7 Differences Between Love and Being In Love
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Brigette
What if youre a mix?
I cant actually watch the video but I looked at the time stamps. So sorry if I ask things that are explained in the actual video.
Like its hard and its not a choice on how I feel. I just feel it. How gradual? Like over years or months? I would sacrifice for him and deep down its how he feels over how I feel. I just really want him to be happy with someone, doesnt matter if its me. Its selfish to want it to be me and only me. I just want him to be happy and in a relationship thats good. I would put his well-being over my feelings if needed.
I had something very hard going on in my life that technically could have ended a year ago but if it did I wouldnt be friends with him so Ill put up with that horrible year just to be friends with him. Id do it again if I needed to. Just for the months Ive known him. Ive been happier than Ive ever been and nothing makes me happier than seeing him happy.
I dont know if Im in love with or just love him.
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What if youre a mix?
I cant actually watch the video but I looked at the time stamps. So sorry if I ask things that are explained in the actual video.
Like its hard and its not a choice on how I feel. I just feel it. How gradual? Like over years or months? I would sacrifice for him and deep down its how he feels over how I feel. I just really want him to be happy with someone, doesnt matter if its me. Its selfish to want it to be me and only me. I just want him to be happy and in a relationship thats good. I would put his well-being over my feelings if needed.
I had something very hard going on in my life that technically could have ended a year ago but if it did I wouldnt be friends with him so Ill put up with that horrible year just to be friends with him. Id do it again if I needed to. Just for the months Ive known him. Ive been happier than Ive ever been and nothing makes me happier than seeing him happy.
I dont know if Im in love with or just love him.
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alessandra
Being in love and in love is really a thin line if you stop a moment to think but in my opinion is a bit smooth distinguish one and other. For me being in love seems more fantasy, I don't know if this makes sense, but is something you just get carry away. You aren't truly in love you're just attracted by something who someone shown you and you felt like you've been fished. However on the other side, in love is more meaninful, at times it lasts years to bloom in the heart. In love isn't something that happen fast. It isn't like a flash. No, in love isn't this. When you in love, you feel the things in a different sensation. You really want to see that person who you're, happy, healthy, smiling, telling your jokes still these ones is worst. You want to accompany her/him until the end and to be with her/him at bad times and at good times. Well. I think no one can explain exactly what is in love.
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Being in love and in love is really a thin line if you stop a moment to think but in my opinion is a bit smooth distinguish one and other. For me being in love seems more fantasy, I don't know if this makes sense, but is something you just get carry away. You aren't truly in love you're just attracted by something who someone shown you and you felt like you've been fished. However on the other side, in love is more meaninful, at times it lasts years to bloom in the heart. In love isn't something that happen fast. It isn't like a flash. No, in love isn't this. When you in love, you feel the things in a different sensation. You really want to see that person who you're, happy, healthy, smiling, telling your jokes still these ones is worst. You want to accompany her/him until the end and to be with her/him at bad times and at good times. Well. I think no one can explain exactly what is in love.
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Jasnoor
I've always had a hard luck in love and avoided commitment wherever i could. even with the healthiest of relationships i chose toxic ones to safe guard my inner self who is comfortable with toxicity: (
Now that i like someone who really loves me purely and is a gentleman (literally a dream guy) i am unable to assess my feelings. it's different from the ones i felt in the past i dont get nervous. he's a great friend to me before being anything. I wanted this to happen and now that it is happening. i'm confused. i even told him about this and he said it's ok if you dont i just want u to be happy
I dont know how to know if I'm ready for a commitment. i dont know what's love and how it feels: ( if i really love him or dont
But i really want this relationship. there's no one better than him for me: (
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I've always had a hard luck in love and avoided commitment wherever i could. even with the healthiest of relationships i chose toxic ones to safe guard my inner self who is comfortable with toxicity: (
Now that i like someone who really loves me purely and is a gentleman (literally a dream guy) i am unable to assess my feelings. it's different from the ones i felt in the past i dont get nervous. he's a great friend to me before being anything. I wanted this to happen and now that it is happening. i'm confused. i even told him about this and he said it's ok if you dont i just want u to be happy
I dont know how to know if I'm ready for a commitment. i dont know what's love and how it feels: ( if i really love him or dont
But i really want this relationship. there's no one better than him for me: (
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PeepawWilliamAfton
I both love My Penny, and am in love with him.
