5 Helpful Tips When Your Crush is an Introvert
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Date: 2023-08-20
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Aria
Mine will sometimes make plans with me, then completely disappear for weeks leaving me wondering without a word. TTTT This frightened me at first as I feared I'd done something wrong. but I practiced patience and unconditional positive regard only to learn that he'd suddenly had something big happen for him that will slingshot his career forward helping him make his dreams a reality! So by being patient & sending him kind messages? I was able to preserve our friendship & show my support while he was MIA. We've been friends for over a year and a half, but I've only just begun to crush on him I knew he was forgetful from the start, but I didn't realize that would translate into flakiness. XD He's teaching me how to be more patient, kind, & loving. and he doesn't even realize it! It's also helped me to learn more about myself & work through some old trauma, so I feel it's a win-win situation He's the magic I never even knew I needed in my life! & I can't wait to finally tell him.
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Mine will sometimes make plans with me, then completely disappear for weeks leaving me wondering without a word. TTTT This frightened me at first as I feared I'd done something wrong. but I practiced patience and unconditional positive regard only to learn that he'd suddenly had something big happen for him that will slingshot his career forward helping him make his dreams a reality! So by being patient & sending him kind messages? I was able to preserve our friendship & show my support while he was MIA. We've been friends for over a year and a half, but I've only just begun to crush on him I knew he was forgetful from the start, but I didn't realize that would translate into flakiness. XD He's teaching me how to be more patient, kind, & loving. and he doesn't even realize it! It's also helped me to learn more about myself & work through some old trauma, so I feel it's a win-win situation He's the magic I never even knew I needed in my life! & I can't wait to finally tell him.
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Joshua
I need help so this boy I met over the summer 12 years ago in 2010 but we never physically met but 12 years later we met In July but we I talk to him we had this Instant connection right away but he is introvert and me I am a extrovert and introvert but we dont see each other lot in person because are schedule put we text but here the thing ik he like me but I dont know if he like me as a friend brother or boyfriend because we really didnt put label on our relationship but we both know we have this strong connection with each other and we been talking for 5 months know ik each time we talk our relationship grow but I dont know if its growing as brotherhood or boyfriend but I cant confirm or deny either of friendship or romantic feelings and he is introvert but he the kind that I have to make the first move but he open honest feel comfortable with me but I dont know if he like he as friend or boyfriend
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I need help so this boy I met over the summer 12 years ago in 2010 but we never physically met but 12 years later we met In July but we I talk to him we had this Instant connection right away but he is introvert and me I am a extrovert and introvert but we dont see each other lot in person because are schedule put we text but here the thing ik he like me but I dont know if he like me as a friend brother or boyfriend because we really didnt put label on our relationship but we both know we have this strong connection with each other and we been talking for 5 months know ik each time we talk our relationship grow but I dont know if its growing as brotherhood or boyfriend but I cant confirm or deny either of friendship or romantic feelings and he is introvert but he the kind that I have to make the first move but he open honest feel comfortable with me but I dont know if he like he as friend or boyfriend
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That
So, I'm an introvert, and I have a big crush on my introvert friend, but 1. He's 2 yrs older than me, and in a different class and 2. We usually talk for hours on zoom, but when we meet in real life, we get rlly awkward. He says he doesn't like anyone, but my friends say he might like me. I mean, he did ask to meet me alone, just us, for the first time. He made a move. I'm not sure. Pls respond!
Edit: My friends helped me and I found out we both liked each other! He wants to date, but I said next year, as I would like to first get my exams out of the way, then him. It gets awkward sometimes when we talk, because we don't know what to talk about. He likes cuddling with me, and compliments me alot. I dont really know what to do, like, should I wait until I finsh school, or should I date now?
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So, I'm an introvert, and I have a big crush on my introvert friend, but 1. He's 2 yrs older than me, and in a different class and 2. We usually talk for hours on zoom, but when we meet in real life, we get rlly awkward. He says he doesn't like anyone, but my friends say he might like me. I mean, he did ask to meet me alone, just us, for the first time. He made a move. I'm not sure. Pls respond!
Edit: My friends helped me and I found out we both liked each other! He wants to date, but I said next year, as I would like to first get my exams out of the way, then him. It gets awkward sometimes when we talk, because we don't know what to talk about. He likes cuddling with me, and compliments me alot. I dont really know what to do, like, should I wait until I finsh school, or should I date now?
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Laurenz
the problems I face:
I'm an introvert myself and I find it difficult to talk to her when I want to even in texts, dunno why I'm still kinda socially awkward around her but at the same time feel comfortable.
I'm an INTJ and am reserved, some people developed crushes on me and I couldn't reciprocate how they felt. This crush story thing is different when I'm the one crushing on someone, I find it a nuisance (well, not really because she did make herself a good influence, etc. the reason why we're friends and why I'm crushing on her. None of these were a part of my plan and I don't like what's mostly happening as of now because of my pessimistic self. But for now, she's serving as an inspiration to me and it has helped me quite better than I thought.
