THIS Is How You Find True/Real Love (& Make It Last)
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Auro
I'm tired man. It's not like it's difficult to get into a relationship But. Its just tiring. ppl just want attention, too much? They get bored and move on, too little? They just get it elsewhere, Show ur real self? = boring weirdo,
gets pulled in towards fake guys doing fake stuff just to use us and they immediately think they can swap with the other people
You show the same stuff then they get pulled towsrds you now. Its like an auction where the highest bidder gets the prize
And the primal stuff. The animalistic ways of getting a mate. Although not directly visible it's 100% in play.
And one could only hope to get a real genuine relationship, a real partners who loves u for who u are, I'm talking about the real kind of love. Which seems to only exist in fairy tales.
For even the love of a mother towards her offspring cannot be seen everytime, there r some shtty parents and kids too. out there.
This constant need to keep playing the game to hold a relationship. Is. Just exhausting and this nature's way of animalistic tendencies in us Humans prevails despite being as evolved as we are. All this just feels like it's just a game of survival of the fittest feels monotonous
Thought certain extraordinary feats of selfless and true love does exist and it doesn't limit to only humans but also to animals. Is what gives us hope that there's still a chance.
But it's like winning a lottery, u could win but in lottery there's only a few winners and a lot of losers.
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I'm tired man. It's not like it's difficult to get into a relationship But. Its just tiring. ppl just want attention, too much? They get bored and move on, too little? They just get it elsewhere, Show ur real self? = boring weirdo,
gets pulled in towards fake guys doing fake stuff just to use us and they immediately think they can swap with the other people
You show the same stuff then they get pulled towsrds you now. Its like an auction where the highest bidder gets the prize
And the primal stuff. The animalistic ways of getting a mate. Although not directly visible it's 100% in play.
And one could only hope to get a real genuine relationship, a real partners who loves u for who u are, I'm talking about the real kind of love. Which seems to only exist in fairy tales.
For even the love of a mother towards her offspring cannot be seen everytime, there r some shtty parents and kids too. out there.
This constant need to keep playing the game to hold a relationship. Is. Just exhausting and this nature's way of animalistic tendencies in us Humans prevails despite being as evolved as we are. All this just feels like it's just a game of survival of the fittest feels monotonous
Thought certain extraordinary feats of selfless and true love does exist and it doesn't limit to only humans but also to animals. Is what gives us hope that there's still a chance.
But it's like winning a lottery, u could win but in lottery there's only a few winners and a lot of losers.
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will
Honestly, even if I want someone who likes similar interests to me, I just want to find someone who is thoughtful, open minded in the way of their beliefs. i. e. I am a strong believer in extraterrestrials and the paranormal, I dont associate with a religion tho I believe in some greater power in the universe, I believe in the law of attraction and quantum physics. Things like that are meaningful to me and how I see the world so if I were to be in a relationship, I'd like to be with someone who isnt bat shit crazy about crystals and spirituality or some shit but on the other hand, isn't close minded and focussed on the basic human-made copes of our everyday lives (if that makes sense. I also want someone who is nurturing and sensitive as that would make for a perfect wife, someone who I know isn't going to challenge me on my masculinity or be toxic and abusive. I want someone who basically, pulls me back down to earth when I'm getting too ahead of myself, someone who knows what they want, someone who is just funny and goofy with an edge to their humour, someone who isnt a snowflake and is traditional in some regard. That's what I want out of my partner but who knows if I'll ever meet that person. hell I might just be in and out of more one sided textationships or heart breaking relationships. I guess.
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Honestly, even if I want someone who likes similar interests to me, I just want to find someone who is thoughtful, open minded in the way of their beliefs. i. e. I am a strong believer in extraterrestrials and the paranormal, I dont associate with a religion tho I believe in some greater power in the universe, I believe in the law of attraction and quantum physics. Things like that are meaningful to me and how I see the world so if I were to be in a relationship, I'd like to be with someone who isnt bat shit crazy about crystals and spirituality or some shit but on the other hand, isn't close minded and focussed on the basic human-made copes of our everyday lives (if that makes sense. I also want someone who is nurturing and sensitive as that would make for a perfect wife, someone who I know isn't going to challenge me on my masculinity or be toxic and abusive. I want someone who basically, pulls me back down to earth when I'm getting too ahead of myself, someone who knows what they want, someone who is just funny and goofy with an edge to their humour, someone who isnt a snowflake and is traditional in some regard. That's what I want out of my partner but who knows if I'll ever meet that person. hell I might just be in and out of more one sided textationships or heart breaking relationships. I guess.
