My prom date called me 'fat' - so i got ripped - brand new me
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Date: 2023-09-12
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seraphyne13
One of my close friends was morbidly obese in high school (and still is) and there was a girl in school that had the same name as the friend. The name was Katrina. Friend was always called Katie but decided, one year, that she wanted to start going by her full name, Katrina. Mean Girl straight up told Friend that she wasn't allowed to do that because she wasn't going to share HER name with a fat girl. She was too fat to be called Katrina. I was also friends with Mean Girl when we were younger (around 8-10 years old) but when we got a little older and boys started finding her attractive, all of a sudden she didn't have time to be my friend anymore. Needless to say, boys didn't find me attractive, especially not like her.
Anyway, the ironic part is that after high school, Mean Girl put on a decent bit of weight. She's not as big as Friend but Mean Girl is at the very least double what she was in high school, possibly more than that. She's forever single, visits bars often and is divorced. Friend married her high school sweetheart, while still in high school (even though all the mean kids thought he wasn't real and told her so) and they had 3 kids together and are still happily married (since 1999)
While there's nothing wrong with being single and going out and having a good time, I know for a fact that Mean Girl wanted to be happily married with kids at our age (40) and it's just ironic that the girl she was so mean to has the life she dreamed of, at least to a degree.
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One of my close friends was morbidly obese in high school (and still is) and there was a girl in school that had the same name as the friend. The name was Katrina. Friend was always called Katie but decided, one year, that she wanted to start going by her full name, Katrina. Mean Girl straight up told Friend that she wasn't allowed to do that because she wasn't going to share HER name with a fat girl. She was too fat to be called Katrina. I was also friends with Mean Girl when we were younger (around 8-10 years old) but when we got a little older and boys started finding her attractive, all of a sudden she didn't have time to be my friend anymore. Needless to say, boys didn't find me attractive, especially not like her.
Anyway, the ironic part is that after high school, Mean Girl put on a decent bit of weight. She's not as big as Friend but Mean Girl is at the very least double what she was in high school, possibly more than that. She's forever single, visits bars often and is divorced. Friend married her high school sweetheart, while still in high school (even though all the mean kids thought he wasn't real and told her so) and they had 3 kids together and are still happily married (since 1999)
While there's nothing wrong with being single and going out and having a good time, I know for a fact that Mean Girl wanted to be happily married with kids at our age (40) and it's just ironic that the girl she was so mean to has the life she dreamed of, at least to a degree.
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Bee
I would have preferred had he done the body transformation because he wanted it for himself, not because he wanted to prove something to people who are insignificant.
Although it has improved his physical appearance, health, confidence, and his whole overall attitude towards his own self worth, I think he's going to be severely disappointed when he does get into that relationship, and realizes that he isn't all that much happier than he was before.
The reality of relationships and how they require more than looking good in order to have a balanced and healthy relationship will hit him one day.
Keep up the work though man. You're doing a good job.
Try your best to discover a way to truly love yourself with all of your flaws, and feeling happy and perfectly content being on your own.
What will eventually happen is once you're around someone often enough, that physical attraction just isn't enough to override other things that commonly cause couples to separate.
You will discover that there are things that aren't related to anything physical that you will look for in a potential partner, things that have more substance in it.
No matter how beautiful someone looks, if they never bothered working on the internal depths of one self, no amount of physical attraction will ever keep the relationship alive.
It should be obvious that when you live with someone for a long time, the physical attraction will fade with time.
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I would have preferred had he done the body transformation because he wanted it for himself, not because he wanted to prove something to people who are insignificant.
Although it has improved his physical appearance, health, confidence, and his whole overall attitude towards his own self worth, I think he's going to be severely disappointed when he does get into that relationship, and realizes that he isn't all that much happier than he was before.
The reality of relationships and how they require more than looking good in order to have a balanced and healthy relationship will hit him one day.
Keep up the work though man. You're doing a good job.
Try your best to discover a way to truly love yourself with all of your flaws, and feeling happy and perfectly content being on your own.
What will eventually happen is once you're around someone often enough, that physical attraction just isn't enough to override other things that commonly cause couples to separate.
You will discover that there are things that aren't related to anything physical that you will look for in a potential partner, things that have more substance in it.
No matter how beautiful someone looks, if they never bothered working on the internal depths of one self, no amount of physical attraction will ever keep the relationship alive.
It should be obvious that when you live with someone for a long time, the physical attraction will fade with time.
