8 Signs You're Being Used, Not Loved
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Because this has bugged me for a while in my relationship.
Date: 2024-03-14
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marian_hayes
This video reminds me of my aunt and uncle. So when they got married, my aunt told my mom that my uncle constantly said horrible things about her and then claimed they were just a joke. My mom reminded my aunt that she didn’t have to marry him, but she was determined. Now, they’ve been married for over a decade and have a 5 year old daughter. And my uncle also bought a purebred chocolate lab cuz all his friends have them and he thinks that having one will fulfill his happiness. The problem is that this dog is the worst dog I’ve ever known. He eats furniture and goes after their neighbors and goes to the bathroom where he’s not supposed to. My aunt doesn’t like the dog and really wants to get rid of him, but my uncle told her that one of his former girlfriends got rid of a dog he bought, which in his mind, meant that she didn’t love him, so he won’t let my aunt get rid of this dog. In addition to that, my aunt’s an elementary art teacher and my uncle works in advertising, so he has an easier job than her, but he doesn’t realize that. After work, he makes her do all the housework and take care of the kid and the dog, while he goes off and sees baseball games and concerts. He claims he has to be doing all these activities that cost SO much money or else he feels miserable. I hope that either my aunt and uncle’s relationship will either change for the better or that my aunt just gets out of it.
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This video reminds me of my aunt and uncle. So when they got married, my aunt told my mom that my uncle constantly said horrible things about her and then claimed they were just a joke. My mom reminded my aunt that she didn’t have to marry him, but she was determined. Now, they’ve been married for over a decade and have a 5 year old daughter. And my uncle also bought a purebred chocolate lab cuz all his friends have them and he thinks that having one will fulfill his happiness. The problem is that this dog is the worst dog I’ve ever known. He eats furniture and goes after their neighbors and goes to the bathroom where he’s not supposed to. My aunt doesn’t like the dog and really wants to get rid of him, but my uncle told her that one of his former girlfriends got rid of a dog he bought, which in his mind, meant that she didn’t love him, so he won’t let my aunt get rid of this dog. In addition to that, my aunt’s an elementary art teacher and my uncle works in advertising, so he has an easier job than her, but he doesn’t realize that. After work, he makes her do all the housework and take care of the kid and the dog, while he goes off and sees baseball games and concerts. He claims he has to be doing all these activities that cost SO much money or else he feels miserable. I hope that either my aunt and uncle’s relationship will either change for the better or that my aunt just gets out of it.
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R-of-R
Before I mention what I want to say, I must say that Psych2Go has carried half of my life. I got around places I wouldn’t have without the advices of these videos they make. But look, the problem with these videos is that 99% are signs and 1% are how to deal with them, and thats what I had to find out myself. On top of this, they have 50 videos on the same subject giving you the almost the same signs with different wording. Making extra videos on the same thing is not going to make mental health more accessible to everyone’.
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Before I mention what I want to say, I must say that Psych2Go has carried half of my life. I got around places I wouldn’t have without the advices of these videos they make. But look, the problem with these videos is that 99% are signs and 1% are how to deal with them, and thats what I had to find out myself. On top of this, they have 50 videos on the same subject giving you the almost the same signs with different wording. Making extra videos on the same thing is not going to make mental health more accessible to everyone’.
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psych2go
Hello guys, during my life I met a lot of toxic, manipulate and other kinds of people. These people come and then just leave you the same fast way they got to you. But everything has better sides too! It might seem crazy but when you meet these kinds of people you realize that you never valued your true friends as much as you should have and more! But also remember manipulators and other people using dark psychology are people too. But as in every live being there is good and bad in them just like everyone else.
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Hello guys, during my life I met a lot of toxic, manipulate and other kinds of people. These people come and then just leave you the same fast way they got to you. But everything has better sides too! It might seem crazy but when you meet these kinds of people you realize that you never valued your true friends as much as you should have and more! But also remember manipulators and other people using dark psychology are people too. But as in every live being there is good and bad in them just like everyone else.
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DevinJHiggins
Few things are as painful as realizing that the person you've developed feelings for over weeks/months/years has just been using you to fill a temporary hole in their lives until they find someone they 'deserve' or feel entitled to.
That experience was so awful that I quit relationships and social engagement with people in general. Thirteen years later, I'm in a better place, but also have zero interest in opening myself up for that kind of hurt again.
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Few things are as painful as realizing that the person you've developed feelings for over weeks/months/years has just been using you to fill a temporary hole in their lives until they find someone they 'deserve' or feel entitled to.
That experience was so awful that I quit relationships and social engagement with people in general. Thirteen years later, I'm in a better place, but also have zero interest in opening myself up for that kind of hurt again.
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elivanto1673
I got used by a Ukranian woman I found on OnlyFans. She pleaded for help because of the war so I was very helpful. She gave me all I wanted at first, but as time progressed she just wanted more and more of my money and rewarded my with nothing, making a lot of empty promises. Then she just disappeared. I don't know why. I lost more money to her than I want to admit. Biggest mistake of my life. Stay away from porn. It nearly destroyed me.