I fell in love with him very quickly, but after alittle while, I have also developed a deep sort of care for him that is. very, very strong.
3: 29
And oh, I would give up Everything for him. everything and anything that I had to. I care about him more than me. Infinitely more than me.
4: 57
He makes me happy just by existing. but, even when I find it difficult to feel, as long as I can make him happy, well. That is all that matters to me. I want him to feel happy, loved, cared for, valued, understood, safe, secure, special.
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I both love My Penny, and am in love with him.
I fell in love with him very quickly, but after alittle while, I have also developed a deep sort of care for him that is. very, very strong.
3: 29
And oh, I would give up Everything for him. everything and anything that I had to. I care about him more than me. Infinitely more than me.
4: 57
He makes me happy just by existing. but, even when I find it difficult to feel, as long as I can make him happy, well. That is all that matters to me. I want him to feel happy, loved, cared for, valued, understood, safe, secure, special.
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heartnsoul
I wish I had known about Psych2go when I was dating my ex-husband. I watched the video on finding your soulmate and this one on being in love and, sadly, my ex did not pass any of the tests. Now, I'm in a wonderful relationship with the sweetest guy on the planet! I ran across a recent picture of him today and a lump formed in my throat and my eyes stung with tears. This after one and a half years later! It's the weirdest feeling I've never experienced! I still can't believe it's this real. I see him in my future and hope that I'm not wrong. Life is finally good with this man.
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I wish I had known about Psych2go when I was dating my ex-husband. I watched the video on finding your soulmate and this one on being in love and, sadly, my ex did not pass any of the tests. Now, I'm in a wonderful relationship with the sweetest guy on the planet! I ran across a recent picture of him today and a lump formed in my throat and my eyes stung with tears. This after one and a half years later! It's the weirdest feeling I've never experienced! I still can't believe it's this real. I see him in my future and hope that I'm not wrong. Life is finally good with this man.
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Kathryn
My guy freind and I have bin besties for almost half a year, he is a social introvert, so sometimes I'm worried about macking plans because alot of things I love doing as an extrovert he might not be comfortable with doing, so if I wana hang oit with him I always ask first if he is comfortable with it, since I know I already am sinc I'm the one how helps make the plans. he has slowly warmed up to me, even a slight grab on my sholder or waist in a the crowded hallways at school. i love the slight grabs so I don't mind it, idk if he loves me but I know I do
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My guy freind and I have bin besties for almost half a year, he is a social introvert, so sometimes I'm worried about macking plans because alot of things I love doing as an extrovert he might not be comfortable with doing, so if I wana hang oit with him I always ask first if he is comfortable with it, since I know I already am sinc I'm the one how helps make the plans. he has slowly warmed up to me, even a slight grab on my sholder or waist in a the crowded hallways at school. i love the slight grabs so I don't mind it, idk if he loves me but I know I do
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Living
this video title is deceiving as this is more like describing is more like infatuation vs true love -infatuation isn't even really falling in love it's more like falling in a selfish LUST seeing only what you want to see, versus building REAL and lasting true love companionship with flaws and all. (all flaws can generally be overcome or accepted - - - - > EXCEPT, toxicity or ANY kind of abuse in the relationship - (since that is one persons job to change alone outside and AWAY from the relationship -> the abusers): (
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this video title is deceiving as this is more like describing is more like infatuation vs true love -infatuation isn't even really falling in love it's more like falling in a selfish LUST seeing only what you want to see, versus building REAL and lasting true love companionship with flaws and all. (all flaws can generally be overcome or accepted - - - - > EXCEPT, toxicity or ANY kind of abuse in the relationship - (since that is one persons job to change alone outside and AWAY from the relationship -> the abusers): (
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Nicole
True Love is without condition.
You Love Someone bcoz you Love them.
Not bcoz you need anything in return.
Love can be non reciprocal. Sometimes in life Love does not keep two together. But Miles apart without contact Love can still be there.
Mother' s love for instance is so pure
Whether her childrenare with her or not. Her love always flow.
