7 Signs You Are Emotionally Mature
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Date: 2023-08-20
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willie
The qualities of a mature person are very strange.
First, he is not a person. He is no longer a self. He has a presence, but he is not a person.
Second, he is more like a child. simple and innocent.
Thats why I said the qualities of a mature person are very strange, because maturity gives a sense as if he has experienced, as if he is aged, old. Physically he may be old, but spiritually he is an innocent child. His maturity is not just experience gained through life. Then he will not be a child, and then he will not be a presence; he will be an experienced person knowledgeable but not mature.
Maturity has nothing to do with your life experiences. It has something to do with your inward journey, experiences of the inner.
The more he goes deeper into himself, the more mature he is. When he has reached the very center of his being, he is perfectly mature. But at that moment the person disappears, only presence remains.
The self disappears, only silence remains.
Knowledge disappears, only innocence remains.
To me, maturity is another name for realization: you have come to the fulfillment of your potential, it has become actual. The seed has come on a long journey, and has blossomed.
Maturity has a fragrance. It gives a tremendous beauty to the individual. It gives intelligence, the sharpest possible intelligence. It makes him nothing but love. His action is love, his inaction is love; his life is love, his death is love. He is just a flower of love.
The West has definitions of maturity which are very childish. The West means by maturity that you are no longer innocent, that you have ripened through life experiences, that you cannot be cheated easily, that you cannot be exploited, that you have within you something like a solid rock a protection, a security.
This definition is very ordinary, very worldly. Yes, in the world you will find mature people of this type. But the way I see maturity is totally different, diametrically opposite to this definition. The maturity will not make you a rock; it will make you so vulnerable, so soft, so simple.
I remember. a thief entered a masters hut. It was a full-moon night, and by mistake he had entered; otherwise, what can you find in a masters house? The thief was looking, and was amazed that there was nothing. And then suddenly he saw a man who was coming with a candle in his hand.
The man said, What are you looking for in the dark? Why did you not wake me up? I was just sleeping near the front door, and I could have showed you the whole house. And the man looked so simple and so innocent, as if he could not conceive that anybody could be a thief.
Before his simplicity and innocence, the thief said, Perhaps you do not know that I am a thief.
The master said, That doesnt matter, one has to be someone. The point is that I have been in the house for thirty years and I have not found anything, so let us search together! And if we can find something, we can be partners. I have not found anything in this house; it is just empty.
The thief was a little afraid: the man seems to be strange. Either he is mad or. who knows what kind of man he is? He wanted to escape, because he had brought things from two other houses that he had left outside the house.
The master had only one blanket that was all that he had and it was a cold night, so he told that thief, Dont go this way, dont insult me this way; otherwise I will never be able to forgive myself, that a poor man came to my house in the middle of the night and had to go empty-handed. Just take this blanket. And it will be good outside it is so cold. I am inside the house; it is warmer here.
He covered the thief with his blanket. The thief was just losing his mind! He said, What are you doing? I am a thief!
The master said, That does not matter. In this world everybody has to be somebody, has to do something. You may be stealing; that doesnt matter, a profession is a profession. Just do it well, with all my blessings. Do it perfectly, dont be caught; otherwise you will be in trouble.
The thief said, You are strange. You are naked and you dont have anything!
The master said, Dont be worried, because I am coming with you! Only the blanket was keeping me in this house; otherwise in this house there is nothing and the blanket I have given to you. I am coming with you we will live together. You seem to have many things; it is a good partnership. I have given my all to you. You can give me a little bit; that will be right.
The thief could not believe it! He just wanted to escape from that place and from that man. He said, No, I cannot take you with me. I have my wife, I have my children, and my neighbors, what will they say? You have brought a naked man!
He said, Thats right. I will not put you in any embarrassing situation. So you can go, I will remain in this house. And as the thief was going, the master shouted, Hey! Come back! The thief had never heard such a strong voice; it went just like a knife. He had to come back. The master said, Learn some ways of courtesy. I have given you the blanket and you have not even thanked me. So first, thank me; it will help you a long way. Secondly, going out you opened the door when you came in close the door! Cant you see the night is so cold, and cant you see that I have given you the blanket and I am naked? Your being a thief is okay, but as far as manners are concerned, I am a difficult man. I cannot tolerate this kind of behavior. Say thank you!
