HABITS That Are Destroying Your Charm
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Date: 2024-08-12
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WolfTruths
Here are the timestamps 1. Intro 0: 00 2. Backbiting 0: 26 3. Masking brutality as honesty 1: 02 4. Never keeping time 1: 52 5. Unreliable 2: 22 6. Control freak 2: 56 7. Impolite behavior 3: 20 8. Self-centeredness 3: 58 9. Constantly creating conflicts 4: 15 10. Neglecting personal grooming 4: 47 11. Talking over others 5: 16 12. Pervasive negativity 5: 45 13. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 6: 44 14. Always in competition with others 7: 49 15. Lack of self-confidence 8: 14 16. Breaking your promises 8: 49 17. Not getting enough sleep 9: 14 18. conclusion 9: 40
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Here are the timestamps 1. Intro 0: 00 2. Backbiting 0: 26 3. Masking brutality as honesty 1: 02 4. Never keeping time 1: 52 5. Unreliable 2: 22 6. Control freak 2: 56 7. Impolite behavior 3: 20 8. Self-centeredness 3: 58 9. Constantly creating conflicts 4: 15 10. Neglecting personal grooming 4: 47 11. Talking over others 5: 16 12. Pervasive negativity 5: 45 13. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 6: 44 14. Always in competition with others 7: 49 15. Lack of self-confidence 8: 14 16. Breaking your promises 8: 49 17. Not getting enough sleep 9: 14 18. conclusion 9: 40
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oooooooo400
Masking brutality as honesty - sorry i dont agree with this. We are living in society where instead of saying honestly what we feel we are supporting wrong behaviour with kindness. Honesty is sometimes brutal and thats the fact, especially when person who never heard this kind of honesty will get it and be upset just because of one truth. And this has to stop, because then each time somebody is wrong doing he will not learn from the mistake and it will make passively aggresive more people. For example: some population is not working only parasiting on the society. Everyone know about that but say nothing, trying to make kind solutions to make them understand what are they doing wrong but they know it and still not doing something against it only getting advantage of the people which leads to frustration in population and radicalizating them.
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Masking brutality as honesty - sorry i dont agree with this. We are living in society where instead of saying honestly what we feel we are supporting wrong behaviour with kindness. Honesty is sometimes brutal and thats the fact, especially when person who never heard this kind of honesty will get it and be upset just because of one truth. And this has to stop, because then each time somebody is wrong doing he will not learn from the mistake and it will make passively aggresive more people. For example: some population is not working only parasiting on the society. Everyone know about that but say nothing, trying to make kind solutions to make them understand what are they doing wrong but they know it and still not doing something against it only getting advantage of the people which leads to frustration in population and radicalizating them.
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A55a551n
Timestamps
1. Backbiting 0: 23
2. Masking brutality is honesty 1: 00
3. Never keeping time 1: 51
4. Unreliable 2: 21
5. Control freak 2: 54
6. Impolite behaviour 3: 18
7. Self-centeredness 3: 57
8. Constantly creating conflicts 4: 13
9. Neglecting personal grooming 4: 45
10. Talking over others 5: 16
11. Pervasive negativity 5: 43
12. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 6: 43
13. Always in competition with others 7: 48
14. Lack of self-confidence 8: 13
15. Breaking your promise 8: 48
16. Not getting enough sleep 9: 12
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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Timestamps
1. Backbiting 0: 23
2. Masking brutality is honesty 1: 00
3. Never keeping time 1: 51
4. Unreliable 2: 21
5. Control freak 2: 54
6. Impolite behaviour 3: 18
7. Self-centeredness 3: 57
8. Constantly creating conflicts 4: 13
9. Neglecting personal grooming 4: 45
10. Talking over others 5: 16
11. Pervasive negativity 5: 43
12. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled 6: 43
13. Always in competition with others 7: 48
14. Lack of self-confidence 8: 13
15. Breaking your promise 8: 48
16. Not getting enough sleep 9: 12
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day.
