He pays the bills, i stay at home - love don't judge
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Date: 2023-09-12
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Lotus
Hmmm-- I-m not sure about people in the UK, Australia, or wherever they live, but here in the U. S. being a -stay at home girlfriend- would be almost an insult. While there are some Americans who believe a woman-s place is at home (especially the older generation, most American women now have successful careers or at least a steady job. Being independent/self sufficient is important for women for so many reasons. 1. Possibility of divorce or break up 2. Death of -breadwinner- 3. Leaving an abusive partner etc. Bottom line: Never financially depend on your partner/spouse or you-re screwed.
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Hmmm-- I-m not sure about people in the UK, Australia, or wherever they live, but here in the U. S. being a -stay at home girlfriend- would be almost an insult. While there are some Americans who believe a woman-s place is at home (especially the older generation, most American women now have successful careers or at least a steady job. Being independent/self sufficient is important for women for so many reasons. 1. Possibility of divorce or break up 2. Death of -breadwinner- 3. Leaving an abusive partner etc. Bottom line: Never financially depend on your partner/spouse or you-re screwed.
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Soul
Yes you-re so happy you had to make a video to prove it to us! Love those little incongruencies that occurred along the way! This was ridiculous and weird!
Your own partner is telling you to protect yourself! Let that be your warning sign!
How can we mind our own business when you literally broadcast your business to us!
I do not have an issue with anyone being a stay at home girlfriend, but rolling your eyes at your partner when he is busy chilling is not ok! It shows that you are not actually happy! So why did you make this? Just what did you want to prove? Bizarre --
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Yes you-re so happy you had to make a video to prove it to us! Love those little incongruencies that occurred along the way! This was ridiculous and weird!
Your own partner is telling you to protect yourself! Let that be your warning sign!
How can we mind our own business when you literally broadcast your business to us!
I do not have an issue with anyone being a stay at home girlfriend, but rolling your eyes at your partner when he is busy chilling is not ok! It shows that you are not actually happy! So why did you make this? Just what did you want to prove? Bizarre --
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Tommie
But he doesnt even actually pay all the bills. hes basically getting free labor and 50/50. and he even said his mom went to work 3 days after giving birth. he said she should protect herself. he wants a woman who is well kempt and looks good but doesnt even foot the bill for that. he has revealed himself as someone who believes women should suffer by doing all the physical and emotional labor around the house while he gets to cosplay as the man of the house. if it works for them cool but this is just laughable to me
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But he doesnt even actually pay all the bills. hes basically getting free labor and 50/50. and he even said his mom went to work 3 days after giving birth. he said she should protect herself. he wants a woman who is well kempt and looks good but doesnt even foot the bill for that. he has revealed himself as someone who believes women should suffer by doing all the physical and emotional labor around the house while he gets to cosplay as the man of the house. if it works for them cool but this is just laughable to me
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Jen
It-s a bit backward to throw in anybody-s face the fact that women struggled so hard so she could work.
They fought for her to have THE RIGHT to work. That doesn-t take awayTHE RIGHT to stay at home! Yes, she has rights. Living in a free country gives her the right to choose whether or not she should work.
Don-t even let those folks choose which rights you should exercise. They-re evil dictators to try to force you to exercise the rights they choose for you.
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It-s a bit backward to throw in anybody-s face the fact that women struggled so hard so she could work.
They fought for her to have THE RIGHT to work. That doesn-t take awayTHE RIGHT to stay at home! Yes, she has rights. Living in a free country gives her the right to choose whether or not she should work.
Don-t even let those folks choose which rights you should exercise. They-re evil dictators to try to force you to exercise the rights they choose for you.
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susLarry7
I get worried when is see a girl so dependant on her partner when she has no source of income especially in marriages and even worse when the two aren't married because men aren't immortal or invincible, they can die, they can lose their jobs or they can get into an accident and not be able to earn money anymore. No one knows what could happen tomorrow and so I believe it's important for women to have their own source of income
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I get worried when is see a girl so dependant on her partner when she has no source of income especially in marriages and even worse when the two aren't married because men aren't immortal or invincible, they can die, they can lose their jobs or they can get into an accident and not be able to earn money anymore. No one knows what could happen tomorrow and so I believe it's important for women to have their own source of income
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61raindrops
Wait, are you telling me, as long as I do house chores in front of a man, film tiktok about cooking and cleaning, be a traditional housewife by narrating this role play, men will eat it up and I don-t actually need to be modest and low maintenance like the way men claim they want us to be? I get to splurge on nails, hair and surgeries, as long as my patriarchy theatrical performance is on point? Got it!
