Introverts Survival Guide to Dating
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Eiji
Almost any date Ive been on (which really isnt that many at all) has led to no second one. There was this one guy I was going to start dating but after a couple weeks of talking he then out of no where said he may have a boyfriend soon and then told me all about him. I felt betrayed and alone because I told him so many things about me I do not tell any one else.
Eventually a month passed by and he starts talking to me again. I didnt want to be alone so I decided to give him a chance. But then he started talking to me like I was his Boyfriend even though weve never gone a date before and I got scared, worried he wouldnt like what he saw when we actually did meet. So then a few months pass by and we start talking again and he tells me all about this new boy hes into, how perfect he is. By then I had actually seen what hed looked like and learned more about who he is as a person. And I got jealous, I hated that though, then he told me a few days later that the boy he loves didnt love him back, it filled me with joy and relief. And I despised it with every inch of my soul. I felt like a monster, but I kept going and then swooped in professing feelings for him and I felt awful for it. But I do desperately didnt want to be alone. A couple of days later he comes to me and says he doesnt want to date me, that hes been comparing me to the last boy he loved and how that just isnt fair. And all I could think was hes right, and how unfair it was of me to just interject myself into his rejection and expect love. Since then Ive learned I have a real dark side when it comes to this kind of stuff, Ive been jealous before, but never to this point. Now, Im just waiting, hoping I may grab the attention of someone. Even though I know deep down a relationship requires equal effort.
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Almost any date Ive been on (which really isnt that many at all) has led to no second one. There was this one guy I was going to start dating but after a couple weeks of talking he then out of no where said he may have a boyfriend soon and then told me all about him. I felt betrayed and alone because I told him so many things about me I do not tell any one else.
Eventually a month passed by and he starts talking to me again. I didnt want to be alone so I decided to give him a chance. But then he started talking to me like I was his Boyfriend even though weve never gone a date before and I got scared, worried he wouldnt like what he saw when we actually did meet. So then a few months pass by and we start talking again and he tells me all about this new boy hes into, how perfect he is. By then I had actually seen what hed looked like and learned more about who he is as a person. And I got jealous, I hated that though, then he told me a few days later that the boy he loves didnt love him back, it filled me with joy and relief. And I despised it with every inch of my soul. I felt like a monster, but I kept going and then swooped in professing feelings for him and I felt awful for it. But I do desperately didnt want to be alone. A couple of days later he comes to me and says he doesnt want to date me, that hes been comparing me to the last boy he loved and how that just isnt fair. And all I could think was hes right, and how unfair it was of me to just interject myself into his rejection and expect love. Since then Ive learned I have a real dark side when it comes to this kind of stuff, Ive been jealous before, but never to this point. Now, Im just waiting, hoping I may grab the attention of someone. Even though I know deep down a relationship requires equal effort.
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incubusman421
I feel that this video was directed toward women. You completely skipped the hardest part of dating for men. Actually getting a date in the first place. Approach anxiety can make a guy seem nervous and that's an instant turn off. Building up attraction isn't easy for someone that is introverted or socially anxious. Showing charisma and confidence aren't easy things to do for a guy that's anxious. If a guy can't do those things, he'll never get a date in the first place. This even applies when using dating apps. Could you make a video on that aspect of dating as an well?
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I feel that this video was directed toward women. You completely skipped the hardest part of dating for men. Actually getting a date in the first place. Approach anxiety can make a guy seem nervous and that's an instant turn off. Building up attraction isn't easy for someone that is introverted or socially anxious. Showing charisma and confidence aren't easy things to do for a guy that's anxious. If a guy can't do those things, he'll never get a date in the first place. This even applies when using dating apps. Could you make a video on that aspect of dating as an well?
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GamiTheMighty
i think my favorite moment in a romance movie was when a guy was trying to remain sentimental with his girlfriend they were both half naked before he said he didn't want to ruin things and he wanted to take things slow poor girl was left sitting half naked on the bed, wondering what the hell she did to scare him away like that. not a joke: this was a movie and I do not remember the name of it, and the only other thing I remember is when someones old man died they set his body on fire and did a burial at sea, in the middle of a lake. it was a very strange movie.
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i think my favorite moment in a romance movie was when a guy was trying to remain sentimental with his girlfriend they were both half naked before he said he didn't want to ruin things and he wanted to take things slow poor girl was left sitting half naked on the bed, wondering what the hell she did to scare him away like that. not a joke: this was a movie and I do not remember the name of it, and the only other thing I remember is when someones old man died they set his body on fire and did a burial at sea, in the middle of a lake. it was a very strange movie.