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aperks
0: 01 INTRO
0: 24 1. Backbiting
1: 00 2. Masking brutality as honesty
1: 51 3. Never keeping time
2: 20 4. Unreliable
2: 55 5. Control freak
3: 19 6. Impolite behavior
3: 56 7. Self-centeredness
4: 14 8. Constantly creating conflicts
4: 46 9. Neglecting personal grooming
5: 16 10. Talking over others
5: 43 11. Pervasive negativity
6: 43 12. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7: 48 13. Always in competition with others
8: 12 14. Lack of self-confidence
8: 49 15. Breaking your promises
9: 13 16. Not getting enough sleep
9: 38 OUTRO
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0: 01 INTRO
0: 24 1. Backbiting
1: 00 2. Masking brutality as honesty
1: 51 3. Never keeping time
2: 20 4. Unreliable
2: 55 5. Control freak
3: 19 6. Impolite behavior
3: 56 7. Self-centeredness
4: 14 8. Constantly creating conflicts
4: 46 9. Neglecting personal grooming
5: 16 10. Talking over others
5: 43 11. Pervasive negativity
6: 43 12. Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7: 48 13. Always in competition with others
8: 12 14. Lack of self-confidence
8: 49 15. Breaking your promises
9: 13 16. Not getting enough sleep
9: 38 OUTRO
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eugenekrabs3837
I don't think you guys understand what charm actually is being charming is being able to read people and adapt to them now what's the point of that to gain trust to be accepted or to gain something physical or financial perhaps see what you guys are describing is being a generally pleasant person nothing more being charming is winning people over having them like you having them be drawn to you see a charming person has to agreeable because if they're not that charm goes away being nice to people doesn't make you charming
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I don't think you guys understand what charm actually is being charming is being able to read people and adapt to them now what's the point of that to gain trust to be accepted or to gain something physical or financial perhaps see what you guys are describing is being a generally pleasant person nothing more being charming is winning people over having them like you having them be drawn to you see a charming person has to agreeable because if they're not that charm goes away being nice to people doesn't make you charming
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_devilfish303
i had a friend, told her i did not like gossiping, assured me she wasn't like that, first thing she did when we hung out was talk mad about our other mutual acquaintances and friends. Wanted nothing to do with her shortly after, gives me the impression of if they talk to you, they talk about you whenever i see this behavior. And ever since I stopped hanging out, I was proven right, I was suddenly the target of many rumors soon after.
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i had a friend, told her i did not like gossiping, assured me she wasn't like that, first thing she did when we hung out was talk mad about our other mutual acquaintances and friends. Wanted nothing to do with her shortly after, gives me the impression of if they talk to you, they talk about you whenever i see this behavior. And ever since I stopped hanging out, I was proven right, I was suddenly the target of many rumors soon after.
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EldritchMephi
My biggest issues are personal grooming (i feel too ugly to even bother with it, talking over others (i am overly excited to relate to others and talk out of turn, pervasive negativity (not towards others but regarding myself, always in competition (i am not good at much of anything and it makes me jealous, and lack of self-confidence (almost nonexistent.
I hope one day a woman will take pity on me and let me be their partner: (
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My biggest issues are personal grooming (i feel too ugly to even bother with it, talking over others (i am overly excited to relate to others and talk out of turn, pervasive negativity (not towards others but regarding myself, always in competition (i am not good at much of anything and it makes me jealous, and lack of self-confidence (almost nonexistent.
I hope one day a woman will take pity on me and let me be their partner: (
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Random_idiocy13
Something I think people mistake for charm is the charm they see in media, like being hot and mysterious when in reality someone might just see that person as creepy. Being charming is realistically about being kind and open to create those connections and keeping them once they're established. You're already enough, there's nothing you have to change to suddenly be charming, just know yourself and know the people around you.
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Something I think people mistake for charm is the charm they see in media, like being hot and mysterious when in reality someone might just see that person as creepy. Being charming is realistically about being kind and open to create those connections and keeping them once they're established. You're already enough, there's nothing you have to change to suddenly be charming, just know yourself and know the people around you.
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voidraldarken
This is actually really informative for me.
As someone who isn’t doing great socially, I identified having 7 out of 16 of those issues (which is far too many for my liking.
I could definitely relate in seeing most of those traits in other people or myself.
This will probably help me improve myself so much easier now that I know what to look out for, thank you so much for making this video.
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This is actually really informative for me.
As someone who isn’t doing great socially, I identified having 7 out of 16 of those issues (which is far too many for my liking.
I could definitely relate in seeing most of those traits in other people or myself.
This will probably help me improve myself so much easier now that I know what to look out for, thank you so much for making this video.
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MegaManNeo
I think I get most of these things right.
Wouldn't exactly call myself call good looking or good smelling though.
I am progressing information really slow so it often happens that I start talking over others and instantly apologize for it. Need to learn to be a little more patience again. Was way better at that when I was more shy few years back.
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I think I get most of these things right.
Wouldn't exactly call myself call good looking or good smelling though.
I am progressing information really slow so it often happens that I start talking over others and instantly apologize for it. Need to learn to be a little more patience again. Was way better at that when I was more shy few years back.