The thief had to say, Thank you, sir, and he closed the door and escaped. He could not believe what had happened! He could not sleep the whole night. Again and again he remembered. he had never heard such a strong voice, such power. And the man had nothing!
He enquired the next day and he found out that this was a great master. He had not done well. It was absolutely ugly to go to that poor man; he had nothing. But he was a great master.
The thief said, That I can understand myself that he is a very strange kind of man. In my whole life I have been coming in contact with different kinds of people, from the poorest to the richest, but never. even remembering him, a shivering goes through my body.
When he called me back I could not run away. I was absolutely free, I could have taken the things and run away, but I could not. There was something in his voice that pulled me back.
After a few months the thief was caught, and in the court the magistrate asked him, Can you name a person who knows you in this vicinity?
He said, Yes, one person knows me. and he named the master.
The magistrate said, Thats enough call the master. His testimony is worth that of ten thousand people. What he says about you will be enough to give judgment.
The magistrate asked the master, Do you know this man?
He said, Know him? We are partners. He is my friend. He even visited me one night in the middle of the night. It was so cold that I gave him my blanket. He is using it, you can see. That blanket is famous all over the country; everybody knows it is mine.
The magistrate said, He is your friend? And does he steal?
The master said, Never! He can never steal. He is such a gentleman that when I gave him the blanket he said to me, Thank you, sir. When he went out of the house, he silently closed the doors. He is a very polite, nice fellow.
The magistrate said, If you say so, then all the testimonies of the witnesses who have said that he is a thief are cancelled. He is freed. The master went out and the thief followed him.
The master said, What are you doing? Why are you coming with me?
He said, Now I can never leave you. You have called me your friend, you have called me your partner. Nobody has ever given me any respect. You are the first person who has said that I am a gentleman, a nice person. I am going to sit at your feet and learn how to be like you. From where have you got this maturity, this power, this strength, this seeing of things in a totally different way?
The master said, Do you know that night how bad I felt? You had gone; it was so cold. Without a blanket sleep was not possible. I was just sitting by the window seeing the full moon, and I wrote a poem: If I was rich enough I would have given this perfect moon to that poor fellow, who had come in the dark to search for something in a poor mans house. I would have given the moon if I had been rich enough, but I am poor myself. I will show you the poem, come with me.
I wept that night, that thieves should learn a few things. At least they should inform a day or two ahead when they come to a man like me, so we can arrange something, so they dont have to go empty-handed.
It is good that you remembered me in the court; otherwise those fellows are dangerous, they may have mistreated you. I offered that very night to come with you and be partners with you, but you refused. Now you want. There is no problem, you can come. Whatever I have I will share with you. But it is not material: it is something invisible.
The thief said, That I can feel; it is something invisible. But you have saved my life, and now it is yours. Make whatever you want to make of it. I have been simply wasting it. Seeing you, looking in your eyes, one thing is certain that you can transform me. I have fallen in love from that very night.
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The qualities of a mature person are very strange.
First, he is not a person. He is no longer a self. He has a presence, but he is not a person.
Second, he is more like a child. simple and innocent.
Thats why I said the qualities of a mature person are very strange, because maturity gives a sense as if he has experienced, as if he is aged, old. Physically he may be old, but spiritually he is an innocent child. His maturity is not just experience gained through life. Then he will not be a child, and then he will not be a presence; he will be an experienced person knowledgeable but not mature.
Maturity has nothing to do with your life experiences. It has something to do with your inward journey, experiences of the inner.
The more he goes deeper into himself, the more mature he is. When he has reached the very center of his being, he is perfectly mature. But at that moment the person disappears, only presence remains.
The self disappears, only silence remains.
Knowledge disappears, only innocence remains.
To me, maturity is another name for realization: you have come to the fulfillment of your potential, it has become actual. The seed has come on a long journey, and has blossomed.
Maturity has a fragrance. It gives a tremendous beauty to the individual. It gives intelligence, the sharpest possible intelligence. It makes him nothing but love. His action is love, his inaction is love; his life is love, his death is love. He is just a flower of love.