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the problems I face:
I'm an introvert myself and I find it difficult to talk to her when I want to even in texts, dunno why I'm still kinda socially awkward around her but at the same time feel comfortable.
I'm an INTJ and am reserved, some people developed crushes on me and I couldn't reciprocate how they felt. This crush story thing is different when I'm the one crushing on someone, I find it a nuisance (well, not really because she did make herself a good influence, etc. the reason why we're friends and why I'm crushing on her. None of these were a part of my plan and I don't like what's mostly happening as of now because of my pessimistic self. But for now, she's serving as an inspiration to me and it has helped me quite better than I thought.
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Myel
Honestly, I have a crush on an introvert and they just seem so uninterested. Left on read, no reciprocity when I make plans to meet up, minimal eye contact sometimes. Does this mean they straight up want nothing to do with me? If not, how do I get to know them better? I keep trying, but its hard to get them to hang out. I understand they will feel more comfortable around me once we know each other better, but how the hell is that supposed to happen? It seems impossible at this point. Ive been trying to be patient, but Im close to giving up. I lose interest when someone doesnt seem interested and isnt making as much effort. Somebody explain. Lmao.
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Honestly, I have a crush on an introvert and they just seem so uninterested. Left on read, no reciprocity when I make plans to meet up, minimal eye contact sometimes. Does this mean they straight up want nothing to do with me? If not, how do I get to know them better? I keep trying, but its hard to get them to hang out. I understand they will feel more comfortable around me once we know each other better, but how the hell is that supposed to happen? It seems impossible at this point. Ive been trying to be patient, but Im close to giving up. I lose interest when someone doesnt seem interested and isnt making as much effort. Somebody explain. Lmao.
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Mariana
You say it's not about changing who we are. Yes but it is. It seems as if if you like an introvert, u gotta change everything for them, as if we gotta understand them, but we are not understood. I trully don't ubderstand why they gotta be treated as ohhh poor them as we have to do all that work. It IS this way. It IS aboit changing what we like and prefer and this is the truth
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You say it's not about changing who we are. Yes but it is. It seems as if if you like an introvert, u gotta change everything for them, as if we gotta understand them, but we are not understood. I trully don't ubderstand why they gotta be treated as ohhh poor them as we have to do all that work. It IS this way. It IS aboit changing what we like and prefer and this is the truth
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David
To be honest. My crush in an introvert. I try to have conversations with her, but sometimes she tells me she doens't really feel like talking to people at the moment. I wann ahave convos to get to know her better you know? Get to know WHY SHE IS AN introvert. I feel like this is gonna be hard but, luckily, I still got the confidence keeping me going. Wish me luck y'all
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To be honest. My crush in an introvert. I try to have conversations with her, but sometimes she tells me she doens't really feel like talking to people at the moment. I wann ahave convos to get to know her better you know? Get to know WHY SHE IS AN introvert. I feel like this is gonna be hard but, luckily, I still got the confidence keeping me going. Wish me luck y'all
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NicoleDrawsMore
There was a dance yesterday night, and my crush was there, but he didn't really look ok. I wanted to ask him if he was alright, but I got scared so I didn't. Later I noticed that he had left the dance. He has really bad social problems, so I'm guessing it was an anxiety attack. I texted him asking if he was ok, but he hasn't seen it yet.
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There was a dance yesterday night, and my crush was there, but he didn't really look ok. I wanted to ask him if he was alright, but I got scared so I didn't. Later I noticed that he had left the dance. He has really bad social problems, so I'm guessing it was an anxiety attack. I texted him asking if he was ok, but he hasn't seen it yet.
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psych2go
Im an extrovert meaning Im in more open places loud annoying and super friendly but this guy I like is an introvert yes he does have some friends but hes kinda closed off its just so confusing to me because I could have other guys that are willing to date me but I have feeling for a person that cant even make eye contact with me
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Im an extrovert meaning Im in more open places loud annoying and super friendly but this guy I like is an introvert yes he does have some friends but hes kinda closed off its just so confusing to me because I could have other guys that are willing to date me but I have feeling for a person that cant even make eye contact with me
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nekuodaH
I don't know if she's an introvert but in person she's really shy and only talk when you talk to her, but when I chat her she responds hours after or even a day and I respect her and sometimes she doesn't reply and leave me on delivered. Is it a sign she's not interested to me or she is interested to someone?
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I don't know if she's an introvert but in person she's really shy and only talk when you talk to her, but when I chat her she responds hours after or even a day and I respect her and sometimes she doesn't reply and leave me on delivered. Is it a sign she's not interested to me or she is interested to someone?
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Kingmalcolm
I have a crush a co worker, who a introvert who I learn later on that she had a crush on me but sometimes I can't read out but I see sign that she like me too (cross legs compass and imitating) but I don't know much she like me. Cause she stop being touchy touchy over time.
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I have a crush a co worker, who a introvert who I learn later on that she had a crush on me but sometimes I can't read out but I see sign that she like me too (cross legs compass and imitating) but I don't know much she like me. Cause she stop being touchy touchy over time.
