6 Signs You Have A Toxic Childhood
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Jungkookie
I didn't think I really experience things like this as a kid, but now that I'm older and understand what a lot of these toxic things are I feel like I just brushed it aside. Everything they said in the video is something I relate to, especially now that I'm growing older and seeing everything in an entirely different perspective. I feel like I'm always seeking out other people to make happy, when I'm not even happy myself. Just to have the feeling that Oh I just made someone's day a bit better even though I'm still feeling pretty shitty. Oh well, time to put that smile back on and find someone else in need of a little mood booster. I put everyone's needs and mental health above my own and it's starting to show now that I've pulled four consecutive all nights just trying to be a therapist for my friends going through stressful and horrible things on Discord. At this point it's become an addiction to make people happy and make sure they're having a better day than they were before I talk to them and this definitely stems from me not wanting people to feel sad or lonely like I felt my entire life.
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I didn't think I really experience things like this as a kid, but now that I'm older and understand what a lot of these toxic things are I feel like I just brushed it aside. Everything they said in the video is something I relate to, especially now that I'm growing older and seeing everything in an entirely different perspective. I feel like I'm always seeking out other people to make happy, when I'm not even happy myself. Just to have the feeling that Oh I just made someone's day a bit better even though I'm still feeling pretty shitty. Oh well, time to put that smile back on and find someone else in need of a little mood booster. I put everyone's needs and mental health above my own and it's starting to show now that I've pulled four consecutive all nights just trying to be a therapist for my friends going through stressful and horrible things on Discord. At this point it's become an addiction to make people happy and make sure they're having a better day than they were before I talk to them and this definitely stems from me not wanting people to feel sad or lonely like I felt my entire life.
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Char4444
My earliest memories are my dad not being around and drinking. Then we moved and my parents divorced in a serious situation It honestly gave me PTSD bc I was there watching the whole thing yk my parents physically fighting and screaming at each other then the police came and yeah I started becoming kinda a bully bc I violence was all I knew obviously kids fought back and started bullying me back so everyone hated me at school and at home my mom was struggling and since my brother was older he understood and developed mental things and started bullying me at home Luckily everything is okay now I try to forget it and have amazing friends and my family is a pretty much healed I have a amazing relationship with my mother and I am very lucky to have such a amazing family now
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My earliest memories are my dad not being around and drinking. Then we moved and my parents divorced in a serious situation It honestly gave me PTSD bc I was there watching the whole thing yk my parents physically fighting and screaming at each other then the police came and yeah I started becoming kinda a bully bc I violence was all I knew obviously kids fought back and started bullying me back so everyone hated me at school and at home my mom was struggling and since my brother was older he understood and developed mental things and started bullying me at home Luckily everything is okay now I try to forget it and have amazing friends and my family is a pretty much healed I have a amazing relationship with my mother and I am very lucky to have such a amazing family now
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Ranjeet
Just tell me, after I losing my mother whom I loved very much. But my father always fight with her infront of me and my big brother. 6 past years, my father got cancer and I'm doing as much household with my studies but he's like you are not enough as if even I got 92 percent in my 10th class but it's low for him. My big brother also stop supporting me and they both don't even listen to my opinions or feelings. My father always try to control my life in every possible way. I just want if I could live with my mother alone. My situation is getting worse by everyday and I just want to leave them anyway. What am I supposed to do?
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Just tell me, after I losing my mother whom I loved very much. But my father always fight with her infront of me and my big brother. 6 past years, my father got cancer and I'm doing as much household with my studies but he's like you are not enough as if even I got 92 percent in my 10th class but it's low for him. My big brother also stop supporting me and they both don't even listen to my opinions or feelings. My father always try to control my life in every possible way. I just want if I could live with my mother alone. My situation is getting worse by everyday and I just want to leave them anyway. What am I supposed to do?