The West has definitions of maturity which are very childish. The West means by maturity that you are no longer innocent, that you have ripened through life experiences, that you cannot be cheated easily, that you cannot be exploited, that you have within you something like a solid rock a protection, a security.
This definition is very ordinary, very worldly. Yes, in the world you will find mature people of this type. But the way I see maturity is totally different, diametrically opposite to this definition. The maturity will not make you a rock; it will make you so vulnerable, so soft, so simple.
I remember. a thief entered a masters hut. It was a full-moon night, and by mistake he had entered; otherwise, what can you find in a masters house? The thief was looking, and was amazed that there was nothing. And then suddenly he saw a man who was coming with a candle in his hand.
The man said, What are you looking for in the dark? Why did you not wake me up? I was just sleeping near the front door, and I could have showed you the whole house. And the man looked so simple and so innocent, as if he could not conceive that anybody could be a thief.
Before his simplicity and innocence, the thief said, Perhaps you do not know that I am a thief.
The master said, That doesnt matter, one has to be someone. The point is that I have been in the house for thirty years and I have not found anything, so let us search together! And if we can find something, we can be partners. I have not found anything in this house; it is just empty.
The thief was a little afraid: the man seems to be strange. Either he is mad or. who knows what kind of man he is? He wanted to escape, because he had brought things from two other houses that he had left outside the house.
The master had only one blanket that was all that he had and it was a cold night, so he told that thief, Dont go this way, dont insult me this way; otherwise I will never be able to forgive myself, that a poor man came to my house in the middle of the night and had to go empty-handed. Just take this blanket. And it will be good outside it is so cold. I am inside the house; it is warmer here.
He covered the thief with his blanket. The thief was just losing his mind! He said, What are you doing? I am a thief!
The master said, That does not matter. In this world everybody has to be somebody, has to do something. You may be stealing; that doesnt matter, a profession is a profession. Just do it well, with all my blessings. Do it perfectly, dont be caught; otherwise you will be in trouble.
The thief said, You are strange. You are naked and you dont have anything!
The master said, Dont be worried, because I am coming with you! Only the blanket was keeping me in this house; otherwise in this house there is nothing and the blanket I have given to you. I am coming with you we will live together. You seem to have many things; it is a good partnership. I have given my all to you. You can give me a little bit; that will be right.
The thief could not believe it! He just wanted to escape from that place and from that man. He said, No, I cannot take you with me. I have my wife, I have my children, and my neighbors, what will they say? You have brought a naked man!
He said, Thats right. I will not put you in any embarrassing situation. So you can go, I will remain in this house. And as the thief was going, the master shouted, Hey! Come back! The thief had never heard such a strong voice; it went just like a knife. He had to come back. The master said, Learn some ways of courtesy. I have given you the blanket and you have not even thanked me. So first, thank me; it will help you a long way. Secondly, going out you opened the door when you came in close the door! Cant you see the night is so cold, and cant you see that I have given you the blanket and I am naked? Your being a thief is okay, but as far as manners are concerned, I am a difficult man. I cannot tolerate this kind of behavior. Say thank you!
The thief had to say, Thank you, sir, and he closed the door and escaped. He could not believe what had happened! He could not sleep the whole night. Again and again he remembered. he had never heard such a strong voice, such power. And the man had nothing!
He enquired the next day and he found out that this was a great master. He had not done well. It was absolutely ugly to go to that poor man; he had nothing. But he was a great master.
The thief said, That I can understand myself that he is a very strange kind of man. In my whole life I have been coming in contact with different kinds of people, from the poorest to the richest, but never. even remembering him, a shivering goes through my body.
When he called me back I could not run away. I was absolutely free, I could have taken the things and run away, but I could not. There was something in his voice that pulled me back.
After a few months the thief was caught, and in the court the magistrate asked him, Can you name a person who knows you in this vicinity?
He said, Yes, one person knows me. and he named the master.
The magistrate said, Thats enough call the master. His testimony is worth that of ten thousand people. What he says about you will be enough to give judgment.
The magistrate asked the master, Do you know this man?
He said, Know him? We are partners. He is my friend. He even visited me one night in the middle of the night. It was so cold that I gave him my blanket. He is using it, you can see. That blanket is famous all over the country; everybody knows it is mine.