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TheViciousOne
Honestly, dating can be so stressful nowadays. How I hate it when I'm constantly feeling like being on a job interview, and everything is so overly competitive.
It would be so interesting to just have date once in a while, that would actually feel like aiming to truly get to know one another in a relaxing environment,
instead of just checking every box on someone else's endless list.
Besides, I can barely remember when I last met a cute, interesting introvert.
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Honestly, dating can be so stressful nowadays. How I hate it when I'm constantly feeling like being on a job interview, and everything is so overly competitive.
It would be so interesting to just have date once in a while, that would actually feel like aiming to truly get to know one another in a relaxing environment,
instead of just checking every box on someone else's endless list.
Besides, I can barely remember when I last met a cute, interesting introvert.
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Ana
Kpop! I came here to drop some money, looking like a chef I'm a five star Michelin, gay. nah nvm Wattpad! I mean there's some good stories with some good plot remembers Bichen nope, anime! .what if they call it a cartoon, kdrama! Girly things! Okay, I don't care about what you think. I'm gonna talk about it and if you don't like it, I'll just go home. inhale okay let's go
Me: Hi stays silent and go along everything the person wants not again
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Kpop! I came here to drop some money, looking like a chef I'm a five star Michelin, gay. nah nvm Wattpad! I mean there's some good stories with some good plot remembers Bichen nope, anime! .what if they call it a cartoon, kdrama! Girly things! Okay, I don't care about what you think. I'm gonna talk about it and if you don't like it, I'll just go home. inhale okay let's go
Me: Hi stays silent and go along everything the person wants not again
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GamiTheMighty
my idea music to go to work is:
oh there ain't no rest for the wicked
money don't grow on trees
I got bills to pay
I got mouths to feed
no there ain't nothing in this life for free.
you know I can't slow down.
and I cant give up.
you know I wish I could,
but there ain't no rest for wicked.
till we close our eyes for good.
- No Rest for the Wicked by cage the elephant.
Thanks Gear Box!
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my idea music to go to work is:
oh there ain't no rest for the wicked
money don't grow on trees
I got bills to pay
I got mouths to feed
no there ain't nothing in this life for free.
you know I can't slow down.
and I cant give up.
you know I wish I could,
but there ain't no rest for wicked.
till we close our eyes for good.
- No Rest for the Wicked by cage the elephant.
Thanks Gear Box!
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Bluewizard55
My mom has always been an extrovert, while my father is extremely introverted, that made it hard in school, work and dating. My mom always wanted me to do something, but my day was fine if I stayed home or just had friends come over. Thanks for the video!
PS. I'm a introvert.
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My mom has always been an extrovert, while my father is extremely introverted, that made it hard in school, work and dating. My mom always wanted me to do something, but my day was fine if I stayed home or just had friends come over. Thanks for the video!
PS. I'm a introvert.
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HeroineChicago
I'm not good at being a boyfriend. I'm good at being that guy you find yourself spending more and more time with until you meet your husband. Nick Miller, 'New Girl'
Is 10000% me. I hate dates, and all of my boyfriends were close friends before we got together.
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I'm not good at being a boyfriend. I'm good at being that guy you find yourself spending more and more time with until you meet your husband. Nick Miller, 'New Girl'
Is 10000% me. I hate dates, and all of my boyfriends were close friends before we got together.
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Victor's
Definitely should never dated as an introvert. Now I'm married and feel trapped. I miss being alone when I get home. A relationship offers too much forced social interaction. I can't go out and choose when to engage. The engagement is just there all the time.
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Definitely should never dated as an introvert. Now I'm married and feel trapped. I miss being alone when I get home. A relationship offers too much forced social interaction. I can't go out and choose when to engage. The engagement is just there all the time.
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-_VANCE
I wouldn't be able to do most of these because while I can sit through multiple bad experiences and be fine putting someone through one bad experience would ruin my week and I'd probably think about it at least once a year for the rest of my life.
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I wouldn't be able to do most of these because while I can sit through multiple bad experiences and be fine putting someone through one bad experience would ruin my week and I'd probably think about it at least once a year for the rest of my life.
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Pedriko
As a introvert i always prefer extrovert partner and sometimes i try to be extrovert at some point i end up and feel its so artificial from my natural character hang up with extrovert makes uncomfortable at same time i feel bit extrovert myself
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As a introvert i always prefer extrovert partner and sometimes i try to be extrovert at some point i end up and feel its so artificial from my natural character hang up with extrovert makes uncomfortable at same time i feel bit extrovert myself
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Aidan
As someone who tends to overthink, I realised this is actually the worst thing you can do because if youre overthinking, youre trapped in your mind, if youre trapped in your mind youre not present which means youre not even engaged in the date.
