5 Reasons Why Parents Abuse Their Children
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Date: 2024-08-14
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psych2go
Funny enough my mom treats like crap. She hits me throws things at me, shes pulled her gun on me vefore, tried to take me. One time she gave me a hematoma on my head because she threw her phone at me with such force that I was bleeding. Those are just a few things she does
The times I stood up to her actions by pushing her away from me, she called the police saying I hit her. The police checked her out at concluded that shes fine vut they arrested me. This entire summer I spent my days in juvenile.
I'm 15, and I'm 6'0ft because of a genectic disorder. The police make me seem like the aggressor because of my height. They also antagonize me.
Im living with my nana temporarily but I might get sent to a group home because of the time she had me arrested, because of this, I tired to take my life. My mom said I was just playing roles, that im crazy, that she dosent want me. Everything she said is when we were at the hospital.
CPS has gotten involved but nothing has happend. I dont know what to do.
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Funny enough my mom treats like crap. She hits me throws things at me, shes pulled her gun on me vefore, tried to take me. One time she gave me a hematoma on my head because she threw her phone at me with such force that I was bleeding. Those are just a few things she does
The times I stood up to her actions by pushing her away from me, she called the police saying I hit her. The police checked her out at concluded that shes fine vut they arrested me. This entire summer I spent my days in juvenile.
I'm 15, and I'm 6'0ft because of a genectic disorder. The police make me seem like the aggressor because of my height. They also antagonize me.
Im living with my nana temporarily but I might get sent to a group home because of the time she had me arrested, because of this, I tired to take my life. My mom said I was just playing roles, that im crazy, that she dosent want me. Everything she said is when we were at the hospital.
CPS has gotten involved but nothing has happend. I dont know what to do.
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lerneanlion
This is the common problem in Southeast Asia too. And due to because I always afraid to ask or raise my voice to object this because it might led me to be ostracized by the society for not sharing the same view, I always believed that the parents in my country simply viewed their children as their properties with no rights whatsoever and they can do whatever they wanted with their children. And the same also extended to the teachers as well.
Personally, I wanted to raise my voice. But what can I do In fact, some people did and they ended up being ostracized for it. At this point, the only solution I saw is something as radical as the Rumbling from Attack on Titan to make the adults and the society in itself finally regretted what they had done.
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This is the common problem in Southeast Asia too. And due to because I always afraid to ask or raise my voice to object this because it might led me to be ostracized by the society for not sharing the same view, I always believed that the parents in my country simply viewed their children as their properties with no rights whatsoever and they can do whatever they wanted with their children. And the same also extended to the teachers as well.
Personally, I wanted to raise my voice. But what can I do In fact, some people did and they ended up being ostracized for it. At this point, the only solution I saw is something as radical as the Rumbling from Attack on Titan to make the adults and the society in itself finally regretted what they had done.
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farahnaz4181
Suffering from a very long time
Tried that i have to survive it have no other option but its destroying my mental helath completely
Cry every day as i know that its not good for mymental health but i have lost myhappy self sonfident self and it has made me a underconfident and i have lostmy personality completely
Sometimes they tell me to do work which i cant
I cant even brush my own hair sometimes days pass and i dont comb them i dont want to do self care sometimes but sometimes i try to love my self that do i deserve this all when other people tell me you need to groom yourselfthwy dont even. know that its difficult for me sometimes evebto grt out of bed
Its a lot difficult than it seems
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Suffering from a very long time
Tried that i have to survive it have no other option but its destroying my mental helath completely
Cry every day as i know that its not good for mymental health but i have lost myhappy self sonfident self and it has made me a underconfident and i have lostmy personality completely
Sometimes they tell me to do work which i cant
I cant even brush my own hair sometimes days pass and i dont comb them i dont want to do self care sometimes but sometimes i try to love my self that do i deserve this all when other people tell me you need to groom yourselfthwy dont even. know that its difficult for me sometimes evebto grt out of bed
Its a lot difficult than it seems
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sachinmistry1
I feel that my parents were abusive, because they are narcissists. They lack empathy, and can only criticize. My mother was very short tempered and had an explosive temper. She hit my brother a lot. I received occasional physical abuse, but received more verbal abuse. Childhood was filled with a lot of yelling and crying. I think my dad didn't like being around her and us, so he spent much of his time working. He loved his job more than he loved his family. He never really showed interest or care for whats going on with our lives.