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s4turn
My mom doesnt give me any affection at all. She never talks to me and yells at me when i try to have a conversation with her or just ignores me. We always get into arguments and blames me when she gets into fights with her boyfriend. She hasn't hugged me and said she loves me in nearly 4 years. Im 13 btw. She is always so nice to my brother and shows that she loves him. Sometimes i hear her talking about me in a bad way to my brother. I hate living in my house: / idk if this is toxic or not but if it is pls let me know
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My mom doesnt give me any affection at all. She never talks to me and yells at me when i try to have a conversation with her or just ignores me. We always get into arguments and blames me when she gets into fights with her boyfriend. She hasn't hugged me and said she loves me in nearly 4 years. Im 13 btw. She is always so nice to my brother and shows that she loves him. Sometimes i hear her talking about me in a bad way to my brother. I hate living in my house: / idk if this is toxic or not but if it is pls let me know
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Facebook
Im terrified of my mum to all the numbers I relate way to much my sisters are the only 1 who makes me feel loved my dad often yells and gets mad mainly when he had a high or low blood sugar level (hes diabetic) but sometimes hes alright and my friends when we talk about our parent they seem amazing I mean up until I was 8 I almost never saw my dad and my mum would get annoyed easily: (
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Im terrified of my mum to all the numbers I relate way to much my sisters are the only 1 who makes me feel loved my dad often yells and gets mad mainly when he had a high or low blood sugar level (hes diabetic) but sometimes hes alright and my friends when we talk about our parent they seem amazing I mean up until I was 8 I almost never saw my dad and my mum would get annoyed easily: (
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Blaire
yep i have an awful childhood im 14 and i didn't know how bad i had it until i was 12 and my friends told me that no these behaviors u are describing are not ok and u don't deserve that my friends are now working on healing my trauma and confronting my parents always tell your friends they can help way more than u think
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yep i have an awful childhood im 14 and i didn't know how bad i had it until i was 12 and my friends told me that no these behaviors u are describing are not ok and u don't deserve that my friends are now working on healing my trauma and confronting my parents always tell your friends they can help way more than u think
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Absutoth
Living in fear was my childhood all the way through my college years and early years in my career. Also I didn't have much confidence in myself. I'm working through trying to feel more confident with self affirmations. I did too much self-criticism. I sometimes still find myself falling back on it.
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Living in fear was my childhood all the way through my college years and early years in my career. Also I didn't have much confidence in myself. I'm working through trying to feel more confident with self affirmations. I did too much self-criticism. I sometimes still find myself falling back on it.
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Salazar
Wow! I Have all the signs specially the No. 4 since I was a child I feel that if there's something wrong it's my fault already. All the bad things happening in the house is my fault. This is the reason why I don't want to have a family on my own. I feel it's not for me. Thanks for my parents.
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Wow! I Have all the signs specially the No. 4 since I was a child I feel that if there's something wrong it's my fault already. All the bad things happening in the house is my fault. This is the reason why I don't want to have a family on my own. I feel it's not for me. Thanks for my parents.
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DiamondMaker1384
I'm 16 and I bloody know that my parents don't love eachother.
I literally don't know how can I love my future family. The loveliest I can think of is not being around just so that if I ever got annoying my family wouldn't be disturbed.
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I'm 16 and I bloody know that my parents don't love eachother.
I literally don't know how can I love my future family. The loveliest I can think of is not being around just so that if I ever got annoying my family wouldn't be disturbed.
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Lama
I have PTSD because my brother tried to kill, and hurt me when I was younger. My parents arent very abusive, they just yell alot, but they are horrible parents because they taught my brother that it's ok to do that. And they want me to forgive him.
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I have PTSD because my brother tried to kill, and hurt me when I was younger. My parents arent very abusive, they just yell alot, but they are horrible parents because they taught my brother that it's ok to do that. And they want me to forgive him.
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Cookie
Please it makes me so sad when people make fun of children in media or fictional characters that went through abuse in their childhood. Even if theyre fictional I still sympathize with them because they remind me of me and my parents.
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Please it makes me so sad when people make fun of children in media or fictional characters that went through abuse in their childhood. Even if theyre fictional I still sympathize with them because they remind me of me and my parents.
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Weed
Very indetical to mine early development, every part. when I think about it. If only I could have seen the issues in myself and my situation and not go default brain dead child and teen. Sucks to live like a backdoor doormat I guess.
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Very indetical to mine early development, every part. when I think about it. If only I could have seen the issues in myself and my situation and not go default brain dead child and teen. Sucks to live like a backdoor doormat I guess.
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Drina
I had all of those signs in childhood. I treated my classmates kindly, but eventually they started asking too much of me, wanting to copy my work or buy things for them. I started resenting them and walking on eggshells around them.
