How To Stop Caring What Others Think Of You
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Date: 2023-08-20
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fkylw
People, literally, are staring at me all the time in public. I'll look over to a table (just surveying the room and mood of the restaurant) and there's like two tables, independent of one another, looking right at me. Nothing behind me, and they don't break eye contact when I look at them. It's intimidating and awkward. It feels really uncomfortable.
To compound that I care what others think because I feel like I'm inconveniencing them somehow. I have watched a few of these how to not care what others think videos and none cover this part, they are either talking about 'feeling insecure' (which, let's be honest is not about what others think to begin with, or coming up with apathetic nonchalance or borderline narcissism.
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People, literally, are staring at me all the time in public. I'll look over to a table (just surveying the room and mood of the restaurant) and there's like two tables, independent of one another, looking right at me. Nothing behind me, and they don't break eye contact when I look at them. It's intimidating and awkward. It feels really uncomfortable.
To compound that I care what others think because I feel like I'm inconveniencing them somehow. I have watched a few of these how to not care what others think videos and none cover this part, they are either talking about 'feeling insecure' (which, let's be honest is not about what others think to begin with, or coming up with apathetic nonchalance or borderline narcissism.
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Nancy
Wow I can't say enough about how important this content is. Throughout my family there have been a number of people with various mental health issues. All of them just amazing sincere people that just want to live their lives and they have great hearts but are misunderstood. I'm over 50 now and the best I can tell my kids, and the other young people in our family. is, I hope they can reach a point in their lives that they just don't give a s what people think. It is very liberating! I wish I had this information so many years ago. Another thing I've always said is 'Live and let live'! And certainly in this day and age this approach applies 'he who is without flaws, let him throw the first stone' Thanks for what you do!
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Wow I can't say enough about how important this content is. Throughout my family there have been a number of people with various mental health issues. All of them just amazing sincere people that just want to live their lives and they have great hearts but are misunderstood. I'm over 50 now and the best I can tell my kids, and the other young people in our family. is, I hope they can reach a point in their lives that they just don't give a s what people think. It is very liberating! I wish I had this information so many years ago. Another thing I've always said is 'Live and let live'! And certainly in this day and age this approach applies 'he who is without flaws, let him throw the first stone' Thanks for what you do!
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Bumbaclaatt
2 and 4 really cut deep, if thats the right wording. Im worried about the wrong persons opinion and not the right people. Im hurting the the person that matters most because I care about what the wrong people think. I truly am defining myself by what others think and i need to change it. If I cant even hold my boyfriends hand in public because oh no! These random people will know im gay! Then what kind of message does that send to him?
I feel so bad, I know that must really hurt for him. I hope that the confidence this video gives doesnt go away by the time the moment comes. That keeps happening to me.
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2 and 4 really cut deep, if thats the right wording. Im worried about the wrong persons opinion and not the right people. Im hurting the the person that matters most because I care about what the wrong people think. I truly am defining myself by what others think and i need to change it. If I cant even hold my boyfriends hand in public because oh no! These random people will know im gay! Then what kind of message does that send to him?
I feel so bad, I know that must really hurt for him. I hope that the confidence this video gives doesnt go away by the time the moment comes. That keeps happening to me.
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JordyDagohoy
I had a panic attack at school, all because I had to sing my favorite song. it wasn't because of the song, but it was because of my singing voice. I've been improving, but something, just something really far in the back of my mind tells me, your singing voice is bad, don't do it. tomorrow, I'm coming back to school, hoping this helped.
I like freddie mercury, because he didn't care what others think, and I'm putting that here as my first not caring what others think action.
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I had a panic attack at school, all because I had to sing my favorite song. it wasn't because of the song, but it was because of my singing voice. I've been improving, but something, just something really far in the back of my mind tells me, your singing voice is bad, don't do it. tomorrow, I'm coming back to school, hoping this helped.
I like freddie mercury, because he didn't care what others think, and I'm putting that here as my first not caring what others think action.
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Georgina
i think growing up with zero friends for most of my former years i have always felt compelled to have others like me as a way of surviving in my social environment. now that i have a few good friends i am less desperate to seek validation from others but i still get concerned about peoples judgements and care too much about making a good impression because i want everyone to see me in the best possible light.