The magistrate said, He is your friend? And does he steal?
The master said, Never! He can never steal. He is such a gentleman that when I gave him the blanket he said to me, Thank you, sir. When he went out of the house, he silently closed the doors. He is a very polite, nice fellow.
The magistrate said, If you say so, then all the testimonies of the witnesses who have said that he is a thief are cancelled. He is freed. The master went out and the thief followed him.
The master said, What are you doing? Why are you coming with me?
He said, Now I can never leave you. You have called me your friend, you have called me your partner. Nobody has ever given me any respect. You are the first person who has said that I am a gentleman, a nice person. I am going to sit at your feet and learn how to be like you. From where have you got this maturity, this power, this strength, this seeing of things in a totally different way?
The master said, Do you know that night how bad I felt? You had gone; it was so cold. Without a blanket sleep was not possible. I was just sitting by the window seeing the full moon, and I wrote a poem: If I was rich enough I would have given this perfect moon to that poor fellow, who had come in the dark to search for something in a poor mans house. I would have given the moon if I had been rich enough, but I am poor myself. I will show you the poem, come with me.
I wept that night, that thieves should learn a few things. At least they should inform a day or two ahead when they come to a man like me, so we can arrange something, so they dont have to go empty-handed.
It is good that you remembered me in the court; otherwise those fellows are dangerous, they may have mistreated you. I offered that very night to come with you and be partners with you, but you refused. Now you want. There is no problem, you can come. Whatever I have I will share with you. But it is not material: it is something invisible.
The thief said, That I can feel; it is something invisible. But you have saved my life, and now it is yours. Make whatever you want to make of it. I have been simply wasting it. Seeing you, looking in your eyes, one thing is certain that you can transform me. I have fallen in love from that very night.
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Malu
I do know I'm emotionally mature or on the path to be. I'm 18 but since 2 years ago, I started self evaluating myself. I've come a long way.
1. I had anger issues and now I can stay calm. I talk things out.
2. Sometimes i do get angry but then i go back to them and talk calmly. Try to react better next time
3. I forgave my dad whom i had a bad relationship with.
4. I started helping my mom out more, trying to understand her better. I rebuilt my relationship with her, but I also managed to be break free and understand manipulation she put me under. I set boundaries while rebuilding our relationship
5. Despite being in a close minded place, I turned out to be very open minded
6. I used to be toxic on social media when I was like 14, so I deleted all my hate tweets and I apologised to everyone I was rude to.
7. I went back found some people in school and just talked to them to end things on good terms
8. I was able to handle my depression better.
9. I started loving myself for who I am and improving parts of myself that I was lacking
I'm still trying to improve myself because from time to time, I still lose control. Hopefully I can reach there
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I do know I'm emotionally mature or on the path to be. I'm 18 but since 2 years ago, I started self evaluating myself. I've come a long way.
1. I had anger issues and now I can stay calm. I talk things out.
2. Sometimes i do get angry but then i go back to them and talk calmly. Try to react better next time
3. I forgave my dad whom i had a bad relationship with.
4. I started helping my mom out more, trying to understand her better. I rebuilt my relationship with her, but I also managed to be break free and understand manipulation she put me under. I set boundaries while rebuilding our relationship
5. Despite being in a close minded place, I turned out to be very open minded
6. I used to be toxic on social media when I was like 14, so I deleted all my hate tweets and I apologised to everyone I was rude to.
7. I went back found some people in school and just talked to them to end things on good terms
8. I was able to handle my depression better.
9. I started loving myself for who I am and improving parts of myself that I was lacking
I'm still trying to improve myself because from time to time, I still lose control. Hopefully I can reach there
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Hana
Okay, it's true that maturity comes from experience not Age. I'm 13 and I'm aware I changed a lot. My patience, my self-aware, how I listen to my friends problem and how I give them advices, just like my 17 year old friend asked helped from. Me? And I was shocked of my advices I gave them. That's how I realized I matured a bit. I also hate negative thoughts. I hate overthinking. I don't fight with others when they're wrong, instead I'm trying to speak with them calmly. I also respect each other's opinion, I don't get mad when I wasn't picked of what I want or my opinion's. Also when I'm mad or someone made me mad, I don't show it. I'll just go home and talk to them in text how they hurt me with all explanations and apologize suddenly. The only problem is how do I start the conversation when we met again in personal hehe.