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I got used by a Ukranian woman I found on OnlyFans. She pleaded for help because of the war so I was very helpful. She gave me all I wanted at first, but as time progressed she just wanted more and more of my money and rewarded my with nothing, making a lot of empty promises. Then she just disappeared. I don't know why. I lost more money to her than I want to admit. Biggest mistake of my life. Stay away from porn. It nearly destroyed me.
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tymajenga276
I knew my abuser would leave forever once I told her everything I knew she was doing cheating and the like alot, I suffered in hopes it was me getting the better of me and not wanting to turn everuone against her setious dr Jekyll and mrs hyde situation then when I did tell her years after we broke up she laughed at me and disappeared forever
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I knew my abuser would leave forever once I told her everything I knew she was doing cheating and the like alot, I suffered in hopes it was me getting the better of me and not wanting to turn everuone against her setious dr Jekyll and mrs hyde situation then when I did tell her years after we broke up she laughed at me and disappeared forever
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psych2go
This video came at a perfect time, it feels like I'm not loved by anyone, family, friends, sister. I'm just a tool everyone comes to me whenever they need help, but when I try to reach out for help. Nobody is there. Nobody is willing to be there for me. I wonder if I'm truly loved or just expendable to everyone around me. I hate my life.
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This video came at a perfect time, it feels like I'm not loved by anyone, family, friends, sister. I'm just a tool everyone comes to me whenever they need help, but when I try to reach out for help. Nobody is there. Nobody is willing to be there for me. I wonder if I'm truly loved or just expendable to everyone around me. I hate my life.
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andreajones65
Timestamps:
1- 0: 31 disinterest
2- 1: 12 high expectations
3- 1: 55 boundaries
4- 2: 47 relationship feels imbalanced/one-sided
5- 3: 34 everyone owes them
6- 4: 08 growth and maturity
7- 4: 54 communication issues
8- 5: 26 hidden goblin
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Timestamps:
1- 0: 31 disinterest
2- 1: 12 high expectations
3- 1: 55 boundaries
4- 2: 47 relationship feels imbalanced/one-sided
5- 3: 34 everyone owes them
6- 4: 08 growth and maturity
7- 4: 54 communication issues
8- 5: 26 hidden goblin
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dko61
When to run: - My personal experience
Do not call or stay in touch.
Leaves after sx.
Do not spend money on you.
Not moved by any of your concerns.
Do not learn you.
Repeats the same offenses over and over again.
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When to run: - My personal experience
Do not call or stay in touch.
Leaves after sx.
Do not spend money on you.
Not moved by any of your concerns.
Do not learn you.
Repeats the same offenses over and over again.
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giulianaartist6664
This video came jist in time, i needed to see this, im already broken up woth my ex but he wants to remains friends because he cares about me yet where was that caring nature when we were together Nowhere at all
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This video came jist in time, i needed to see this, im already broken up woth my ex but he wants to remains friends because he cares about me yet where was that caring nature when we were together Nowhere at all
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tempertenchi
I just finally broke off a very toxic relationship and these (and much more issues) where all present. its nice to see people talking about it since I was sometimes made to feel like I was going crazy.
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I just finally broke off a very toxic relationship and these (and much more issues) where all present. its nice to see people talking about it since I was sometimes made to feel like I was going crazy.
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Psych2go
Do you know if you're being taken advantage of Here's this video inform you on how to avoid getting into the situation. Share this video as you might help someone else out too!
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Do you know if you're being taken advantage of Here's this video inform you on how to avoid getting into the situation. Share this video as you might help someone else out too!
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anwarallie
Yeah I've been in a relationship like that. It sucks. It sucks even worse when you realise that this is happening when all along you thought it was love. You live, you learn.
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Yeah I've been in a relationship like that. It sucks. It sucks even worse when you realise that this is happening when all along you thought it was love. You live, you learn.
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Panpunk420
What do I do if I finally know my crushes stance, and he doesn’t want me. He chooses a different yet, much more acceptable way! But it doesn’t excuse his war crimes!
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What do I do if I finally know my crushes stance, and he doesn’t want me. He chooses a different yet, much more acceptable way! But it doesn’t excuse his war crimes!
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psych2go
Looks like I need to improve some things about myself in my relationship, I don’t know how to act in a relationship, so I’m learning as I go. this video helps
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Looks like I need to improve some things about myself in my relationship, I don’t know how to act in a relationship, so I’m learning as I go. this video helps
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girlycanttalk2026
Is it still an issue if the other person says sorry ive been stressed every time you bring up an issue but they never change and keep doing it
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Is it still an issue if the other person says sorry ive been stressed every time you bring up an issue but they never change and keep doing it
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JL15545
Sometimes it felt like genuine love and that they truly cared, but other times, it seemed like I was just a pawn in someone else’s game.
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Sometimes it felt like genuine love and that they truly cared, but other times, it seemed like I was just a pawn in someone else’s game.
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ruckbuk
I don't know why this topic caught my attention instantly, but it's sure intriguing and something I should take note of I'll say this
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I don't know why this topic caught my attention instantly, but it's sure intriguing and something I should take note of I'll say this
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luvqraft6024
Sometimes a person comes on way too strong and has to be avoided telling them straight out falls on deaf ears, over and over.
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Sometimes a person comes on way too strong and has to be avoided telling them straight out falls on deaf ears, over and over.
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