What Are The Signs Of Verbal Abuse?
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Oceane
My father often makes jokes about the quality of the games I like (questioning if they're actually good games for example.
It's just jokes, and I do that with his games from time to time as well as a response but.
Sometimes I feel like it invalidates me. I feel like it means my taste in video games is trash, and that I can't enjoy actual good games.
My father doesn't enjoy the games I like and that's okay, but even though I don't like them, I'm still curious about his games.
I don't play them, but we can still talk about the lore and stuff like that. I at least tried most of his games.
But I wish we could also talk about my games. Which we don't except when it comes to these jokes about them.
It's not fair that he gets to talk with his daughter about what he likes but his daughter doesn't.
He didn't try any game I like (with one exception years ago. He knows almost nothing about them, and still judges them.
And we have the exact same problem with shows. I look at and try to get interested in what he shows me, but he never does the same.
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My father often makes jokes about the quality of the games I like (questioning if they're actually good games for example.
It's just jokes, and I do that with his games from time to time as well as a response but.
Sometimes I feel like it invalidates me. I feel like it means my taste in video games is trash, and that I can't enjoy actual good games.
My father doesn't enjoy the games I like and that's okay, but even though I don't like them, I'm still curious about his games.
I don't play them, but we can still talk about the lore and stuff like that. I at least tried most of his games.
But I wish we could also talk about my games. Which we don't except when it comes to these jokes about them.
It's not fair that he gets to talk with his daughter about what he likes but his daughter doesn't.
He didn't try any game I like (with one exception years ago. He knows almost nothing about them, and still judges them.
And we have the exact same problem with shows. I look at and try to get interested in what he shows me, but he never does the same.
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Sienna
I was mocked for doing things that were due to my blindness and autism. I also had cruel jokes played on me as a way of taking advantage of my blindness. For example, my caregiver would move chairs out from where I was about to sit in hopes I would fall on the floor. They would also sneak up behind me when I was intensely focused on something and grab me. They would laugh if I ran into things headfirst. Open closet doors wide enough in hopes Id run into it. Limit me from touching and exploring everything. Limit me from crying or being angry and even laugh at me for crying. Or even mock me for it. I wasnt allowed to rock back and forth, I wasnt allowed to have meltdowns. I wasnt allowed to be my true self. And now I limit myself, single myself out because I feel like Im the only one in the world who does certain things, and even invalidate myself. I now dont allow myself to feel, I dont allow myself to do things that benefit my autism or blindness, but the truth is, I love doing a lot of these things.
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I was mocked for doing things that were due to my blindness and autism. I also had cruel jokes played on me as a way of taking advantage of my blindness. For example, my caregiver would move chairs out from where I was about to sit in hopes I would fall on the floor. They would also sneak up behind me when I was intensely focused on something and grab me. They would laugh if I ran into things headfirst. Open closet doors wide enough in hopes Id run into it. Limit me from touching and exploring everything. Limit me from crying or being angry and even laugh at me for crying. Or even mock me for it. I wasnt allowed to rock back and forth, I wasnt allowed to have meltdowns. I wasnt allowed to be my true self. And now I limit myself, single myself out because I feel like Im the only one in the world who does certain things, and even invalidate myself. I now dont allow myself to feel, I dont allow myself to do things that benefit my autism or blindness, but the truth is, I love doing a lot of these things.
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Shadowsong
4: 25 verbal abuse. it took me a while to realise my ex partner was acting abusively. they would occasionally get drunk & then proceed to yell and argue. the next morning they were always very remorseful. i knew it was nasty behavior, but i didn't take it seriously enough since like they also said, hey, they were drunk, they didn't mean it! but it would continue to happen. when drunk, they were very aggressive and yelled right in my face. one time i told them to stop, that they're scaring me, and they just yelled back in my face: I DON'T CARE. then they lunged at my throath. only THEN i realised and dumped them. i also later on remembered that they had actually done this earlier, like two years ago, they had laid their hands on me and my mind had totally blocked the whole event.
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4: 25 verbal abuse. it took me a while to realise my ex partner was acting abusively. they would occasionally get drunk & then proceed to yell and argue. the next morning they were always very remorseful. i knew it was nasty behavior, but i didn't take it seriously enough since like they also said, hey, they were drunk, they didn't mean it! but it would continue to happen. when drunk, they were very aggressive and yelled right in my face. one time i told them to stop, that they're scaring me, and they just yelled back in my face: I DON'T CARE. then they lunged at my throath. only THEN i realised and dumped them. i also later on remembered that they had actually done this earlier, like two years ago, they had laid their hands on me and my mind had totally blocked the whole event.
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DJ
I have been bullied and receive some verbal abuse, sometimes racism.