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Trevor
I've been talking to this girl for a year and a half and we have so much in common. For the first time in my life I've found someone I truly care about but the last month and a half she hasn't said a word. She said she's not mad at me but isn't in the talking mood what do I do
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I've been talking to this girl for a year and a half and we have so much in common. For the first time in my life I've found someone I truly care about but the last month and a half she hasn't said a word. She said she's not mad at me but isn't in the talking mood what do I do
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Karma
My crush is a very reserved, very intelligent, meme goblin in a way? A shitposter, if you will. Very cultured in media, crafts and animation and we've known each other for a while. Thank you for the tips! Im hoping I can confess without her becoming shy or reclusive.
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My crush is a very reserved, very intelligent, meme goblin in a way? A shitposter, if you will. Very cultured in media, crafts and animation and we've known each other for a while. Thank you for the tips! Im hoping I can confess without her becoming shy or reclusive.
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Joyo
She's just too busy at work; sometimes she doesn't even read my texts: ( but I patiently wait. She doesn't like phonecalls. So I only reach her by texting. Sometimes she doesnt reply my text until the next day or two. :( But I would patiently wait.
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She's just too busy at work; sometimes she doesn't even read my texts: ( but I patiently wait. She doesn't like phonecalls. So I only reach her by texting. Sometimes she doesnt reply my text until the next day or two. :( But I would patiently wait.
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ClashOfClaws
I see my crush every day in a bus when i am going to school. When my crush get on the bus sometimes we make eye contact and it feels awesome but never get an oppertunity to talk bc we see each other only for a few seconds in bus.
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I see my crush every day in a bus when i am going to school. When my crush get on the bus sometimes we make eye contact and it feels awesome but never get an oppertunity to talk bc we see each other only for a few seconds in bus.
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ramen
Forget about going out on actual dates.
I can't even speak to him coz we both are introverts!
I mean he isn't a typical introvert. I guess you could say he's a mix.
I can't even start a conversation.
What I need is tips!
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Forget about going out on actual dates.
I can't even speak to him coz we both are introverts!
I mean he isn't a typical introvert. I guess you could say he's a mix.
I can't even start a conversation.
What I need is tips!
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RQ
This is so nice. I am an extrovert guy but i always have patient when it comes to my crush who is an introvert. She always denies but i dont give up and we wemt out one time and we had fun but patient is a virtue she is too beautiful
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This is so nice. I am an extrovert guy but i always have patient when it comes to my crush who is an introvert. She always denies but i dont give up and we wemt out one time and we had fun but patient is a virtue she is too beautiful
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j. c
5 is true. One of the things I look in a girl is their passion, confidence, and outgoingness as weird as that sounds coming from a introvert. I don't know why but I just admire when a girl is outgoing and louder than me.
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5 is true. One of the things I look in a girl is their passion, confidence, and outgoingness as weird as that sounds coming from a introvert. I don't know why but I just admire when a girl is outgoing and louder than me.
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bhavin
well im an introvert aswell, it is even harder to atleast text her but when i do she does reply, today i had courage to ask if she is also and introvert and turned out to be one, and than there was awkward silence
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well im an introvert aswell, it is even harder to atleast text her but when i do she does reply, today i had courage to ask if she is also and introvert and turned out to be one, and than there was awkward silence
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RedNum19
As an introvert, I hate smalltalk, Id much rather talk about something more interesting then the weather. That might just be me though, Im really easy to talk to if there is something else Im doing at the time.
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As an introvert, I hate smalltalk, Id much rather talk about something more interesting then the weather. That might just be me though, Im really easy to talk to if there is something else Im doing at the time.
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That
Me over here just having to act like my natural self (including being distanced, not very talkative and very plain) and within 3 weeks my crush admitting to liking me.
How
Is
That
Possible
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Me over here just having to act like my natural self (including being distanced, not very talkative and very plain) and within 3 weeks my crush admitting to liking me.
How
Is
That
Possible
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Eijiro
My issue is that I'm a more intimate person, and I'm not expecting my introverted crush to be intimate at all, it just feels like we're going nowhere at all, and I have tried everything. Any advice?
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My issue is that I'm a more intimate person, and I'm not expecting my introverted crush to be intimate at all, it just feels like we're going nowhere at all, and I have tried everything. Any advice?
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Cyrus
At first there are times I can't understand her that she's so silent but now i understand her, whats important is how much i love her and im very willing to understand her because i love her so much
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At first there are times I can't understand her that she's so silent but now i understand her, whats important is how much i love her and im very willing to understand her because i love her so much
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bi_squared
we're both introverted and hes very shy. we met a few months ago but recently i feel like he's been able to open up a little more and joke and feel more comfortable and im so happy about it: )
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we're both introverted and hes very shy. we met a few months ago but recently i feel like he's been able to open up a little more and joke and feel more comfortable and im so happy about it: )
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Dee
i think my crush is an introvert based on what ive been observing, im thinking about giving him a written poem because im too nervous to be direct face 2 face i hope i dont make him uncomfortable.
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i think my crush is an introvert based on what ive been observing, im thinking about giving him a written poem because im too nervous to be direct face 2 face i hope i dont make him uncomfortable.
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