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My husband controls me - and people hate it - love don't judge

My husband controls me - and people hate it - love don't judge

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MONICA Huldt featured in one of Truly's most controversial and talked-about videos. She is married to John and told Truly that she lives to please him and he controls every aspect of my life. She believes that the secret to a happy relationship is for the man to make the decisions and the woman should always aim to please by adopting an old-school -traditional wife- role. This includes asking John to pick out her clothes daily and letting him sleep with other women if that makes him happy. Monica reacts to comments to her video, such as it's crazy because if she's such an amazing wife then why does he feel the need to sleep with someone else, giving her side of the story
Date: 2023-09-12

Comments and reviews: 30


I was trying to put my finger on why she seems so uncomfortable even though she claims to be happy about her husbands sh! tty behavior and then I cruised these comments to learn she is an adult film star.
Now, I don-t know why they left that part out of the story here but it-s a big factor considering they made it look like he goes out and humps freely while she only has s3x with him.
Even if the s3x she-s having is for work, a man with as fragile an ego as her husband clearly has would definitely have a problem and would need to level the playing field, so to speak.
At any rate, this woman doesn-t think she can do better. She doesn-t look happy or comfortable. She sat up here and lied about her marriage and for what?
Sorry Truly, but this one isn-t cutting it, these people just seem desperate and weird.

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She is too beautiful to put up with that. I was married for a year to a controlling man. I am sure he had other women - Got rid of him. I could not live that way. I have been married to a man for 34 years that does not tell me what to do, where I can go, what to wear and only loves me! He respects me. We have 3 grown sons. We have raised sons who are kind, respectful young men. -Lord I hope this man is not a Dad! Your husband does not respect you. You are his property. He is having fun knowing he is controlling you! You cook, clean, do all the wifely stuff, While he is out f-ing! Does that sound right to you? He has it made! He has his cake and is eating it too! You deserve better! Absolutely disgusting! He has you so brainwashed! Bet he told you none else would want you! -Please leave now!
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1. That John dude is such a try hard. From his demeanor and who he uses the word -alpha-, we know that he can't really fight. LOL
2. Also from John's demeanor and such, we we can conclude that he's not very intelligent or makes that much money for his age.
3. Tradwives are just as toxic as feminists if not more. If your wife is a housewife, you are a sugar daddy not a husband. For more statistics, facts, and my opinions on housewives, DM me.
This entire relationship is a cope. Cope on John's part for being a low quality man and having to settle with a leech, and cope on Monica's part for pretending to be content and happy. This will end up in disaster. Guaranteed.

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I honestly feel bad for men who want this handsmaids tale type relationship. Sure fantasy wise it might seem cool but when you get in a real romantic partnership with your best friend and have a mutual loving, respectful and an equality based relationship you can literally create and make anything happen/ build the life you want. Its an extremely powerful connection that is really only for adults. Not for kids who want an incestuous mother son relationship. Boys and girls like this need to go to therapy and deal with their mother/father issues. no judgement just experience.
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Something is definitely off with this woman. Maybe some childhood trauma or something that occurred in her past that causes her to believe she deserves this. She clearly is not entirely okay with him sleeping with other people based on her geniuine reaction when they asked her. You can tell she is not happy, but she's sure as hell trying to convince herself she is. She's beautiful. He, however, is the luckiest most blandest looking man to ever exist. I hope she realizes she deserves better.
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He wouldn't leave you for somebody else, because he doesn-t want to go through the work of strong manipulation. Who else is gonna cook for him like you do? Or let him sleep with other woman? Let him choose the clothes. You're a perfect doll to him. You frankly look like a nice sweet person, and you deserve better.
So yeah, he won't leave you because you make his life effortless. You are a free maid, working 24/7 and who won't complain about the salary.