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Uyanda
Okay so I know this is negetive but I genuinely need advice. So rn I'm in a relationship with someone and I feel like either I've placed such a dependence on her that Im pushing her away or she's drifting away on her own. In the last 2 months alone we went from being insepretable to her choosing to spend more time with her friends then often leading to us seeing each other once per week. And let's say that we are holding hands and a certain guy walks by, she'd snatch her hand from mine either being consciously or sub consciously. I spoke to her about the little time we do get to talk and the fact that she'd be online and never answer my messages to the point that I eventually given up and blocked her. I know it's vain and I know I seem like I'm controlling, but I come from a family that has a controlling male figure and try my best to be not like him at all to the point that I never say anything when I feel threatened or uncomfortable when there are ppl that I don't like around us. To anyone whose read this far may you plz give me some advice I really like her and would hate to see her leave me
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Okay so I know this is negetive but I genuinely need advice. So rn I'm in a relationship with someone and I feel like either I've placed such a dependence on her that Im pushing her away or she's drifting away on her own. In the last 2 months alone we went from being insepretable to her choosing to spend more time with her friends then often leading to us seeing each other once per week. And let's say that we are holding hands and a certain guy walks by, she'd snatch her hand from mine either being consciously or sub consciously. I spoke to her about the little time we do get to talk and the fact that she'd be online and never answer my messages to the point that I eventually given up and blocked her. I know it's vain and I know I seem like I'm controlling, but I come from a family that has a controlling male figure and try my best to be not like him at all to the point that I never say anything when I feel threatened or uncomfortable when there are ppl that I don't like around us. To anyone whose read this far may you plz give me some advice I really like her and would hate to see her leave me
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Horace
I'd say that it's a waste of time for me to find someone to love. It's how I was raised. During my times in secondary and highschool, they told me to focus on my studies, and kill any romantic emotions if I have any for someone.
Of course, everyone would tell me that I still have at most 20 more years to find someone. Then let me ask you all something: Would you all love a 30 year-old man who can't even know how to make some time for his love ones just to focus on his works and private life; or would you all love a 20 year-old man who can go out and see you any time you both like.
. .. This is all just a rambling, of course. But. .. for me, I knew from the start that no one would ever love me, and even if there is, then I probably wouldn't be able to find that person in this life. Hope y'all will have a better life than mine. I'm just gonna live on as a bachelor that enjoys romcom light novels now
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I'd say that it's a waste of time for me to find someone to love. It's how I was raised. During my times in secondary and highschool, they told me to focus on my studies, and kill any romantic emotions if I have any for someone.
Of course, everyone would tell me that I still have at most 20 more years to find someone. Then let me ask you all something: Would you all love a 30 year-old man who can't even know how to make some time for his love ones just to focus on his works and private life; or would you all love a 20 year-old man who can go out and see you any time you both like.
. .. This is all just a rambling, of course. But. .. for me, I knew from the start that no one would ever love me, and even if there is, then I probably wouldn't be able to find that person in this life. Hope y'all will have a better life than mine. I'm just gonna live on as a bachelor that enjoys romcom light novels now
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DeKage
I would add that not all red flags, are red flags. Often ppl think a red flag is something that is simply smaller then it is. In my case, helping those less fortunate then my self, has often made my past partners see red flags and assume I am doing something wrong. In fact I have helped many ppl through my years, women, men, and even children. At first glance, they saw them as red flags, however, my partner now shares this passion with me and we now work together to help others. In short, always make sure it's really a red flag instead of assuming the worst, cause it might just be green. Though, the past partners assuming this of me, was a red flag after all, with zero understanding, and many selfish patterns. It takes two you know.
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I would add that not all red flags, are red flags. Often ppl think a red flag is something that is simply smaller then it is. In my case, helping those less fortunate then my self, has often made my past partners see red flags and assume I am doing something wrong. In fact I have helped many ppl through my years, women, men, and even children. At first glance, they saw them as red flags, however, my partner now shares this passion with me and we now work together to help others. In short, always make sure it's really a red flag instead of assuming the worst, cause it might just be green. Though, the past partners assuming this of me, was a red flag after all, with zero understanding, and many selfish patterns. It takes two you know.