I've been going to therapy for the past 6 years or so. It's been helping a lot. I can see that my childhood wasn't great and that its affected me as an adult.
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I feel that my parents were abusive, because they are narcissists. They lack empathy, and can only criticize. My mother was very short tempered and had an explosive temper. She hit my brother a lot. I received occasional physical abuse, but received more verbal abuse. Childhood was filled with a lot of yelling and crying. I think my dad didn't like being around her and us, so he spent much of his time working. He loved his job more than he loved his family. He never really showed interest or care for whats going on with our lives.
I've been going to therapy for the past 6 years or so. It's been helping a lot. I can see that my childhood wasn't great and that its affected me as an adult.
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andreimircea2254
4: 22
Where I come from the parental slap is seen as an acceptable practice by 90% of the parents of the Nation.
I believe in my country’s case it is a situation where not only people need to be properly taught to not hit people, but also to be thought that traditional or natural aren’t inherently good and need to be questioned just like how modern or artificial aren’t inherently bad (as well as the fact that anecdotal evidence is unreliable. If these assumptions were broken, then it would be easy to teach parents that a slap will not help a kid who misbehaved badly in their teenage years and finally prevent abuse to a significant amount.
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4: 22
Where I come from the parental slap is seen as an acceptable practice by 90% of the parents of the Nation.
I believe in my country’s case it is a situation where not only people need to be properly taught to not hit people, but also to be thought that traditional or natural aren’t inherently good and need to be questioned just like how modern or artificial aren’t inherently bad (as well as the fact that anecdotal evidence is unreliable. If these assumptions were broken, then it would be easy to teach parents that a slap will not help a kid who misbehaved badly in their teenage years and finally prevent abuse to a significant amount.
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siennaprice1351
I’m completely blind and on the autism spectrum and I have CPTSD. I was abused by my stepmom. I think it was for many reasons. Maybe she was raised in a toxic environment. Maybe she was just trying to be a parent and discipline me, but I know she handled things inappropriately. As a blind and autistic person, my stepmom had unrealistic expectations of me and unrealistic discipline when I did certain things that were due to my blindness and autism. But I wasn’t the only one in that house that got her nonsense. My dad got it, the dogs got it, my little sisters got it, and even my grandmother. I also had someone that I thought was cool betray me.
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I’m completely blind and on the autism spectrum and I have CPTSD. I was abused by my stepmom. I think it was for many reasons. Maybe she was raised in a toxic environment. Maybe she was just trying to be a parent and discipline me, but I know she handled things inappropriately. As a blind and autistic person, my stepmom had unrealistic expectations of me and unrealistic discipline when I did certain things that were due to my blindness and autism. But I wasn’t the only one in that house that got her nonsense. My dad got it, the dogs got it, my little sisters got it, and even my grandmother. I also had someone that I thought was cool betray me.
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motorcycleman115
There is a stunningly common theme in various communities around the world in which there is an attempt to justify child abuse by claiming the child is at fault when acting a certain way.
This is a lie, because there is ALWAYS a way to parent your child so that they either wont do bad things or will stop when you ask them to without abusing them at all.
The ways children are abused throughout the world come in many forms, and none of it is okay.
If somebody is a parent of, say, a 15 year old, you can always know if you can trust that person based on their answer to the question how do you discipline your child
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There is a stunningly common theme in various communities around the world in which there is an attempt to justify child abuse by claiming the child is at fault when acting a certain way.
This is a lie, because there is ALWAYS a way to parent your child so that they either wont do bad things or will stop when you ask them to without abusing them at all.
The ways children are abused throughout the world come in many forms, and none of it is okay.
