6 Signs You're Not Truly In Love, Selfish Love
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Date: 2023-09-22
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Deven
I've come to the realization that the girl I had a crush on back in highschool turned out to be an obsession. My heart was in the right place but not my mind as I became selfish and made it all about me. I didn't give her enough space and had a tendency to over text and feel overwhelmed when she didn't want to talk to me as I misinterpreted that she didn't want anything to do with me/didn't like me. I know that wasn't sure as she always told me that everything was fine but I refused to believe it as I was acting immature and perhaps didn't know any better yet. It's frustrating nonetheless because I wasted many opportunities to do the right thing and build a meaningful connection with her.
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I've come to the realization that the girl I had a crush on back in highschool turned out to be an obsession. My heart was in the right place but not my mind as I became selfish and made it all about me. I didn't give her enough space and had a tendency to over text and feel overwhelmed when she didn't want to talk to me as I misinterpreted that she didn't want anything to do with me/didn't like me. I know that wasn't sure as she always told me that everything was fine but I refused to believe it as I was acting immature and perhaps didn't know any better yet. It's frustrating nonetheless because I wasted many opportunities to do the right thing and build a meaningful connection with her.
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Rain
I feel like I'm being selfish with my friends. I have one best friend and another friend, and we all hang out together, I usually feel more open with my best friend around, but when she isn't around I just close myself off to the world. Today she didn't come to school, and I just kind of didn't talk to my other friend the whole day because I was apprehensive of doing so, I tried distracting myself with school work, and I just think I was being selfish there, I just want to know how to say sorry to her without being self-centred because I keep making excuses for myself and my behaviour, can anyone help?
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I feel like I'm being selfish with my friends. I have one best friend and another friend, and we all hang out together, I usually feel more open with my best friend around, but when she isn't around I just close myself off to the world. Today she didn't come to school, and I just kind of didn't talk to my other friend the whole day because I was apprehensive of doing so, I tried distracting myself with school work, and I just think I was being selfish there, I just want to know how to say sorry to her without being self-centred because I keep making excuses for myself and my behaviour, can anyone help?
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Southern
I worry about this often! I have a person who is BEGGING me to let them love me. But I have been through hell the past few years, I have learned to love being alone and on my own, and I am trying to heal all the damaged parts. This person refuses to leave my side, as they understand and know ALL of this. I know this is the kind of love that I WANT. But I am not sure if my questioning is just because I am still in some pretty crucial healing stages (and doubt from having been terribly hurt before, or if maybe I really can't love this person the same way!
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I worry about this often! I have a person who is BEGGING me to let them love me. But I have been through hell the past few years, I have learned to love being alone and on my own, and I am trying to heal all the damaged parts. This person refuses to leave my side, as they understand and know ALL of this. I know this is the kind of love that I WANT. But I am not sure if my questioning is just because I am still in some pretty crucial healing stages (and doubt from having been terribly hurt before, or if maybe I really can't love this person the same way!
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BuckyWinchester
In my last relationship everything only revolved around my bf. It was mostly obvious whenever I had a really bad day and he managed to make it about himself. Always trying to best me at feeling horrible, if you want to. Always had to take care of him and console him but as soon as I had a meltdown, a very bad one even, he only patted me on the head and 5 minutes late changed the subject to how bad of a meltdown he has out of the sudden. The only person who was allowed to receive sheltering and positive affirmation was him.
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In my last relationship everything only revolved around my bf. It was mostly obvious whenever I had a really bad day and he managed to make it about himself. Always trying to best me at feeling horrible, if you want to. Always had to take care of him and console him but as soon as I had a meltdown, a very bad one even, he only patted me on the head and 5 minutes late changed the subject to how bad of a meltdown he has out of the sudden. The only person who was allowed to receive sheltering and positive affirmation was him.
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education
Lefr my now ex and most of these reasons i was sadly relating to. The understanding that i cared deeply for them but that i did not love them hurts becaude of the years we soent together. Taking the time to learn from this has also been difficult as i dont handle emotions well. Hopefully i will find someone where ir clicks, where i understand what love is and i can truly find joy in my partner.
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Lefr my now ex and most of these reasons i was sadly relating to. The understanding that i cared deeply for them but that i did not love them hurts becaude of the years we soent together. Taking the time to learn from this has also been difficult as i dont handle emotions well. Hopefully i will find someone where ir clicks, where i understand what love is and i can truly find joy in my partner.
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education
I have a crush in school, right? I have a feeling he likes me too, but I have a fear of losing friends. And all of the above. I basically, not- thirsting for anyone I fell shellfish but not exactly. This is the first time I ve been in-love. I have a friend from 1st grade and we stayed friends, I know it s surprising, but yeah, that s how true friendship works.