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Arturo
I'm single and I was never interested in anyone in my entire life. However, I do remember the times I had to reject people before the pandemic happened. I never made any new friends when I was in high school since most of them are a bunch of jerks and bad influences. And if you're wondering, No. I never had a girlfriend/crush either. Three girls at the time actually tried to ask me out and I was not even flattered. I was honestly confused because I had no idea if they really had a crush on me or if they're just making fun of me. And just like that, I rejected all three of them and continued isolating myself for the rest of my high school years until I started going to college.
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I'm single and I was never interested in anyone in my entire life. However, I do remember the times I had to reject people before the pandemic happened. I never made any new friends when I was in high school since most of them are a bunch of jerks and bad influences. And if you're wondering, No. I never had a girlfriend/crush either. Three girls at the time actually tried to ask me out and I was not even flattered. I was honestly confused because I had no idea if they really had a crush on me or if they're just making fun of me. And just like that, I rejected all three of them and continued isolating myself for the rest of my high school years until I started going to college.
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BlackHole137
What does it mean if i have a very healthy life but feel absolutely miserable because i can't find love? I workout every day, spend most of my time studying, quit everything expect weed, stopped using social media and binging videogames, eat healthy. I'm genuinely confident in myself and love myself and everyone still gives me the same useless advice about focusing on myself and loving myself and bla bla bla but whats really the point of all these things if they don't really get me any closer to what really matters and makes my life worth it?
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What does it mean if i have a very healthy life but feel absolutely miserable because i can't find love? I workout every day, spend most of my time studying, quit everything expect weed, stopped using social media and binging videogames, eat healthy. I'm genuinely confident in myself and love myself and everyone still gives me the same useless advice about focusing on myself and loving myself and bla bla bla but whats really the point of all these things if they don't really get me any closer to what really matters and makes my life worth it?
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themanicman
Here is a way to help one realize how they should treat themselves to love themselves
Think of someone you care about someone you truly loved it doesn't have to be romantic love just any form of love
A best friend a family member put them in your head and think about them
Now when you're about to say something horrible to yourself think about that person would you say that to them if the answer is no then don't do it to yourself
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Here is a way to help one realize how they should treat themselves to love themselves
Think of someone you care about someone you truly loved it doesn't have to be romantic love just any form of love
A best friend a family member put them in your head and think about them
Now when you're about to say something horrible to yourself think about that person would you say that to them if the answer is no then don't do it to yourself
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half_chub
honestly the most important thing to me above sharing interests is being TRULY open minded. i wouldnt be able to stand being with someone who has no intention of letting their mind be changed when it comes to political/theological/philosophical or whatever topics. i dont care what someone believes for the most part as long as you are still a good person, if there is a connection, im willing to make it work.
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honestly the most important thing to me above sharing interests is being TRULY open minded. i wouldnt be able to stand being with someone who has no intention of letting their mind be changed when it comes to political/theological/philosophical or whatever topics. i dont care what someone believes for the most part as long as you are still a good person, if there is a connection, im willing to make it work.
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Joe
If you love someone truly yes you have to work at it and if your love supposedly waivers you need to tell the other person because you taking them for a rollercoaster ride is messed up no one will love you as much as you love them and that is what infuriates me if you love someone it will never waiver point blank period and if you believe that it does you're a fuking idiot
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If you love someone truly yes you have to work at it and if your love supposedly waivers you need to tell the other person because you taking them for a rollercoaster ride is messed up no one will love you as much as you love them and that is what infuriates me if you love someone it will never waiver point blank period and if you believe that it does you're a fuking idiot
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John
I treat everyone with relative indifference. If i am in a relationship, this does not change much. I simply relax more with the one i am with at the time and my body language is more inviting.
Like my current girlfriend, she likes to lay on me and i let that happen. same was in my previous relationships. i would just go with the flow.
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I treat everyone with relative indifference. If i am in a relationship, this does not change much. I simply relax more with the one i am with at the time and my body language is more inviting.
Like my current girlfriend, she likes to lay on me and i let that happen. same was in my previous relationships. i would just go with the flow.
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The
Wow! Those butterflies in my stomach that I used to feel
The excitement I had the night before going to school
My heart would just race at her sight. I was so happy to talk with her everyday but sadly the feelings were not mutual and this is how my unrequited love pains me everyday
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Wow! Those butterflies in my stomach that I used to feel
The excitement I had the night before going to school
My heart would just race at her sight. I was so happy to talk with her everyday but sadly the feelings were not mutual and this is how my unrequited love pains me everyday
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ECELextra
Finding love is so damn hard. I have depression, severe social anxiety, ADHD, and Aspergers, not to mention Im an ex-Mormon living in Utah. The times I thought I found love, I ended up reading signals completely wrong or getting pushed away. Im giving up and getting a pet.