No doubt than it is considered to be pure and divine.
Love does not require constant meeting, mating and attachment.
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True Love is without condition.
You Love Someone bcoz you Love them.
Not bcoz you need anything in return.
Love can be non reciprocal. Sometimes in life Love does not keep two together. But Miles apart without contact Love can still be there.
Mother' s love for instance is so pure
Whether her childrenare with her or not. Her love always flow.
No doubt than it is considered to be pure and divine.
Love does not require constant meeting, mating and attachment.
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Kumariis
I would laugh at myself if I told me a year ago that I would ever love someone this whole heartedly. But sadly after many months of denying my own emotions, I finally learned that I loved him, my close friend. But sadly, he doesnt feel the same, it broke me mentally and physically. But now that I understand how real unfiltered love feels like, god it was a wonderful emotion, I can only dream that maybe one day someone would look at me the way I looked at him; -;
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I would laugh at myself if I told me a year ago that I would ever love someone this whole heartedly. But sadly after many months of denying my own emotions, I finally learned that I loved him, my close friend. But sadly, he doesnt feel the same, it broke me mentally and physically. But now that I understand how real unfiltered love feels like, god it was a wonderful emotion, I can only dream that maybe one day someone would look at me the way I looked at him; -;
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Nini
Ok this was actually helpful cuz I already know the differences between crushing & falling/being in love. I just didn't really know that there was a downhill transition that sometimes leads to a Twilight zone in terms of emotions, that makes you question things. I definitely would make a sacrifice for someone that isn't at the cost of comprising something or someone else I may also love like religion.
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Ok this was actually helpful cuz I already know the differences between crushing & falling/being in love. I just didn't really know that there was a downhill transition that sometimes leads to a Twilight zone in terms of emotions, that makes you question things. I definitely would make a sacrifice for someone that isn't at the cost of comprising something or someone else I may also love like religion.
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Savanna
This is life-saving! Thank you so much! I'm dating someone and wondered if I wasn't being honest because I didn't feel the crazy in love feelings although I care a lot about this person and want to grow with them. I appreciate to know that choosing love rather than just feeling it is what will usually bring the most lasting and selfless love and joy with your chosen partner.
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This is life-saving! Thank you so much! I'm dating someone and wondered if I wasn't being honest because I didn't feel the crazy in love feelings although I care a lot about this person and want to grow with them. I appreciate to know that choosing love rather than just feeling it is what will usually bring the most lasting and selfless love and joy with your chosen partner.
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Klas6
The differences are in the language itself. Being 'in love' implies that the 'love' surroundings you and obscures what you see, only being able to see, hear, feel and breathe in love. To 'love' someone, as a verb whereby you're the subject, it shows that you have the power since you're doing the action of loving. Which means it's more likely to have truth and being genuine.
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The differences are in the language itself. Being 'in love' implies that the 'love' surroundings you and obscures what you see, only being able to see, hear, feel and breathe in love. To 'love' someone, as a verb whereby you're the subject, it shows that you have the power since you're doing the action of loving. Which means it's more likely to have truth and being genuine.
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TheContrarySnivy
Ok I'm not sure right now: Currently I have someone in mind, when I first saw her, I knew she was different, but it didn't feel like being in love. It took a few months for me to really start getting closer to her, and it was like the love stage in this video. Only about half a year since we met I started getting the in love part a little bit. What does this mean?
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Ok I'm not sure right now: Currently I have someone in mind, when I first saw her, I knew she was different, but it didn't feel like being in love. It took a few months for me to really start getting closer to her, and it was like the love stage in this video. Only about half a year since we met I started getting the in love part a little bit. What does this mean?
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kitteneyejo
3: 17 V. SACRIFICE vs. support. Would you be willing to give up everything for your crush? Would you make sacrifices for them and give up your own happiness just for their sake? Truth be told, most of us would probably say no.
this really surprised me, as ive always been the kind of person to give an emphatic yes whether it was just a crush or something deeper
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3: 17 V. SACRIFICE vs. support. Would you be willing to give up everything for your crush? Would you make sacrifices for them and give up your own happiness just for their sake? Truth be told, most of us would probably say no.
this really surprised me, as ive always been the kind of person to give an emphatic yes whether it was just a crush or something deeper
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Madde
I have a problem. I like this person, or. We like eachother and I started falling in love with him and he told me that he does not feel the same way yet cuz he is wrecked cuz of his latest. But we see eachother and we have alot of fun and we enjoy eachothers company. Its just. the feeling that you be like no. He will NEVER feel the same way.