I was verbally abused when I was at drama school, a female student was really upset and I went to see if she was okay & if she needed any help and I was told to Fk Off. she didnt say sorry to me after that or the next day. That was me trying to be polite and to help.
Back in secondary school, I was called a batty man at random and I was beaten up for that for no reason. I have had racist abuse thrown at me.
I hated it, it was making me feel so scared to leave my house and walk the streets or to be around people.
Some people in my life have been narcissists towards me.
But now Ive cut negative people out my life. As life is too short.
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I have been bullied and receive some verbal abuse, sometimes racism.
I was verbally abused when I was at drama school, a female student was really upset and I went to see if she was okay & if she needed any help and I was told to Fk Off. she didnt say sorry to me after that or the next day. That was me trying to be polite and to help.
Back in secondary school, I was called a batty man at random and I was beaten up for that for no reason. I have had racist abuse thrown at me.
I hated it, it was making me feel so scared to leave my house and walk the streets or to be around people.
Some people in my life have been narcissists towards me.
But now Ive cut negative people out my life. As life is too short.
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Big
I get verbally abused by this one guy every time i see him as he constantly does subtle jabs at me and other times out right abuses me. At first I went with it but then i tried to reason with him and ask him why he is doing what he is doing but he continued to insult me. When I realized that wasnt going to work I decided to go on the offensive and fire back but all that did was make more a worse guy and it pushed some of my friends away (the real ones remained friends) as they saw me as rude. The worst thing was that this was the most sensitive, loud, egotistical, hard and annoying person you could possibly meat and I have no idea why he has friends. These comments actually helped though as i know im not alone.
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I get verbally abused by this one guy every time i see him as he constantly does subtle jabs at me and other times out right abuses me. At first I went with it but then i tried to reason with him and ask him why he is doing what he is doing but he continued to insult me. When I realized that wasnt going to work I decided to go on the offensive and fire back but all that did was make more a worse guy and it pushed some of my friends away (the real ones remained friends) as they saw me as rude. The worst thing was that this was the most sensitive, loud, egotistical, hard and annoying person you could possibly meat and I have no idea why he has friends. These comments actually helped though as i know im not alone.
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lesyeuxdenini
I've been experiencing this ever since i was 8 yrs old and until now that I'm already 16 and since we're just 2 siblings and I was the oldest everything that is wrong was blamed for me, and I always feel like I'm the outcast of my own family, I sometimes wonder if they hate me or am I adopted but it turns out that I wasn't, it's just that they don't want me for who I am even though I didn't do anything wrong to them, and I was threatened by my own mother, and show it to people and I just said to myself maybe they were stressed that's why they do that to me but not I keep thinking what did I do wrong that kept me up all night deciding to just disappear and not saying anything from them.
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I've been experiencing this ever since i was 8 yrs old and until now that I'm already 16 and since we're just 2 siblings and I was the oldest everything that is wrong was blamed for me, and I always feel like I'm the outcast of my own family, I sometimes wonder if they hate me or am I adopted but it turns out that I wasn't, it's just that they don't want me for who I am even though I didn't do anything wrong to them, and I was threatened by my own mother, and show it to people and I just said to myself maybe they were stressed that's why they do that to me but not I keep thinking what did I do wrong that kept me up all night deciding to just disappear and not saying anything from them.
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Just
I read your guys' stories, and I am so sorry. I am so sorry that you went through that and that these things happened to you. Remember don't lose hope and don't be afraid to seek help if you need to, there are people that you can talk to. I'm sorry for those who are struggling mentally and those people who don't feel good. Remember, there are also other people who also went through struggles or are struggling. Focus on what you like. Do what you like, like focus on your interests or hobbies. Doing these things might help. Talk to someone you trust. Look on the other side of life and hope for the best. We should all be kind to other people no matter what.
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I read your guys' stories, and I am so sorry. I am so sorry that you went through that and that these things happened to you. Remember don't lose hope and don't be afraid to seek help if you need to, there are people that you can talk to. I'm sorry for those who are struggling mentally and those people who don't feel good. Remember, there are also other people who also went through struggles or are struggling. Focus on what you like. Do what you like, like focus on your interests or hobbies. Doing these things might help. Talk to someone you trust. Look on the other side of life and hope for the best. We should all be kind to other people no matter what.