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i think growing up with zero friends for most of my former years i have always felt compelled to have others like me as a way of surviving in my social environment. now that i have a few good friends i am less desperate to seek validation from others but i still get concerned about peoples judgements and care too much about making a good impression because i want everyone to see me in the best possible light.
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Basket
Its great and all for everyone else but its way harder to follow this when you LITERALLY have not even one friend. Usually you could have at least one person to turn to if things go wrong but I dont at all. I cant just not care because its shoved in my face that I failed by everyone else that is with friends and having fun, if I left a bad impression then I continue to get abandoned again
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Its great and all for everyone else but its way harder to follow this when you LITERALLY have not even one friend. Usually you could have at least one person to turn to if things go wrong but I dont at all. I cant just not care because its shoved in my face that I failed by everyone else that is with friends and having fun, if I left a bad impression then I continue to get abandoned again
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Hawk
I scare myself into not being confident because I am sensitive and I often pay attention to other people and what they act or look like. Because I sometimes think a little harshly I constantly consider what if they think about me like this too? and it's just holding me in place, fretting over every little thing I do since I always need to evaluate others looks and attitude.
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I scare myself into not being confident because I am sensitive and I often pay attention to other people and what they act or look like. Because I sometimes think a little harshly I constantly consider what if they think about me like this too? and it's just holding me in place, fretting over every little thing I do since I always need to evaluate others looks and attitude.
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God
Here is the cheat code. If i can literally just sit around basking in my own happiness and love and self-satisfaction then that short-circuits all of life.
That's the genius of this method. That's its power. You think this is a bug. This is not a bug. This is a feature. This is exactly what you want. You want to short circuit that because you see then it frees you up.
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Here is the cheat code. If i can literally just sit around basking in my own happiness and love and self-satisfaction then that short-circuits all of life.
That's the genius of this method. That's its power. You think this is a bug. This is not a bug. This is a feature. This is exactly what you want. You want to short circuit that because you see then it frees you up.
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Jack
Man I don't know I'm in high school and I'm not much of a hard working student like I don't always get good grades and most of the time getting yelled by the teachers and some of the students make fun of how I look and I've always thought that oh god they are thinking this about me or that about me this makes my brain say nothing but kill yourself I just really can't.
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Man I don't know I'm in high school and I'm not much of a hard working student like I don't always get good grades and most of the time getting yelled by the teachers and some of the students make fun of how I look and I've always thought that oh god they are thinking this about me or that about me this makes my brain say nothing but kill yourself I just really can't.
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0: 00 intro
1: 08 1. Not everyone cares
1: 45 2. Who do you want to be?
2: 27 3. accept your flaws
3: 18 4. Be slective about the things you care about
3: 54 5. accept that not everyone will like you
4: 34 6. Take on the challenges
5: 09 one way to deal with anxieties about messing up
5: 32 outro
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0: 00 intro
1: 08 1. Not everyone cares
1: 45 2. Who do you want to be?
2: 27 3. accept your flaws
3: 18 4. Be slective about the things you care about
3: 54 5. accept that not everyone will like you
4: 34 6. Take on the challenges
5: 09 one way to deal with anxieties about messing up
5: 32 outro
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JCP
Get ghosted by your whole damn family. Trust me you wont give a care what anyone thinks about you. You all should try it sometime. About 3 years of it is the breaking point to where you care not to hear if they live or die. They never loved your ass to begin with. Keep Walking. And NEVER EVER take them back.
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Get ghosted by your whole damn family. Trust me you wont give a care what anyone thinks about you. You all should try it sometime. About 3 years of it is the breaking point to where you care not to hear if they live or die. They never loved your ass to begin with. Keep Walking. And NEVER EVER take them back.
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moon
ahh number 5 I've accepted long ago that not everyone will like me but what can I do if I do what's right that usually elderlies and really young ppl are the ones that like me, I mean I'm happy with they're like and all but I can't exactly be a close friend to them since and age difference
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ahh number 5 I've accepted long ago that not everyone will like me but what can I do if I do what's right that usually elderlies and really young ppl are the ones that like me, I mean I'm happy with they're like and all but I can't exactly be a close friend to them since and age difference
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Armani
Life is too short to constantly dwell on other peoples opinions, there are more things to think about about than just dwell on a opinion thats probably isnt true about you. That person is just probably going to through something with themselves. They arent happy with in themselves
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Life is too short to constantly dwell on other peoples opinions, there are more things to think about about than just dwell on a opinion thats probably isnt true about you. That person is just probably going to through something with themselves. They arent happy with in themselves
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psych2go
I recently started to not care about what others think, nor having all eye on me and I noticed that i started to become more confident and social.