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I have a problem. I like this person, or. We like eachother and I started falling in love with him and he told me that he does not feel the same way yet cuz he is wrecked cuz of his latest. But we see eachother and we have alot of fun and we enjoy eachothers company. Its just. the feeling that you be like no. He will NEVER feel the same way.
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education
Hey, Im currently dating someone and I felt a lot of different emotions when I am with them. I always have my intrusive thoughts sometimes get me, and I wonder things like do they really wanna be with me? Or are they just being nice. Does anyone have any advice on it? I just started a relationship, and I dont know, I feel so.
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Hey, Im currently dating someone and I felt a lot of different emotions when I am with them. I always have my intrusive thoughts sometimes get me, and I wonder things like do they really wanna be with me? Or are they just being nice. Does anyone have any advice on it? I just started a relationship, and I dont know, I feel so.
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Eline
I don't agree with #1. It's not always a choice and you can't just stop loving the person. Children don't chose to love their parents, they just do. Even children who are neglected or abused often love their parents, and even after realizing how wrong their childhood was, they often still can't help loving their parents.
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I don't agree with #1. It's not always a choice and you can't just stop loving the person. Children don't chose to love their parents, they just do. Even children who are neglected or abused often love their parents, and even after realizing how wrong their childhood was, they often still can't help loving their parents.
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Lizzie
Can a relationship be happy and lasting if you never experience the sparks or chemistry? If, for example, you love someone but don't feel anything when you kiss them-- can their relationship last? I always imagined that both Love and Being in Love were necessary components.
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Can a relationship be happy and lasting if you never experience the sparks or chemistry? If, for example, you love someone but don't feel anything when you kiss them-- can their relationship last? I always imagined that both Love and Being in Love were necessary components.
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Nini
1: 57 Ok to my surprise a while back this includes even times of distance as well when you miss them. Also I think what some ppl might get confused with falling in love it's that when your feelings are intense it's cuz they were there for a while & you just realized.
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1: 57 Ok to my surprise a while back this includes even times of distance as well when you miss them. Also I think what some ppl might get confused with falling in love it's that when your feelings are intense it's cuz they were there for a while & you just realized.
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ngelPlayz
This video helped me realize I love my homie, and am in love with my female best friend.
I mean, not like I didn't know that last one, literally the only reason I befriended her, but, still, this cleared things up.
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This video helped me realize I love my homie, and am in love with my female best friend.
I mean, not like I didn't know that last one, literally the only reason I befriended her, but, still, this cleared things up.
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Sunny
I wish I could love someone one day. I just end up with crushes that I know dont fit right.
Finding someone I genuinely love has been difficult for me. Of course I can love but I dont meet people often even when I try.
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I wish I could love someone one day. I just end up with crushes that I know dont fit right.
Finding someone I genuinely love has been difficult for me. Of course I can love but I dont meet people often even when I try.
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Jude
Can't it be both?
I recently fell in love.
I also feel like love is blossoming.
She's the real woman I've been waiting for. the rush is there. We also confide in each other about unromantic, real things.
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Can't it be both?
I recently fell in love.
I also feel like love is blossoming.
She's the real woman I've been waiting for. the rush is there. We also confide in each other about unromantic, real things.
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education
you know what, this makes me feel very glad i dont have a crush, yes, i love certain people in my life, but i want my relationship to be one where both me and the party can grow
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you know what, this makes me feel very glad i dont have a crush, yes, i love certain people in my life, but i want my relationship to be one where both me and the party can grow
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MJNoirUnicorn
There is a difference between infatuation, being INLove and loving someone. You are lumping infatuation & being INLove as 1 & the same, and that is a massive misstep.
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There is a difference between infatuation, being INLove and loving someone. You are lumping infatuation & being INLove as 1 & the same, and that is a massive misstep.
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