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Just. a. Normal
I can kind of relate to this because I've been dealing with a classmate's bullying for the past 8 years, I've always stood up for myself and even tried to ignore then but nothing ever happened. that guy still made fun of every aspect of my life, every mistake that i make, about everything, and when i stood up for myself he just tried to act like a poor innocent soul that doesn't do anything bad. Sometimes it's even tiring to even stand up for myself. I really don't know what to do, even telling the teachers what happened won't do anything. he's just like the devil
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I can kind of relate to this because I've been dealing with a classmate's bullying for the past 8 years, I've always stood up for myself and even tried to ignore then but nothing ever happened. that guy still made fun of every aspect of my life, every mistake that i make, about everything, and when i stood up for myself he just tried to act like a poor innocent soul that doesn't do anything bad. Sometimes it's even tiring to even stand up for myself. I really don't know what to do, even telling the teachers what happened won't do anything. he's just like the devil
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Edith
i am just now able to put into words the treatment I went through in middle school. im in 9th grade right now, and I am realizing just how much the things people said to me affected me in the long run. I was picked on so much since I stand out from the crowd and am very open with my interests and opinions. I was told I looked like a slt and that I was acting like a btch by two of my male classmates, i was constants put down for what i liked and what I wore. wannabe anime charater furry it was just everyday. im so glad im out of the school.
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i am just now able to put into words the treatment I went through in middle school. im in 9th grade right now, and I am realizing just how much the things people said to me affected me in the long run. I was picked on so much since I stand out from the crowd and am very open with my interests and opinions. I was told I looked like a slt and that I was acting like a btch by two of my male classmates, i was constants put down for what i liked and what I wore. wannabe anime charater furry it was just everyday. im so glad im out of the school.
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Titan
I found this at just the right time. My therapist told me today that the way my grandmother treated me was emotionally abusive, which I had a hard time believing at first because she never hit me, but after my psych evaluation, she wants to refer me to a therapist specialising in emotional abuse. Its funny because Ive seen countless family members be abused, and Ive always encouraged them to get away from their abusers, and I couldnt recognise that I was being abused myself until my therapist spelled it out for me.
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I found this at just the right time. My therapist told me today that the way my grandmother treated me was emotionally abusive, which I had a hard time believing at first because she never hit me, but after my psych evaluation, she wants to refer me to a therapist specialising in emotional abuse. Its funny because Ive seen countless family members be abused, and Ive always encouraged them to get away from their abusers, and I couldnt recognise that I was being abused myself until my therapist spelled it out for me.
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education
Recently a verbally abusive friend distanced herself from me. I was devastated but spent the next few days wondering why I accepted the verbal abuse. Old habits. My friend would tell me I'm ungrateful, a bad daughter, too sensitive, etc. And she would roast me in front of a mutual friend and make it appear like a joke. But her tone would turn from light jabbing to full blown angry rant. Sometimes you have to let friends go or wait until they let you go once you express a boundary.
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Recently a verbally abusive friend distanced herself from me. I was devastated but spent the next few days wondering why I accepted the verbal abuse. Old habits. My friend would tell me I'm ungrateful, a bad daughter, too sensitive, etc. And she would roast me in front of a mutual friend and make it appear like a joke. But her tone would turn from light jabbing to full blown angry rant. Sometimes you have to let friends go or wait until they let you go once you express a boundary.
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axlam
i have been verbally abused since young age and i was holding all that hurtful names and words inside my heart without relieve and no one to talk to i remember those moments i used to break down and cry heavily alone in the middle of the night but i moved on and i forgave my self and those who abused me but sometimes all those memories and flashbacks comeback and it hurts me like it happened now and i doubt myself if i forgave them.
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i have been verbally abused since young age and i was holding all that hurtful names and words inside my heart without relieve and no one to talk to i remember those moments i used to break down and cry heavily alone in the middle of the night but i moved on and i forgave my self and those who abused me but sometimes all those memories and flashbacks comeback and it hurts me like it happened now and i doubt myself if i forgave them.
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psych2go
My brother since he was 15 to 16 started being rude to me. He has been bullied a lot at Middle school. My mom said that he turned out like his dad, being rude and just act all nice at the end. My brother has been sticking up the middle finger, saying stuff like: I don't want to talk to little shrimps like you or shut up etc. My mom said to just ignore it. But this video really help me learn a lot more abt it thanks!
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My brother since he was 15 to 16 started being rude to me. He has been bullied a lot at Middle school. My mom said that he turned out like his dad, being rude and just act all nice at the end. My brother has been sticking up the middle finger, saying stuff like: I don't want to talk to little shrimps like you or shut up etc. My mom said to just ignore it. But this video really help me learn a lot more abt it thanks!
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Carpenter
Example number 5 once again using a male as the perpetrator who is victimizing the female. This is too Easy and that is genuinely problematic even the videos that seem to be somewhat gender neutral the thumbnail shows what is clearly a man in an angrepose. I cannot find yet a single video showing a female being the one causing any of these issues they are always the victim what a weird coincidence
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Example number 5 once again using a male as the perpetrator who is victimizing the female. This is too Easy and that is genuinely problematic even the videos that seem to be somewhat gender neutral the thumbnail shows what is clearly a man in an angrepose. I cannot find yet a single video showing a female being the one causing any of these issues they are always the victim what a weird coincidence
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Indrid
This is exacly why I opted out of being social. I no longer tolerated the abuse, cruelty, nor poor treatment. If that was what it is to have friends, and a girlfriend, I want no part of being social. It is not a necessity nor important. It offers very few benefits but a lot of negatives. It is very likely I will never have a girlfriend nor friends ever again.
