I'm called a 'bad mum' because i'm covered in tatts - my extraordinary family
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Spiral
Regardless of who you are or what you do, once you become a mother, someone (or many ones) is going to judge you as being a bad mother.
A -good- mother cares about her child and does their best for their child/ren; and doing one-s best also means not being a martyr; a mother has to take care of herself, and do what-s important to her in order to be a truly effective parent.
A -good- mother is actually someone who is doing -good enough-; not micromanaging each interaction, not controlling their child-s life.
As someone who works with mother/baby dyads, this vid shows Becky and Aurora are both doing just fine. And it-s likely that Aurora will grow into a tolerant and accepting adult-
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Regardless of who you are or what you do, once you become a mother, someone (or many ones) is going to judge you as being a bad mother.
A -good- mother cares about her child and does their best for their child/ren; and doing one-s best also means not being a martyr; a mother has to take care of herself, and do what-s important to her in order to be a truly effective parent.
A -good- mother is actually someone who is doing -good enough-; not micromanaging each interaction, not controlling their child-s life.
As someone who works with mother/baby dyads, this vid shows Becky and Aurora are both doing just fine. And it-s likely that Aurora will grow into a tolerant and accepting adult-
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bronxkies
Oh yeah, I remember her! The last video I saw of her she was pregnant with the little cutie.
I-ve been a teacher for over decade and have seen all manner of parents. I don-t think she-s a bad mom for how she looks. Would I be distracted talking to her about her child? Absolutely! Would I treat her any less because of the tattoos? Absolutely not. I don-t think I-d be able to take her terribly seriously on the outset but as long as she-s parenting her child with integrity, I-d be onboard to support her.
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Oh yeah, I remember her! The last video I saw of her she was pregnant with the little cutie.
I-ve been a teacher for over decade and have seen all manner of parents. I don-t think she-s a bad mom for how she looks. Would I be distracted talking to her about her child? Absolutely! Would I treat her any less because of the tattoos? Absolutely not. I don-t think I-d be able to take her terribly seriously on the outset but as long as she-s parenting her child with integrity, I-d be onboard to support her.
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Julie
How can someone judge you cause of your tattoos, it's a shame thier are small minded people about it doesn't make you a bad mother cause you have tattoos, I have tattoos myself and love them I feel more confident in myself, and what other people think is up to them they can shove their opinions where the sun don't shine, baby is so cute -
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How can someone judge you cause of your tattoos, it's a shame thier are small minded people about it doesn't make you a bad mother cause you have tattoos, I have tattoos myself and love them I feel more confident in myself, and what other people think is up to them they can shove their opinions where the sun don't shine, baby is so cute -
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Angela
She's gorgeous, and seems like a great mom. I'm not getting a phony vibe like I do from a lot of people in these videos. I just wish she wouldn't of tattooed her face! I don't like when anyone does that. But that does not affect me or anyone else, so it's no one's business. It definitely does not effect her parenting.
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She's gorgeous, and seems like a great mom. I'm not getting a phony vibe like I do from a lot of people in these videos. I just wish she wouldn't of tattooed her face! I don't like when anyone does that. But that does not affect me or anyone else, so it's no one's business. It definitely does not effect her parenting.
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Justin
Men pay good attention here. This example shows why you should not try to turn a woman from the streets into a house wife. She's spending all her money on ink, not on her kid. Btw, where is the father of the kid? Let me guess, single mother post-wall that will ruin the life of her baby due to her own insecurities?
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Men pay good attention here. This example shows why you should not try to turn a woman from the streets into a house wife. She's spending all her money on ink, not on her kid. Btw, where is the father of the kid? Let me guess, single mother post-wall that will ruin the life of her baby due to her own insecurities?
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Mike
I think you are Absolutely Breathtaking! I can tell how much you love your little girl just by the way you hold her. I only have one tattoo. it says. Dream as if you will live forever. live as if you will die tomorrow! I haven't found anything else I agree with enuf to put on my body. but you rock your tats my love!
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I think you are Absolutely Breathtaking! I can tell how much you love your little girl just by the way you hold her. I only have one tattoo. it says. Dream as if you will live forever. live as if you will die tomorrow! I haven't found anything else I agree with enuf to put on my body. but you rock your tats my love!