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Okay, it's true that maturity comes from experience not Age. I'm 13 and I'm aware I changed a lot. My patience, my self-aware, how I listen to my friends problem and how I give them advices, just like my 17 year old friend asked helped from. Me? And I was shocked of my advices I gave them. That's how I realized I matured a bit. I also hate negative thoughts. I hate overthinking. I don't fight with others when they're wrong, instead I'm trying to speak with them calmly. I also respect each other's opinion, I don't get mad when I wasn't picked of what I want or my opinion's. Also when I'm mad or someone made me mad, I don't show it. I'll just go home and talk to them in text how they hurt me with all explanations and apologize suddenly. The only problem is how do I start the conversation when we met again in personal hehe.
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Gabriel
tHIS is so weird, I have a non mature mind but after watching this I had two points of a mature mind.
Am I improving and that's why I scored points on a mature mind?
I cant control my emotions, like I am spontaneous, If I have to do it and I'm motivated I'll do it.
If I'm not I will think about it really deeply.
I cant express my points and emotions. My communication is weeeird.
I am kinda self aware at some things and REALLY blind to others.
This is even more true when I made a mistake before, I am aware of the error but I could just do it again, and I like to have validation for others to make most decisions.
I know how to listen but sometimes I cant really absorb what they say. But I am a good listener as I dont talk much. I guess that's it. any tips?
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tHIS is so weird, I have a non mature mind but after watching this I had two points of a mature mind.
Am I improving and that's why I scored points on a mature mind?
I cant control my emotions, like I am spontaneous, If I have to do it and I'm motivated I'll do it.
If I'm not I will think about it really deeply.
I cant express my points and emotions. My communication is weeeird.
I am kinda self aware at some things and REALLY blind to others.
This is even more true when I made a mistake before, I am aware of the error but I could just do it again, and I like to have validation for others to make most decisions.
I know how to listen but sometimes I cant really absorb what they say. But I am a good listener as I dont talk much. I guess that's it. any tips?
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sonya
hi all! after watching this video i've concluded that i'm mostly emotionally mature, but it gets very difficult to calmly contain my emotions, specifically around my parents. they're both emotionally abusive/immature. when they start an argument, i find myself yelling back or losing my cool. i pretty much only have a problem with not matching my parent's energies when we argue, but i want to work on helping myself and learning how to calmly deescalate situations instead of possibly fuelling the fire. does anyone have any tips or videos i could watch? thank you!
-fray: )
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hi all! after watching this video i've concluded that i'm mostly emotionally mature, but it gets very difficult to calmly contain my emotions, specifically around my parents. they're both emotionally abusive/immature. when they start an argument, i find myself yelling back or losing my cool. i pretty much only have a problem with not matching my parent's energies when we argue, but i want to work on helping myself and learning how to calmly deescalate situations instead of possibly fuelling the fire. does anyone have any tips or videos i could watch? thank you!
-fray: )
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Murilo
After having to forcibly grow up as a person in a short amount of time, due to very distressing events in my life, I believe one of the key aspects to understand about emotions is that emotional maturity is not about suppressing feelings and emotions, but rather, to feel them fully, without letting them negatively affect your judgement.
You can't control your emotions. But you can choose to not let your emotions control you.
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After having to forcibly grow up as a person in a short amount of time, due to very distressing events in my life, I believe one of the key aspects to understand about emotions is that emotional maturity is not about suppressing feelings and emotions, but rather, to feel them fully, without letting them negatively affect your judgement.
You can't control your emotions. But you can choose to not let your emotions control you.