There is still a long journey i have to go through but you know, just a few small steps can drastically improve you.
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I recently started to not care about what others think, nor having all eye on me and I noticed that i started to become more confident and social.
There is still a long journey i have to go through but you know, just a few small steps can drastically improve you.
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AHMED
I really liked the clip but what left an impression and calm inside me is the sound I feel that it reaches my heart and sends tranquility inside me and makes me feel very comfortable and when I breathe and I hear it as if I am taking out everything inside me
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I really liked the clip but what left an impression and calm inside me is the sound I feel that it reaches my heart and sends tranquility inside me and makes me feel very comfortable and when I breathe and I hear it as if I am taking out everything inside me
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T'lou
One thing I learned on accepting myself is to not to hold wrongs against urself. Meaning when you look back at something embarrassing you did, instead of looking down on urself, don't hold that wrong against you. We're all human, we make mistakes
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One thing I learned on accepting myself is to not to hold wrongs against urself. Meaning when you look back at something embarrassing you did, instead of looking down on urself, don't hold that wrong against you. We're all human, we make mistakes
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sgt
Your words are comfort to my ears. I work with the public and I admit I let negative people get under my skin and fear that one day I will crack and say or do something that will get me fired. I need to practice what you preach.
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Your words are comfort to my ears. I work with the public and I admit I let negative people get under my skin and fear that one day I will crack and say or do something that will get me fired. I need to practice what you preach.
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AmaturRahmaan
When I started wearing hijaab I stopped caring what others think of me or how they see me. anndd yes that liberated me: ) I'm free now! the only thing I worry about now is how I am in God's view not world.
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When I started wearing hijaab I stopped caring what others think of me or how they see me. anndd yes that liberated me: ) I'm free now! the only thing I worry about now is how I am in God's view not world.
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Lakesha
I have social anxiety trying to get better at not caring. I wanted to cosplay for the first time but I chickened our because I was worried about what people would think. So I guess it's a work in progress.
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I have social anxiety trying to get better at not caring. I wanted to cosplay for the first time but I chickened our because I was worried about what people would think. So I guess it's a work in progress.
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South
To say other people's opinions of you are none of your business is a wrong and strange thing to say. Some people don't care at all what other people think of them, so they're opinions aren't really relevant.
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To say other people's opinions of you are none of your business is a wrong and strange thing to say. Some people don't care at all what other people think of them, so they're opinions aren't really relevant.
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Qurii
Because when we give too many F's, when we choose to give a F about everything, then we feel as though we are perpetually entitled to feel comfortable and happy at all times, thats when life truly F's us.
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Because when we give too many F's, when we choose to give a F about everything, then we feel as though we are perpetually entitled to feel comfortable and happy at all times, thats when life truly F's us.
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Spaghet_consumer
im worried my friends dont like me. i worry that im the expendable one in the group. i love being around them so much but i feel like their getting closer to eachother than they are with me
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im worried my friends dont like me. i worry that im the expendable one in the group. i love being around them so much but i feel like their getting closer to eachother than they are with me
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Hussein
I feel like if you just do your best to be the best version of yourself in most of the things you do then you will be satisfied with yourself and know that whatever they think I know I did my best.
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I feel like if you just do your best to be the best version of yourself in most of the things you do then you will be satisfied with yourself and know that whatever they think I know I did my best.
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Georgina
i have come to realise that if someone is not willing to be open-minded or sticks to quick assumptions instead of getting to know me then they are not worth my time in the first place
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i have come to realise that if someone is not willing to be open-minded or sticks to quick assumptions instead of getting to know me then they are not worth my time in the first place
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Hollie
try these all you want but they dont work in england everyone is always in ur business wether strangers or not, people do care and stare so this video isnt much help?
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try these all you want but they dont work in england everyone is always in ur business wether strangers or not, people do care and stare so this video isnt much help?
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