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Revealing my birthmark on a date - shake my beauty

Revealing my birthmark on a date - shake my beauty

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BECCA ASK, from Woodbury, Minnesota, was born with Port Wine Stain and Blue Nevus birthmarks across her face. These really affected her confidence and in 6th grade this developed into an unhealthy relationship with makeup. Becca told Truly: I had very low self esteem, very low confidence. I felt like I always had to be in makeup, I felt like somebody couldn't like me in my natural skin. Becca hid her skin every time she ventured out of the house and things were made worse for her when she experienced cruel comments. People have told me there's no way that anybody would love me with a face like mine, I've been called ugly and hideous. However, over the past six years Becca has found a new confidence with the love and support of her partner Dalton. She now uses makeup as a form of artistic expression and has taken to social media to show the world what she can do. Today is a huge day for Becca, as she has bravely decided to go on a date without hiding her birthmark. But how will she feel when she arrives?
Date: 2023-09-12

Comments and reviews: 26


Totally feel her. I'm a Port Wine Stain lady too. Asian version too. In the US, this is more common. In Asia, nope. People will judge you lots. Yes I did get depression and all. The society is sick!
Laser surgery is a painful treatment for PWS. To maintain the healthiness of the skin. Not to remove (because can't be remove. Is dilated blood vessels, basically these are underneath skin issue not beneath the skin. I have failed laser surgeries before and caused me to have deep trauma & anxiety till now. Still struggling, really scared to get the treatment done again. I really need moral supports people!
Msg to PWS or any beauty issue people: Don't cover up your natural beauty with makeup. Because I don't cover my PWS before at all. No matter how hateful the comment is. just live with your life! Life is too short to fill in with sadness. Let's cherish every each day.

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It-s so sad the devastating effects trolls on SM can have on ppl, it-s also infuriating that these trolls think they have the right to say whatever hateful ignorant thing they want to & about ppl they don-t even know. I wish more ppl understood that when these sort of commenters say these mean hateful things it-s less about the ppl they-re commenting on & more about themselves; what-s lacking in themselves & what they dislike or hate about themselves. So really they should take the time they spend spewing anger & hate online looking inward - what-s going on inside them.
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That's how the world is. there will always be people who are hateful. There are even people who would stare out of curiosity (which I don't find bad since it's normal for humans to be curious about things. Just being able to understand that and just go on living is the best you can do. Stay around positive things and avoid negativity when possible. Letting nasty comments online getting you down is you admitting defeat to yourself. Just an advice for everyone, there's a billion of us in the world so don't give a flying fk about those few hundreds who are hating on you lol.
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Just be yourself first focking around with makeup just cover birthmark sooner later they will see it if you yourself feel you need to then ok but for someone else who's going to judge you anyway foget that be yourself if you want to take half hour for face for someone else then nofoget it there not worth it darling if you want to for yourself bit of confidence then ok believe me your beutifull
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It shouldn't be if he's find with it. Are you comfortable in your own skin. He can leave you any day for someone else. You have to love who you are, and accept how you look. God don't make mistakes. God judges not the outward appearance but he judges the condition of the heart and what comes out of a person. Good or evil.
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Ugh I still haven-t gotten to this level of confidence and it eats at me a lot the older I get! I get anxiety dating new people bc that question crossed my mind! I always wonder how they look at me without makeup and if they will still find me beautiful! Some days I feel beautiful regardless and some days I hate it! -
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I can't understand how can people be so rude to strangers, like if you don't even know a person then how can you be so negative about them. I think these type of people have problems and they don't want to make efforts and solve them instead they are jealous from those who are happy
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I do not understand the -beat her down- mentality. She's already going through enough as it is. Why add to that distress? Go be mean to bad people who hurt others. Be happy for this awesome gal who promotes positivity and self-love. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
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If you saw her without knowing you would think she just had a nose job or somehow bruised her whole face. Can-t really blame people thinking your boyfriend beats you, if they are actually concerned. But after knowing it-s a birthmark I see nothing wrong.
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I can't be the only one that thinks she looks so cool! I don't know it's colorful and beautiful I kind of love it! Besides the fact that beauty doesn't come from outside! She's pretty on the inside too
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Your face is beautiful. I was thinking mascara and red lips and you're there! I was cringing watching you covering your face with the cover up. You do not need it! -
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Her birthmark is so unique and pretty like a galaxy! How someone can be so cruel to the other? Baby you doing well and you're so talented at make up im jealous!
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I have a birthmark on one side of my face, it is red and purple, never been in public without makeup, maybe seeing your courage can help me have more, thanks -
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She has a beautiful face, her mark isn't bad you would just think she was getting hit but once you realize it's just a birth mark its not a big deal.
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She-s so beautiful and inspiring. They look great together. Social media is such a toxic place. I just wanna hug her and wish her all the best ---
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She looks lovely. -
I wonder if the BF is worried about if people think he has caused that mark on her though because that would be a worry for me.

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She is so beautiful with the birth mark it makes her unique what is wrong with people these days people could be so mean-- why can't bullying stop
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That was so inspiring. Like watching her clicked something for me in my brain. I can CHOOSE to be fine with something that society says it ugly. Wow -
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You are absolutely adorable. With or without makeup, your personality and smile shine through. You have a bf who sees that too. he's a keeper!
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I have big birth mark on my right eyelid, people have made fun of me even in high school that I look like someone punched me in the eye -
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I am so grateful she is ok with herself. - Beautiful is who you are! Our society is to caught up with beauty on the outside. So sad. -
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I love your pink and purple color! It-s great that the coloration is uniform across your face. You-re beautiful without makeup.
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She's really beautiful and her inside definitely matches her outside. Just an amazing person who deserves the best in life.
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when people make derogatory remarks about your appearance it really highlights how insecure they are with themselves.
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You are such a beautiful and amazing person inside and out - and so is your BF! Sending you so much love -!
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Girl, you look like you earned your prize with that supportive young man. Y-all are both real persons.
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