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Wait, are you telling me, as long as I do house chores in front of a man, film tiktok about cooking and cleaning, be a traditional housewife by narrating this role play, men will eat it up and I don-t actually need to be modest and low maintenance like the way men claim they want us to be? I get to splurge on nails, hair and surgeries, as long as my patriarchy theatrical performance is on point? Got it!
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PanDora
She should work (at least part-time) since she can make a good living w an education meanwhile they can hire a housekeeper part time for the weekdays to clean and cook. Damn, imagine how much further in life they could get. Especially since they have no children - this is the time to take advantage of both parties working and save and invest until they may, one day, have children.
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She should work (at least part-time) since she can make a good living w an education meanwhile they can hire a housekeeper part time for the weekdays to clean and cook. Damn, imagine how much further in life they could get. Especially since they have no children - this is the time to take advantage of both parties working and save and invest until they may, one day, have children.
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Javier
Biggs is my hero. Summer is hot! Way to go. I just want to know who is more upset with her decision to be a stay at home girlfriend, liberals or conservatives? Because he's right it's none of our business. They seem happy. It works for them. As long as they are able to have a strong relationship, more power to them!
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Biggs is my hero. Summer is hot! Way to go. I just want to know who is more upset with her decision to be a stay at home girlfriend, liberals or conservatives? Because he's right it's none of our business. They seem happy. It works for them. As long as they are able to have a strong relationship, more power to them!
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blogs
Nothing wrong with being a stay at home spouse but it-s obvious this relationship isn-t going to last. How often does she actually get on her hands and knees to clean? And she-s not even happy to do it and complaining. And that microwaved hot dog? Like he can-t microwave his own hotdog. Honey ur not doing it right.
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Nothing wrong with being a stay at home spouse but it-s obvious this relationship isn-t going to last. How often does she actually get on her hands and knees to clean? And she-s not even happy to do it and complaining. And that microwaved hot dog? Like he can-t microwave his own hotdog. Honey ur not doing it right.
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B.
It's all fun&games until you have kids. Then the hard work begins. And it's HARD. You're up at 5am to get everything ready, colicky babies, up all night with baby, tired as hell, school runs, cooking etc. But yea being childless&filming tictoc all day, pfffft she's on holiday everyday.
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It's all fun&games until you have kids. Then the hard work begins. And it's HARD. You're up at 5am to get everything ready, colicky babies, up all night with baby, tired as hell, school runs, cooking etc. But yea being childless&filming tictoc all day, pfffft she's on holiday everyday.
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Satta
I can-t be the only one thats seen this video on this account before? They-re recycling previous video, like often--.
Like last time, I still think she-s putting herself (financially) in a bad situation. And he literally said -if you-re a woman, protect yourself--. So-.
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I can-t be the only one thats seen this video on this account before? They-re recycling previous video, like often--.
Like last time, I still think she-s putting herself (financially) in a bad situation. And he literally said -if you-re a woman, protect yourself--. So-.
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carmella
I will say after watching the video and its entirety, it sounds like he just takes care of the Big Bill's, she's still taking care of stuff cleaning the house, and paying for her own maintenance. So, what are ppl up in arms about again?
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I will say after watching the video and its entirety, it sounds like he just takes care of the Big Bill's, she's still taking care of stuff cleaning the house, and paying for her own maintenance. So, what are ppl up in arms about again?
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Cecelia
This would make more sense and be more equal if he paid ALL the bills (including her personal maintenance that he likes so much) while she was taking care of ALL the housework responsibilities and food- but whatever works for them! -
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This would make more sense and be more equal if he paid ALL the bills (including her personal maintenance that he likes so much) while she was taking care of ALL the housework responsibilities and food- but whatever works for them! -
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AsTheCrowFlies
He pays the majority of the bills and she's whining because he won't help her clean. How much cleaning can there be with just two people there? She has a degree and won't act on it, so a waste of an education and money.
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He pays the majority of the bills and she's whining because he won't help her clean. How much cleaning can there be with just two people there? She has a degree and won't act on it, so a waste of an education and money.
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Catapillargirl
It takes a long time to work yourself up pay-grades and experience levels. If they break up she will be behind her peers and will need another sugar daddy. Its her life but I certainly want to pave my own way.
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It takes a long time to work yourself up pay-grades and experience levels. If they break up she will be behind her peers and will need another sugar daddy. Its her life but I certainly want to pave my own way.
