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Do They Like You? Or Are They Just Being Nice/Polite?

Do They Like You? Or Are They Just Being Nice/Polite?

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Ever wonder if someone likes you? Or are they just being polite? Sometimes it can be difficult to tell. There are a lot of people who flirt subtly, or dont flirt at all even though they like the person theyre talking to. So, how can you tell if someone is just being nice and friendly - viewing you as a friend - or if they have romantic feelings for you? Here are a few signs to help you decide if they like you, or are just being nice. Need more relationship advice? We also made a video on the signs they're only being nice, not into you
Date: 2023-08-20

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Okay, so. (Im gonna use initials) C is my old crush and I confessed to him a long time ago (beginning of March) and he said he wasnt ready for a relationship yet. I understood and so I lost interest after a while. Now Ive noticed hes always staring at me when Im eating, and hes always watching when Im hanging out with my friends. He always comes by my side as close as he can without looking weird and starts asking questions about how was my week? And last week he asked me what do you wanna be when you get older? Where do you wanna live? Do you wanna have a family when youre older.
But his brother, J seems to also like me
So Cs brother J, once I came over with my friend V to our friend M and she was talking to J. When V and I came, J looked at us and blushed. I talked to V about it and she thinks he likes me. I told J what my favorite colors were (yellow, white, light blue) and the next week he wore something yellow
When were alone he asks questions about me and what I like to do and all that.
I dont know what to do!

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She seem to do all those things, i also met her closest friends and her sister and without asking them directly they already knew who i was, we also got out 2 times alone by ourselves, talked a lot, a lot of eye contact. the problem is that she is the most similar person to me i got to know since ages amd probably im the same for her so as 2 introverts i think this could just be deep friendship, the problem here is that whenever i text her she seems to be always doing something else and she wasnt the first to ask me out but every time i get to see her irl i get to think she likes me for the way she treats me and our conversation and also for the way she looks at me
Now. writing this down i realised that what i described seems like love from both sides but i still have my insecurities and i dont want to risk the friendship we developed so i dont know if i should just wait and see what happens going on dates with her or should i push this so we dont end up begin so much friend that we cant go back to be a copule

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Okay so Im in a situation so my friend group is me my sister my best friend and 3 other boys my sis and 2 of the boys are leaving for college its a really odd friend group so the on; y people in our friend group is me the 1 boy whos my age and his sister who is my best friend. But my older sister is best friends with the boy whos my age like best best friends I want to be best friends with him but I dont like him I dont think he likes me but I also dont want it to seem like I am only hanging out with my best friend to hang out with him. I feel like our personalitys are more alike then with his sister because she doesnt always join our group I want to be best friends with him like my sis is with him why do I do I have 3 months it really matters what I do soon because the group could totally be gone if I dont act fast and become friends with him soon but how do I do it without it becoming romantic?
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There's a girl who started approaching me recently. Her demeanor made it pretty obvious that she likes me but I wasn't interested. Cause 1 she just wasn't my type and 2 my main reason, which is that she was two years bellow me. I'm a junior and she's a freshman, I'm 17 and she's 15. So I honestly didnt know how to deal with a situation like that especially since I never had someone feel that way for me before. She hasn't confessed to me so I already ghosted her just in case she does. Mostly because I'm scared to say no to someone, especially in a situation like that. I feel super guilty so whenever I see her I just walk away hoping she doesn't see me
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Well, I was a bit surprised - if the person is HSP or introvert, they can make deep conversation or non interruptinted listening also woth friends (maybe that is why I was occasionaly refused by someone as I showing too close relationship to them, but it was not my crush and I believed we are only friends.
And I also do not tell other people about my deep feelings to someone, so if I had a crush I would keep it secret for a long time before I reveal it.

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Its hard to tell if my crush also had something at me. When we were with friends she doesn't want to do flirts and stuff. But when we both go home (since our stations our quite close) they would ask me if its fine to hold their hand, nor ask if they could lean onto my shoulder. The farthest we had gotten is a hug as of now. Though its still hard to tell whether she likes me or not.
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My problem is I am not really sure how someone feels about me if they don't tell me I don't know how they truly feel about me. So many confusing signs and generally what works for someone else doesn't work for me. I'm just not very sure about anything, Heck all I know is my life sucks end of story.
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A boy had a nickname for me and only me it was bunny. He would sneak up behind me and do the bunny ears and when I turn around he say hi bunny. It would instantly make me blush because. I had a crush on him and he knew so was he flirting with me or just knew how to make my day.
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I never had a real crush before. And I finally did now! They kinda act like what you're saying in the video, but I wish I saw this before giving her the letter that I like her: '. Hopefully she says yes, am gonna edit this tomorrow when she gives a letter back: D
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This video makes me feel more depressed than I am. Like, I dont have any friends beside my teammates in CS: GO. And I only small talk ( 3: 05 ) because Im to shy to talk with others. Try to make me less shy. Answer: you just cant: (
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there's a bunch of people that are scared to just show their interest. And when they feel things are getting to intimate, they make a step backward (not literally, like avoiding a question, changing the subject or calling a friend)
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For the fifth point (they keep their focus on you, lots of people (me included) always keep their focus on the people they're talking to (and no, it doesn't mean that they want something with everybody)
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I love how different videos sometimes have different characters or animation style and i love your video! Your video always makes me calmer and understand other point of views!
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Me before video: I think someone likes me.
Me after watching video: . i have no idea what anything means. Oh gosh i'm like a rock. Gues i have to go ask them: (

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The thing is when a man gives a hint it can only be taken as a hint when a woman gives a man a hint then this problem starts or they flirting or just being nice
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(1: 54) Some people may be too shy to flirt at first, or simply don't flirt much. Or they are still learning to flirt well. This third point is 100% me: ')
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If they don't ask you out, don't read too much into it. Some people are just overly friendly while others are incredibly touched by the smallest gestures
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Pro tip: love songs are the best way to get a girl to fall in love with you. And dressing hot is the easiest way to get guys falling for you
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im glad you chose roblox style characters!
big respect for that
i play roblox, thanks for using such style on the characters!

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Love falling for people thinking they like me despite them not showing many signs and being turned down. The unbroken cycle
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I just assume on default that it's just politeness. No fuzz, no expectations, no heartbreak. I'd rather be gently surpirsed.
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Sadly, it seems I can show only 1 of these signs to my crush, at least from what I can gather. This isn't normal, is it?
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This video just shut down my thoughts of an confession. I'll try to see if she shows any of these traits again before deciding.
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im watching this not cause i like my friend ive never had a crush or didnt know if i did i just dont like feeling awkward
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What if they consistently tease me to an aggressive extent because they think how easily I fluster is funny/cute?
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