bothered that I cut her off. Then she lectures me. then I'm bothered then I stop talking and shutdown. My whole vacation time with her was her talking at me about her exes. some vacation
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Caleb
I lost all my friends due to my actions across all levels. Lost a gf because I took advantage of how kind she was. They all lost respect for me, which I dont blame them. Sometimes hitting rockbottom helps you realize things about yourself you didnt before.
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I lost all my friends due to my actions across all levels. Lost a gf because I took advantage of how kind she was. They all lost respect for me, which I dont blame them. Sometimes hitting rockbottom helps you realize things about yourself you didnt before.
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Linh
People are jealous and selfish. If you do anything that indicates you're better. more competent, look better, smarter. etc etc. You'll get backlash. Point blank. Want people to like you? Be a loser. people like losers who are not a threat
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People are jealous and selfish. If you do anything that indicates you're better. more competent, look better, smarter. etc etc. You'll get backlash. Point blank. Want people to like you? Be a loser. people like losers who are not a threat
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Shannon
We had a Christmas party at the place where I worked but I wasn't allowed to attend because I didn't normally work on Friday and my co worker Julie was doing a form of bragging by sticking her invitation in front of everybody's face.
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We had a Christmas party at the place where I worked but I wasn't allowed to attend because I didn't normally work on Friday and my co worker Julie was doing a form of bragging by sticking her invitation in front of everybody's face.
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Gem
I have known people that could benefit from this video. Unfortunately they probably wouldnt see themselves in it. Too bad cuz I saw about half the video as them. When you own your business respect goes a long way.
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I have known people that could benefit from this video. Unfortunately they probably wouldnt see themselves in it. Too bad cuz I saw about half the video as them. When you own your business respect goes a long way.
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Jul'o_Ghst
As someone with autism, It's really hard to get the respect of others. Like, pretty much all those signs are either something I do, struggles to do or something I have difficulties with
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As someone with autism, It's really hard to get the respect of others. Like, pretty much all those signs are either something I do, struggles to do or something I have difficulties with
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Lisa
I would add Give thanks where thanks is due. I had to learn this the hard way many years ago. So when I'm working on a project, I make sure now to PUBLICLY thank those who helped me succeed.
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I would add Give thanks where thanks is due. I had to learn this the hard way many years ago. So when I'm working on a project, I make sure now to PUBLICLY thank those who helped me succeed.
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aayushi
Don't treat people based on personal gain
Dont be overbearing with your beliefs
Don't brag about your achievements.
My key takeaways from the video.
Thank you
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Don't treat people based on personal gain
Dont be overbearing with your beliefs
Don't brag about your achievements.
My key takeaways from the video.
Thank you
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