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As someone who tends to overthink, I realised this is actually the worst thing you can do because if youre overthinking, youre trapped in your mind, if youre trapped in your mind youre not present which means youre not even engaged in the date.
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Martin
If you don't give a FIG about going on a DATE with an old PRUNE like me who doesn't have a PLUM job and has less than GRAPE expectations of life, then there's no RAISON to change your CURRANT situation. I won't take it as an in-SULTANA!
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If you don't give a FIG about going on a DATE with an old PRUNE like me who doesn't have a PLUM job and has less than GRAPE expectations of life, then there's no RAISON to change your CURRANT situation. I won't take it as an in-SULTANA!
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banjaxed73
LOL.
Try not to assume how your date sees you.
So, let's assume that the introvert has already conquered their fear of approaching women, and dispense advice to those who are ALREADY partially successful.
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LOL.
Try not to assume how your date sees you.
So, let's assume that the introvert has already conquered their fear of approaching women, and dispense advice to those who are ALREADY partially successful.
CLICK
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christopher
A few of these sound like they could be really helpful when I finally ask a certain someone out! I wouldnt have thought to listen to music beforehand, and freedom to express feelings is always a necessary reminder for me
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A few of these sound like they could be really helpful when I finally ask a certain someone out! I wouldnt have thought to listen to music beforehand, and freedom to express feelings is always a necessary reminder for me
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Blob
This video lack one thing, how to get someone to go out in a date with you? Approaching strangers is totally not my cup of tea, especially with girls. I'm an introvert too, but I'm starting to long too for someone to be with.
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This video lack one thing, how to get someone to go out in a date with you? Approaching strangers is totally not my cup of tea, especially with girls. I'm an introvert too, but I'm starting to long too for someone to be with.
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banjaxed73
Dating an extrovert can help. - And, how is that supposed to happen, exactly? How does that come about? In what possible reality would I be going out with an extrovert in the first place!
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Dating an extrovert can help. - And, how is that supposed to happen, exactly? How does that come about? In what possible reality would I be going out with an extrovert in the first place!
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Next.
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clementine
im an introvert myself but my boyfriend is a huge extrovert. but he still understands that i dont like social shit and prioritises me over social interaction. i love him so muchh omgmgkdkwjqjjs
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im an introvert myself but my boyfriend is a huge extrovert. but he still understands that i dont like social shit and prioritises me over social interaction. i love him so muchh omgmgkdkwjqjjs
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Erebys
Personal point on no. 2: I ABHORE places like cafes and anything fancier than that. My idea of a good time is literally just walking around and talking while also stepping into abandoned buildings.
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Personal point on no. 2: I ABHORE places like cafes and anything fancier than that. My idea of a good time is literally just walking around and talking while also stepping into abandoned buildings.
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Yolande
If they could just drop my perfect match in front of my, it would be easier. I'm an introvert and to be honest I learn how to put some efforts to simply go out. For a date, I have a long way to go.
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If they could just drop my perfect match in front of my, it would be easier. I'm an introvert and to be honest I learn how to put some efforts to simply go out. For a date, I have a long way to go.
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Ray
I think most of those tips really might be helpful. First I wanted to say that those from 6 to 10 are the best, but after a short thinking I think they all are great for an introvert. :3
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I think most of those tips really might be helpful. First I wanted to say that those from 6 to 10 are the best, but after a short thinking I think they all are great for an introvert. :3
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First
So be myself? Got it. Always am. And proudly I might add, however, it's becoming more and more apparent that being oneself isn't always successful. The dating scene sucks nowadays.
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So be myself? Got it. Always am. And proudly I might add, however, it's becoming more and more apparent that being oneself isn't always successful. The dating scene sucks nowadays.
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Zoysia
Bro the thumbnail is so relatable lmfao my friend wanted to pick me up and I freaked out when your expectations is they can pick you up without getting heck tech
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Bro the thumbnail is so relatable lmfao my friend wanted to pick me up and I freaked out when your expectations is they can pick you up without getting heck tech
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Baysaa0909
me, an introvert who is little interested on date: Hmmmmmm maybe i need that book and guide from the video just in case my plan of plan ruined during date
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me, an introvert who is little interested on date: Hmmmmmm maybe i need that book and guide from the video just in case my plan of plan ruined during date
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Gaybe
My gf is an introvert, this helped me feel more confident that i'm doing right in our relationship, giving her space to share how she feels in her own time
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My gf is an introvert, this helped me feel more confident that i'm doing right in our relationship, giving her space to share how she feels in her own time
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