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I had all of those signs in childhood. I treated my classmates kindly, but eventually they started asking too much of me, wanting to copy my work or buy things for them. I started resenting them and walking on eggshells around them.
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Reachal
Everytime i try and bring up my traumatizing early childhood my mom always says it was the only way she could get me to behave but recently she's saying to my therapist is that nothing she does works, hmm i wonder why that is?
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Everytime i try and bring up my traumatizing early childhood my mom always says it was the only way she could get me to behave but recently she's saying to my therapist is that nothing she does works, hmm i wonder why that is?
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sam
I can relate to this. I deal with almost everything listed in here everyday. Idk what to do. I feel helpless rn. I wish i could be happy again. I wont say my age but im pretty young. Are children supposed to deal with this?
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I can relate to this. I deal with almost everything listed in here everyday. Idk what to do. I feel helpless rn. I wish i could be happy again. I wont say my age but im pretty young. Are children supposed to deal with this?
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Sir
Look I only have 6 of the 6 signs so it's not that bad.
Ok but on the real note im on the chapter of my life of trying to fix the issues from my childhood. Seems like every day is one step forward and two steps back.
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Look I only have 6 of the 6 signs so it's not that bad.
Ok but on the real note im on the chapter of my life of trying to fix the issues from my childhood. Seems like every day is one step forward and two steps back.
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Emma
I have one toxic parent and they manipulated me and I barely speak to him because of the yelling and verbal abuse, I cant handle when two people are yelling at each other now and I go on a complete lockdown mentally.
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I have one toxic parent and they manipulated me and I barely speak to him because of the yelling and verbal abuse, I cant handle when two people are yelling at each other now and I go on a complete lockdown mentally.
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Cursed-Cat
Me: _anxious that my family is like this and denies it_
My brain: _Remember when your own mother forgot when you came out and then denied it even happening because of you being 'too yoing' to know? _
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Me: _anxious that my family is like this and denies it_
My brain: _Remember when your own mother forgot when you came out and then denied it even happening because of you being 'too yoing' to know? _
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Nice
I used wonder why, I have so many issues and emotions bottled up. I now realize my childhood had a big role in this and my father would say stop being a wussy and be a man if I ever told him how I feel.
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I used wonder why, I have so many issues and emotions bottled up. I now realize my childhood had a big role in this and my father would say stop being a wussy and be a man if I ever told him how I feel.
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Kit
I feel better knowing that other people know exactly what I went through just by clicking on this video. I don't mean this in a bad way, I mean like it's more comforting knowing I'm not the only one.
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I feel better knowing that other people know exactly what I went through just by clicking on this video. I don't mean this in a bad way, I mean like it's more comforting knowing I'm not the only one.
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Doctor
Preparing my best for exam so that I can get admission outside of my city for better learning and to get some space and will allow my growth regardless of other people's opinions and manipulation
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Preparing my best for exam so that I can get admission outside of my city for better learning and to get some space and will allow my growth regardless of other people's opinions and manipulation
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FlameNeo
Yeah I relate to some signs, even if I deal with some of these things now it'll change nothing, so I'll just keep playing videogames until I can move out and reset my avatar irl lmao.
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Yeah I relate to some signs, even if I deal with some of these things now it'll change nothing, so I'll just keep playing videogames until I can move out and reset my avatar irl lmao.
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Michael
I lived in constant fear as a kid. My step father was very unpredictable, violent, and explosive. I never knew when the slightest little thing would set him off. I'm an adult now.
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I lived in constant fear as a kid. My step father was very unpredictable, violent, and explosive. I never knew when the slightest little thing would set him off. I'm an adult now.
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OUR
You said there is always someone who listens to you! But it's a lie no one will ever listen to me because nobody really cares, we have to deal with our life by ourselves
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You said there is always someone who listens to you! But it's a lie no one will ever listen to me because nobody really cares, we have to deal with our life by ourselves
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Darianna
i have a lot of these. My parents always used to fight, the most toxic ones are my dad and sister, but somehow i find ways to forgive them and blame it on myself
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i have a lot of these. My parents always used to fight, the most toxic ones are my dad and sister, but somehow i find ways to forgive them and blame it on myself
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