How To Deal With The Friend Zone
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Ok so I have been friendzoned by this girl I had been friends with for some time and after awhile I came to the realization that I wanted more from the relationship, she didn't and I cannot force her to feel the same way towards me. So the best thing to do was go our separate paths. I tried just being her friend for awhile but my feeling for her never changed. Being around her I kept seeing and experiencing the things about her that made me feel that way in the first place. And it is frustrating to know that no matter how much you wanted it, it wasn't going to change. So I just told her how it was, that I don't hold it against her that she didn't return the feelings but being around her was too frustrating to continue. This was abut two years ago and by being away from her, I was able to move on, find someone else and now I am happily engaged. It was hard to cut her out completely back then but ultimately I feel it was the right decision for me and I have no regrets.
Date: 2020-08-13
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Trainer1232
Keep in mind it works both ways, I have tried to progress a relationship from platonic/friends to a romantic one with several women over the years and they ghosted me with no warning. I got rejected yes, but when I tried to reach out to continue the friendship I never got a response. Each time it happened it did hurt but I figured they wanted space so I left it alone, none of them ever reached out to me again. Women are just as capable of ghosting a man as men are at ghosting a woman, not saying that's what happened with the girl that asked the question but just saying that it can happen.
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Keep in mind it works both ways, I have tried to progress a relationship from platonic/friends to a romantic one with several women over the years and they ghosted me with no warning. I got rejected yes, but when I tried to reach out to continue the friendship I never got a response. Each time it happened it did hurt but I figured they wanted space so I left it alone, none of them ever reached out to me again. Women are just as capable of ghosting a man as men are at ghosting a woman, not saying that's what happened with the girl that asked the question but just saying that it can happen.
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fanjoy
wow, this is one sided AF.
Just like a girl doesn't have to be romantic with the guy the guy doesn't have to be friends with the girl. I guess the point of this vid is to make a fantasy world where everything goes your way and guys dont need to have feelings. They also felled to mention how girls a lot of the time, lead guys on because they want the attention but not the relationship. Ya'll need to stop with this I'm completely oblivious and innocent cartoon BS and approach the topic honestly.
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wow, this is one sided AF.
Just like a girl doesn't have to be romantic with the guy the guy doesn't have to be friends with the girl. I guess the point of this vid is to make a fantasy world where everything goes your way and guys dont need to have feelings. They also felled to mention how girls a lot of the time, lead guys on because they want the attention but not the relationship. Ya'll need to stop with this I'm completely oblivious and innocent cartoon BS and approach the topic honestly.
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Ian
She doesn't owe him the feelings he gave her, if he isn't a man enough to face that he isn't a friend worth having.
He doesn't owe her friendship if he can't stand to have it as JUST friendship. If you aren't a woman enough to face that YOU aren't a friend worth having. left that part out did you. if he can't handle the fact that you don't love him he doesn't have to stay there and suffer just so you can keep him as a friend.
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She doesn't owe him the feelings he gave her, if he isn't a man enough to face that he isn't a friend worth having.
He doesn't owe her friendship if he can't stand to have it as JUST friendship. If you aren't a woman enough to face that YOU aren't a friend worth having. left that part out did you. if he can't handle the fact that you don't love him he doesn't have to stay there and suffer just so you can keep him as a friend.
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CassetteSkullMan
No one is obligated to maintain that friendship with you just because you arent into them either. Both people may be worth having as a friend, but if their feelings dont parallel, theres nothing to be done really and thats no ones fault. Let everyone feel how they want to without guilting them.
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No one is obligated to maintain that friendship with you just because you arent into them either. Both people may be worth having as a friend, but if their feelings dont parallel, theres nothing to be done really and thats no ones fault. Let everyone feel how they want to without guilting them.
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The-Art-of-Gore
I have a problem with this since I'm a guy. I think this is biased in the fact that this doesn't just happen to girls. I unwantedly lost 3 friends who were my very good friends that told me they wanted more and couldn't bear to be around me since. I miss them all the time.
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I have a problem with this since I'm a guy. I think this is biased in the fact that this doesn't just happen to girls. I unwantedly lost 3 friends who were my very good friends that told me they wanted more and couldn't bear to be around me since. I miss them all the time.
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Eldritch_Panda31
I'm sorry no friend is worth putting myself in a dark place. If I express my full emotions and you dont feel the same way it's not healthy for either of us to stay friends. It's not being a coward. It's looking out for yourself first.
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I'm sorry no friend is worth putting myself in a dark place. If I express my full emotions and you dont feel the same way it's not healthy for either of us to stay friends. It's not being a coward. It's looking out for yourself first.
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BVL
'are you man enough' what happened to combating toxic masculinity? BuzzFeed should really look over their videos before they upload them, lest they come off as being rather hypocritical (which many will claim they are)
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'are you man enough' what happened to combating toxic masculinity? BuzzFeed should really look over their videos before they upload them, lest they come off as being rather hypocritical (which many will claim they are)
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THRIQUILLED
They deleted my comment.
This video makes the guys seem evil or bad for having feelings towards a woman. Or not wanting to be friends.
I hate this video so much. This video is so so wrong.
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They deleted my comment.
This video makes the guys seem evil or bad for having feelings towards a woman. Or not wanting to be friends.
I hate this video so much. This video is so so wrong.
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Jacb
The friend zone implies nothing other than being rejected by a girl who'd rather have you as a friend. Are you joking or are you actually idiots? Wait NVM just saw that this was a BuzzFeed video.
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The friend zone implies nothing other than being rejected by a girl who'd rather have you as a friend. Are you joking or are you actually idiots? Wait NVM just saw that this was a BuzzFeed video.
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