If somebody is a parent of, say, a 15 year old, you can always know if you can trust that person based on their answer to the question how do you discipline your child
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staremerson2921
Reasons why parents abuse kids
1. Anger issues
2. Sadistic
3 narcissistic
4. fcked up
5. Fcked up and shouldn't have kids
Abuse may be a cycle that lasts for generations but only you as an adult have the power to end it. I had an abusive father but still love my kids and protect them before I'd even protect myself. You can blame parents for their abusive behavior but you can't blame them if you start treating others the same way. Only you have the power to change/prevent who you become, doesn't matter who tries to tear you down or build you in their image. Sorry, rant over
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Reasons why parents abuse kids
1. Anger issues
2. Sadistic
3 narcissistic
4. fcked up
5. Fcked up and shouldn't have kids
Abuse may be a cycle that lasts for generations but only you as an adult have the power to end it. I had an abusive father but still love my kids and protect them before I'd even protect myself. You can blame parents for their abusive behavior but you can't blame them if you start treating others the same way. Only you have the power to change/prevent who you become, doesn't matter who tries to tear you down or build you in their image. Sorry, rant over
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naximan01
I'm an ex teacher
I personally don't want my own biological children, however I am thinking about adopting someone who has come from an abusive household in the past, and giving them the love, support and attention they need, whilst being BOTH a guardian, but also a super awesome best friend
I'm very young at heart, and still get excited about going to themeparks and getting ice cream etc, but at the same time, can be very grown up and give the support and attention needed to someone who may desperately need it
We'll see what the future brings: )
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I'm an ex teacher
I personally don't want my own biological children, however I am thinking about adopting someone who has come from an abusive household in the past, and giving them the love, support and attention they need, whilst being BOTH a guardian, but also a super awesome best friend
I'm very young at heart, and still get excited about going to themeparks and getting ice cream etc, but at the same time, can be very grown up and give the support and attention needed to someone who may desperately need it
We'll see what the future brings: )
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534sander
I gotta say that you're wrong on one thing. Most children aren't innocent at all. They're mostly monsters. They scream, throw tantrums, bang on the walls and annoy or bully grown adults for their own amusement. They also like to trespass. So parents mostly do have fair reasons to punish their kids physically. But just you know that not everything is considered abuse, humans are way too loving when it comes to children. And that needs to stop. Start giving more love to animals instead. They make the world an actual better place.
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I gotta say that you're wrong on one thing. Most children aren't innocent at all. They're mostly monsters. They scream, throw tantrums, bang on the walls and annoy or bully grown adults for their own amusement. They also like to trespass. So parents mostly do have fair reasons to punish their kids physically. But just you know that not everything is considered abuse, humans are way too loving when it comes to children. And that needs to stop. Start giving more love to animals instead. They make the world an actual better place.
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Damons-Old-Soul
Healthy parenting skills are taught by healthy parents. The first step to get there is to identify and acknowledge the unhealthy of one's own parents. Knowing what not to do, is the first step to knowing how to do in a more healthy manner. All the people who don't want to make the mistakes their parents did are throwing away that wisdom by not putting it into action. Not taking action because they are afraid of repeating mistakes they know of, is SELFISH. Pass that wisdom on to the next generation.
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Healthy parenting skills are taught by healthy parents. The first step to get there is to identify and acknowledge the unhealthy of one's own parents. Knowing what not to do, is the first step to knowing how to do in a more healthy manner. All the people who don't want to make the mistakes their parents did are throwing away that wisdom by not putting it into action. Not taking action because they are afraid of repeating mistakes they know of, is SELFISH. Pass that wisdom on to the next generation.
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Laxter3000
I dont really leave comments but i wanna share my story.
My mother abuses me since my parents divorced. The divorce happened 6 years ago. I truly dont know how i survived it. What my mother did gave a 360 turn to my personality. The worst is even tho i tried to tell her multiple times that she is the one whos wrong and not me, she shut it down and playing the victim card. I hope that everyone who watched this video will stay strong. For the right people, it worths staying alive
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I dont really leave comments but i wanna share my story.
My mother abuses me since my parents divorced. The divorce happened 6 years ago. I truly dont know how i survived it. What my mother did gave a 360 turn to my personality. The worst is even tho i tried to tell her multiple times that she is the one whos wrong and not me, she shut it down and playing the victim card. I hope that everyone who watched this video will stay strong. For the right people, it worths staying alive
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janecelee1713
These 5 reasons are very relatable to me and they took me back to my childhood. I never liked being subjected to such harsh and unnecessary treatment ( no one does) as well as the reasons/ excuses that certain people gave. I believe I turned out the way that I did because of what I endured. With therapy, I eventually realized that what I experienced wasn't my fault and that I could overcome my issues. I'm currently slowly healing from the trauma.