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Lunawolf
I always have a stuffed animal with me everywhere I go, even if Im not with my family because its makes me feel safe if Im not with someone else, I do not consider stuffed animals just as Stuffed animals they are also my friends. My friends that are just there for me, can anyone relate to the stuffed animals situation judge me if you like, but I dont care if Im 19 and still love stuffed animals
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I always have a stuffed animal with me everywhere I go, even if Im not with my family because its makes me feel safe if Im not with someone else, I do not consider stuffed animals just as Stuffed animals they are also my friends. My friends that are just there for me, can anyone relate to the stuffed animals situation judge me if you like, but I dont care if Im 19 and still love stuffed animals
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flippycubster
This one really made me break down. I just broke off a 6y relationship that made me feel like i was inconsiderate and immature. An emotional trainwreck that gets in his way, and fills him with anger. But I cried saying yes to all these points. The overthinking, intrusive thoughts, second judgement of what I know, all falling on to my conscience.
this is growth. its okay to cry
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This one really made me break down. I just broke off a 6y relationship that made me feel like i was inconsiderate and immature. An emotional trainwreck that gets in his way, and fills him with anger. But I cried saying yes to all these points. The overthinking, intrusive thoughts, second judgement of what I know, all falling on to my conscience.
this is growth. its okay to cry
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Felipe
I think one of the most common thing mature people of any age (0-200 years) don't understand is the difference between being selfish and self-confident maturity. A lot of people think that if they admit they're wrong or listen to others and maybe change for a better way or solution to a problem, they will look insecure, but that is all nonsense. I thank you for explaining the difference!
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I think one of the most common thing mature people of any age (0-200 years) don't understand is the difference between being selfish and self-confident maturity. A lot of people think that if they admit they're wrong or listen to others and maybe change for a better way or solution to a problem, they will look insecure, but that is all nonsense. I thank you for explaining the difference!
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ThatMouse
I tried to have a relationship with someone who struggled with knowing and being able to communicate what she needed and wanted.
When we first met, she presented as someone similar to my level. But it was quickly revealed she didn't know what she wanted or needed.
Plus she was never in a good spot to have tough conversations. I hardly got support, only gave it.
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I tried to have a relationship with someone who struggled with knowing and being able to communicate what she needed and wanted.
When we first met, she presented as someone similar to my level. But it was quickly revealed she didn't know what she wanted or needed.
Plus she was never in a good spot to have tough conversations. I hardly got support, only gave it.
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Lilina
I think, im emotionally mature. But others often sees me as too serious and strict. I dont think I am. I like to laugh, i like to live life on the fullest. I appriciate small things too. Im just not that loud and spontaneous. I take responsibility, and I have the seme expectations towards myself as towards others.
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I think, im emotionally mature. But others often sees me as too serious and strict. I dont think I am. I like to laugh, i like to live life on the fullest. I appriciate small things too. Im just not that loud and spontaneous. I take responsibility, and I have the seme expectations towards myself as towards others.
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Cecilia
Mom who is 80 yrs is being psychologically manpulated by the canadian who has no money and arrogant. Now we have No harmony in our house. the old woman is devastated and reactive blaming us here in oiur place as instructed by canadian professor teach to my old Mom (80) yrs old to do the bad things in our life.
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Mom who is 80 yrs is being psychologically manpulated by the canadian who has no money and arrogant. Now we have No harmony in our house. the old woman is devastated and reactive blaming us here in oiur place as instructed by canadian professor teach to my old Mom (80) yrs old to do the bad things in our life.
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Tanner
What if where you work number 3 is seen as a sign of weakness? What if where you work apologizing immediately absolves the other side of any accountability for their own actions. For me self accountability is a one way street. What if sticking up for yourself and setting boundaries makes you the problem?
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What if where you work number 3 is seen as a sign of weakness? What if where you work apologizing immediately absolves the other side of any accountability for their own actions. For me self accountability is a one way street. What if sticking up for yourself and setting boundaries makes you the problem?
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Ronnel
Thank you for the knowledge you bring. i'm truly poor more worst because of pandemic but my mind is wealthy like a palace. I like the presenters voice if you are the girl that i love maybe your voice is the sweetest always know that sweetest of all sound is that the voice of the person you love.
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Thank you for the knowledge you bring. i'm truly poor more worst because of pandemic but my mind is wealthy like a palace. I like the presenters voice if you are the girl that i love maybe your voice is the sweetest always know that sweetest of all sound is that the voice of the person you love.
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SpicyShakes
After finding and watching this video today, it just made me realize that Ive lately been acting more emotionally immature than I was in the past and am now being disappointed in myself for how Ive shouldve been knowing this sooner. But I mean, at least Im glad that I watched this.