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Rarldd
I wonder how I balance self-focus with other-focus. Especially when it's an online conversation with someone I've never met in real life, I'll either ask the other person questions throughout the conversation or I'll talk about myself completely, i dont know how to explain it but makes the way i communicate weird. can anyone shed a light on that
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I wonder how I balance self-focus with other-focus. Especially when it's an online conversation with someone I've never met in real life, I'll either ask the other person questions throughout the conversation or I'll talk about myself completely, i dont know how to explain it but makes the way i communicate weird. can anyone shed a light on that
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gimigimwom6903
0: 01 Intro
0: 05 Among us
0: 24 Backbiting
1: 01 Masking brutality as honesty
1: 51 Never keeping time
2: 55 Control Freak
3: 56 Self-centeredness
5: 55 Pervasive negativity
6: 43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7: 49 Always in competition with others
8: 14 Lack of self-confidence
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0: 01 Intro
0: 05 Among us
0: 24 Backbiting
1: 01 Masking brutality as honesty
1: 51 Never keeping time
2: 55 Control Freak
3: 56 Self-centeredness
5: 55 Pervasive negativity
6: 43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7: 49 Always in competition with others
8: 14 Lack of self-confidence
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AC-ni4gt
Ok this makes it a bit harder as an autistic. It also could be the same with those who have ADHD.
1) We don't even notice what we're doing is wrong unless it's been gently pointed out and corrected.
2) We are brutally honest by nature. There is no off-switch for it.
3) Complete space cadet with punctuality.
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Ok this makes it a bit harder as an autistic. It also could be the same with those who have ADHD.
1) We don't even notice what we're doing is wrong unless it's been gently pointed out and corrected.
2) We are brutally honest by nature. There is no off-switch for it.
3) Complete space cadet with punctuality.
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Fianacraft
0: 24 Backbiting
1: 01 Masking brutality as honesty
1: 51 Never keeping time
2: 55 Control Freak
3: 56 Self-centeredness
5: 55 Pervasive negativity
6: 43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7: 49 Always in competition with others
8: 14 Lack of self-confidence
hope that helps
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0: 24 Backbiting
1: 01 Masking brutality as honesty
1: 51 Never keeping time
2: 55 Control Freak
3: 56 Self-centeredness
5: 55 Pervasive negativity
6: 43 Arrogance and feeling excessively entitled
7: 49 Always in competition with others
8: 14 Lack of self-confidence
hope that helps
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lerneanlion
I suffered from the significant things mentioned in this video, especially from pervasive negativity and lack self-confidence. Are the solutions to them really that simple How can I be sure that I am not walking into the traps of peoples who wanted to hurt me for their own sadistic enjoyments
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I suffered from the significant things mentioned in this video, especially from pervasive negativity and lack self-confidence. Are the solutions to them really that simple How can I be sure that I am not walking into the traps of peoples who wanted to hurt me for their own sadistic enjoyments
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VolcanixAquatix
Some of these are literally out of my control because of my disorders. people will either like me for who I am, or they won't. Not to say this isn't good advice for folks, but I wanted to comment so that others who feel like I do, don't feel alone or alienated.
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Some of these are literally out of my control because of my disorders. people will either like me for who I am, or they won't. Not to say this isn't good advice for folks, but I wanted to comment so that others who feel like I do, don't feel alone or alienated.
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Rowdyrough13
I’d rather look unappealing so that those around me aren’t there for appearance but rather who I am.
I tell people to be careful what they give me because if I like it, it will get ruined. Like with the clothes I like I wear them to their death.
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I’d rather look unappealing so that those around me aren’t there for appearance but rather who I am.
I tell people to be careful what they give me because if I like it, it will get ruined. Like with the clothes I like I wear them to their death.
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education
I have a genuine question please i hope you read this
I have dealing with this for a long time is it normal to be abnormally happy that you dont notice that your doing something wrong like happy even when its not supposed to
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I have a genuine question please i hope you read this
I have dealing with this for a long time is it normal to be abnormally happy that you dont notice that your doing something wrong like happy even when its not supposed to
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damnablethief
I am to honest. it just makes other people mad. It's crazy to me, because I watch these videos and I am always like but I don't do any of that. and still noone likes me. Because I am ugly. Prob gonna die alone
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I am to honest. it just makes other people mad. It's crazy to me, because I watch these videos and I am always like but I don't do any of that. and still noone likes me. Because I am ugly. Prob gonna die alone
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gehteuchnixan3052
Seems like the two things I don't do on this list actually do completely negate doing all the other things. Though I don't intend of acting those to 'appear' charming. That honestly feels deceptive to me.
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Seems like the two things I don't do on this list actually do completely negate doing all the other things. Though I don't intend of acting those to 'appear' charming. That honestly feels deceptive to me.
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