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Finding love is so damn hard. I have depression, severe social anxiety, ADHD, and Aspergers, not to mention Im an ex-Mormon living in Utah. The times I thought I found love, I ended up reading signals completely wrong or getting pushed away. Im giving up and getting a pet.
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Archie's
This video is more about how to make love last and be cautious about red flags and such stuff, but its NOT about how to find true love. Please change the title, it's basically click-bait. This video is still good, but it's not what I was expecting when I clicked on it
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This video is more about how to make love last and be cautious about red flags and such stuff, but its NOT about how to find true love. Please change the title, it's basically click-bait. This video is still good, but it's not what I was expecting when I clicked on it
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Snapjlr
No bro, you cant have a functioning and healthy relationship if you cant love yourself. From what I have seen in my own relationships and others, if you cant love yourself you will never be able to fully love another person. Just wanted to nitpick that.
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No bro, you cant have a functioning and healthy relationship if you cant love yourself. From what I have seen in my own relationships and others, if you cant love yourself you will never be able to fully love another person. Just wanted to nitpick that.
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manish
When night I was with my crush at the roof in the night around 12o clock me and she alone and that moment I feel something different feeling for the first time and i remember that feeling now I know that the feeling is love feeling
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When night I was with my crush at the roof in the night around 12o clock me and she alone and that moment I feel something different feeling for the first time and i remember that feeling now I know that the feeling is love feeling
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Patriotic
I'm looking for someone who shares a scientific based mind I'm fine with religion etc too but I like a more logical mind and very humorous like this video said good foundation those are two things I love and all I need.
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I'm looking for someone who shares a scientific based mind I'm fine with religion etc too but I like a more logical mind and very humorous like this video said good foundation those are two things I love and all I need.
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Desiree
I'm probably gonna get a lot of hate for this, but what am I looking for? A man who's truly comfortable with me being a trans woman and doesn't just see me as a PornHub fetish. Never gonna happen. Let the trolls awaken.
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I'm probably gonna get a lot of hate for this, but what am I looking for? A man who's truly comfortable with me being a trans woman and doesn't just see me as a PornHub fetish. Never gonna happen. Let the trolls awaken.
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gremlin2550
I thought I did twice, but now I'm choosing to be alone insted of chasing my better half, now im happier then ever. Whether short term or long term I've always been misrable in relationships.
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I thought I did twice, but now I'm choosing to be alone insted of chasing my better half, now im happier then ever. Whether short term or long term I've always been misrable in relationships.
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Garvita
A loving partner should listen and try to understand my problems if not able to give a solution, and they should also share their problems and discuss them with me to find a solution together.
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A loving partner should listen and try to understand my problems if not able to give a solution, and they should also share their problems and discuss them with me to find a solution together.
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nobody_really
Right now I don't have any crushes or anything like that. But I would like to experience someday what is it like to be with someone you genuinely love or like in romantic way.
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Right now I don't have any crushes or anything like that. But I would like to experience someday what is it like to be with someone you genuinely love or like in romantic way.
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solar
Trust, loyalty, caring, communication, willingness to work things out, never giving up, supporting each other being a team being reliable honest and forgiving and understanding.
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Trust, loyalty, caring, communication, willingness to work things out, never giving up, supporting each other being a team being reliable honest and forgiving and understanding.
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MrKaktusPL
How do you believe in someones feeling towards you, when you already got cheated, lied to, and played with, when giving all you had to someone you thought loves you back?
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How do you believe in someones feeling towards you, when you already got cheated, lied to, and played with, when giving all you had to someone you thought loves you back?
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Sativa
I dont think love is very calculated you can definitely be very good at developing attraction, but even then I dont think theres any good advice about it on the internet
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I dont think love is very calculated you can definitely be very good at developing attraction, but even then I dont think theres any good advice about it on the internet
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NotYung
People need to look for greenflags more, i feel like as humans were naturally trained to sense danger. We never get to sit down and be like '' haaaaaa relaxed exhale
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People need to look for greenflags more, i feel like as humans were naturally trained to sense danger. We never get to sit down and be like '' haaaaaa relaxed exhale
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