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Earlette
She needs a back bone of her own cleaning up after her man is great if he gonna pay all bills but he don-t so basically she paying half and being his housekeeper (girlfriend) he knows exactly what he-s doing
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She needs a back bone of her own cleaning up after her man is great if he gonna pay all bills but he don-t so basically she paying half and being his housekeeper (girlfriend) he knows exactly what he-s doing
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B.
Thats nothing to be judged. as long as she keeps him happy and satisfied. I think its rather great to find your gorgeous gf waiting for you when you come home. And yes the fresh cooked food's always great.
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Thats nothing to be judged. as long as she keeps him happy and satisfied. I think its rather great to find your gorgeous gf waiting for you when you come home. And yes the fresh cooked food's always great.
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Marvellous
She can have all the degrees, but she-s lacking common sense. How much cleaning can she possibly be doing every damn day? My boy just found himself a modern day millennial slave. This will not last!
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She can have all the degrees, but she-s lacking common sense. How much cleaning can she possibly be doing every damn day? My boy just found himself a modern day millennial slave. This will not last!
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Twilight
He can be here today and gone tomorrow. And not a dime in her pocket for when an accident occur.
When people get into these traditional relationships, im sure theres no plan b or beyond.
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He can be here today and gone tomorrow. And not a dime in her pocket for when an accident occur.
When people get into these traditional relationships, im sure theres no plan b or beyond.
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MOLLIE
You do not want to be a kept woman. He can -unkeep- you at any time. Use the time to get additional and more lucrative skills. Be ready when he trades you in for a younger version. Be smart.
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You do not want to be a kept woman. He can -unkeep- you at any time. Use the time to get additional and more lucrative skills. Be ready when he trades you in for a younger version. Be smart.
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carmella
I don't see anything wrong with this arrangement. It works for them. - When she said I take care of him, and they show the clip of her putting hot dogs in that machine me -----
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I don't see anything wrong with this arrangement. It works for them. - When she said I take care of him, and they show the clip of her putting hot dogs in that machine me -----
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skunkie110
I-m just a little lost on how she has income? She said she takes care of some bills, and pays for her hair/nails/other treatments. I-m like, how? She must make money somehow.
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I-m just a little lost on how she has income? She said she takes care of some bills, and pays for her hair/nails/other treatments. I-m like, how? She must make money somehow.
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Nature
Wow. I've been a stay at home wife for 30 years with a rich husband! He should marry her instead of milking the cow for free. That's what my mom told my husband years ago. -
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Wow. I've been a stay at home wife for 30 years with a rich husband! He should marry her instead of milking the cow for free. That's what my mom told my husband years ago. -
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Kitty
Ok. Where can I get a bf like that? I want one. - I like cleaning. I don't go out at night. Let them be happy. I mean. it works for them. Doesn't matter what others think.
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Ok. Where can I get a bf like that? I want one. - I like cleaning. I don't go out at night. Let them be happy. I mean. it works for them. Doesn't matter what others think.
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Deep
Stay at home girlfriend lol. Dumbest thing I've ever heard. She's completely irresponsible relying on this guy to take care of her. If they split she will have nothing
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Stay at home girlfriend lol. Dumbest thing I've ever heard. She's completely irresponsible relying on this guy to take care of her. If they split she will have nothing
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miyavi
this is a very dangerous thing men or women no matter what should have their own outcome please dont depend on anyone i experienced this from my parents
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this is a very dangerous thing men or women no matter what should have their own outcome please dont depend on anyone i experienced this from my parents
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Victoria
I'm not against the relationship but, i do wonder how the power inbalance will affect themlater on as they have only been dating a year
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I'm not against the relationship but, i do wonder how the power inbalance will affect themlater on as they have only been dating a year
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oluwatominsin
I seriously don't understand why these comments are so negative. if they're both happy then that's all that matters, it's her life?
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I seriously don't understand why these comments are so negative. if they're both happy then that's all that matters, it's her life?
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Kratos
Thin, blonde, in shape, obedient, kind, fit, fun no ridiculous amount of tattoos and fit and obedient. Just like a good woman should be -
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Thin, blonde, in shape, obedient, kind, fit, fun no ridiculous amount of tattoos and fit and obedient. Just like a good woman should be -
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Alicia
Being a stay at home wife makes sense but gf is very risky he owes you nothing and what is she paying bills with if she doesn-t work
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Being a stay at home wife makes sense but gf is very risky he owes you nothing and what is she paying bills with if she doesn-t work
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