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This is exacly why I opted out of being social. I no longer tolerated the abuse, cruelty, nor poor treatment. If that was what it is to have friends, and a girlfriend, I want no part of being social. It is not a necessity nor important. It offers very few benefits but a lot of negatives. It is very likely I will never have a girlfriend nor friends ever again.
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AI
Parents yelling at their young or adult children is very much normalised in our culture. To protest or fight back is considered a mortal sin, and instantly brands a child as rebellious, rude, and not raised properly. This is true even if the parents are wrong, and children who are affected are seen as weak and morally defective.
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Parents yelling at their young or adult children is very much normalised in our culture. To protest or fight back is considered a mortal sin, and instantly brands a child as rebellious, rude, and not raised properly. This is true even if the parents are wrong, and children who are affected are seen as weak and morally defective.
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catpuccino
Can bullying be verbally abusive? I think I'm overreacting cause so many other people get hit and verbally abused by parents but I'm so pressed over some kids at my school telling me how weird and worthless I am. Am I just overreacting? I'm sorry if this is a dumb question
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Can bullying be verbally abusive? I think I'm overreacting cause so many other people get hit and verbally abused by parents but I'm so pressed over some kids at my school telling me how weird and worthless I am. Am I just overreacting? I'm sorry if this is a dumb question
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Syrath
My first name is Jackson. For a good portion of my childhood my nickname was Jackass. My mother constantly comments on how she knows other people my age that are more successful, while my father nitpicks everything I do and tells me if I dont stop Ill never keep a job.
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My first name is Jackson. For a good portion of my childhood my nickname was Jackass. My mother constantly comments on how she knows other people my age that are more successful, while my father nitpicks everything I do and tells me if I dont stop Ill never keep a job.
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Jessica
This guy at work does all of these things. I just had a situation with him today and didn't go to work because of it.
Thank you for this content. This is so valuable to us, and thank you for the follow-up with the links. You change lives one video at a time.
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This guy at work does all of these things. I just had a situation with him today and didn't go to work because of it.
Thank you for this content. This is so valuable to us, and thank you for the follow-up with the links. You change lives one video at a time.
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kirishima
I was verbally abused and then I started verbally abusing someone and I broke up with them cuz I felt like I was hurting them now I know I was and I'm not doing it in the current relationship I'm in and it's one of the healthiest relationships I've been in
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I was verbally abused and then I started verbally abusing someone and I broke up with them cuz I felt like I was hurting them now I know I was and I'm not doing it in the current relationship I'm in and it's one of the healthiest relationships I've been in
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Rachel
I left my abusive parents home but I believe one of the people Im living with is verbally abusing me. Im grateful that theyre giving me a place to stay and Im trying to respect them in their own home but the way they speak to me sometimes is pretty cruel.
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I left my abusive parents home but I believe one of the people Im living with is verbally abusing me. Im grateful that theyre giving me a place to stay and Im trying to respect them in their own home but the way they speak to me sometimes is pretty cruel.
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emm
I was verbally abused by my parents and siblings. I'm basically the Meg of the family. As soon as I was old enough and financially well enough, I left. I still see my family and love them, but I keep them at arms length, and I decide when I see them.
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I was verbally abused by my parents and siblings. I'm basically the Meg of the family. As soon as I was old enough and financially well enough, I left. I still see my family and love them, but I keep them at arms length, and I decide when I see them.
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Darkside
I just learned that I was verbally abusive and I lost my wife. I didn't realize what I was doing I can't believe I became so hateful. I lost her I lost everything because she was my everything. Can I save this or did I fk up? Please help
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I just learned that I was verbally abusive and I lost my wife. I didn't realize what I was doing I can't believe I became so hateful. I lost her I lost everything because she was my everything. Can I save this or did I fk up? Please help
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Ducky
I'm replying to my xomments eich say by who im getting verbal abused by its everyone around me and in school I feel safe because I feel like the only people who care abt me are the staff there and in the school building is when I feel safe
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I'm replying to my xomments eich say by who im getting verbal abused by its everyone around me and in school I feel safe because I feel like the only people who care abt me are the staff there and in the school building is when I feel safe
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Mia
My partner doesnt say i wont get anyone else. He says youre hot i know u can get someone else but once they know who you are idk if they can be patient with you it makes me question leaving cuz im 30 and want children the unknown is scary.
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My partner doesnt say i wont get anyone else. He says youre hot i know u can get someone else but once they know who you are idk if they can be patient with you it makes me question leaving cuz im 30 and want children the unknown is scary.
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