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After finding and watching this video today, it just made me realize that Ive lately been acting more emotionally immature than I was in the past and am now being disappointed in myself for how Ive shouldve been knowing this sooner. But I mean, at least Im glad that I watched this.
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psych2go
When I was getting into this video, I wasnt expecting to get a lot of these points. The only think I need to work on is knowing what I want. I feel like I need to think about it before I say it, and sometimes I can overreact the situation. But overall, I got the other points down!
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When I was getting into this video, I wasnt expecting to get a lot of these points. The only think I need to work on is knowing what I want. I feel like I need to think about it before I say it, and sometimes I can overreact the situation. But overall, I got the other points down!
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Aditya
not so much good at drawing boundaries, except that im more or less able to navigate my sea of emotion. but not being able to draw lines hit me pretty hard coz things hit me pretty fast to go through thought process for all the impatient people i get surrounded by at times.
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not so much good at drawing boundaries, except that im more or less able to navigate my sea of emotion. but not being able to draw lines hit me pretty hard coz things hit me pretty fast to go through thought process for all the impatient people i get surrounded by at times.
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mizuki's
Not gonna lie. I saw this video last year and boy. I was a mess, but this. I actually gave an effort to be an emotionally matured person and be a better' self each day. Im proud that I have achieved all most of these points and I believe that I will be a better self.
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Not gonna lie. I saw this video last year and boy. I was a mess, but this. I actually gave an effort to be an emotionally matured person and be a better' self each day. Im proud that I have achieved all most of these points and I believe that I will be a better self.
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Farin
I won't say I am emotionally mature. Cause to me 2 doesn't work. I do whatever I do for my own benefit and won't let anyone/ anything come in my way. But it's safe to say I am the youngest in my family(I'll be a teen this year) and I am the most emotionally mature. ..
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I won't say I am emotionally mature. Cause to me 2 doesn't work. I do whatever I do for my own benefit and won't let anyone/ anything come in my way. But it's safe to say I am the youngest in my family(I'll be a teen this year) and I am the most emotionally mature. ..
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ThaPrinceoFlow
I came here cause I was simply confused on why I was feeling this way towards my friends when they would be immature I would get mad or upset but wanted to understand why. this definitely checked off my check list n now I understand why thanks!
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I came here cause I was simply confused on why I was feeling this way towards my friends when they would be immature I would get mad or upset but wanted to understand why. this definitely checked off my check list n now I understand why thanks!
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Jade
Someone has said to me I have reached a level of emotional maturity. I hope so. After all, after all the emotional hardships I struggled for years, it seems maturity is the only option to survive them.
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Someone has said to me I have reached a level of emotional maturity. I hope so. After all, after all the emotional hardships I struggled for years, it seems maturity is the only option to survive them.
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Tapiiee
this made me smile, I go through a lot of self-doubt and I sometimes don't know what I'm good at or who I even am sometimes so it's good to see actual proof that I'm not all negatives and cons.
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this made me smile, I go through a lot of self-doubt and I sometimes don't know what I'm good at or who I even am sometimes so it's good to see actual proof that I'm not all negatives and cons.
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Erin
Emotional mature but know when I can be triggered. Was initially logical before leaping but after leaping lost control of my thoughtful and resrved approach to the thing at hand lol
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Emotional mature but know when I can be triggered. Was initially logical before leaping but after leaping lost control of my thoughtful and resrved approach to the thing at hand lol
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Kimmo
Only #1 is difficult sometimes. I tend to have a cluster of emotions at times. Then it's hard to name any of them. Luckily this happens only during times of crisis or heavy stress.
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Only #1 is difficult sometimes. I tend to have a cluster of emotions at times. Then it's hard to name any of them. Luckily this happens only during times of crisis or heavy stress.
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Jordan
My ex was NOT emotionally mature. When we argued, he'd always mistake me staying calm as not caring. He also didn't listen, had tantrums, and generally lacked self awareness.
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My ex was NOT emotionally mature. When we argued, he'd always mistake me staying calm as not caring. He also didn't listen, had tantrums, and generally lacked self awareness.
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