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I was confused because you mentioned that one dynamic of the relationship just happened in your last video but in this video you're saying that your husband sleeping with other women is a choice he took but you chose not to sleep with other men because he said he would not be happy about it but would not mind it because he has the openness. My point is that there seems to be a discrepancy by what you're saying Monica so could you please elaborate on it?
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I hope she can find a man who gives her the same love she is willing to give. This guy basically just uses her as arm candy and a maid. But at this point it seems like she's too blind to reality to leave this incredibly unhealthy borderline abusive relationship. I hope someday she can find the self-worth to leave and realize she deserves to be valued just as much as she values whoever she is with.
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Yeah imma let my future bf / husband sleep with other people Because I'll do Same, as I-m Polyamorous that s called a Balanced Relationship Power Wise. He'll be Free cause Imma be free as well. Equal rights, Freedom goes both ways. Recodered pple pleaser & recovered from Narc Abuse. Honey noone would switch places with you, he could pay me 100k a month, i ll pass txx -
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I wonder if she lets him sleep with other women because she feels like she has to, as an aging woman. Everyone gets old eventually. Maybe she has low self esteem and thinks she has to allow this. I personally wouldn't be on board, I say yes I'll eventually lose my looks and figure but if you want the loyal wonderful wife experience you have to be loyal to me in return.
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Seems like she-s coping hard in a one-sided relationship. I think she knows that he-s just using her but probably due to feelings for him and financial reasons she won-t be leaving. I hope she gets some self esteem and learns how to love herself and leaves that manchild and finds someone who reciprocates the feelings. This is just a sad -relationship- overall.
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I think if you get married then you should want to just be with eachother BUT I know alot of people have open relationships and if that makes them happy then fair enough, each to their own but I could never do that. I could never do that and I would never want my partner to either and luckily he agrees too. But if your okay with it then fair enough. X
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The only reason he's not leaving is because he knows he has advantage over you and that you're whipped around his little finger. He knows that it'll be hard to find someone else that is willing to serve their husband the way that you have. Girl, he's doesn't love you. He's just using you. It's sad that you can't see that.
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Men who treat their partners like 'queens', don't cheat on them repeatedly. Your body language screamed that you were uncomfortable about him doing this. Good partners don't do things that make their partner feel uncomfortable to the point that they cannot discuss the topic. Let's call a spade, a spade.
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If this was an open marriage that-s not of our business. But let-s be real if she was to go be with another man that would be a major problem. More than likely this is going to be a sister wife situation later on. And she-s gonna have to shut up and accept it.
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I hope she gets out of this: ( my sisters do it too so they won't be alone & re start. But really, re starting is much easier than staying in a relationship where you feel you have to please to be loved. He looks creepy, tweakery and gross, then there's her
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I'm sorry, but it's absolutely unhealthy. This woman needs a lot of compassion and a lot of therapy. Everyone is mean to her, but the situation is her husband's fault. He's the one comfortable exploiting another person's psychological vulnerability.
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This woman has ZERO self esteem! She thinks her husband loves her, but the real thing is who wouldn't want a full time, good looking, harebrained house maid! That's what her husband feels! If something's worse than an idiot, that is this woman! ----
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There's a lot left unsaid here with numerous women harping on him being with other women. That's how men are traditionally even in biblical times and if she accepts it, so be it. Even so, Bella is naturally attractive and fit and can do better imo.
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He stays with you because you do everything for him whether you want to accept it or not you are like his mother. If he really loves you he would respect you enough not to sleep with other women. You are dillusional
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Bruh. All I wish is that she is happy & living her best life, which hopefully in her heart she is, if not. then I hope she finds the strength to chose a better way of life for herself. Xo
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Hard to tell what exactly it says about me, but the first thing that crossed my mind at 0: 43 was if this isn't some kind of -domestic violence- sign she did with her hands.
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She's so content with herself yet she goes on soft white underbelly and talks about how miserable she is every day. You can't believe anything you see on TV I swear lol.
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There are crazy people all across the world. If that's what she wants or gets excited about. Good for her, nobody should have any issue with that unless she is having.
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This woman is beautiful, she has a figure almost any woman would envy and almost any straight man would desire. She's also talented and skilled in homemaking.
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He sleeps with other women, but you can't sleep with other guys? No girl that's not a traditional marriage. Also he seems the type to listen to Andrew Tate
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Oh hell no. He sleeping with others. Nope nope. stomp curb Azz out on the curb. Sorry my judgement is non of my business but it's just what most would do.
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PEA HEAD is back. The alien from Men in Black. He is soooo weird amd creepy. His tiny head is so creepy. Bleugh he's skin crawlingly yuck
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Since her husband is sleeping with other women, she is opening all kind of STD doors to herself. She should not get upset when she catches STD.
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Husband doesn-t love u he sleeps with other women. That is not traditional it-s disgusting he uses you and you are brain washed. This is abuse
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