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She is not a -disgrace-, she-s my wife - love don-t judge

She is not a -disgrace-, she-s my wife - love don-t judge

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A CROSS-CULTURAL couple who tied the knot after just two months of meeting share their experiences of overcoming judgement and prejudice. Kelly Keyser, 34, and Harjot Arora, 31, met on the dating app -Plenty of Fish-, when he wowed her with his best pick-up line. But their love story was not met with enthusiasm from family members from both sides, with some of their closest relatives refusing to attend the wedding
Date: 2023-09-12

Comments and reviews: 30


The fact they were yelling in the street at her was crazy!
My sister (RIP) was married to a black man, they had twin girls and a little boy; people would sometimes glare, but the majority that did were black wome, which surprised me.
We were at the mall with our kids in strollers and a few black women approached her and told her she needs to stick to her race, one of them yelled at her that she's the reason there's no good black men left. My sister was sweet, loving, & gentle. Just all around an amazing Woman, and I guess that day she had it; she got closer and calmly said, -ma'am, with all due respect- perhaps you can't get a decent man, because you don't know how to respect a decent man, and you've probably chased them all away. -
We walked away and I felt so proud of my little sister for sticking up for herself in an uncomfortable situation! She could have yelled back, or name called like they were, but that wasn't my sis. She was a different kind of woman. I miss her so much!

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They are a wonderful couple, but my advice to them is that when walking around the town she should wear the clothing that she wore to see his mother and father to show respect to them and their culture. Remember, just as she showed respect to his parents she should show respect to those in his town by at least wearing the traditional dress. When you visit someone's home and you know that they expect you to be dressed to their liking you should accommodate them as it is their house. We Westerners think that some how we don't need to do this, as if we are above the cultural norms of the people we are visiting. This shows lack of respect and not a good way to introduce yourself to them. For example, taking pictures in public of people on the streets in certain cultures that is seen as a violation, that you have stolen their image. Show respect to people and their culture and they will show respect to you, and after that they will accept many things that before knowing you they would have not.
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If you want someone to respect your own culture you have to be aware to respect others own culture. She's not fron india, she's from America of course she has a different culture from india and India people need to respect her as a foreign person too. She isn't from there, she just married one of you from there, you have to be aware to consider her own cultural background. She is obviously fully clothe to begin with nothing wrong with what she wears, also Americans like her aren't adapting to such a warmer weather you cannot expect a white person go to asian countries and wear a coat wrapping her entire body when it is clearly so hot over there.
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People shouldn-t hate on them, but at the same time, I think it-s important to acknowledge cultural differences. Women in India don-t dress like she does. To people there, she is absolutely revealing her body more. Tight pants reveal the shape of her butt and thighs and legs. A sari does not. If someone from a nudist colony tried to walk the streets of California naked, they would get in trouble, too.
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This is some time on, but I hope everything worked out. I find it very distressing when there is a cultural/racist judgement, especially when it comes to assumptions about family values, it is so insulting to suggest because you are from a different culture that you do not love, support and care for your family and that you wouldnt love, support and treasure your spouses family too. Very upsetting.
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I only wish them well, it must be such a hurtful, frustrating, wounding situation to hear your loved one be verbally assaulted, judged & maligned. He handled himself with an incredible amount of grace, discipline & good judgement. Thank God his lovely mother is so similar in nature > She raised a LOVELY son. He loves this young woman & I wish them a happy, blessed life. -
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Bro, I can't believe the guy actually got mad at her for the holes in her jeans. And they're not even like holes to make the leg fully visible. It's just a layer of the jean excluded to show the lower layer of the jean, but very little skin is shown. What would he have done had her pants actually been ripped out of her own volition and she couldn't mend them?
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I don-t know why the people in his city are so offended by what she wears. She-s not a member of their culture. It would be MORE offensive if an Indian girl wore what she-s wearing. It-s racist to be offended by her walking around in her clothes. They wouldn-t be offended by tourists in their country
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Culture. It-s all about culture and cultural heritage. There is no such thing as -race, - because we are all different shades of the same colors. It-s during times when cultured clash that the four-letter -r- word comes out. We are all the human race.
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They are probably the only couple who actually dared to find love on POF. Coz that's definitely not a place you'd find genuinely love that will last forever that's for sure. But good on them I hope life showers them with endless love and abundance.
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Small minded people. in India they will go to cinemas to watch indian actresses wearing almost nothing and whistle and shout and that is ok. But because she is a foreigner they argue and will make them feel like she doesnt belong there.
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They are happy together. Let them be. They are both lovely people. She is always smiling, her energy is great and she looked so beautiful in that burgundy dress. I love that he is by her side ready to defend her
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Appreciate their quest but ultimately never discuss marriage on 2nd date. Thats not responsible whatsoever. Doing that you are just judging on superficial things. You need to spend time, living together,
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I think they are both attractive, and give off such fun, tolerant and good vibes. So glad they found true love, and are standing strong and proud. What you have is wonderful, no matter what others may say.
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Well, I love their style and vibe! If you live in a traditional society, you-ve got to conform, at least to an extent, with women-s apparel (modesty) guidelines or you are in for a very hard time.
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His mother is a lovely lady and a perfect mother. Indian women truly put up with a lot. He obviously takes after his mom. A son to make a mother proud. And a mother to make a son proud.
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So funny how every says the USA is sooo racist, but if you go to almost any other country in the world there is legit racism and cultural clash. but people are dumb and don't travel.
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Just looked them up - they filed for divorce in 2022. Interracial relationships are hard when the cultures are so vastly different. I-m sure it took its toll. Sad to see they split.
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Perhaps the Universe meant for him to get a job in the USA. and find his Soulmate. Old school cultures need to learn this fact. Your Soulmate could be anywhere in the world --
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It's funny how white people get all the heat for being racist (which of course there are a lot for sure) but the reality is, colored people are way more racist.
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What a beautiful couple. Such kind and loving people. I hope they are still together 3 years later. Love these two. Love is love and should be celebrated.
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This documentary is absolutely fake, and the white chick got paid to play a pa. jeet-lover role! That's another propaganda against white people! Be hold
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What are people talking about? These are just people. Someone is making a big deal out of nothing! People are so ignorant. NO DISRESPECT THOUGH!
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These 2 really suit eachother. They have a great loving vibe and also look so athletic and strong together. Their kids would be beautiful and cool.
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He was working from home in the United States but if he didn't go back to India he would lose his job yeah ok girl. That was the case. --
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My very religious sister told both me and my brother that our children were a disgrace because they have a parent from another religion.
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It's weird, if you check her insta, there is not one photo of him. Instead rainbow flags everywhere and a pic with #gf from June 2018 -
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A lot of Race Prejudices lie hidden in Government Policies - even in Countries like Singapore which Champion of Multi Racial heritage -
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I would love an update! Is papa ok now with their marriage, how many babies do they have?
Did he get his green card approval?

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They love each other, make each other happy - what-s the problem?
Bless them - I wish them a long and happy life. --

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