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My dad got caught cheating - now i have two moms - my extraordinary family

My dad got caught cheating - now i have two moms - my extraordinary family

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Rating: 4.0; Vote: 1
Alex, Shalaun and Shantell, known online as 'The Portah Family', are a throuple from Houston who says they are perfectly happy and content with their 'one man, two wives' dynamic. Before the polyamorous relationship started, Alex and Shalaun had been married for nearly 20 years with two children. But when Shalaun discovered Alex's affair with Shantell, it rocked their marriage. Shalaun eventually decided to meet Shantell and to everyone's surprise, the three of them hit it off straight away. After reassessing their relationship, they started exploring the idea of polygamy. The throuple's decision to stay together was initially met with resistance from the family. They also regularly get judgement online for their relationship. Four years later, the throuple is still happily in love and dedicated to building their family together - Alex and Shantell welcomed their first daughter last year, bringing them to a family of six. Shalaun told Truly: 'We started off in a rocky position but we grew to know each other and learn how to love each other in different ways and different fashions. '
Date: 2023-09-12

Comments and reviews: 30


So I understand cheating happens sometimes. I've cheated and I felt horrible and it hurt my soul to see the person I love hurt an devastated. I've also been cheated on before. But i couldn't imagine cheating and the person loves me so much they stay but then I demand the other one to move in and watch the my best friend, my soulmate be crushed daily and know it. How selfish? She deserves better than that. In a relationship you have to be able to put yourself in the oyhers shoes. He wouldn't dare live in a situation but with another man, why is she suppose to have to? Sad
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These guys have it great! As the other woman, how can you enter the relationship knowing the pain of the first wife? Even while the woman was crying neither one showed her any affection.
Another example of the selfishness of adults. The daughter who ahead to just adapt was an afterthought. Great message to your daughter. If you get cheated on, just invite her in.
No other average man needs to be out here complaining about women not choosing them because they-re average. These truly episodes say otherwise.

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Nah. This is not Poly. The first wife needs to file for divorce. And trust, they're not the only ones he's with. The first wife is better than me. Because yes, I am Poly, but I could never live with another woman that my babe started out cheating with. AND he had a baby by her! That's gotta hurt her even more, becaise all she sees in the other chick is someone her husband cheated with. Not cool. Not cool AT ALL.
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I-m really glad people see through this. The first wife CLEARLY doesn-t want this, she is just holding onto him at all costs. I-m sad for the children most of all, as they are learning that this is acceptable when it-s not. Just because you can make it work doesn-t mean it-s healthy or okay. This man doesn-t care that he hurt her. He-s just happy he was able to betray her and managed to keep her.
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THESE are the ones I find awful. it isn't polygamy If it was caused by someone cheating that is all it is. Feel so sad for her but she will eventually feel ready to let go cuz 20 yrs and kids is a lot I get it. They just had similar stories on Dr. Phil and they all broke up cuz it was never what the wife wanted she was just broken with his cheating
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It-s beautiful watching people come together and expand a family outside of the traditional monogamous family. Why would any couple want to watch themselves in repeating cycle and cheat/ affaires. People can have feelings for someone else, short term and long. Overall, live your life and change the dynamics of keeping everything in a closet.
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As women we have to keep our self esteem and heads high. Yes being cheated on can take a blow at your self esteem however press on! There is a better man out there! This is a selfish greedy piece of garbage. He also gives off dusty vibes! We can-t have our heads so wrapped up in being married that we accept bull$#! ##
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The first wife is honorable and wise. I must also commend the second wife by respecting and cooperating with the first wife and her children. These two women make a great example for women who aspire to be family-centered and nurturing. Family before ego -- that's what I see here.
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Normalizing Adultery & Betrayal. Now days many people have no honor, less morals or none, no self respect, extremely self centered & indulge in their lustful sins not giving a damn who they hurt or themselves in their process for self-gratification & indisciplined indulgence
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this poor woman. she has a lot of history with this man and is too attached to let go. I have literally no problem with polyamory but clearly this is unhealthy. her crying says enough, he is an absolute scumbag and his 1st wife really deserves better
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Hey! Look at yourselves! You guys are all African regardless of what culture you following. This is AFROCAN CULTURE and its just a normal thing all over AFRICA. You must all remember, the EUROPIANS BEAT this out of BLACK WOMEN that were under slavery.
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The second wife foolish and delusional. it-s only in a matter of time she will be in the first wife postion while the first wife move on and find better - -Karma- --this is disgusting. no standards none what so ever!
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The first wife lives a sorrowful life still, she wept because she is still hurt and had wished not to be in such a pitiable web of regret. Darling, my prayer is with you, please kindly leave such cantankerous marriage
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She gotta be stronger than me. To bypass the lying and sneaking behind my back to having the woman in our bed. Whew! My insecurity and self-esteem issues would be triggered and so would my RAGE! -
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I'm not against poly relationships but to see his wife crying and then to see he cheated on her and wasn't open and honest when it began makes me dislike him. He's a terrible husband
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i couldn't even be happy for them. She is really sad And this is going to get old. And from the size of the place he obviously don't have the means to take care of 2 wives. im really disgusted
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Any body else peep the wife-s face when he say second wife and her face during the baby shower her face she still hurts and can-t let go I kno I didn-t use punctuation - I can tho
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She might have been able to accept him wanting a relationship with her and another if he hadn't lied. Its the lies that break a relationship because it breaks trust.
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I went thru this to didn-t bother me for some reason but now it-s over and I-m glad never again some men don-t know what they doing smh just wanna do it.
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Alex be doing the Jada Smith. Play on brotha. Just don-t be sad when find one of your wives hanging in the closet. That girl is emotionally damaged bro.
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When you are soon selfish u have to manipulate your wife to thinking this is fine and u could stay married and not split up the family. Sad
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Lotta cheaters on here acting holy when he at least owned up to it. All the bitter mfs saying they wouldn't stay with him DEFINITELY would
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This is not true polyamory. He cheated. They were monogamous and he cheated and then his wife got coerced into accepting polyamory.
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Stopped watching as soon as they showed the first wife crying- this is toxic.
Not surprised this video doesn-t have any likes.

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It's hurtful. polygamy is more beneficial to the Man but for a lot of females it's psychological damage snd it's hard to leave.
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I can tell he has more of a spark with Shantell and wife is like the third wheel. The fact she-s crying I really feel for her.
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Nope, Nope Nope Nope I ain-t sharing my husband voluntarily or involuntarily. U cheat bye. I-ll never be ok with it hell naw
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Where is him and the real wife's son? Have a feeling since sons don't play about their moms typically he isn't feeling this.
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And that silly second wife sitting there as if she didn-t ruin a relationship anyway the same hurt is coming for her
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The man is a scumbag. He doesn't even care about the tears of the first wife --- she is still sad. Leave him.
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