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Jess
It would have took him a lot of courage to ask her to prom and the few seconds that it would have took for her to turn him down would have been a lot less time than it would have took for him to build up the courage to ask her it just shows you how shallow some people unfortunately really can be looks ain't everything the main thing is personality and the connection that you feel towards someone because if you don't have that connection then a relationship just isn't going to work I wonder how she feels now he has lost weight it would be interesting to know may his life be filled with lots of happiness love and good fortune like he deserves
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It would have took him a lot of courage to ask her to prom and the few seconds that it would have took for her to turn him down would have been a lot less time than it would have took for him to build up the courage to ask her it just shows you how shallow some people unfortunately really can be looks ain't everything the main thing is personality and the connection that you feel towards someone because if you don't have that connection then a relationship just isn't going to work I wonder how she feels now he has lost weight it would be interesting to know may his life be filled with lots of happiness love and good fortune like he deserves
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Carmen
Truly people end up calling you alot of stuff that you are not, depends on what phase of life you are at and how you go through it, when I was young people called me ugly I believed that for sometime I lived in that lie. but something inside me said you are beautiful inside and out
Long story short today im so Hot, Beautiful stunning(work as a flight attendant) and name it all and also holding that beautiful heart who always saw beauty in everyone else.
All of you are so Beautiful in many ways dont let anyone define you, you have it all-
Stay Grateful Stay Blessed
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Truly people end up calling you alot of stuff that you are not, depends on what phase of life you are at and how you go through it, when I was young people called me ugly I believed that for sometime I lived in that lie. but something inside me said you are beautiful inside and out
Long story short today im so Hot, Beautiful stunning(work as a flight attendant) and name it all and also holding that beautiful heart who always saw beauty in everyone else.
All of you are so Beautiful in many ways dont let anyone define you, you have it all-
Stay Grateful Stay Blessed
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TinyMaths
Just think about it, the difference between the doctor who sat Anthony down, and the girl and her friends who set him up for such a cruel rejection. What a huge difference in approach. I suppose youngsters will be cruel to each other; they probably didn't care. I suppose doctors are paid to care, but it sounds like this particular doc sat him down like a caring father would and tried to use persuasion rather than humiliation; just as the gym owner did. Maybe both ways can work, but I dunno, at least for Anthony the less harsh approach worked.
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Just think about it, the difference between the doctor who sat Anthony down, and the girl and her friends who set him up for such a cruel rejection. What a huge difference in approach. I suppose youngsters will be cruel to each other; they probably didn't care. I suppose doctors are paid to care, but it sounds like this particular doc sat him down like a caring father would and tried to use persuasion rather than humiliation; just as the gym owner did. Maybe both ways can work, but I dunno, at least for Anthony the less harsh approach worked.
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Dave
If these -fat- kids only realized how good-looking they would be without the weight, perhaps it would give them the drive to lose it. By looking at the overweight version of Anthony, I could spot straight away that there was a really handsome guy underneath that fat. Kindly note that vanity is no reason to lose weight when you are indeed overweight, but EVERY reason is a good reason to get down to a healthy weight with a healthy diet.
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If these -fat- kids only realized how good-looking they would be without the weight, perhaps it would give them the drive to lose it. By looking at the overweight version of Anthony, I could spot straight away that there was a really handsome guy underneath that fat. Kindly note that vanity is no reason to lose weight when you are indeed overweight, but EVERY reason is a good reason to get down to a healthy weight with a healthy diet.
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Ishaana
I had an ex call me fat in public, a -2/10 and himself a 8/10, and told me that nobody would want to sleep with me apart from him. I still struggle every single day with his harsh words, while I am on my weight loss journey. These experiences are devastatingly painful, and render a person useless.
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I had an ex call me fat in public, a -2/10 and himself a 8/10, and told me that nobody would want to sleep with me apart from him. I still struggle every single day with his harsh words, while I am on my weight loss journey. These experiences are devastatingly painful, and render a person useless.
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Marla
That girl missed out big time. My husband was obese when we met, for the last 10 years or so he has lost and kept off around 100 lbs. I realize that is probably not a typical to have happen but still girls now be like damn, you look good. Uh huh, where were you before? Paws off b--ches lol.
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That girl missed out big time. My husband was obese when we met, for the last 10 years or so he has lost and kept off around 100 lbs. I realize that is probably not a typical to have happen but still girls now be like damn, you look good. Uh huh, where were you before? Paws off b--ches lol.
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DJ
Who raises their children to be so cruel to others like that? Nasty, mean, parents that are the same way no doubt. If my child EVER treated someone like that. they would have to deal with ME. I would be so hurt & disappointed. So sorry this guy had to deal with that pain.
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Who raises their children to be so cruel to others like that? Nasty, mean, parents that are the same way no doubt. If my child EVER treated someone like that. they would have to deal with ME. I would be so hurt & disappointed. So sorry this guy had to deal with that pain.
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shursh9090
She's now watching this and feeling ashamed on what she's done to him. Her friends and the entire school are now watching this and thinking she's not a nice person. -If you're gonna say something mean it's just better to keep it to yourself-.
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She's now watching this and feeling ashamed on what she's done to him. Her friends and the entire school are now watching this and thinking she's not a nice person. -If you're gonna say something mean it's just better to keep it to yourself-.
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kauriidupree
Im sorry but when i seen his before pic and the title i knew he was going to be super hot after because he was already a cutie when he was heavy. And i don't understand why people are so cruel and go out of their way to be cruel.