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TheAlexstiles
I don-t personally have any tattoos, but I don-t have anything against them whatsoever, and I hope all the judgement will start to fade as older generations die off-. Sad to say but she is STUNNING with it without them. Squares gonna square. Love to you, mum! ---
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I don-t personally have any tattoos, but I don-t have anything against them whatsoever, and I hope all the judgement will start to fade as older generations die off-. Sad to say but she is STUNNING with it without them. Squares gonna square. Love to you, mum! ---
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Standing
I guess they mean she's bad mother because she's giving her bad example since kids tend to look up to parents? I don't see other reason. Of course under all those tattooes person can be wonderful but lets not pretend that people aren't judged by their looks
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I guess they mean she's bad mother because she's giving her bad example since kids tend to look up to parents? I don't see other reason. Of course under all those tattooes person can be wonderful but lets not pretend that people aren't judged by their looks
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Pratheeksha
See if a person is being toxic or doing bad things to people we can call the bad parents/people but if they are just being themselves you have no right to call them bad just because they are expressing them self with what makes them happy.
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See if a person is being toxic or doing bad things to people we can call the bad parents/people but if they are just being themselves you have no right to call them bad just because they are expressing them self with what makes them happy.
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Carmen
She is beautiful in her own way with her tattoos if she like it who are whe to judge her with that. And her daughter is smileing and look healthy. and she is cute ---
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She is beautiful in her own way with her tattoos if she like it who are whe to judge her with that. And her daughter is smileing and look healthy. and she is cute ---
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Rokona
Of course you can tattoo drowning to your body, but full body drowning to tattoos it was wrong decision. your baby can fears see your face, nick, forehead tattoos.
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Of course you can tattoo drowning to your body, but full body drowning to tattoos it was wrong decision. your baby can fears see your face, nick, forehead tattoos.
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Cindilu
The difference between a tattooed person and a non tattooed person is a tattooed person doesn't care if you're not tattooed. You Rock Girl! -----
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The difference between a tattooed person and a non tattooed person is a tattooed person doesn't care if you're not tattooed. You Rock Girl! -----
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Lauren
She-s freaking gorgeous and has such a badass outlook on life, she has a very good looking family, and little Aurora is PRECIOUS! She-s blessed!
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She-s freaking gorgeous and has such a badass outlook on life, she has a very good looking family, and little Aurora is PRECIOUS! She-s blessed!
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Scarlett
Well tattoos don't hurt anyone really so whats the big deal? I have 3 and i am done myself however what others do is their biz
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Well tattoos don't hurt anyone really so whats the big deal? I have 3 and i am done myself however what others do is their biz
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Missa
I think she's so beautiful, and she's a great mom! I'll never get people! And that baby's head wrap was the cutest thing EVER!
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I think she's so beautiful, and she's a great mom! I'll never get people! And that baby's head wrap was the cutest thing EVER!
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Valerie
Ahhhh her baby is absolutely adorable-- she is beautiful forget what anyone has to say people are gonna hate either way.
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Ahhhh her baby is absolutely adorable-- she is beautiful forget what anyone has to say people are gonna hate either way.
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nichole
Why is her baby the cutest! Girl, do you. You're an awesome mom. My pediatrician has a sleeve and he's constantly judged.
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Why is her baby the cutest! Girl, do you. You're an awesome mom. My pediatrician has a sleeve and he's constantly judged.
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Maria
There are plenty of parents without tattoos whom pysically and mentally abuse their children. They are the bad parents.
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There are plenty of parents without tattoos whom pysically and mentally abuse their children. They are the bad parents.
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Maya
she looks so happy and so does her baby and so long as both of them are happy and healthy thats all that really matters
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she looks so happy and so does her baby and so long as both of them are happy and healthy thats all that really matters
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Songbirdy27
You and your daughter are absolutely BEAUTIFUL. Anyone who says you are anything less, is JEALOUS! Fu-k em!
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You and your daughter are absolutely BEAUTIFUL. Anyone who says you are anything less, is JEALOUS! Fu-k em!
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sabrina
If you love your daughter and take care of her when she gets older not for your tattoo but to be there for her
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If you love your daughter and take care of her when she gets older not for your tattoo but to be there for her
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David
You are a georgous woman, like a book each tatoo has a story to tell, keep on rocking it you are doing great!
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You are a georgous woman, like a book each tatoo has a story to tell, keep on rocking it you are doing great!
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Rural
I have seen her in another video of social experiment, 'asking for a change without tattoos and with them'.
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I have seen her in another video of social experiment, 'asking for a change without tattoos and with them'.
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Erin
You can tell she's an awesome mom. Screw the haters. she's still beautiful and seems like a sweet soul.
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You can tell she's an awesome mom. Screw the haters. she's still beautiful and seems like a sweet soul.
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Saroj
In my country India there is famous quote for women - it is her body she may dig a ditch or Pearce. -
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In my country India there is famous quote for women - it is her body she may dig a ditch or Pearce. -
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