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I have a crush in school, right? I have a feeling he likes me too, but I have a fear of losing friends. And all of the above. I basically, not- thirsting for anyone I fell shellfish but not exactly. This is the first time I ve been in-love. I have a friend from 1st grade and we stayed friends, I know it s surprising, but yeah, that s how true friendship works.
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Deadly
Timestamps
1. It's all about you 0: 32
2. Avoidance 1: 04
3. Flaws are annoying 1: 53
4. No sacrifices 2: 20
5. Don't care 2: 49
6. Just receive 3: 14
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. It's all about you 0: 32
2. Avoidance 1: 04
3. Flaws are annoying 1: 53
4. No sacrifices 2: 20
5. Don't care 2: 49
6. Just receive 3: 14
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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The
So regarding the 1st one with self absorption, I do end up dominating the conversation but It is usually in an engaging way that is meant to help out with the problem when they ask for advice. This is normal, right?
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So regarding the 1st one with self absorption, I do end up dominating the conversation but It is usually in an engaging way that is meant to help out with the problem when they ask for advice. This is normal, right?
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Snowball_Maltese
This is a dangerous video for people in relationships bc they might realize something they don t wanna realize
Love the video as always though! The quality of these videos always amazes me
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This is a dangerous video for people in relationships bc they might realize something they don t wanna realize
Love the video as always though! The quality of these videos always amazes me
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Batman
Timestamps
1. It's all about you 0: 34
2. Avoidance 1: 04
3. Flaws are annoying 1: 54
4. No sacrifices 2: 20
5. Doesn't Care 2: 50
6. Just receive 3: 14
Keep Learning guys
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Timestamps
1. It's all about you 0: 34
2. Avoidance 1: 04
3. Flaws are annoying 1: 54
4. No sacrifices 2: 20
5. Doesn't Care 2: 50
6. Just receive 3: 14
Keep Learning guys
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SweatyAsUrPits
I watched this in the perspective of someone I'm finally getting over. This pretty much described her, and showed that she wasn't in love. Which oddly enough, is comforting to know.
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I watched this in the perspective of someone I'm finally getting over. This pretty much described her, and showed that she wasn't in love. Which oddly enough, is comforting to know.
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Hungry
There is nothing has true love, if there is something you want in each other, they come close and our brains make us feel good, that is the what real love according to my understanding
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There is nothing has true love, if there is something you want in each other, they come close and our brains make us feel good, that is the what real love according to my understanding
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Adeline
Thanks for the video Quite sad to understand that's how my partner has been treating me since I've known him. Guess it's truly high time to move on from whatever the hell this is.
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Thanks for the video Quite sad to understand that's how my partner has been treating me since I've known him. Guess it's truly high time to move on from whatever the hell this is.
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Mark
Amazing video and thank you for breaking it down! Despite the economic downturn, I'm so happy I have been earning 60, 000 return from my 9, 000 investment every 21 days
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Amazing video and thank you for breaking it down! Despite the economic downturn, I'm so happy I have been earning 60, 000 return from my 9, 000 investment every 21 days
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Chris
Just watched this and realize this is what is happening I'm my relationship with my fiancee doing this to me we are getting married soon and I'm honestly nervous
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Just watched this and realize this is what is happening I'm my relationship with my fiancee doing this to me we are getting married soon and I'm honestly nervous
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pyromaniac
I have noticed these signs with my bf but I have really thought it over, but I prioritize him way more and love him truly now, realizing is the biggest step
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I have noticed these signs with my bf but I have really thought it over, but I prioritize him way more and love him truly now, realizing is the biggest step
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The
Glad to know, it was actually love. Wish things would have been better. Circumstance weren't there but glad it happened. Enjoyed it and grew stronger from it.
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Glad to know, it was actually love. Wish things would have been better. Circumstance weren't there but glad it happened. Enjoyed it and grew stronger from it.
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Mikko
Dear Psych2Go, thanks for you content. I want to be a psychiatrist when i geow up and this is helpful getting me a head start. I'm 13 but i love psychology
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Dear Psych2Go, thanks for you content. I want to be a psychiatrist when i geow up and this is helpful getting me a head start. I'm 13 but i love psychology
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L. O. 752
Bad News: Today, Septemember 21, everyone in Latin America give yellow flowers to someone they love. My crush just gave flowers to a friend of mine: (
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Bad News: Today, Septemember 21, everyone in Latin America give yellow flowers to someone they love. My crush just gave flowers to a friend of mine: (
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Anonymous_G
As an Autistic Male, I can be like this sometimes, especially since the age of 12, I'm alienated by everyone because of my Autism.
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As an Autistic Male, I can be like this sometimes, especially since the age of 12, I'm alienated by everyone because of my Autism.
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