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Im sorry but when i seen his before pic and the title i knew he was going to be super hot after because he was already a cutie when he was heavy. And i don't understand why people are so cruel and go out of their way to be cruel.
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Greg
Why not just be healthy because you yourself want to live a long and healthy life. Should not take a prom date calling me fat to realize that being at a healthy weight if it-s possible for you with something you should try to do
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Why not just be healthy because you yourself want to live a long and healthy life. Should not take a prom date calling me fat to realize that being at a healthy weight if it-s possible for you with something you should try to do
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Ala
The gym owner is a sweetheart - he has been responsible for changing someone-s life completely. That part of the story is when I teared up. Giving someone a free membership to encourage them - is amazing!
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The gym owner is a sweetheart - he has been responsible for changing someone-s life completely. That part of the story is when I teared up. Giving someone a free membership to encourage them - is amazing!
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Katey
I'm glad that he feels better about himself but I must say that I think he was also very attractive before his transformation.
It's absolutely disgusting what that girl put him through.
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I'm glad that he feels better about himself but I must say that I think he was also very attractive before his transformation.
It's absolutely disgusting what that girl put him through.
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Blur
BIG mistake going for the MOST attractive girl - they're always the worst to deal with. Go for the 10th most attractive - that's usually where nice and normal is!
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BIG mistake going for the MOST attractive girl - they're always the worst to deal with. Go for the 10th most attractive - that's usually where nice and normal is!
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Geremy
I had crushes reject me not for being overweight because I'm not but for a lot of dumb reasons but when they see me in the future they are gonna be jealous
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I had crushes reject me not for being overweight because I'm not but for a lot of dumb reasons but when they see me in the future they are gonna be jealous
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Bluey
I was really hoping we'd get to see him meet her now. I'd love to have seen her reaction. Well done for turning nasty bullying into something so positive.
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I was really hoping we'd get to see him meet her now. I'd love to have seen her reaction. Well done for turning nasty bullying into something so positive.
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Payden
As a woman I could never do something like that. That is so shallow. But guess what mean girl! Look at him now! Bet you didn-t think that would happen!
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As a woman I could never do something like that. That is so shallow. But guess what mean girl! Look at him now! Bet you didn-t think that would happen!
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Angel
He was just as cute before and he seems really nice hopefully he finds someone to appreciate him, also love those paintings by his stove so awesome.
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He was just as cute before and he seems really nice hopefully he finds someone to appreciate him, also love those paintings by his stove so awesome.
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Jay
What was the name of the restaurant you went to with the girl who bullied you in this video? Needing some recommendations. Or did that not happen too?
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What was the name of the restaurant you went to with the girl who bullied you in this video? Needing some recommendations. Or did that not happen too?
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Larry
Good job, I was about 350 and I was burnt out and wanted to die. I finally said enough and need to think more of myself for the first time at 48
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Good job, I was about 350 and I was burnt out and wanted to die. I finally said enough and need to think more of myself for the first time at 48
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Mj
People can be so cruel l think you look so cute with your suit and a limousine
Maybe this needed to happen l am a little
Over weight.
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People can be so cruel l think you look so cute with your suit and a limousine
Maybe this needed to happen l am a little
Over weight.
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Rachel
I'm so glad that you shared your story and your weight loss journey.
You are truly amazing and inspiring. I wish you all the best -
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I'm so glad that you shared your story and your weight loss journey.
You are truly amazing and inspiring. I wish you all the best -
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blogs
He looks great. I just don't understand covering up with tattoos. He definitely doesn-t need to hide behind anything now.
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He looks great. I just don't understand covering up with tattoos. He definitely doesn-t need to hide behind anything now.
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Daniel
0: 18 - 0: 20 His eyes look cold and arrogant.
That lends credibility to DuckyDance's recent allegation about him.
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0: 18 - 0: 20 His eyes look cold and arrogant.
That lends credibility to DuckyDance's recent allegation about him.
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blogs
So you can appraise her based on appearance, value her on that nothing basis, and she can't assess you that way. .
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So you can appraise her based on appearance, value her on that nothing basis, and she can't assess you that way. .
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Jay
Can-t wait for the day Anthony stops trying desperately to become famous and selling this fake story. Sheeeeeeesh
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Can-t wait for the day Anthony stops trying desperately to become famous and selling this fake story. Sheeeeeeesh
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Kai
I cannot believe how mean some people can be. One day she may be on the other side of health. Shame, shame, same.
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I cannot believe how mean some people can be. One day she may be on the other side of health. Shame, shame, same.
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Arturo
I went through the samething Anthony my ex crush abandoned me I was unhappy I tried look good I got humiliated
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I went through the samething Anthony my ex crush abandoned me I was unhappy I tried look good I got humiliated
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Haute
It-s never ever worth it to belittle anyone ever! So glad he-s healthier and happier thats all that matters -
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It-s never ever worth it to belittle anyone ever! So glad he-s healthier and happier thats all that matters -
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