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These 5 reasons are very relatable to me and they took me back to my childhood. I never liked being subjected to such harsh and unnecessary treatment ( no one does) as well as the reasons/ excuses that certain people gave. I believe I turned out the way that I did because of what I endured. With therapy, I eventually realized that what I experienced wasn't my fault and that I could overcome my issues. I'm currently slowly healing from the trauma.
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Psych2go
TRIGGER WARNING: This video discusses parental behaviors linked to child abuse. Our goal is to increase awareness and understanding of this serious issue. It is not meant to excuse or diagnose abuse. It is also not intended to demonize individuals or families but to provide insight into the complex issues surrounding abusive behaviors. This content may be upsetting to survivors of child abuse. Viewer discretion is advised.
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TRIGGER WARNING: This video discusses parental behaviors linked to child abuse. Our goal is to increase awareness and understanding of this serious issue. It is not meant to excuse or diagnose abuse. It is also not intended to demonize individuals or families but to provide insight into the complex issues surrounding abusive behaviors. This content may be upsetting to survivors of child abuse. Viewer discretion is advised.
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Bustin_cider00
My parent told me when i got older that it was because they never felt in control of their lives or surroundings during the 2008 financial crisis. So abuse was their way to feel powerful and unquestionably in control when they were home. When they would feel guilty they’d fall back on neglect.
I desperately want my own family one day, but i refuse to do so until i can heal myself so i don’t hurt them.
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My parent told me when i got older that it was because they never felt in control of their lives or surroundings during the 2008 financial crisis. So abuse was their way to feel powerful and unquestionably in control when they were home. When they would feel guilty they’d fall back on neglect.
I desperately want my own family one day, but i refuse to do so until i can heal myself so i don’t hurt them.
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TheVeggiekat
Left out parents who never wanted a kid but due to religion felt one was forced on them. My parents straight up told me they hadn’t wanted me and felt it was my fault they could no longer take communion since they used birth control to prevent another accident. They made my life miserable but I do have some sympathy for them knowing they were dealing with a life they never wanted.
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Left out parents who never wanted a kid but due to religion felt one was forced on them. My parents straight up told me they hadn’t wanted me and felt it was my fault they could no longer take communion since they used birth control to prevent another accident. They made my life miserable but I do have some sympathy for them knowing they were dealing with a life they never wanted.
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AutumnVulpes369
my in laws have this you owe us your life attitude towards my husaband and sister in law, i think this is increadibly toxic as every time the parents demand something from them even to this day, (they are in their late 20s-30s) they go on a tangent of i gave birth to you and you wont even do this one small thing for me! kind of thing, thats very abusive in my mind.
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my in laws have this you owe us your life attitude towards my husaband and sister in law, i think this is increadibly toxic as every time the parents demand something from them even to this day, (they are in their late 20s-30s) they go on a tangent of i gave birth to you and you wont even do this one small thing for me! kind of thing, thats very abusive in my mind.
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psych2go
Y'know, when this posted, I found this as a coincidence and great timing. And then I got kicked out for the 3rd time this summer.
Really knowledgeable, thanks for doing the necessary research. Only wish is that you should have added a bit about what happens through a child's mind in reality when a parent does such actions, purposely or not.
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Y'know, when this posted, I found this as a coincidence and great timing. And then I got kicked out for the 3rd time this summer.
Really knowledgeable, thanks for doing the necessary research. Only wish is that you should have added a bit about what happens through a child's mind in reality when a parent does such actions, purposely or not.
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bootybun
When I was 11, my mom grabbed a large kitchen knife and chased me with it, then threatened to unalive herself with it. There was a massive fight that night and it was so bad to the point the police had to get involved. 3 years later I still don’t know why she did it but I didn’t think it was really a big deal until now.
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When I was 11, my mom grabbed a large kitchen knife and chased me with it, then threatened to unalive herself with it. There was a massive fight that night and it was so bad to the point the police had to get involved. 3 years later I still don’t know why she did it but I didn’t think it was really a big deal until now.
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Redberd36
Here’s the thing:
Any child born is going to have SOME trauma. Whether self-induced from an event or by parental figures and friends.
Even if we reached a point where external influences don’t affect children as much with verbal or physical abuse - something else will take its place like IPads and technology.
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Here’s the thing:
Any child born is going to have SOME trauma. Whether self-induced from an event or by parental figures and friends.
Even if we reached a point where external influences don’t affect children as much with verbal or physical abuse - something else will take its place like IPads and technology.
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